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haitiangirl4life · 4 months
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Kylian Mbappé Imagine where you two fight and he suddenly slapped you across the face but after he saw your teary eyes he regret it but you already run into the bedroom and locked it. You stayed there for a few days. You can decide the end but can it be something like happy ending?
A/N Hey, there. So sorry but I can't write this. Domestic violence is something I'm strongly against as someone who's been a witness to it before, and I refuse to romanticize it in any way. Furthermore, even if I don't know Kylian personally, I don't think he is this type of person. It would be really uncomfortable for me to write this about him.
I hope you understand.
Feel free to send in other requests and I will try my best to write them for you. Just not this, please.
Stay safe and take care of yourself 💛
If you or a loved one are a victim of domestic abuse, please contact the number below: National Domestic Violence Hotline (800) 799-7233
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justmeinadaze · 4 months
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Jesus. This last episode of Fargo was rough.
I've never been a victim of domestic violence but I'm here if you ever need to talk or anything like that. I know theres only so much we can do for each other here because we cant physically be near each other but I'll do what I can! Of course, you always have my ear.
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If you know someone who needs help to or you yourself need help there is a confidential hotline. You dont have to call if that makes you uncomfy! You can chat or text to❤.
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vampiirxblood · 1 year
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PTSD Trauma
This person really affected me, I suffer every day to find myself again, to be happy, to be okay. My ex physically, mentally, and emotionally abused me for five years. why did I stay? cause we have a son together.
The manipulation, gaslighting, and comfort that I was scared to leave. Though no one will really read this, While with this person last year was our last year, we were together and he slept with different girls while I would be at home, or work and taking care of the kids just trying to provide and on top going to college. We lived together for five years.
January couple days before my birthday we got into a fight. I shoved him for getting into my face and he slapped me so hard it cause force trauma that caused my left hear drum to blow out and I got vertigo for three weeks, he refused to take me to the hospital, this isn't the first slap either or the first hit.
Forward to February, I find cum stained shirts I asked my friend and he even said what it was, I confronted him about it and his response was it was Butter Milk, I knew well that Butter milk wouldn't of stained a shirt like that.
Forward to April, I thought we were okay but I was wrong, he was distant towards the end of the month, and I just kept begging him to respect me, to love me, and treat me right and I was just being ignored.
In May I saw his smart watch and I go through it, there were five different numbers and he was sexting these women during the times us being together when I would be asleep, or at work, even when I was in pain from suffering from sciatica. I called him that night as he was at work and the look on his face was like he was so tired of me. I was crying begging why would you do this you promised you wouldn't do this anymore. He said he had to go back to work and showed up at the house a couple mins later. I was crying on the floor and I asked why, he said the love for me died a while back and he said it with the coldest tone of voice. Keep in mind I was loyal to this person, loved him so much, and gave him my time, and attention. I would defend myself when he would come at me during a fight but never would abuse him. that was the day my heart broke but to find out it would break even more later that year.
I left to go be with my mom, with the kids in June. Towards the end of the month, I found out some girl was tagging him in relationship stuff over Facebook, I confronted her, and just said they were "JUST FRIENDS" I knew that was a lie, Her ex contacted me and told me she was in MY apartment, she claimed she didn't know it was bullshit. Me and her ex confronted my ex and he was just trying to call me left and right, making shit up about her.
I went back home a day later to confront him. I begged him to stop this shit with her but he was entertaining her and leading her on, He wouldn't stop and I was crying and told him to please block her. We argued for a couple good mins, he was threatening me he would end his life. Then I knew he turned around as I was facing him, He slapped me across the face. I got hit in the face over this girl. he left for a couple mins, and this girl messages me and tells me I deserved it because I scratched him in the face, Reason I did that was this person pinned me down and was manhandling me and I wanted him to stop. She was so two-faced, whore, and a homewrecker.
After all this chaos, CPS was involved and my kids told them he was the one that slapped me and was labeled as the perpetrator and was forced to leave, I kicked him out of the apartment a month later because of this chick. He was begging my brother and his bf to talk to me not to kick him out and he was scared.
I tried to move on and he would make me feel like shit for it. But I still tried anyway but found out I couldn't date anyone and I was still wanting him back. I wanted him to come back and fix it but he didn't. He went about his life and messed around with other people and had girlfriends, but still messing with my mind over shit. I don't know why I wanted him back but I did.
Flash forward to me moving out of the apartment in December, and I get a call from his first Baby Mama. She opens up and tells me so much shit about him and that he was making me sound like this bad person when it was the other way around. Then tells me this chick this person who was so eager to take him, was pregnant and pinned it on my ex. He tells me He did not know, but he knew and they had the baby which looks nothing like him at all. Then on Fb, they put they had been engaged since April of 2022?
we were together then and she was with some other guy.
This is my story and it still goes on and it's fucked up. I didn't deserve any of this and I am still having a hard time.
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queerism1969 · 1 year
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CW . . . . ................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................ Abuse/suicide hotline/Grief/bullying/ child loss help text lines mentions/American/U.S.A. only! U.S.A. Transgender lifeline/hotline: (877) 565-8860 . . .........................................................................................................................................................................................
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Abuse/suicide hotline/help text lines mentions/American/U.S.A. only! U.S.A. Transgender lifeline/hotline:  (877) 565-8860
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https://www.publiccounsel.net/.../social-services.../https://www.griefresourcenetwork.com/
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tastydelight · 2 years
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JUSTICE FOR JOHNNY...
Both women and MEN are victims of DomesticViolence in order to help bring the atrocities of DomesticViolence to light we must give freedom of speech to everyone who has physically, mentally or emotionally been abused by their partner. If you are a Victim we will hear you please reach out and find saftey.
National Domestic Abuse Helpline - 0808 2000 247
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dvwestpro · 2 years
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https://www.dvwest.org.au/our-services/
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joltcollective · 1 month
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Understanding Domestic Violence Charges in Denver - MBS Law
Protect Your Rights with Our Denver Domestic Violence Attorneys
At MBS Law (Mastro, Barnes & Stazzone, P.C.), our team of domestic violence attorneys in Denver is here to defend your rights and navigate the complexities of domestic violence charges in Colorado. Whether you're facing allegations in Denver or anywhere else in the state, we offer compassionate support and expert guidance tailored to your unique situation. Schedule a free consultation with our experienced domestic violence lawyers today. Count on us to vigorously fight for your rights and provide exceptional legal representation. Contact us now to begin addressing your legal concerns with confidence.
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moontalkprints · 1 year
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When learning from inner child healing and evolution; trauma normally stems from abuse. To understand this element of inner child healing, we need to be aware of different forms of abuse that can be implemented against someone.
This is Part 1 of Abuse in Our World.
Focusing on; Physical, Domestic and Neglectful abuse happens in our world, in our communities, in our homes, families and friends.
Abuse happens anywhere and everywhere all at the same time. This will be an informative abuse series on different types of abuse that can be experienced individually or all of the above.
If you feel you know someone is is subjected to certain kinds of abuse please contact someone. If you feel you are being abused please contact someone for help and support. All slides contain helpline contact details in Northern Ireland. Please take advantage of the resources given.
This post is about Physical and Domestic Violence, leading into Neglect.
Be self aware and be aware of surroundings and please keep yourself safe.
(This post does not contain full informative description of the extent of physical abuse. There are plenty of organisations listed that are able to be of help for lending more examples. More examples can be throwing hot tea in someone’s face, force feeding to genital mutilation).
Emma 🤍
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indigomoonrising · 2 years
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Lie on top of lies
I can't believe that the last 3 years have been a web lies. the way you spun things In your favor.
I accept where ive done you wrong, but this? this is beyond forgivable. at least for I can't. maybe one day ill let this go but god damn dude. you didn't have to be this way to me. im glad there are things I thing that were jarring. im glad there were things I did that made you open your eyes.
play stupid games and win stupid prizes I suppose.
there will always be a place In my heart for you. a tender little corner.
It will be a long time before I let anyone know the truth about how things exploded between us. for now I deal with it on my own between my soul and my medical providers. yeah, you sent me over the edge.
I hope things happen the way the fates intend. I hope I stay the villain in your story. we all know what happened...
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nikkidivine · 2 years
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It's ok not to be ok, it's not ok to stay that way!!
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re-dracula · 7 months
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Heads up that October 3's episode is very hard to listen to in a few sections! Both Stephen and Tal had to take breaks during audio editing because of the acting. Here are the content warnings and resources that will be in the show notes:
This episode portrays and recounts a horrific assault. It also references the racist pseudoscience of craniometry, and contains a mention of suicide. Transcript here.
This episode may be especially distressing to those who have experienced assault. Don't want to listen to the episode or read the transcript? A summary of events can be found here. We've also provided resources below for those who may need it. Help is available now and you deserve support.
UK Resources: You can call the 24/7 national domestic abuse helpline on 0808 2000 247 and get free confidential advice at www.womensaid.org.uk. If you are over the age of 16, living in England & Wales, and have been affected by any form of sexual violence or abuse, specialist and confidential support is available 24/7 at 0808 500 2222 or 247sexualabusesupport.org.uk.
US Resources: You can call the 24/7 national domestic abuse hotline at 800-799-7233, text "START" to 88788, and get free confidential advice at www.thehotline.org. You can call the national sexual assault hotline for 24/7 confidential support at 800-656-4673 or use their online chat at online.rainn.org.
Information on International Resources can be found at www.domesticshelters.org/resources/national-global-organizations/international-organizations and www.rcne.com/links/sources-of-help-for-survivors/. Resources are not limited to what we have included here!
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queerism1969 · 1 year
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creature-wizard · 5 months
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"I'm in a bad place and need to get out, what can I do?"
I figured I'd make a post with all the resources/tips I've collected to help people get out of shitty situations so far, since it's easier than linking to a bunch of posts each time.
Seek out appropriate resources. This can include support groups (online or offline), helplines, and the like.
If you're in the US, you can call 211 to help you find resources.
Crisis Text Line offers services to the US, Ireland, Canada, and the UK.
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) is a US service offers a lot of information for sexual abuse survivors.
The Trevor Lifeline is a service for queer youth in the US.
If you're a minor, you may wish to read How To Escape Abusive Parents: A Guide For Minors.
If you're an adult, you may wish to read How To Escape Abusive Parents: A Guide For Adults.
You might also Duckduckgo something like "resources for people in abuse" or "abuse resources help" or "domestic violence survivors resources".
Ask people for help in finding resources. If you can't find anything on your own, there are other people who know where to direct you. It might take awhile to find what you're looking for, but keep asking.
A WORD OF CAUTION: there are many predatory spiritual groups and conspiracy theorists out there who prey on abuse survivors and mentally ill people. You will often see these people claiming that channeling or hypnosis can help you remember past life memories or repressed traumatic memories. This is nonsense and quackery.
Relevant posts of mine:
Hypnosis is unreliable for memory recovery, and this is one way we know.
False past life memories among the starseed movement
Here’s the trouble with hypnotic regression…
If you're on a website that claims to support cult survivors and you see any of these names in the citations (and make sure you check the citations!), leave immediately - all of these people are far right conspiracy theorists. (Unfortunately, many people today are unwittingly perpetuating the BS of Fritz Springmeier in particular. See this and this for more info on that.)
Change who and what you surround yourself with. Start associating with different people/groups as much as you can. Get hobbies to fill your time. Unfollow blogs that reinforce the beliefs you're trying to get away from, and follow blogs that provide a healthier alternative.
You might follow blogs like:
A Kind Place
Trauma Survivors Helping Trauma Survivors
Compassionate Reminders
Trauma Survivors Activities
Reasons For Hope
Bluest Fluff
If you're trying to rebuild your worldview without conspiratorial/culty elements, go take a look at my Resources page.
Remember that your first job is looking after yourself. You don't owe the group. You aren't responsible for the group, or for anyone in it. It might feel that way, but it's vitally important to acknowledge when you're unqualified or suffering burnout. You might feel like bad things will happen if you leave, but that's a fear, not a fact.
You also don't have to justify your departure to the group. You can just leave. If you feel that you must give a reason, you can offer something as simple as "I need to take some time to focus on my mental health" or "I'm really busy lately and don't have time to spend here." If they throw a fit over this, that's honestly just more proof that you need to get out.
If any practices the group taught you actually helped, you can keep doing them. If doing affirmations helped you, keep doing affirmations. If listening to so-called healing frequencies actually made you feel better, you don't have to stop listening to them. If you were practicing something like the Law of Assumption, you can carry on with a lot of that under a psychological model rather than Neville Goddard's wacky metaphysical model. (See this video for an example.) If it genuinely helps you and doesn't hurt anyone else, by all means, keep doing it.
Get some critical thinking skills. In order to keep yourself from falling into another bad group, it's important to develop your critical thinking skills.
Learn to apply the Five W's (who, what, when, where, and why) when encountering any information.
Learn common logical fallacies.
Learn the difference between fact, opinion, belief, and prejudice.
Don't equate emotional reactions with some kind of innate or higher moral guidance.
Ask yourself if you're "thinking for yourself" or being led to believe you're thinking for yourself.
Know what emotional manipulation tactics look like.
Watch out for these behaviors in any new group you join.
Yes, there are ways to confirm the age of an old text without having the original text itself.
Learn how propaganda works.
Watch out for these red flags in spiritual groups.
And watch out for this red flag.
Understand that belief doesn't have to be binary.
So yeah, hopefully this'll give folks some actionable advice. I can't promise it's going to help each and every person out there, but hopefully it'll give a lot of you something that will help.
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milknhonies · 3 months
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AVATAR: THE NEW MISSION MASTERLIST
(Coming Out Soon)
Story Summary: After failing his mission to hunt down Jake Sully, Miles Quaritch is given a new mission. Let’s just say you’re not the most co-operative na’vi native and Quaritch loves to put you in your place.
Story Warnings: 18+ Dead Dove Do Not Eat, Non-Con, Dubious Consent, Manipulation, Age Gap, Colonisation, Bondage, Alien Sex, Pregnancy, Breeding Kink.
Pairing: Recom!Miles Quaritch X Na'vi Reader
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Author Notes:
★This story has been published in the past on Tumblr on my old account @milknhonies-old-account since I have created a newer account I am reposting this story here.
★I would like to express the knowledge that I do not approve or perform of any of the actions the characters of this fanficition demonstrate.
★This story might be alarming and severely upsetting for people who have had experiences with rape, colonisation, abuse, traumatic births and mental manipulation.
★If you do not wish to see this content please block #ATNM (scroll and you'll find it is the first tag.)
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★This story is not fit for every viewers eyes and it will be glorifying acts of trauma and characters that shouldn't be in reality.
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★HELPLINES★
If you are a victim of sexual abuse, assault or domestic violence or know someone who is please reach out to these links that share helpline services, phone numbers or emails. Consent and respect is important in every relationship whether between friends, family or even strangers. .
Australian Helpline Services
UK Helpline Services
American Helpline Services
India Helpline Services.
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