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loana123 · 2 months

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introspectconnect · 6 months

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Deja Vu Love: Why We Repeat Relationship Patterns and How to Change

Love, while enchanting, can often feel like running in circles. Have you ever found yourself drawn to the same kind of partner time and time again? With a sense of déjà vu as you repeatedly find yourself with eerily similar partners. Why is this?

Once upon a time, I can confess I had a "type." I was irresistibly drawn to people's pain. It wasn’t a drive to 'fix' them or some dark intrigue, but rather, seeing a mirror image of my own internal turmoil. I could see it in their eyes, it was evident in their smile, it peeked through in their laugh, and it was obvious we wore the same burdensome mask to hide our scars. I naively believed building a bond based on shared trauma would help us understood each-others better and that we would guide each other on a road to healing. Instead, our pain inflicted more wounds on each other, that reinforced our negative beliefs and justified our unhealthy behaviors.

At the time it made sense, though looking back the flaw in my logic seems clear: Like the blind leading the blind, how can those equally lost, lead one another to light? This personal revelation reflects a challenge many people face in relationships. Chasing after partners based on idealized fantasies rather than real-world truths. It's easy to say, "I have a type," confidently stating our preferences, but do we ever pause to ask why? Are we genuinely yearning for a compatible soul, or are we simply seeking the traits of a person who idealizes a fantasy?

We must find the courage to question our desires. Only then can we uncover whether we're pursuing shallow ideas, or true compatibility and genuine connection. Consider someone who's always wanted a stable, money-wise family because they didn't have that growing up. They might be drawn to a potential partner’s flashy lifestyle. But does a flashy exterior equate to genuine financial security? How can they spot traits of financial stability if they've never known what it looks like? This logic can be applied to many different scenarios.

The cure to break free from that same old love loop comes down to being brave enough to dig into our wants. Learn what the healthy version of our desires looks like, so we don’t get lured by cheap imitations of it. Failure to do this keeps us entangled in familiar, yet potentially toxic patterns. The path to healthy, sincere, and nurturing relationships begins when we discern the real needs beneath our desires.

If you’re stuck in a loop of similar romantic choices, remember acknowledging the pattern is the first step. Dive deep within, challenge your reasoning, and aim for authentic connections. Together, we can break the cycle of déjà vu love.

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luxurymarriedlady · 2 years

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A wealthy man does not just promise his generosity through words, but shows it through actions. Value how you are treated and not what you are “promised”.

#spoiledgirlfriend #spoiledfiance #itgirl #hypergamy #highvalueman #highvaluewoman #levelup #levelingup #dating #relationshipadvice #trophywife #engaged #oldmoney #newmoney

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throuplesdating · 2 months

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Poly relationship rule No.1: Good relationship comes down to good communication.

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elfony · 18 days

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Unveiling Fling: Discovering the Chemistry Behind Fling and a Turn Into Something More 💖

Dive into the intricacies of modern romance with "Fling". A captivating exploration of the chemistry that ignites fleeting connections and transforms them into something more meaningful. This insightful book delves into the dynamics of casual relationships and the potential for deeper emotional bonds to emerge. With clarity and depth, the author navigates the complexities of love, desire, and commitment, offering readers a compelling glimpse into the transformative power of connection. Whether you're navigating the early stages of romance or seeking to deepen an existing relationship, this book is your guide to understanding the alchemy of attraction and the potential for lasting love relationship to blossom.

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bootleg-nessie · 8 months

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Petty tip: if you make a playlist for your SO change all the songs to breakup songs when you break up

#r/196 #r/196archive #196 #/r/196 #rule #music #relationships #relationship #relationship advice #relationshipadvice

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metalbeheaded888 · 12 days

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i need advice…

hey guys! i don’t normally post things like this but i need some help asking out a guy 😭😭

- he’s a close friend of mine & we go to local gigs together. he’s a bass + guitar player and he is obsessed with movies. his favorite bands are ween, primus, grateful dead, & phish.

- it’s pretty obvious that he has feelings for me & i really like him but i am TERRIFIED to say anything in fear of ruining our friendship.

- he isn’t my only source of happiness & i’ll be fine even if he rejects me but he’s been a huge part of my life recently & i want to be more than friends with him.

if you have any relationship advice i would really appreciate it. i’m really shy 😭😭

#please help #relationshipadvice

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ickyyuckyugygrl · 1 month

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Someone tell me if im overreacting

Im with this one guy and he says he loves me right? but then the first while we were together he told one of my best friends he loved her eyes and that her eyes were his favorite thing to look into. (well we are together he has done all of this well we are together) i confronted him he apologized he said he wouldnt do it again We planned a date he then invited her to go with us without asking me first I confronted him he apologized and said he would communicate more clearly then he invited her to his house without telling me first, she was the one who told me she was there, then they both didnt reply to me for 3 hours, he ended up telling me she just wanted to talk to his mom ab some of her problems i asked her about it she said she didnt end up talking to her and she got mad at me accusing me of being suspicious and said she wasnt going to deal with it, i never even said anything back i just said it was nice they were able to hang out, i apologized to her and said i wasnt suspicious i did not really confront him on this the day before my birthday i introduced him to another one of my friends, that same night at 4 am he invited her to hang out with him alone she declined and told me i asked him about it and he said he was just bored and wanted to see if someone could come out next he asks the first girl to ask me when i was ready to have s3x with him, i was upset because we had been dating for a little over a month at this point i was a little hurt he didnt ask me privately but i was too scared to bring it up i found out he was telling things i was privately telling him to the girl as well next i find out he has told her that he originally had a crush on her but because he kissed me first he felt bad and didnt want me to feel like a second option so he stayed with me and said he ended up gaining feelings after or something. I was so upset over this i confronted him i couldnt even get 3 sentences out before i started crying which made everything even more embarrassing he assured me he didnt like her anymore and that he did like me etc but not even three days later i find out he was play fighting/flirting over text with the same girl, she showed me a video (i guess she didnt think it was a big deal? maybe im overreacting idk) but they were calling each other names in a very flirty tone and under the video she said "beefing" and put two smirk emojis after it then she said his name over text and put these emojis 🥰🥰🥰😍 in that exact order after later she told me that if i hadnt met her or him at the time i did something could have happened between them but said she was "glad" it worked out this way but idk it just felt very back handed and fake, i cant complain to her either or tell her how i feel because she'll villainize me i've tried a few times just to say "hey im kinda worried ab this or that" but never in an accusing tone and it was never ab anything serious or even about her it was mainly ab him and how i was a little sad he replied to her asap and told her everything he was up too or planned to do but ignored me for up to 4 hours at a time, and she would say stuff like how me saying that isnt fair to her etc and yeah she also got mad at me when i talked to another girl privately for exactly 8 minutes not even joking and idk i also keep having dreams of him leaving me behind/sleeping with her or walk away holding another girls hand and im so stressed out to the point where im puking and up all night but i cant find it in me to leave him either i dont know if im being dramatic or if its not that big of a deal and im just being sensitive i just dont know what to do or what to think of it hes also recently not hanging out with me and always making excuses im worried

#sh #help #advice #baby cvts #sh cvt #cvtting addict #ed not ed sheeran #tw restrictive ed #relationshipadvice #sos #so silly #someonehelpme #silly thoughts #silly posting #realtionship help #crisis #mental health #experience

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relationshipgoals2024 · 4 months

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“I’m not telling you it is going to be easy- I am telling you it is going to be worth it.” – Art Williams

#marriage #divorce #partner #respect #feeling #relationships #vulnerability #relationship #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes #relationshipadvice #relationshipmemes

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relationshipsafecute · 5 months

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"You are killing US with YOUR jealousy"

So far I have enlightened the world with my thoughts on jealousy and self-esteem. I want to clear up any misunderstandings that may have some male people thinking that I am targeting only women here. Jealousy and self-esteem issues also can imprison men as well as women. No one is excused from real human emotions. Emotions know no face, color, size or gender. There are two victims here, not just one.