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While it can be difficult to find allies as a nonbinary person, but be sure to choose friends carefully nonetheless. There are many people out there ready to exploit any sort of weakness or desperation.
Remember that in every close relationship you deserve respect and love. Build your family from people who have earned the honor.
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There's no need to ask permission or reach consensus with an arbitrary group of people in order to identify as nonbinary.
Claiming the nonbinary label is something that you do for yourself.
Ask yourself if it applies, because only your opinion matters.
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A free horizontal nonbinary nebula wallpaper for your tablet.
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Other queer and lgbtq people don't get to define your choice of labels just because you're nonbinary. They have the same power to take away your language as cishets, which is none.
You've chosen words to communicate who you are. It's up to others to listen to you.
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proudnb 4 days
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The nonbinary people in history and the present that you look up to will not be perfect. But it's possible to acknowledge their short comings, and still need them as they are.
We need each other as people, not as perfect beings.
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proudnb 6 days
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You shouldn't have to justify your feelings about your own pronouns.
You can use binary pronouns as a nonbinary person. It's also perfectly fine to welcome all pronouns. You can reject all pronouns, too. Your pronouns can shift at different times. It's completely fine to need a specific set. I can't even begin to cover all the possibilities in which your pronouns are acceptable.
Your pronoun situation is about you. So, make it work for you!
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proudnb 7 days
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How you are nonbinary is as important as the fact that you are nonbinary.
Your choices about pronouns, presentation, or labels should be treated with respect. How you may or may not match the current "acceptable" stereotypes about nonbinary people is irrelevant.
You are an entire person and you deserve the dignity that should go along with that fact.
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proudnb 8 days
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It can be easy to feel guilty for being nonbinary.
Others will have inevitably attached various hopes on you being either a woman or a man. Not being the sister, father, friend or whatever else your loved ones expected of you can be painful.
Being true to yourself must a higher priority. People will move in and out of your life, but you'll always have to face yourself. Do so with compassion and honesty.
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Create what you need to create as a nonbinary person. The hangups of society censor you enough as it is without letting it into your mind as well.
We need what you make. The world needs your perspective.
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proudnb 9 days
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Nonbinary people have always had a presence in the many other branches of the queer/lgbtq community.
There have always been nonbinary lesbians, gay people, trans people, asexuals, bisexuals, and so many more.
To disparage any of those groups is to speak ill of nonbinary people. To scorn nonbinary people is to also hold any of those groups in contempt.
To have one you must be willing to accept the other.
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Free agender and demigirl storm themed phone backgrounds.
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proudnb 12 days
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Nonbinary creatives, craftspeople, performers, etc., thanks for adding your unique flare to the world.
More importantly, thanks for enriching the lives of other nonbinary people with your gifts.
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proudnb 13 days
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It's okay to change your labels even after years of identifying a certain way.
You could be new to the idea of being nonbinary. You might have understood yourself as nonbinary for decades, but realized that the specifics are different now.
Change is normal and difficult, too. It'll be alright.
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proudnb 14 days
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Finding premade clothing is hard for most people. Making your own clothing or having someone make it for you is not always an option. Add the complexity of being nonbinary to the mix and it's probably going to make the whole process harder.
I hope you find something that fits you well however much you need to mix up departments.
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proudnb 14 days
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You don't fit in binary boxes because nonbinary people are too great for them.
You've outgrown them.
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A free Earth Day nonbinary pride phone wallpaper. 馃椇 馃尡
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proudnb 17 days
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The nonbinary world is not a museum. It's more like a community garden.
Help others and grow something. Feed yourself.
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