#on their own

[glitterghost]

Being ace can be pretty isolating at various times, for varying reasons that I don't feel like I have to explain because if you are ace, you probably get it.

#asexual #ace #pride #vague post but you know..*gestures to nothing* #i dont think i even need to expand on this #aromantic #could be thrown into this as well #things are just sometimes frustrating when people dont get it #if you read tags cook bc here we go a bit #there is always this talk of being left behind or being forgotten about or whatever #and yeah its true and when things happening almost in succession that makes it even more aware and apparent that yeah you kinda do get left #behind a bit* #so many ppl want marriage and or kids and its like #what about the people that want to hold on to things as they currently are? #to friends and books and cats and fictional feelings #and the way some ppl you know talk about how people gradual drift apart? #like thats a full on decision #thats not always a mutual thing #people leave at times and another person that might not be ready to end that connection with a person has to navigate their way through it #on their own #but like society is so weird to people that dont want the predictable life path #as you get older questions become are you married #do you have kids like its expected #where are the questions like whats the latest book youve read #whats your current favorite fandom #what makes you happy or brings you joy or whats a good thing about today? #not sure where im cycling down into with this bc theres too much to touch on #but not everyone wants sex or kids or marriage or crippling responsibilities of adulthood #sometimes we just want a hobbit hole to disappear into #a friend to text or pizza to eat or something funny to laugh at

[yonglixx]

#lee felix #skz #i just feel like #these need to be #on their own #i’m obsessed #his hair #his smile omg #bbl

[crinkle-eyed-boo]

Here’s the thing that makes no sense about the Louis hates One Direction narrative that solos try to purport: Not does Louis include two 1D songs in his setlist when he now has a catalog that could easily fill a setlist without them, but he sat down with his music director and REARRANGED THEM to fit his solo style, from the vocals to the instrumentals.

That takes a lot of thought and effort like those arrangements of Night Changes and WDBHG just didn’t appear, you know? And while Night Changes was a single known to the general public, WDBHG was not. That was Louis thoughtfully looking at their catalog and being like this one (not even written by him) is a banger. I want it in my show.

No amount of wearing or not wearing a hat will change that, especially when it’s not in his show style to put things on, ESPECIALLY when we ALL KNOW how vain he is when it comes to his hair.

One band One dream ONE DIRECTION. THE END.

#and OF COURSE the 1D songs are the ones #the crowd goes feral for #it’s why we love him in the first place #and also #Harry’s shows are STILL THE LOUDEST for WMYB #even after all his Grammy wins #and mainstream success #SAME FOR NIALL #they love their roots #and they love giving #their long time fans #that moment #it’s showing their gratitude #for being able to do what they do #on their own #this is not hard to understand #I am seeing tweets from solos being like #if you go harder for 1D songs #you deserve to be beaten in the parking lot #like WHAT #truly unhinged behavior

[celestialspritz]

you wonder how i'm doing, well, here's a clue i wish i never met you 🎶

#ts2 #💌 #i saved the blend file so ill prob do alt versions at some point #anyways. polygon actually rendered something #with these two #ON THEIR OWN #i also did some recolours of that top nicolas has #but i fucked up so bye bye 52 recolours #jk theres some. i guess #in boring beige #anyways wooo gay ppl #r #ts2 render #render #my ocs #love #nicolas

[gladlypants]

The girls survived their first day and night outside of the vault, with only a few tears shed. I forgot I gave their house the stray cat lot trait, and it almost gave me them a heart attack when the door opened in the middle of the night to start the steady flow of kitties.

I’ve had the No Zzz’s mod for years but took it out with the infant patch and then forgot about it. Was kind of cute to see the Z’s again after so long :)

#ts4 #the sims 4 #ts4 gameplay #Megan and Lillie #On Their Own

[izayoichan]

A little us time. 🎶

(poses by @simmireen)

#the ward legacy #the ward legacy: spoilers #simblr #sims screenshots #ts4 story #ts4 alpha #ts4 #alphasims #alphacc #Emil Ward #Flynn Ward #don't worry #the two little ones are having icecream with grampa Hayle #so their more than happy with that #and it gives these two #some time to just wander around the town #on their own

[morporkian-cryptid]

I wonder how many people before us have been in relationships that challenge the definitions of friendship and romance. It’s something that’s becoming more popular in my generation, but only on a... personal level. It’s more frequent, but it’s still a niche. I learned about other possibilities from my friends and from the internet, but it’s still not in mainstream media. Not in movies, in series, in books. It never was. I’m slowly discovering how freeing it is to live relationships outside of set boxes, and it’s something I’m discovering by myself. Partly because I have friends in open relationships and QPRs... and partly by just thinking “screw it, I might as well listen to what I want regardless of the rules, and see where it takes me”. Maybe it would have taken me longer without the help of the internet and other people’s experiences, but maybe I still would have found that freedom just by listening to myself. Someone must have done it first, right?

So I’m thinking... how many other people before me did that? How many, before they’d ever heard it was possible, built relationships outside of the norm? How many decided to ask out their crush who was already in a couple, and all three made it work? How many made out with their friends in a completely platonic way? How many raised families together with someone they had a deep affection for but no romantic love, and both knew it and were content with it?

How many people discovered the freedom of just listening to their wants and needs, without following the rules? How many people quietly challenged the established definitions of relationships, that we never heard about? Because they’re not chronicled in stories, because we only ever write about the romantic love interest, the best friend, the confidante. But there’s so much more complexity to human relationships, I cannot believe we’re just now starting to explore it. Others before us must have built something different, and thought that they were alone, that they were pioneers. I wish I could know about them, I wish more people today could now that something else is possible.

#this is about polyamory and open relationships and QPRs and relationship anarchy #if you're with the right people life gets so much better when you stop following the rules of what relationship is supposed to work whch way #i'm feeling emotional thinking about all the people before me who came to that realization #on their own #without the help of hundreds or thousands of other people on the internet #because fuck it the internet as we know it has only been around for what? twenty years? #but the complexity of feelings and relationships is inherent to the nature of human beings #you can't put it in neat boxes #it just doesn't work #i wish i could know about all the other people before me #who came to that realization and felt the incredible freedom #of not having to tie your brain up in knots trying to figure out what your feelings meant #or having to shove them under the rug because society says it wouldn't work out #and i really. really. really want more people to break out of those rules and experience the happiness of just. listening to your feelings #and building a relationship tailored to those feelings

[lary-the-lizard]

Racist motherfuckers can’t be reasoned with because to be anti-racist you have to be open to learning that you are the problem. The only way to help someone stop being racist is to get them to understand, not that they are being harmful, but that they’re too weak and stupid to be right in their beliefs and that their feelings are indicators of that. In order to do that isn’t to tear them down with verbal violence of aggression but to show it to them so gently they think they found it on their own.

#racism #white supremacy tw #eating the rich #letting them down softly #so they land on their faces #on their own #blm #asian lives matter #representation #wokism #life hacks

[knownoshamc]

why do people say that they’ve ruined mike and will relashionship? i don’t write this as an hater I’m genuinely asking why do you think that? mike cares about will,he solved their fights with him ?? right??

I'm not gonna analyse it too much.

Mike said that his life started the day he met El, because apparently nothing else is important. And of course, that time, Will was in the UD. That doesn't scream like caring about Will to me.

How did their fights get resolved? Mike has been an asshole to Will in s3 & in 4x02 and never really apologised for it, nor his behaviour was explained. Yeah, he wanted to apologise after their fight in s3, but he didn't actually get to do it, nor would that explain why he had been ignoring him the entire summer. They never explained why he didn't hug him at the airport either. If Will wanted to keep his distance from Mike (that's why he wasn't reaching out more), Mike doesn't know why. Will doesn't know why Mike didn't reach out as much as he did with El. Nothing is resolved

The painting could have been easily used only to cheer Mike up. Like here have a painting from me! It didn't have to be about El.

They had 0 interactions that didn't involve Mike's relationship with El

Mike's entire personality doesn't seem to be anything beyond being El's boyfriend. I mean, how did that character develop? What has changed? Now he can say he loves El when she's in danger and that he thinks she's a superhero? That he still worries of pursuing his own interests because he's just a nerd and El might not like that?

#byler asks #I wish I was like you guys #just be happy that mike told El he loved her #cause nothing else about him matters #I am sorry but it worries me that you think (not YOU people in general) #that ignoring your friend for 1-2 years is okay because you have a girlfriend #that you only talk to that friend about your girlfriend #and that your only goal in life is to be with that girlfriend #that's not healthy #max & lucas? they are good! #they are not revolved around each other #they even talk about serious stuff #and they don't lie to each other #I don't think they ever had #*have #no one prompted either of them to talk about their feelings #they got back together (deciding to go on a date) #on their own #Will wasn't there to tell Lucas to ask her out

[ismailovatwins]

On Their Own 2/3

#aida #twin art #twin artists #ismailova twins #ismailovatwins #on their own #doing something willingly #prepared to do #without any help #colour #colourful art #medium shot #character #character design #digital art #illustration #modern art #contemporary art #visual art #art #artists on tumblr

[turtletoria]

Palestine will be free in our lifetime 🇵🇸🍉🕊️ Don't look away, and let's keep supporting Palestine in any way we can.

#palestine #free palestine #turtlearts #these are free to use for actions & etc.! I just ask that you use these in good faith and not for your own personal gain/profit or somethin #like that. ✌🏼

[bookpdf]

unfortunately i Do feel better when i clean my living space and eat enough fruits and veggies and go outside and generally remember i am a mammal :| real pity that knowing this does not make it easier to do those things

#i am my own zookeeper basically and that kinda sucks

[reality-detective]

1963 Refrigerator 🤔

#pay attention #educate yourselves #educate yourself #knowledge is power #reeducate yourself #reeducate yourselves #think about it #think for yourselves #think for yourself #do your homework #do some research #do your own research #ask yourself questions #question everything #american history #history lesson

[bebx]

reblog if you’ve read fanfictions that are more professional, better written than some actual novels. I’m trying to see something

#writeblr #ao3 #archive of our own #writer #writing #writers #whump #angst #fanfic #fanfiction #blorbo #writing tropes #writing trope #writing prompt #writing prompts #writing challenge #writing community #writing inspo #writing inspiration #writer’s block #tropes #trope #whump tropes #whump trope #prompt #prompts #whump prompt #whump prompts #whumpblr #whump community

[gladlypants]

The girls found some slightly worn but more suitable, non vault-issued clothing in CAS after rummaging through their new place. Megan gave herself a sloppy haircut. It keeps raining on them, but they are looking like real cutie survivalists. ♥

#ts4 #the sims 4 #ts4 gameplay #Megan and Lillie #On Their Own

[becuzmdsaidineededpersonality]

#femslash #f/f fanfic #f/f romance #f/f ship #archive of our own #ao3 #ao3 fanfic #ao3 tags #fanfiction #fanfic #fanart #destiel meme news