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For those of you who weren’t able to get 100% of the total solar eclipse today… I gotchu <3

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I've just turned on the Percy Jackson and the Olympians tv show and it's giving me so much nostalgia. These were my favorite books as a kiddo and just yessss

#also #Annabeth looks like me!? #i always related to her the most #being a baby braniac #trying not to be teary about it #percy jackon and the olympians

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i knew it'd been like... a series of years that i've seen your infj posts. whyyyyy didn't yoou just lock him up when you were dating this year!? the angsssttt. rooting for you tho xx k byee

yeahh it's also totally at least 50% my fault we're not together.

The good news is that since 2018 we became very good friends, and if it doesn't work, at least I've had some really good years of friendship. Plus, we put effort into being friends despite the things that have happened between us, so I feel like unless he hits my pet cat with a car, we'll always be friends.

And I didn't lock him down because I knew he was moving to Thailand. Even though he wanted to. (am i insane)

But yeah, I'm a woman approaching 30. I want someone who wants to be where I am. Or is at least very sure about me (he might have been, idk) but I currently have a great job, I would've followed him otherwise. Plus his job is only a 1 year-long post, whereas I'm a bit more stably employed. And I think I was just hurt he was moving so far? I want kids also, and in my family it famously gets harder to give birth past 30.. I just thought he couldn't feel as strongly about me if he was moving to Thailand (even though he asked to be together multiple times, god am I an idiot?), and my time is ticking since I really love and want kids.

#wow i'm an adult #wtf #an extra wrench is that I moved to a small town where i am #peak exotic #waaaay over educated for a woman #and although i think the education system here is quite good because it allows people to actually get paid without spending years on uni #i don't have much in common with the people here #also the one guy who i did date here #was very insecure about how educated i was and how much money i made #even though it was less than him #it wasn't less *enough* which is insane #so maybe i'm just feeling lonely and missing my friend #who i also wouldn't mind sleeping with #and like having kids with #and doing taxes with #and arguing with #i should've just said yes #he has my heart in thailand with him #entp #intj #personal #mine

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on todays episode of i still miss infj, there are no changes, i still miss him

#did i tell yall #we dated very casually earlier this year but he was moving countries #for a 1 year long job #so i dated someone else in the middle there #and when i broke up with this (honestly trash) dude #infj was like..... i know i'm moving to thailand in two days but i want to make it work #and i was like #you're moving to thailand #and let him go #and now #we still talk all the time #and i miss him #and i think i made the wrong choice idk #but he'll be back #in 6 months #which is too long #i'm afraid he'll come back married #but i spoke to him yesterday #and he was flirting (which i always miss the mark with flirting) #but he knows me it's fineee #and at least now he misses me as well #but this is the most difficult 5 year long (it will be 6 by the time he gets back) story #and if it's not him idk #it's got to be him #i just miss him and i hope he understands me when i don't quite flirt back (because i often don't notice until after the fact) #if he comes back single he's mine i'll take all risks now i don't care no one is like him for me #and i've dated others #it's only ever been him #entp #infj

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There's a really spectacular feeling when you get pursued by the tribunal debt collection ppl to pay a bill from an unknown source but you know you pay like... all of your bills, so when you find out the company pursuing you, you call and they realize that they actually owe you 360chf. Also I love arguing on the phone, can I just say that.

#i was so scared when i received the payment order like #wtf dont fuck up my credit score #and also who tf is this #i paid my bills. #maybe parking ticket or or orrrr speeding #because its hard not to speed in switzerland lol #but no #old health insurance from 2022 #which i cancelled #and from with i received no bills until this court ordered bill #i got that man on the phone #did all my yelling in french #got switched to his boss #got put on hold #and then the guy got me and was like soooo we fucked it #we owe you #our bad #:)

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date: oh wow, i loved laughing with you tonight, when can i see you again? entp, who was landing all the jokes: wait, this is a date?

#reblog

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xNTxs with a hot take:

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one would think that i just hang out in front of hospitals..

#says my friend #because i'm dating my fourth doctor #which lol the fourth doctor #was a good one #showing the nerd underneath #don't know #i don't even know #my friend won't read this #but #i didn't know he was a doctor when we met so that's just a coincidence #also like i get along w ppl i have things in common with #like i've got an engineering degree and a doctorate #i'm not being picky #also i've dated like a hundred people #it makes sense that the ones who lasted longer had certain #types of jobs or traits or interests #a problem with doctors #is their schedules #and i work a lot and travel a lot #so ideally #i meet a teacher or anything other than a docco #dating is hard #and i'm simultaneously good #and bad at it

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ENxP: *trips*

#for different reasons #entp #enfp #enfps are sweet loves and deserve the best #entp is fully just focused on anything other than direct surroundings #bless #mbti #cognitive functions #personality #personality type

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October has arrived.

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being an adult is always like i have to go to the store i have to go to the store i have to go to the store

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Jk, it appears that I'm developing feelings for multiple people, aka I'm lonely

not me catching feelings for a colleague *again*

#and in the moooood #but wow i think im properly emotionally single now #seeing three solid options rn #one is a standout #and he isnt a colleague #and also asked me out this weekend #im just surprised how excited i am about more than one person #it feels like my early 20s #personal #mine

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ENTP: routine? i've never heard of that. can you spell it?

#i've literally never had one #my routine is change #it seems #entp #mbti #enfps are better at it imo #but also them #meyers briggs #personality #personality type

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Easter egg for office workers: if you go onto Excel and press ctrl+left, then ctrl+down, you will reach cell XFD1048576. If you put a dot in there, then ctrl+A and fill every cell in black, you can then print 34 million black pages from your office printer and get fired

#note for later #thanks

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not me catching feelings for a colleague *again*

#someone stop me #but ok hear me out #thought this guy was attractive when i met him a few months ago #he's smart and honestly a nerd #and cute af (ignore me) #and he isn't in charge of me by any means but i do work with him and he's higher ranking (i started a year ago) #but our organization is quite flat and like #everyone interacts with everyone and you go where you want #bruv #ok so #it just occurred to me last week #that i think he's into me #there was a moment with a caulk gun (it was totally innocent just it occurred to me like shit he's fine) #and then there was another moment today when i had to get stuff from his office #and he was like let's do lunch #single #no kids #swiss #is maybe 10 yrs older which is a hot limit #but we have a trip coming up to nj #i gotta stop #yo #also running next to me on the stairs girl stoppp #also very intense eye contact gee shits ok i gotta go #i gotta quit #should not entertain this i know how this goes #watching jury duty