#especially with a woman

[sticksandsharks]

Egret Nurse

design from The Wildercourt (a graphic novel I am working on and hope to have finished in 2025)

#art #wildercourt #egret #bird #person #monster #healthcare is a demanding profession and she's a hard-working woman #especially when you are working to ease and manage the symptoms of [redacted redacted redacted]

[arxcii]

the four horsemen of the apocalypse (wherein you say something interestingly sus)

#ace attorney #dgs #dai gyakuten saiban #the great ace attorney #the great ace attorney chronicles #herlock sholmes #kazuma asogi #miles edgeworth #klavier gavin #narumitsu #wrightworth #klapollo #asoryuu #homumiko #i think about this a lot #especially the one with herlock- #like the first time i encountered it in the game i was absolutely baffled #the woman was too stunned to speak #and then they started playing that epic music during sholmes' logic and reasoning spectacular segment #cool beans cool cool cool #i'm very normal about them

[cock-holliday]

A lot of trans spaces hate masculinity soo bad it’s unreal. I knew an AMAB nonbinary person who, to those who had never done the gender rodeo before, looked strikingly like a cis man. They were big, broad, with a thick scruffy beard. They dressed masculinely. It was clear by talking to them for even a second that their masculinity was incredibly queer, but to most people they wouldn’t read that way, even with pronoun pins displayed proudly on their chest.

They described themself as “soft masc” and their gender felt very similar to me to so many butches I had met. They toyed with the label themself. Their attraction to women fell under a pretty sapphic umbrella and in plenty of cases were welcomed by queer women, trans and cis alike.

But often they felt more comfortable in transmasc spaces because, as was apparently a cardinal sin in many transfemme spaces, they liked their masculinity.

They got accused of faking being trans. They were implied to be stealing space from trans women. And then accused by wlws of being a predatory cis man invading space to get to women. They constantly had to walk a narrow path to not be seen as something sinister because they weren’t feminine.

Because masculine is seen as equivalent to “man” and “man” is bad. It’s predatory and violent only ever and always.

And over and over and over and over again anti-masculinity folks claim that this stance protects women and transfemmes. But you are never ever ever going to be normal about “women and nonbinary folx” if you hate masculinity so bad! You will never be normal about butches. You will never be normal about transmascs. And you will never be normal about ANYONE who is AMAB. Even the feminine ones.

A trans woman who is a masc lesbian is going to be a predator to you. A trans woman who doesn’t pass well enough for you is going to be a predator to you. A trans woman who LIKES her masculinity or masculine features is always gonna be a faker trying to evilly sneak into your sacred spaces.

Cis women for sure push this shitty narrative, as do trans men and transmascs who think they’re falling on their sword for Women™️ to atone for the sin of being masculine or worse, men; but oof so do trans women and transfemmes who think policing binary gender conformity will protect them.

#antimasculism #anti masculinity #‘masculinity is always rewarded’ #not when it’s women!!! #not when it’s trans people!!! ESPECIALLY AMAB folks #not when it’s someone who is ‘supposed to be’ a woman!!!

[damianbugs]

it's kind of funny but mostly annoying when i'm like "yeah no i hate [comic writer] because they're a bad person and it shows in some of their stories" and there'll be one dickhead like "just because you don't like their stories doesn't mean they're a bad person" and the story in question is blatantly racist to brown specifically middle eastern characters and oh right HE HELPED PLAN THE 2003 INVASION OF IRAQ. TOM KING.

#also his writing is just unappealing in general #ESPECIALLY recently #dc is a great example at big character name + big writer name = big cash #because tom kings batman was SHIT #even now. why is Tom king writing wonder woman. WHY. #saki comic talks

[notsosecret-transgirl]

Yeah this is just a vent post lol.

so my best friend made me download bumble, and idk like I wanna get back into dating but like. Also I’m terrified? Of talking to people in that way? Like I wanna be in a relationship. I don’t want to start a relationship? If that makes sense? Idk I haven’t done this since I was a teenager and like I never had a dating app. Im mostly just nervous and bad at talking to women I think are pretty tbh. Like my bff loves dating apps but she’s really cute and has guys all over her. Im just awkward and don’t even have good pics of me or anything. Idk I’m probably going to delete it. Like. Idk if I’m like prepared for this sort of thing you know?

#I just #idk #i don’t want to be alone #but I don’t want to get hurt again #like my first serious boyfriend cheated on me after a year and a half and then everything went to shit #idk if I can do that again #especially with a woman #ughhhhhhhh #like dude I can barely answer my dms from mutuals I’ve had for years #(sorry mutuals) #how am I supposed to do this whole dating thing? #talking to strangers where we’re both like ‘yeah perhaps we could maybe spend the rest of our lives together’ #then I’m supposed to act normal? #like dude. I don’t really talk about it to anyone anymore. but I still really kinda hate myself. #I genuinely think I’m unlovable #and just gross #im not good enough for anyone #no. that’s not true I guess #but im so scared that I’ll get into a long term relationship and be happy and one day I’ll just fuck up somehow and they’ll just cheat #idk. I’ve just had a very anxiety night over a stupid dating app and talking to people #I just need to get over my trauma #getting cheated on sucked all the ass. and my parents got divorced over my dad cheating. so like. prob some stuff to work out still #and I want to date! I want to kiss pretty girls and fall in love again! I want to cuddle and watch horror movies! #I want to experience the bliss of being known but god it’s a mortifying ordeal

[cyanbeetle]

My Wonder Woman and friends

#my art #the last drawing is from a panel in the legend of Wonder Woman that I find really funny #I’m so sorry to the public. if I had free reign I’d change so much about Diana’s supporting cast #especially barbara and Steve I think there’s so much missing potential with both of them to be interesting antagonists/friends to Diana #maybe if I read more comics I’ll find them in the narrative roles I seek.. alas #wonder woman #diana of themyscira #dc #dc comics #etta candy #steve trevor #barbara ann minerva #barbara minerva

[the-woman-upstairs]

For anyone who likes romance and spies and yearning and a short king being completely head over heels for a woman that can (and does) kick his ass, Argylle is the movie for you. Feel like the marketing team is leaving money on the table by not appealing to the romance crowd that is crying out for more genuine love stories on film and the one in this movie is actually really sweet and features an attractive couple with actual personalities.

#argylle #argylle spoilers #i am notoriously harsh on m/f couples in film especially modern ones #but i really liked this one and loved how it felt like a real partnership #this movie is not gonna win any awards but it’s very cute and the action was fun #and bryce dallas howard getting to play a whole woman instead of a terrible string of misogynistic cliches in Jurassic World was refreshing #plus sam rockwell >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> chris pratt any day #i guess he’s only a ‘short king’ in comparison to other guys but you know what he’s basically an inch taller than bryce dallas howard #so i’m letting him keep the epithet especially since the other guys are much taller and more built

[transwolvie]

Got notes again on my post abt how Falin's Girl Autism is romanticized to the point where people who don't really know or understand her are trying to propose vs Laios's Boy Autism being seen as an active threat even though the Toudens are literally so fucking alike and like. Yeah. Gdhdh I have nothing to add I was fucking right and I like that Ryoko Kui created such loving and similar siblings so that she could comment on how their autism and hyperfixations are so clearly filtered through a lens of how people see them due to their gender as well

#tomi talks #dungeon meshi #I'm sorry but i deeply don't understand ppl who actually ship Shuro and Falin like #Shuro does not really know Falin and if he can't accept all of her quirks in her brother i don't trust him to truly accept her #he glosses over the ways in which she's similar to Laios because he is romanticizing a woman he doesn't truly understand :// #like it's so filtered thru sexism too lol #like ofc Falin's interest in bugs or living things is 'nurturing' and kind 🙄🙄🙄 #like it's especially wild cuz Falin is basically unquestionably more cut throat than Laios imo lmao

[kingsmoot]

um. can i be honest. with you. i think it's dumb as fuck when people talk about great house genetics in asoiaf as if they're a plot hole or a world building flaw and not like. a very cute and fun and purposeful feature of the world. you fr have no sense of whimsy.

#like yes every great house is INSTANTLY recognizable by their eye and hair color and what of it #yes cat and ned have lady and the tramp genetics #it's CUTE and it's FUN #gul dukat raped an enslaved bajoran woman and ziyal was born with cardassian features set to 89% and also a bajoran nose ridge #this is just like. fun shorthand. #for familial ties. #especially in a setting where your familial ties determine EVERYTHING about your life #IT IS A GOOD WORLD BUILDING DETAIL

[thebeigeurge]

I heard that moan. It's the incubus, isn't it? Enjoying your body.

#the amount of mirroring that astarion and tav/durge (especially durge) can have makes me want to rip my hair out #also this is my first gifset in 5 years. renaissance woman indeed #astarionedit #astarion #baldur's gate 3 #act 3 spoilers #bg3edit #gifs*

[uncanny-tranny]

Men, it's fucking normal to have stretch marks and even cellulite. It's normal to not have a flat stomach, to have body acne (especially because of hormones/puberty), to have unbalanced hair distribution along all parts of your body. It's normal to have deep hair lines, to have thin hair, for hair to regrow odd.

Very, very few of us will live in this world unscathed. You owe nobody the conformity of man. So many problems that are seen as "womens-only" occur in men, too, because it is a part of the human condition to have weird bodies.

#positivity #body positivity #body neutrality #it's especially weird when people think things like stretch marks can ONLY occur in women* like. #men* you are NAUGHT allowed to have skin (sarcasm) #this isn't even about positivity for trans men* and trans male* bodies either because this is just... a human thing #it occurs in trans men* and cis men* and people who are across every single country #male/female and man/woman aren't like... seperate species of animal

[damnamour]

ICI TOUT COMMENCE ― E859

#ici tout commence #carla x berenice #carlice #wlwsource #wlwgif #THIS SCENE #first of all.... berenice the woman you have become #so proud of you queenie! #AND #carla being so nervous when she's usually the one so confident??? especially when it comes to seks???? #shes so cute #mine

[lobotomyladylives]

the jodi arias/travis whoever murder was truly the ultimate fuck around and find out situation, like...ok so you're gonna willingly continue to associate with a woman you know is mentally ill and obsessed with you just so that you can have degrading sex with her while also constantly insulting and ridiculing her to your friends behind her back? stringing her along w/the hope of a serious relationship, while you really just think of her as an object for you to fuck & then discard with no consequences? lol. bet. hope you like being stabbed 37 times

#i dont feel even slightly bad for saying this. check the comments under any murdered woman and there will be men blaming her #especially if it was her husband who did it and ESPECIALLY if she was trying to divorce him #so yeah. unlike those women travis had it coming #that mormon moron was a degen #jodi arias #LX3 op

[the-meghan-m]

I’m sorry neurotypical people just don’t sit like this

#especially not in an interrogation #blatant disregard for social convention 🥰 #fox mulder the woman you are #the x files #x files #mulder #msr #scully #fox mulder #dana scully #mulder and scully #txf

[pbnmj]

tfw the man you love against your better judgement gets a kid to help him with his photojournalism and dies trying to expose the criminal he's been blackmailing and then the kid puts on a uniform that's way too big for him and calls himself spider-man after ben urich and you know he's going to get killed trying to serve justice to all the criminals in new york. and now there's a sixteen year old kid bleeding out on felicia's doorstep and again despite her better judgement, she cares. how much of that is a misplaced sense of responsibility for her dead lover, and how much of that is the deep feeling of injustice over how this child is the one fighting, and how felicia knows that she could never turn him away. what then </3

#we need more jaded old man who hates everyone and is overly harsh to the young girl theyre protecting but they end up like family #except the its a jaded old woman and a young boy. and i think noir peter felicia could be set up like this :) #especially bc i rly dont think felicia has a parental bone in her body. the dynamics get better/worse due to this #i really really need that feeling of guilt and helplessness and the 'YOU ARE NOT MY MOTHER' fight with them #i also think they need to have an awkward touching talk about ben and the mess he leaves behind and EVERYTHING #first thing that is coming out of the drafts in so long and its deranged noir takes what else did anyone expect tbh #spider-man noir #spiderman noir #peter parker #felicia hardy #my art #noir #felicia

[papertowness]

if i tell you about my favorite show and you WATCH IT ?? it’s gonna get till death do us part REAL quick

#especially since i like shows for men who have never known the touch of a woman #star trek mash ncis and such #like you’re gonna watch this show with a budget of thirteen dollars and nine cents ???? #for ME ?????? #text post #friends #love #poetry #thoughts #poets corner #nuerodivergent #nd #star trek #mash #ncis #lgbt #lgbtq