went on a nice long drive through west virginia today. soooo pretty. i never spent much time there.
it was really nice skitterin through small towns and seeing pride flags hangin on the front doors of businesses in these rural areas. like, more than one. *especially* because WV is one of the most heavily and harmfully stereotyped states in the region
tiny things like this show some things are really changing for the better in appalachia, and i'm tired of people pretendin they ain't just so they got more fuel for their hateful narrative about us.
when i was a teenager i never even saw that kinda thing in comparatively progressive western nc. and now here i was today, windin through the hills of west virginia with rainbows blowing everywhere
keep being loud and unapologetic, y'all. it's working
"ew why don't you leave the south, it's so regressive and racist" that's america, my dude. you are describing all of america, and if i have to live here, i am gonna stay in the south.
i did more for my community volunteering with mutual aid organizations and putting together my own fundraiser for queer Appalachians than any enlightened yankee transplant hula-hooping on our capitol steps did. that isn't me bragging on myself, it's me saying in no uncertain terms that i know none of you give a shit about us.
everytime i make the mistake of talking about my desire to move even further out of the TN valley and go to the mountains some silicon valley motherfucker who moved here so their tech start-up could take advantage of our abysmal tax code makes a face, or warns me about the people i've grown up around my whole life. fuck you! fuck your ass, bro!
every single time i help somebody jump their shitty 2001 altima in the parking lot of a Wal-Mart in Dekalb County or wherever the fuck, wearing my binder and a trans rights bumper sticker on my car, i do more to actually change shit here than Breathanie and her "queer friendly" yoga studio that's exclusively attended by rich cis whites.
We have about forgotten that families walked to town in the heat or cold, that old men squatted to roll their own with Prince Albert from a tin, that farm folks napped in the midday heat in the shade of trees, children played with things they made from stuff they found, little ones dug doodlebugs, folks dug bait to fish the creeks, shelled peas and beans under the shade of a tree, milked a cow every day rain or shine, canned food, and did too many things that were hard, and hoped for the day when they didn’t need to do so and lived to miss it all and 'pine for the day.
(Photo of the Harrell House in Mitchell County, North Carolina by Josh Smith, 2022)
In the hills, March is a woodpecker drumming in a new season. It’s the liquid trill of tree frogs and the plaintive notes of peepers heralding the return of spring. It’s a time when winter lingers in the lap of spring. It’s gusty days and calm days, chill days and warm days. It’s April whispering from the ridgetops while March goes whistling down the valley. It’s song sparrows in the alders and robins strutting in the pasture. It’s a velvet-coated bumblebee hunting for a nest site and a honeybee buzzing for the first taste of pollen. March is the first daffodils making the whole world golden.
- From “These Storied Mountains” written by John Parris. It’s been many years since Parris wrote the quote above. I’m glad to say that it’s still what March is like in the mountains of Western North Carolina.
🌼Pictured is Daffodil Flats in the Linville Gorge in Burke County, NC. March 2023
and a tree is a promise
safe-kept by a seed,
and a tree is a dance
that is swung by the breeze,
and a tree is an engine
spinning only on air
and water and light;
nothing lost, nothing spare,
and a tree is a king
who is topped with a crown,
(and a tree never once
loses touch with the ground)
and a tree is a home
with numberless doors,
and a tree is a world
for an ant to explore,
and a tree is a gift
(for a tree is a lung)
and a tree is a song
that is whispered and sung
by the bees and the birds,
and in rustles and creaks,
yes, a tree is a song
that is sung without words,
and a tree is a lesson
in the meaning of roots,
and how out of the mud
swell the sweetest of fruits,
and a tree is a story
of hope and repair,
or perhaps more a question;
a wish or a prayer,
for a tree (plus a tree)
shows us how we might share,
and when we should grow
and when we should sleep
and what we could lose
and what we must keep.
“Here's the thing about wildflowers - they take root wherever they are, grow strong through the wind, rain, pain, sunshine, blue skies and starless nights. They dance, even when it seems there is nothing worth dancing for. They bloom, with or without you.”