Done with the funeral 👍
It was rough at first, & there were a few Strange moments (like seeing my ex step family for the first time in like 8 years), but... in the end, it was actually kind of nice? I cried 3 times total, two during the service, but Thankfully not during when I spoke.
Which. That was actually not that bad. I ended up just reading what I wrote last night/this morning, which is usually not my presentation style, but I didn't have time to practice it lol.
I made people cry, though. Several people shared that with me. One person told me that I should be a writer, and I was like "Well, Good News about That!" I hadn't thought about the fact that my experience with writing would make a good eulogy, but apparently it did!
We played Linkin Park's Shadow of the Day at the end, since Linkin Park is something we grew up listening to because of him. And I'm just always gonna have that memory of it, now.
Yeah.
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So my life is feeling like its on an upward swing since this is my final semester for my associates, I'm starting a new job real soon and also possibly have a really nice remote job if I hear back from a few places I recently applied to.
And it always terrifies me when good stuff starts happening.
Change is really hard for me especially when it feels like its all at once. With better pay comes the opportunity to leave my parent's house finally and move in with a girl who has lovingly stolen my heart. With my school behind me I can find better jobs even!
But at the same time, its just. So scary for me. What if I can't keep up my part of rent. What if my chronic pain or ADHD or other disabilities put a strain on someone I love to my core, and I end up making things worse because I get extremely emotional and will scream (at myself mostly) and panic during these high stress times (especially if money is involved)
I've had a 'safety net' of family members who barely tolerate the fake me I present myself as, and I know my mental health is going to be so much better when I'm not around them, but at the same time I need so much help sometimes. Family just happens to help in terms of shelter and food. It also doesn't help that the one other time I moved out it ended so so poorly that I'm still working through that trauma.
Hurting the love of my life in any way fucking terrifies me. I want nothing but the best for her always always always. I just know I can't always be at my best, its impossible to be. I will break at some point and probably scream and cry about how things aren't going nearly to plan and I'm so weak so often I don't know if I can pull myself together fast enough to not hurt myself or her with my untrue words.
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The trailer really didn't sell me on the Illumination Mario movie. As someone totally uknowledgable of Chris Pratt I feel there is a bit of an air of overblowing, but the sentiment is strongly true and thus understandably has that air.
We do not respect voice actors, consumer or industry. I wouldn't have gone to see the movie no matter who voiced Mario because that trailer was so copy-paste and story wise looks like it won't be about the cast of the Mario universe but mostly whoever is the most marketable. That and mario's design makes me sad. No strong feelings towards it, truly, but it makes me sad to finally see The corporate design of Mario for what feels like the first time.
Yes, Mario has always been corporate, but you at least saw a happy character who can show cartoonish but well crafted emotions. The artists behind it knew what they were doing. This is just the design I'd expect from the most corporate movie company out there.
Really, what the trailer and decisions behind voice actors showed me is we still haven't evolved past Uwe Boll video game movie standards and mentalities. No no, Mario isn't marketable enough, we need celebrities, and Minion Penguins.
Not one fucking soul wanted to see a Mario Movie for Jack god damn Black or whoever Chris Pratt is. They do not sell Mario, the obvious truth is it only pushed people away, not enough to matter of course, but it's just blatantly corporate and shows the rest of the mentality going on behind the work of the film. Why would anyone expect anything more than they've shown? Honestly?
No one wanted this movie. They wanted a Mario Brothers Movie. Not another corporate copy-paste with a Mario skin and generic casting that does nothing but push Voice Actors out of the industry for marketable line readers. At the very least share that ridiculous spotlight and money with people who's actual talent and experience is exactly what your industry is predicated upon.
Truth is, almost no one needed any lines what so ever. Mario does not need to speak. But no corporate ass animation studio has the balls to make something artistic and probably kind've difficult. The absolute bottom line is this: The fact every character that never spoke more than a sentence before, in the decades they have existed, now does because they can sell Chris Pratt and Jack Black. Not Mario.
Mario the character is Mario because of his design and voice work. When you can't even get past the corporate mentality that Mario needed some celebrity to sell him, you've shown you aren't making a Mario Movie. Just another money grab.
Look, it isn't out yet, I'm sure it will be a solid 6.8/10, but honestly, why bother at that point? What hole is it filling, what creative energy will it inspire in others, what about this will make people go "Oh yeah if you're a fan of Mario, you gotta see the Movie."
What I saw was "Oh, they played it unbelievably safe and not even correctly, again."
It's not just a lack of respect towards Voice Actors, it's lack of respect to the IP and universe, the character designers, he looks like a Gmod workshop model of Wreck It Ralph reskinned to Mario.
Feel however you want, the fact they're making the movie so corporately lazily is artistically frustrating to people educated on the topic. I'm not that invested nor have been, just annoyed that creativity is stifled by the creativeless. Seriously you can swap the names in this rant around with pretty much any Video Game Movie and it's just as accurate. We have not progressed since Uwe Boll mentalities. We just make them look prettier, just like gaming.
Incredible.
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I knew I had a backlog...but I didn't know it was so dire.
I haven't posted much of what I've drawn over the last few years, partially due to drawing less, partially due to the bulk of my drawings being water pad notes.
Since I want to work on and post some newer things too, I'll be working on that for a bit.
With a few exceptions for some more complete works, I'll attempt to post all the sketches together by fandom (or lack thereof) or theme.
Edit: 12/14 In the middle of scanning the scanner app has decided to stop scanning (I already restarted my phone last night over it), though I got the worst out of the way. Since I have a better light set up than previously, most of this won't need a scanner anyway.
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4/6/24 .....I'm SO sorry! The old habit of doing a bunch of things at once and then hitting a break point where I end up not completing something, pushing it into a mental box in a corner struck again and I've been trying to remember to look back over things and decide if some of it's even worth posting...
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