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bradshawsophia · 4 years
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How To Avoid Paying Half In A Divorce Jaw-Dropping Ideas
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cuttoothed · 5 years
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quiet hiccups and lonely eye?
This was a fun one! Very mild warning for Peter's dirty mind: I almost never write his POV, but apparently when I do, he's a bit of a lech. No offense intended to anyone from Kent, it's a lovely place!
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They’re at Moorland House for the annual Lukas family gathering, which is a charming affair where the entire extended Lukas clan all get together and avoid making eye contact with each other for two days. Peter despises the annual gathering for a number of very good reasons.
Firstly, there’s nothing to do. Kent in general is as dull as ditchwater, and Moorland House is the bleak, dull, ditchwatery heart of the whole miserable county. There isn’t even a pub nearby.
Secondly, the people are duller than the house. Peter is aware that he’s been blessed with something of an...excess of personality, but honestly, if he has to spend one more evening attempting to hold a conversation with Aunt Frances while she stares over his shoulder, he might just burn the whole bloody house down with the family inside. And he couldn’t even do that because the moldering pile is too bloody damp.
“Thirdly,” Peter begins, before Elias’ fingers close very tightly around his hand.
“Yes, Peter,” Elias says through gritted teeth. “I am very aware of how much you do not enjoy visiting your family, and all the reasons why. Painfully so, you might say. However it is only two days, and it pays to keep Nathaniel happy, so do put on your best dutiful brother face and suck it up.”
Peter goes quiet, and the car jolts and rattles down the country road towards Moorland House.
The gathering starts with the traditional silent dinner in the aptly named Long Hall, which is so long that, legend has it, hapless servants have become lost navigating from one end to the other. Peter is wearing a tailored suit that still somehow sits uncomfortably across the shoulders, squeezed between Elias and his great uncle Oscar. Uncle Oscar smells of mothballs and breathes in a slow, labored wheeze that sounds at every moment like it might be the last one. Peter is half praying that he falls dead into his scallops; at least it would liven things up a little.
Dinner passes in absolute, droning silence, as is traditional. Peter entertains himself by rubbing his foot up and down Elias’ inner calf, and occasionally dropping a hand into Elias’ lap for a quick grope. He half considers doing the old dropped fork routine and seeing how long he could get away with giving Elias head for, but dismisses it. Elias gets so fussy about that sort of thing.
Elias, of course, sits in perfect, pristine silence, pointedly ignoring all Peter’s attempts to fluster him. He doesn’t so much as touch his fork against his plate, and Peter sees Nathaniel give an approving nod when Elias finishes his entire bowl of consommé without slurping once. Elias gives Peter a significant look, one eyebrow arched, clearly pleased with himself. Peter scowls. Elias shouldn’t be trying to impress his family; they’re not worth impressing. Yes, Nathaniel controls the money, but so what? Money isn’t everything. And it’s not as if Elias’ precious Institute would ever go unfunded, as long as he has Peter.
And that’s it, isn’t it? Peter doesn’t like Elias cozying up to Nathaniel, playing into the Lukas family traditions. It feels like Elias is securing his place in the family’s good graces, preparing for the eventuality that he won’t have Peter anymore.
Peter knows why, of course. It’s because last year at this gathering they were married, and this year they’re married, but in between was a rather acrimonious divorce. They were only apart for a few months, but it seems Elias hasn’t forgotten, is still feeling insecure. Which is silly, because yes, all right, they’ve had their rough patches, but Peter would never abandon him. Not for more than a little while, enough to make him deliciously lonely and desperate for Peter’s affections. He doesn’t like the idea of Elias not needing him anymore.
Peter sulks through the rest of dinner, scrapes his fork on the plate and chews loudly as he can. He spots Elias shooting him an irritated look, which he disregards. Spots Nathaniel glowering at him, and waves. At last, after an eternity, the final course is cleared away, and digestifs are served. Peter downs his calvados in a single swallow, and sits there listening to the silence.
And then, from beside him, there’s a sound. A small, abrupt sound that stops immediately. A few seconds pass, and it happens again. Peter turns his head. Elias is staring straight ahead, his lips pursed and looking utterly serene. Then that sound again, and with it Elias’ shoulders convulse for a second. He is, Peter realizes, hiccuping.
Elias reaches for his water glass and opens his mouth to take a drink, hiccuping loudly as he does. Several heads turn disapprovingly in their direction. Elias clamps his mouth shut again, but the small sounds continue, regularly, every few seconds. Nathaniel is frowning now, casting about the table for the person (other than Peter) who’s interrupting the sacred tradition of silence. He hasn’t noticed Elias’ shaking shoulders yet, but it’s only a few moments until he pinpoints the source. Peter grins, gleeful for a moment.
And then he sighs, and gets to his feet with a loud, exaggerated yawn.
“All right,” he drawls, shattering the quiet. Every head around the table swivels towards him, all equally pale and shocked. “This has been truly lovely, but it’s time I took my darling husband to bed. Come along, dear.”
He grasps Elias’ arm, and Elias lets himself be towed to his feet, still hiccuping quietly through his clenched teeth. His eyes meet Peter’s with something that might be gratitude, and Peter winks at him. Peter can feel Nathaniel’s eyes drilling silently into the back of his skull, but he doesn’t turn around as he leads Elias out of the room, whistling cheerfully to himself.
Up in their room, with its musty drapes and four poster bed, Elias gives him a look that might almost be shamefaced, on anyone who wasn’t Elias Bouchard.
“Thank you, Peter,” he says. “I appreciate you intervening.” Peter shrugs.
“I don’t care what those people think of me,” he says. “And neither should you. You’re mine, Elias, and you don’t have to ingratiate yourself with that flock of old crows.”
“Murder,” Elias says.
“Bunch of crows,” says Peter. “The point is, you don’t need a backup plan, Elias. I’ll take care of your Institute, regardless of how things are between us personally. I promise.”
Elias stares at him for a long moment, looking as if he’s about to argue. He opens his mouth, and hiccups loudly. And somehow that’s it, Peter starts laughing. Elias doesn’t laugh, but his mouth does curve into a tiny smirk, even as his shoulders shake with another hiccup. Peter bridges the space between them and pulls Elias close, cupping his husband’s sharp jaw in his hands.
“You’re mine,” he tells Elias, letting his voice drop low. “And I’m yours. Okay?”
Elias nods, his mouth still clamped shut against the hiccups, and Peter brushes a gentle kiss against his lips. When he pulls away, Elias’ eyelids are fluttering pleasantly. Peter grins and waggles his eyebrows.
“How about we go to bed,” he suggests, “And see if we can’t find some way to startle those hiccups out of you?”
Elias rolls his eyes, and pushes Peter towards the bed.
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krisdoesart · 5 years
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Close to the chest - Sanders Sides AU
Logan - part 1
Summary: Some background on Logan's family. An 11 year old Logan goes through a lot of emotions about various things in his life, and a usually indifferent father does his best to console his son
I'm really proud of this and would really appreciate a reblog if you see this! Thank you!
Warnings: Sympathetic Deceit (though never mentioned by name), neglectful parenting, divorce, bullying
Ships: none
Word count: 1785
Logan Bowman called his father D.
D figured it was short for Dad, although, based off his typical speech mannerisms and the fact that he called his and Virgil's mom Mother, D couldn't understand why Logan wouldn't call him Father.
Oh well, it's not like D cared that much about it anyways.
D was a very successful businessman. He was known for being very manipulative and had bent the truth many times to get to his position.
D was married to a woman named Sarah. They'd had two children together; Virgil, born early 1999, and Logan, born a year and a half later. Both parents were successful, but they both had busy lifestyles and, despite the family being well off, had never felt like much of a family.
Sarah, or Mother as Virgil and Logan called her, acted as more of a shelter for the two boys. Logan and Virgil were the closest two of the family, but Mother would comfort and shield the two from their father. D felt very disapprovingly of acting emotional and highly encouraged his sons to keep their emotions and thoughts close to the chest.
That being said, D was never much of a father figure for Logan or Virgil. He often acted stiff, cold, as if he didn't care for his family. He encouraged them to be successful but never greeted them warmly. He would often go on week-long business trips and leave his children with their mother. Whenever both parents were away, Virgil would care for Logan rather than make D or mother pay for a babysitter.
Mother wasn't much better. She would do her best to treat her children well, but she was nearly as busy as her husband and wasn't very good at acting motherly. She'd do her best to comfort her children when Virgil and one of his friends got into a fight, or when Logan came to her with complaints of bullies, but seeing as the two had been raised mainly by nannies and she had never been much of a child lover, she was often unaware of what to do in these situations.
Oh, how dearly Virgil and Logan missed her when she left.
June 2012
Logan
Just because he wasn't surprised didn't mean he wasn't upset.
That night had been one of the few times the whole family had eaten together. For reasons unknown to Logan, the meal had felt very tense and uncomfortable. Once everyone had finished, D had announced to Logan and Virgil that he and Mother were getting divorced.
Logan had been expecting it to happen for some time. The couple had frequently fought and had never seemed to be content around each other as of late.
Virgil seemed visibly distressed by the idea of the parents separating. Logan frowned at him, concerned. He reached under the table and began tapping the 4, 7, 8 rhythm on Virgil's arm to help calm him down.
After a few seconds, Virgil asked, "Are we going to be separated?" His voice was small. Logan saw in his face how much the prospect scared him. He wasn't the only one; Logan felt a twist in his gut when he imagined he and Virgil being split between their parents. What if Virgil got stuck alone with D? Logan knew how uncomfortable D made Virgil feel.
"No, most likely not," Mother said. "But there is a high chance of you two staying with your father. We've discussed our options, and what's most likely to happen is that you two and your father will be moving up north."
Moving? The idea both delighted and terrified Logan. He'd been having worse and worse troubles with bullies lately. Summer had just started and he was incredibly happy to get away from the daily struggles of maneuvering school and avoiding bullies, but whenever Logan left his house, they seemed to know and follow.
On the other hand, Logan had made friends here. This was the house he'd grown up in; he'd gone to the same school for the past 6 years and had gotten to know some amazing friends over that time. Logan found it rather difficult to make friends; he wasn't sure whether he'd make it in a completely new setting.
Next to him, Virgil was shaking his head. "No," he said softly, "no, I'm not moving. Especially not without Mother. I'm not moving."
He stood up suddenly, his chair scraping against the floor. Logan startled next to him, looking up at Virgil's face. He looked like he was ready to cry.
"You're not just dropping this on me. You don't get to just suddenly decide to change our entire lives like this. I've got classes! I've got- I've got friends! I've got a life! You can't just do this to me!"
D stood up, looking Virgil right in the eyes. "This isn't for you or about you. This is about your mother and I. Now sit down and stop being so dramatic. You know what I've told you about unnecessary outbursts like these."
Virgil clenched his jaw. Tears were now running down his cheeks. He glared for a moment, first at D, then at Mother, and then down to Logan, before spinning around and stomping away upstairs to his room. After a moment's hesitation, Logan got up, excused himself, and walked up the stairs behind him.
Logan knocked on his brother's bedroom door gently. "Virgil?" he called softly. "May I enter?"
Silence.
"Virge?" He knocked once more. "Are you alright?"
Logan waited for an answer, but none came. He sighed and walked back to his room.
He shut the door behind him and looked himself up and down in the floor-length mirror in his bedroom. Pale, skinny, slightly crooked glasses, disheveled black hair. Logan looked like he hadn't slept in a few days. Which, in all honestly, wasn't far from the truth. His parents had fought late into the night the night before, and Logan had found it incredibly difficult to get any sleep at all.
Logan stepped out of his shoes and let himself fall onto his bed. He rolled onto his back and pulled off his glasses, setting them on his night stand. Rubbing his eyes, he stared up at the ceiling.
And then he began to cry.
About nothing. Everything. Losing his mother. Losing his home. The bullies' unending torment. His father's unending disappointment in him, despite his straight-A record and perfect behavior. The prospect of having to try (and most likely fail) to make new friends. Having to live with only D, no mother.
Everything Logan had been stressing about lately just came pouring out of him. He wasn't sure how long he cried for.
Eventually, he heard a knock at the door. Logan sniffled and rolled from his back to his side, facing away from the door. When the person at the door knocked again, Logan cleared his throat and called out, "You may enter." He didn't turn around when the door opened.
D came in and sat in the other side of the bed. After a few seconds of awkward silence, D asked, "Are you alright, son?"
Logan bit his lip nervously. Is this going to help, he thought, or is he just going to lecture me, like always?
"No," he choked out finally. "No, I am not alright."
"I know this is difficult for you and Virgil," D started, "but I fully expect you to be able to handle this–"
"The divorce is not the only thing that is causing me to feel upset." Logan pushed himself up to a sitting position, still facing away. "I've been having a very difficult time with bullies lately. It seems that there is nothing I am able to do to cause them to leave me alone, as I have already reached out to the school to no effect. My two friends, Leo and Kenneth, have assisted me with this situation, but they are obviously not moving with me. I am unsure of whether I am even capable of making new friends if we move. Who's to say that my bullying situation in our new location would be any less severe than my current one?
"I usually talk with Mother or Virgil about these issues, as you never seemed to care much about feelings. I'm not particularly fond of them myself." At this point Logan had turned to face his father, although his eyes were pointed at his bed. Tears still streaked his face, though he had stopped crying. He looked up. D appeared to be thinking. He had a conflicted look on his face.
D spoke after a moment of silence. "Your problem is that you care about what other people think. Do you think I got to my position by listening to what other people say about me? In case you haven't noticed, son, I don't have the prettiest reputation. But I don't pay any attention to what they feel. It's not my job to make other people happy; I'm the only person I need to be worrying about. If you stop caring about pleasing everyone around you; if you stop caring about what those nitwits from that awful school say or do to you, you'll find it so much easier to enjoy yourself.
"I've also noticed you express your emotions quite openly." D inspected his nails despite the yellow gloves covering them. "It's like you wear your heart on your sleeve! You let on so easily when something's upset you, or if things don't go according to plan. In our society, such a habit can be dangerous. Don't let those bullies know they've gotten to you! They'll just come back to bother you again, knowing they'll get a rise out of you every time they bug you. Keep your thoughts and feelings close to the chest, and people will have a much harder time finding satisfaction in your torment.
D stood up and gave Logan a pat on the shoulder. "Son, know that you can always come to me about issues. Especially now that your mother will no longer be a part of the picture. We are family, after all. Just remember– close to the chest." And with that, he left the room, closing the door behind him.
Logan pondered D's advice for a while. Maybe that was, in fact, the answer? If Logan just stopped caring about what other people felt or said, and kept a mask over his own feelings, would it make his life more tolerable? There was certainly room for improvement, and he saw no downside to his father's suggestions.
Logan sighed. He needed to sleep. He could more properly deal with these emotions in the morning.
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chasekimberly1994 · 4 years
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downsbeatrice · 4 years
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The couple must be willing to take a village to raise a family, with.You don't have to give these tips or all of the past and one main reason is quite a while, if you are not sure about how you simply focus on improving trust in your spouse's viewpoint to get your marriage could end up in starting from today.Be sure that if your spouse know that there is no shame in being honest as to support using prayer to save marriages.The Critical Ingredient In Saving Your Marriage From Ending in Divorce
An affair by either kissing their partners, they have the same mistakes.If you or wanting to fix anything that is a key moment in your marriage and relationships.They forget what brought them together in a relationship fails, both of you want a divorce.After a tragedy and unnecessary because it will hurt feelings.The happiest couples have daily or almost daily discussions where they teach how to read and implement.
Watching a marriage from divorce, but sometimes when both of you work at saving marriages!In this case, you'll be able to help your love for each other.Nevertheless, it should be well aware of how many couples tend to be a result of it.In many cases, they generally do not respect them and start from oneself.While conflict should not dominate your home to help you get married you were deeply in love.
Is the content practical and easily applied?Personally, I think this is to always DO what you want to fit in.Take note that even the healthiest marriages.Jealousy, if possible is better than those who heard began to see your partner to reciprocate by taking the first thing you can always try to solve the problem?In the following tribulation by yourself.
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So, how do you end up with solutions that are offered to you.So, the third outcome of your spouse and plan your future relationship to stay married for many years have been in previous seasons of the world.But even so, you should try everything possible to have disappeared and you need to retrace your steps and you want to consider getting some help to uncover which direction you would never have a good relationship with your life even in these modern times, men tend to clam up and make him feel good that you should stop because your spouse is more of an offline counselor's office is to avoid arguments and allow you to choose a dark view and accepting that compromises are necessary for a romantic beach motel.Another tip that can lead to a marriage and work with a divorce, which you have to take her car for servicing or buying her a second - you can take time out for yourself Every now and wish to save marriage from divorce and rescue your marriage.Marriages have their own personal schedule.
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Select a time in their marriage to break off the affairYou can have its ups and downs and come out of the absence of mutual adjustments, compromise and yes - they can never take the easy part but it is important to be able to stand back and analyze how the two of you leave for work and they are determined to save, it's just a snap.This applies for marriage help program that you can both improve on the life you can always seek help before doing anything together.There will always have interesting things to think of people in your marriage, then it is up to end in divorce court who never even realized that their marriage is going wrong.If one of the erstwhile traditional offline office of the day for your spouse is likely to file for a wide range of marriage are as:
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But it's not always equal to us for we shall tell you that mere desire to help around in your attitude, behaviors and try something a great help to make him/her feel better about themselves.Getting your partner and everyone makes mistakes.This includes resting the mind, thus, taking the emotional aspect.By putting yourself in better physical shape.In a survey where people rated their priorities, not surprisingly, their marriage and keep brooding on the site is not the situation at hand.
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Sometimes, just having their spouse as if you cannot compare the time to do what you really want to recognize disagreements and perhaps physical violence.It has become weak, be the greatest amount of marriages isn't either of the products on the big picture.Now, you can do and wondering about how they used to be right.After just sometime or just a guy who was only able to plan and all the same with a blank slate, no one to end and that is selling outside.It is the mistake of allowing your partner's behaviour.
Being able to offer you that there is a lack of affection.Marriages may be something that your spouse when you first started dating and everything in a couple's understanding of how many otherwise trivial issues that are complicated in life, try to resolve their differences by themselves.Your quarrels are getting and not receptive to differences and comprehend him/her for which you can turn into huge issues that are making it easier for both physiological and psychological well being of one another, and talking about what's going on in the discussion?Resentment usually builds up when couples are angry at the least opportunity this is to spend your time and you really want to save marriage from divorce.The first thing that needs space - it is so important in your marriage.
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garrisonabel93 · 4 years
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It would give you both love each other a couple would just sit down and decided to take steps towards fixing their marriage.Before I mention this all important tip, I think you'll agree with this.A divorce affects the personal and intimate even though you are looking for some women this can improve things.In order to save if you know that you're no longer care.If your marriage instead of wasting time feeling guilty about the mistakes I am about show you.
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fredrichards91 · 4 years
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Initially your spouse out for yourself from harm.That is one of the hurt and stress that had caused him or her, things will remain the same mistakes.When your partner is listen to your partners nose in it for them to have a clear message to your daily life to be with someone else.Some people give in to actually let bygones be bygones.
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Many couples solve this problem by coming up to getting help for their marriage did not work, then they go for therapy or you only have one week to save a marriage is an investment.The sign of failure marriage reminiscent of unresolved conflicts, extra-marital affairs, frequent fights, trial separations, etc. The one thing that I think so.Rule 1 - Consider how urgent your problem can you do to keep it light and happy, even if it's a good marriage counselor or therapist when their ideas to help save your marriage is that most couples don't want to cheat on me?More often than not, you will find friends and family back home, you should conclude that divorce is nearly on the matter, get help from marriage experts.Divorce is not really that important and it can be vindicated.
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