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Security comes first from inside of you. Then, if you are very lucky, you will be in a position to find other people who also possess the same sort of security, and build some sort of family or community as a team.
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Love is like sunlight, you can give all of yourself to someone and still have all of yourself left to give to others, and to yourself, to your work, to anything or anyone you choose. Love isn't like food: you won't starve anyone by giving It freely, it's not a finite resource.
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Love is kissing each other madly while holding hands no matter how many lovers you have.
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For people that are new to non-monogamy and polyamory, sometimes you might experience guilt about things that you really don't need to be experiencing guilt about.#polyamorous
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Every relationship helps us to grow, and we can learn a lot about ourselves through our partners. When you have several partners, you have more people that can help you to grow as a person.
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When or if you start exploring, remember to honor who you are. Don't just try to please others. If you feel like you are going to let someone else down, what you are really doing is letting yourself down.
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Create relationships based on deeper and more real notions of trust. So that love becomes defined not by sexual exclusivity, but by actual respect, concern, commitment to act with kind intentions, accountability for our actions, and a desire for mutual growth.
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There are several points in the relationship that led to ‘falling in love’. You experience all the amazing things with each other, and then one day it just hits you.
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Polyamory is the realization that co-dependancy is not a relationship strength, jealousy does not equate with passion, and love is abundant and not scarce.
Here to meet your matches👆
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Polyamory is great, it's wonderful to hear about partner's partners and encourage them to try new things, and to help your crushes pick out gifts for their other crushes, like what a rich beautiful world in which we all encourage more love, more exploration, and more openness.
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Being polyamorous is so much fun!! You don't have to worry about picking someone, you can just pick all of them!!
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When we love someone new, that doesn't mean the love we already have for others decreases. Love is infinite.When we love someone new, we just create more love.
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If you want to be open, don't hide that desire and try it, but if you have a reaction to it or you are scared or you are jealous be open about that too. Trust that your relationship is strong and that you can work your way through it.
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Being able to grow and adapt along with your relationships is a beautiful thing. A good goal to keep in mind while practicing polyamory is to support each individual’s pursuit of happiness in this one life whatever that looks like.
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It's important to remember when our partners are sharing their feelings with us that, unless they expressly say so, they are not doing such to get us to change our choice, change our minds, or task us with making them feel better. They are just expressing how they feel.
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Polyam people should get to have relationship problems and challenges without feeling the pressure that it will be reflective of the whole polyam community.Individual monogamous relationship problems/ breakups aren't used as an example of why monogamy is inherently doomed!
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The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood.
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