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oceano-de-letras · 17 hours ago
¿Habrá algo de virtud en sentirse agotado sin haber hecho otra cosa más que existir?
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miss-femme-fatale · 2 days ago
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“Becoming a high value woman starts from having a high value mindset.”
I would say that the mindset shift is the most crucial step on your femininity & high-value woman journey.  In was the case for me anyway, as I was only able to feel high value when I changed my mindset, do the inner work & and heal all my past traumas. 
Surprisingly, most women completely overlook this step and focus entirely on the exterior ( “How to dress feminine” “How do walk feminine” “How to look high-value” “what you should say to a man”, “how you should behave”, “when you should talk and when you should not”). Now yes...learning all these strategies is good. However, these tactical strategies often do not lend them the promised results that they want.
🌸The reality is that those strategies, if not combined with a real mindset shift, cannot be effective and will never work.🌸
Being a high-value woman is 90 % of how you feel about yourself (which is predicted and determined by your mindset aka your inner self) and only  10 % of how you communicate it to the world through your actions, your body language, and how you treat yourself, your appearance (aka your outer-self). 
I only speak from experience when I say this! You can have your makeup slayed. Outfits on point, However, if you do not do the required inner work, your confidence, understand the power of your subconscious, and heal from your past traumas from your mind. Or else, you will be stuck in a loop where your inner self does not match your outer self. A common manifestation of that is “imposter syndrome” & “low self-worth.” 
This is exactly why i preach to women (espcially young black women) that your mindset is EVERYTHING!
I am not perfect there are things i still need to work on as a feminine woman  in this blog post i will explain some of the tips and  strategies i’ve learned and acquired over time on how to gain the high value woman mindset...
(1) You are the primary source of happiness in your life!
High value woman sets herself as her primary source of security and happiness. She is a self-assured, confident woman and she is content with herself.She is in charge of her own happiness and does not rely on her partner to make her happy. She is happy first by herself and she strives to share her joy and happiness with the right partner. You will never see a high value woman demanding from others to make her happy and blaming them for her misery. Because she puts herself first. she is tuned with her needs and is able to fulfill them herself.
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How do you develop this mindset..? 
By taking charge and responsibility for everything in your life, even for things you are not responsible for!
For example, it may not be your fault to lose your job when the economy is not doing well, but it is your responsibility to find a new one and to avoid jobs that are not too resilient in the future.
(2) You determine your own value! 🌸
If you want to become a high value woman, you need to become the only person who determines your own value. A high value woman does not allow something or someone outside of herself to set and dictate her worth…not her family, nor her friends, nor her partner or even society. A high value woman is absolutely immune to other people’s inputs when it comes to her value.
This is very important to understand.
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Most of the time, these opinions depend on people’s emotional state too, their insecurities, and their ego and so are biased and unstable by nature. That is why nobody’s opinion can become the basis of a high value woman’s value. She realizes that people ( including her romantic partner), will always have different opinions about you .
If you think about it deeply, you very rarely receive unbiased opinions and advice that are meant to help you grow and improve yourself. You probably heard stories of amazing women, who looked happy and fulfilled before getting with someone, only to lose all their spark and joy and became so miserable being in a relationship. Often it is because their partner planted the seeds of low value in their minds and they were receptive to it. A high value woman will never allow this to happen. 
(3) Abundance, not scarcity mindset 🌸
A high value woman does not see the glass half empty, she always sees it half full. She believes there are enough men out there for her not to be panicking if it does not work out with one of them.
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She believes in her ability to always attract good people into her life so she does not need to retain those who want to leave her life.
(4) Complementarity, Not competition mindset 🌸
A high value woman is not looking to compete with a man, but rather to complement him. When a woman tries to compete with her man, she is usually insecure and wants to prove something to herself, to him, and to the world.  Self-assured women don’t need to prove anything. 
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They are in the relationship to offer something and work as a team. She separates herself and her worth from any external inputs.
In conclusion...
Being a high value woman is 90 % of how you feel about yourself (which is predicted and determined by your mindset aka your inner self) and only 10 % of how you communicate it to the world through your actions, your body language, and how you treat yourself, your apperence (aka your outer-self).
The question is are you ready to change your life for the better? Start now we only got  less than a month left in 2021.
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Chichi xo.
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notanastrologer · a day ago
Blog update 🦉?
Ok seriously guys the outline of my marriage/spouse post is seriously getting long, I have to either do it as a series or just the remaining part of things I have left since some of it I have already done here and there and most of them are my notes which are basically waiting to be compiled.
On the other hand I have house lords to be completed as well.
I also planned on compiling or do a career post thing like the spouse one since the game was helpful for most.
So everyone just comment down what do you think what should be the sequence of the releasing the posts and mind you there are correct and incorrect answers and engage or I don't know who I am making posts for 🌼🌼
I read all of your comments and I would really love if we make this an collective effort ♥️
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cuntsleepp · a day ago
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I’m finally seeing some results with all the booty/leg days so I’m excited to see what a year will look like. Wish I took before photos but I refused cos my ass was thaaat flat lol. Disclaimer: I struggle reaching my protein intake and I’m terrified to over eat.
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shakespearevillain · 2 days ago
I’m only in season 1, but I don’t get what’s so wrong with Star Trek: Discovery.
Although, admittedly, I’m mostly watching for this goober: 
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I know I have a weakness for queer nerds. I’m a queer nerd, and I love to see myself represented, especially in a loving relationship. And Anthony Rapp does such a good job with this character. Stamets has jerked more tears out of me and caused me to do my hideous witch’s laugh more than most characters. Period. Not just characters in Star Trek. Most characters.
And I’m seeing hate for him on the internet and I’m just like... 
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Because I love Stamets. I play video games on my I-Pad during a lot of this series (because it is a bit more “shoot ‘em up” and flashy special effects than I would like), but I put down the I-Pad as soon as I hear his voice.
Maybe I’ll grow to dislike it over the next seasons, but right now I’m firmly in the “I just want Paul Stamets and Hugh Culber to be happy” camp.  
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starcatcherrus · 2 days ago
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О новом человеке
То, что я сейчас хочу записать, ещё пару лет назад растянулось бы на несколько текстов о разном, каждый со своей идеей и ворохом метафор и ловких поворотов абзацев. А сейчас я вязну уже на первой строчке, встреваю будто убегаю от кого-то во сне с ощущением, что не двигаюсь с места.
Хотел оставить тут как напоминание «ощущение нового человека» в жизни. Аффект знакомства и первой встречи, когда удивительным образом диалог складывается сам собой без неловких пауз и даже наоборот многослойно перекрывая одну тему другой, наступая друг другу на хвост, обсуждая одно, заканчивая совершенно другим. Это очень приятное чувство сближения внутренней энергии (читай душ), когда будто по инфракрасной связи подключился и настроил синхронизацию в два щелчка.
И уже попрощавшись я шёл дальше по маршруту дня в приподнятом немного летящем настроении, когда всё вокруг меняется, переполненное вдохновлением, просто от встречи с новым человеком, который не знает ещё толком тебя, которого толком не знаешь ты, который не факт, что останется в жизни надолго, а может так случится, что станет её неотъемлемой частью, начавшись с пересечения взглядов одним тёплым осенним вечером. Не скажешь так сразу. Только время знает ответ. И ему можно довериться.
Ещё лучше сразу же написать это здесь, вдруг новый текст родится снова только через месяц, что в эти мрачные серые ноябрьские дни я чаще обычного (обычно этого даже и не случается) предаюсь ностальгии, воспоминаниям о хороших временах из прошлого, событиях, людях и местах. Даже выделяю несколько минут перед тем, как провалиться в сон, чтобы вспомнить какой-нибудь момент, заглянуть в него и уже после утонуть во сне.
Воспоминания - приятная вещь, если не углубляться в плохое или не пытаться спрятаться там, даже если они хорошие. Но вот так вспомнить, как полистать старый альбом, умиротворяет. Видимо для этого и созданы долгие осенние и зимние ночи, когда день не особо отличается от сумерек и серая пелена затягивает небо, стирая смену дней и ночей. Остаётся только вспоминать и держаться за эмоции. Всё-таки действительно почти осязаемо пойманное ощущение это невероятно и замечательно, как своеобразные витамины в период осеннего авитаминоза.
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starsfic · a day ago
December Commissions Open
Hey there! I’m still open for commissions and currently trying five slots open a month.
You can either message me on Tumblr or email me at I find it easier to send it through Ko-Fi, which I’ll send a link to. I will send a finished first draft for the client to look over to see if anything needs to be added or removed.  Please keep in mind that there might be a time difference in communication. I will ask for details.
None of the fandoms I write for are mine. I will crosspost the commission on Tumblr and AO3 and you will receive a PDF version of your story. You are allowed to crosspost it yourself if credit is given back to me. I do have the right to deny anything that makes me uncomfortable or if it’s an AU that the creator does not allow me to write.
Prices below:
500-1000 words- $5
1000-2000 words- $10
2000-3000 words- $15
3000-4000 words- $20
4000-5000 words- $25
5000-6000 words- $30
6000-7000 words- $35
7000-8000 words- $40
8000-9000 words- $45
9000-10000 words- $50
For longer wordcounts we can discuss.
I have a list of fandoms and ships that I write for on my Tumblr, but I can write for things that aren’t on that list. I can do NSFW but there will be an extra $10 added to the cost.
Thank you!
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eggdesign · 3 months ago
How to help Hurricane Ida victims
While the hurricane is finally weakening, the victims are going to be impacted long after it passes. Please avoid donating to the red cross as they have been known to misuse funds. The salvation army also has an extensive history of homophobia and transphobia.  Here are some groups to support that will directly benefit local communities! is another local organization for mutual aid and disaster prep. They’ve put together resources like the Queer/Trans Guide to Hurricane Season, Covid-19 Guide to Hurricane Season and lead the Mutual Aid Response Network has a sign up form if you are able to volunteer including options that can be done remotely! provides emergency food relief and is in New Orleans making food for shelters is a group that organizes food delivery, medical resources, and more services for unhoused citizens in New Orleans has a frontline resource page specifically for Ida as well as a mutual aid response fund for vulnerable families
Another Gulf also has this list of indigenous communities to support:
If you have been affected by the hurricane and need support, please add your own donation links! I originally linked the cajun navy here, but some groups within the cajun navy have been linked to white supremacists. There isn’t one formal organization for the cajun navy (the two links here before were separate, unrelated groups), but because I’m unsure, I’ve removed both for now.
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drawkill · 2 months ago
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snowgrave  ❄️
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sleape · a year ago
I feel like I just watched a whole movie
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werelivingarts · a year ago
how to deal with mental fatigue
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Hi, it’s werelivingarts! Exam season is coming so soon, and some of us might deal with a lot of stress and mental fatigue while preparing for the exams. 
Here are some tips on how to prevent and deal with mental fatigue (before it becomes too serious and leads to burnout). Exams are just ways to test your knowledge and understanding, so please do not expect too high and take care of your health! 🌿
Hope that we would all do well! 😊
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miss-femme-fatale · a month ago
𝟓  𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐁𝐥𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐄𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲
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𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐄𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲?
Feminine energy is the “being” energy, in contrast to the masculine “doing energy”.When you are in this “being” energy, you are in receptive mode and allow your partner, experiences, and life itself, to fill you up. This is again opposite to masculine energy, which is a forward-moving, penetrative force that “gets things done”.When you are in your feminine energy, you are not busy doing, but instead enjoying that which is before you.
This idea of “not doing and just being” may feel like an alien and almost annoying concept at first, especially to those of us who have trained ourselves to be in our masculine 24/7. However, it helps to remember that reconnecting with our femininity is the key to restoring that balance that is missing today from so many women’s lives.
Traits that are most often associated with the feminine are things like connection, empathy, nurturing, and emoting. She is pure energy and flows and changes like the water of a river. She has a diffused awareness, thinking many things at once and she finds details and intricacies that escapes the masculine. She is born to receive.  She is most identified with her feelings and craves love deeply to feel fulfilled.
𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐈 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐟 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞  𝐟𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐝?
If you are out of balance with both energies, you could experience blocked feminine energy. The feminine energy is lost instead of balancing both energies. It is still possible to have a strong feminine presence within a society that tends to favor masculine energies. Don’t lose yourself in the process.
𝟓 𝐖𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐑𝐞-𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐅𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐄𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲
Dancing is a powerful practice to help you get out of your head and into your body. Find some privacy where you can dance as wildly or sensually as you like. Put on your favorite song or playlist and start off by closing your eyes, taking a few deep breaths and feeling what it feels like to be in your body. Ask yourself if this music could take form, how would it move? Then allow your body to express the music as if you are translating into a form of language. 
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2. Adornment! 
The feminine in all of us craves to feel and see the beauty around us and in us. Adorning your space with anything that brings a smile to your face helps nurture this craving. This can be in the form of pictures, decor, or luxurious fabrics or colors. To bring beauty to our wardrobe will also help us express the feminine within. Maybe that means wearing flowy skirts with delicate sandals or rocking a sexy pair of heels with a sleek skinny leg pant. 
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The divine feminine in all of us is associated with creative energy and life force energy. Similar to the energy of flowing emotions or timelessness, the feminine craves creativity. Our wombs are designed to create life after all. Some ways I express my creativity are through crafting, painting, dancing, clothing, and crocheting. I know a lot of people that express their art in other forms though such as cooking, entertaining guests, writing, comedy or gardening. Expand your mind and see where in your life are you creating something out of nothing. It’s a common misconception that traditional “art” is the only form of creativity!
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4.Planning a “Free-Day”
A day of “no planning” is one of my favorite things to do to step into my feminine. Allowing ourselves to just flow and be in the moment can be one of the most relaxing feelings for the feminine. One day out of the week I schedule a self-care “free day”. This is where I make zero plans and just allow myself to do whatever I feel like from moment to moment. My free-days normally include, taking myself out for dinner at nice restaurants or grab a coffee, simply enjoying my surroundings.
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Our bodies hold a lot of power and wisdom as women. We can connect to our feelings and intuition more easily than a masculine associated person, but we need to trust our bodies and heart in order to hear these messages. One way to connect to our bodies more and get out of logical thinking is to practice incorporating more sensuality into our lives.
This means intentionally using the senses to experience life with pleasure. One way I practice sensuality is by soaking in a warm bath with essential oils. Setting the visual with candles or petals, feeling the warm water against my skin, smelling the aroma of lavender or eucalyptus, hearing the water splash against the tub, tasting a treat like dark chocolate or red wine. Any activity can become sensual if you intentionally experience it with all 5 senses.
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Have any other tips you’d like to share? start a discussion in the comments! 
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