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sh0tanzz · 3 months

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hello I hope you are having a great day ☺️, i really like your readings hehe, please do Anton as your boyfriend reading soon, I am looking forward on your other readings of the other groups as well.

rest well and take care 💕💕

you are sooo sweet omg but here we go !!

Anton as your boyfriend based on Astrology

(reminder that this for fun and astrology is something I study for a hobby, these are all inferences based off of observations and not exact fact unless I knew him myself !!)

warnings: small mention of suggestive innuendo but nothing extremely graphic I'll only do NSFW asks if requested.

Aries Sun: Many people are "surprised" that Anton is an aries since the stereotype is that they're hyper and aggressive but aries men can be pretty shy + to themselves initially and don't expose their extroverted behavior till they're comfortable. Aries is cardinal, they enjoy starting things and once they master it will move on to the next task (Anton went from swimming to instruments, to producing, to being an idol what bigger example do you need 😭) before the relationship actually starts he'd try to approach but wouldn't just straight up flirt he'd want to begin a friendship or some form of banter/rapport with you. Since there's no water supporting his sun in his big six it shows he wouldn't be a super sappy "my heart bleeds for you" type of boyfriend but would still be passionate and serious when it comes to you as his partner. If you had a rocky past he'd try to have you focus on the "now" of everything and help you not loath. Has his random moments of boldness but they go as fast as they came LMAOO so savor them when you can.

Aries Moon: Many people view Anton as very timid and though he is on a surface level he is most definitely capable of boldness and quickly acting on his wants, yes he is a contained individual but when he wants something he'll shamelessly go after it. So yes ! he is 100% capable of initiating things whether its physical affection or if he wants to see you. If he wants you he wants you, plus, in a video he claimed that if it was just him and the person of his affection one on one he'd express himself more freely. Which makes me think if it were you two one on one he'd be super real about his feelings and his guard wouldn't be as far up.

Aries Mercury: Yes. the headcanons that anton would spam your phone with tiktoks and memes are true. He wouldn't be afraid of hitting you up frequently and seeming "needy" like he loves you duh ofc he's gonna text you literally at any given opportunity. Would probably have your post notifs on and would be the FIRSTTT person to like your post and story. He'd be very honest and straightforward when communicating so you wouldn't have to worry about reading in between the lines or having to guess about what's going on between you two.

Taurus Venus: He could have short lived phases of being possessive and literally viewing you as "his person". He wouldn't want the relationship to continuously rush into new bases he'd want it to have a natural flow and wouldn't rush you into anything but would still want to know where you stood on certain things and be in the know (his aries stellium influence, he welcomes change and newness but, as said before, wants it to come naturally and at a certain pace). He'd be sure to be someone you could rely and depend on and would be as patient as possible with you. Would express his love through physical touch such as cuddling, resting his head on your shoulder, napping together and through spoiling you like paying for your meal, sending/bringing food and random valuable gifts at whatever time. HE JUST WANTS TO TREAT YOU RIGHHTT. Also would be very sentimental like he'd have photos, songs, posts and things saved or kept from when you two first met or started dating. He'd make the relationship so domestic oml. Ngl due to taurus venuses need for natural build up and the childish friendly nature of his aries placements he's probably a sucker for the friends to lover trope me thinks 😭

Gemini Mars: Oh he'd just love having one on one talks with you about anything interesting under the sun none of the convos would be surface level or shallow. He'd also flirt SM THROUGH TEXT every gemini mars dude I've known gets so flirty otp. Plus you wouldn't have to worry about the relationship having an air of monotony either. People claim that gemini mars people can be hot and cold but I don't think that's the case I think they're just aware that sometimes for a healthy relationship space is properly needed, so he'd let you have time to yourself/himself but with his taurus venus during these periods you wouldn't feel alone or abandoned because he'd still be there for you. Similar to Wonbin he could find your voice very attractive or a turn on. Gemini rules the hands, arms and shoulders so he may kiss you there or like to have some physical contact with them. Gemini also rules the lungs and nervous system so he might try to 'take your breath away'...take that as you will LOL.

Other Aspects:

Moon/Neptune Sextile: He is hyperaware of the feelings and emotions of those around him no matter how subtle they seem and also uses music as a vice so he'd use it to connect with you.

Venus trine Jupiter: He's naturally a giver and wouldn't be overly forceful, He honestly would nurture the relationship as much as he possibly could.

Potential Toxicity: (reminder that any/everyone is capable of having toxic or negative traits, these could be POTENTIALLY true)

Venus/Square Neptune: Is willing to go LENGTHS for a partner/people he loves but may take things a bit too far or do "too much" and once you try to explain that though you appreciate his efforts it's a bit much he may take it the wrong way and feel unappreciated or used.

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paraliveimaginesblog · 1 year

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jealous headcanons please!! how would they be if they were jealous or something like that, for shiki, anne, kanata and shogo 💖 thanks for writing for paralive :3

(I did write some other jealousy stuff for Kanata in the plant meme so check there as well!)

Anne Faulkner:

Anne is vocal but not necessarily direct, asking why you weren’t giving them as much attention as you used to. They might jokingly make a comment about you being disinterested in them, twirling their hair around their finger, but you can see there’s a hint of hurt behind their eyes. They were confident in their beauty but your relationship might still be fragile, especially since Anne once dealt with someone who was never satisfied with them existing as they were. They’re not willing to ‘change’ to make you happy but if there’s something they’ve been neglecting in regards to your needs, they much rather you talk to them about it compared to running to another person.

Kanata Yatonokami:

Kanata is still trying to find that perfect balance in your relationship. Since you were the person he loved he wanted to be around you at all times, and it was hard for him to find things to do with you not around (if Nayuta was also busy). He gets annoyed easily when people are too friendly with you right off the bat or try to hit on you in front of him, making it known he was your boyfriend every time you entered a situation together so there would be no confusion.

Shiki Ando:

Shiki was still reeling from the fact you even wanted to date him, that he was deserving of your romantic attention, but the jealousy really comes crashing down over him. He thinks it’s selfish of him to want all of your attention and that you might just be being friendly, but he can’t help but wonder if you’ll find someone else better. Someone more extroverted and outwardly confident, who knew how to treat you and didn’t constantly fumble over his words… It really just sends Shiki into a depressed episode where he can’t even look you in the eye, unable to bring up the topic in fear of total rejection.

Shogo Yamato:

Shogo feels like he’s used to others implying you were using him to get to his father, or just trying to get fame of your own, that was an issue that was easily overcome by open communication between you. But the thought of you wanting to be with another man made him sick to his stomach, so much so that he could hardly look you in the eye after being told you were ‘flirting’ with another person. It’s not easy to reach him when he’s in a depressed mood as he can only see the negative about your relationship, wondering the tabloids were right about him being better off focusing on his future. He shakes those thoughts off and feels guilty after, knowing they were all formed over a situation he had no details on.

#Paradox Live #Paralive #Paradox Live Imagines #Paralive Imagines #Paradox Live x Reader #Paralive x Reader #Anne Faulkner #Kanata Yatonokami #Shiki Ando #Shogo Yamato #Anne Faulkner x Reader #Kanata Yatonokami x Reader #Shiki Ando x Reader #Shogo Yamato x Reader

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mcflymemes · 1 year

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👋 hi, i'm CHUCKLES ( she/her ), and this is my sideblog for roleplay and dialogue prompts. i've been in the tumblr rp community since late 2012, and i love memes!! feel free to reblog as many posts as you'd like and send in requests for anything in particular you'd like to see . . . in the future ⚡️

please do not repost my memes or add anything to them. this blog does NOT use any form of AI to create or edit its prompt lists; this blog is aggressively anti-ai.

MEME REQUESTS ARE: OPEN

more in depth headcanon questions

#dni #dnr #pinned

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noakun · 1 year

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Hi :) Your art is very cool, specially the colors

I was wondering if you could write some headcanons about Team Rocket Elite Trio, they're pretty underrated

Thanks ^^

Hello!! Thank you so much for the ask, I'll be more than glad to write something for them :> In terms of general headcanons:

Ken

Ken could best be described as a responsible and caring older brother figure to everyone in Team Rocket, even though he can be aggressive and strict from time to time in order to maintain discipline and keep missions in motion.

Despite his size and looks, he's respectful, considerate and really pleasant to talk to.

Can be kind when handling others' mistakes, unless he's faced with an uncooperative individual or is under a lot of pressure (which is more often than not exerted by Lt. Surge).

Speaking of Lt. Surge, as merciless and evil as the man is, one of Ken's biggest wishes is to receive his validation for being a good member of the team (and trying his best!). That, unfortunately, rarely happens.

Alongside Al and Harry, he deems Team Rocket his family, a community he belongs in, one he should protect and support in any way possible, no matter what he has to do in order to achieve that goal.

Desperately searching for a father figure after the early loss of his own.

Jokingly started calling Giovanni "dad" when talking to Al and Harry. (It's barely a joke anymore. Also, the nickname is now used by the other two as well.)

Really likes Pokémon!

His everyday outfit consists of a flannel, cargo pants and comfortable footwear. He has a LOT of flannels.

Coffee addict.

Al

Al is short. Short-tempered as well, actually. Nobody makes a big deal out of his height other than himself.

He's quick to speak his mind, and will make sure you know how irritated and disgruntled he is at the smallest of things that bother him, making him talk a lot.

On the flip side, he's honest about things he enjoys and admires about others too. If he likes what you're wearing or how you look on a particular day for example, he'll be the first to tell you and shower you with compliments and ideas on how to improve an aspect even further.

He rarely takes off his hat, and even when he does, he's simply fixing his hair before putting it back on. Very insecure about his appearance.

Rational and logical about other things and is a great problem solver, so people flock to him with questions and personal issues. He gets annoyed with it more often than not, but he'll help out regardless.

Has a bad habit of biting his nails, especially when he's been bottling up stress.

Surprisingly, he doesn't have a lot of close friends despite being social, so he sticks to Ken and Harry.

Has a thing for fashion and owns many pieces of clothing. A lot of them are hats and colorful shirts.

Likes playing cards and other luck based games.

Harry

Harry is the Popular™ one, and you'll most likely find him on some kind of party when he's off duty.

Made a group chat with Ken and Al so he could spam them with memes and hourly life updates. Al replies to everything individually and has a lot to say, while Ken keeps the messages short and brief ("lmao", "so true", etc.)

A big flirt, has had a lot of romantic partners in the past, but got heartbroken every single time (that doesn't stop him from pursuing The One™ in the future).

Agile and fast, has been training a lot, enhancing his stamina, and is able to outrun most of Team Rocket.

He's hyperfixated on Hatsune Miku and likes other anime-styled media. If you ask him about it, he won't shut up for hours. Owns a lot of (stolen) merch. His favorite Miku song is "World is Mine".

Self-confident. Doesn't think before he speaks and doesn't check messages for errors before sending them, leading to some hilarious typos that Ken and Al have been quoting for years. Unironically uses ":3" and variations.

He's the least likely of the three to physically hurt you. Can throw a verbal tantrum though and cause unnecessary drama.

Seemingly irresponsible, but when he puts his mind to something, he'll see it through.

Good at keeping promises.

But gossips a lot.

#pokemon #pkmn #pokespe #pokemon adventures #team rocket #team rocket elite trio #team rocket ken #team rocket al #team rocket harry #pokemon headcanons

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fabricofyourflesh · 4 months

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y’all i gotta ask a question because something just happened in my personal DMs and it’s coming off as clown behavior to me.

my head of HR at my company just recently quit but and immediately followed me on instagram initially with the intention of becoming friends. after a day or two, he started sending me vaguely sexual memes which were like….a little funny but definitely a bit odd in my book. a few days ago, he crossed a bit of a boundary and went into too much detail about having masked sex with his husband because his husband came down with covid but still wanted to fuck. in my head, I was like “okay, that’s a bit of an over share. we really don’t know each other like that outside of a work environment just yet.”

well, yesterday he slipped into my DMs admittedly drunk as fuck and started going on and on about how cute and sexy he thought I was and how he wish he could’ve flirted with me more around the office. he then started asking if i hypothetically thought he was my type and i foolishly said “well sure i guess. i think your funny and handsome.” and then he said “let me take you out lol” and i was like “whoa whoa whoa. just the other day you were talking about a husband at home. are y’all open? i really try to avoid open situations right now just because i don’t think i’m in a place emotionally to balance that out” and he finally admitted that they’re not open but it’s complicated and most likely ending soon and in my head i was like “okay so you were being dishonest with how you were communicating with me then, which is a red flag.” i’m also simply not equipped to walk into the wreckage of a marriage right now. especially because i literally just met his husband at a work function on Halloween.

was he in the wrong for not being up front right from the getgo about his current relationship status?? am i being too critical? also he fully admitted that he would’ve initiated something while he was still working at my company, once again with the knowledge that i knew he had a husband.

i literally was in a situation four years ago when someone i considered a lifelong friend drunkingly professed his love for me with his partner in the next room sleeping and i kept saying “no, this needs to be a bigger conversation that we just can’t have right now with the state that you’re in” and honestly everything ended up turning into a bit of a dumpster fire that i really don’t want to go into any further detail on. so that’s why i’m very sensitive to entering situations with more than one partner when the full terms of what’s happening is not spelled out. i refuse to be in a situation where i’m being chosen like that. it’s just too triggering.

i know this is supposed to be my sexy nsfw blog but i just had to vent about this because i think it really threw off my whole vacation and made me pretty upset.

#personal #heavy personal

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frostise · 2 months

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𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐌𝐔𝐍

name: venus

pronouns: she/her/they/them

preferred communication: discord because the formatting is a lot better for me to type on anyway. i don't mind tumblr dm's but i hate the laptop version of it blehhh

most active muse: killer frost xoxo

experience / how many years? roughly about 4-5 years? i'm not certain. started out with friends at first and then i decided to spread my wings and leave the nest when some of them retired from rp. still besties to this day🤞🏼

best experience: rp made me bond with my friends a lot! we had fun shipping, crack writing and making headcanons together. that was like the golden age for me. didn't take rp too seriously like i do now ^^

rp pet peeves: lack of communication in terms of plotting, as in we both have to pull our weight in order for our muses to have a proper dynamic with each other and not relying me to brainstorming because that shit triggers my anxiety far too much. i will automatically think you're not interested or too lazy to corporate. that's why i hesitate to reach out first. outside of that, i value honesty if you're not a passive aggressive dickhead about it. communication is key! so if anything i did triggers you please tell me. i forbid guilt tripping

fluff, angst, smut? i prefer angst. it's where i'm the most strongest in my writing skills. any kind of fluff is always welcomed! doesn't always have to be romantic. i love seeing louise being soft for once and not a sadistic asshole. i will only write cute kissing scenes, fade to black, suggestive flirting and headcanons but never smut

plot or meme? i like to plot first and establish a dynamic before we send each other memes. makes our interactions easier on my anxiety ^^

long or shorter replies? depends on my mood, really. when the inspiration hits that's when i write 2-4 paragraphs. i have the tendency to overwrite sometimes, burn out quicker than usual and rush myself. i'm trying not to be too obsessive with getting back to my replies. terrible anxiety habit

are you like your muse? absolutely not! i love her character to death but girls got uhm....serious issues. she's a jackass and i'm not. bully her instead 😭

tagging: steal it! fr fr

#˗ˏˋ ༄ ──── 𝐃𝐀𝐒𝐇 𝐆𝐀𝐌𝐄𝐒 〳 ❪ helluva party ❫#mobile post please don't fuck up my header thanks!

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nandermodela · 6 months

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I don’t know if there’s a WWDITS roleplay community… But if there is, I want in!

Hi! I just finished season 5 and I am CRAVING to play Guillermo against someone’s Nandor! Lemme be your vampire hunter familiar bodyguard please!

About Me

I’m Ari, 33, gay af. I love to chat, plot & send memes of our characters.

Post length doesn’t really matter to me, just let me know your preference on short 2-3 paragraphs or novella style.

I don’t have many triggers, but be sure to let me know yours!

I prefer to hold the roleplay over discord (add me: nandermodela)

Plot Ideas

I’d love to build off of the show (or an AU) with increasingly ridiculous scenarios. With some danger built in occasionally cause I’m a sucker for some hurt/comfort and fighting for each other too. I’ve got a few basic ideas, but feel free to send me what you’re craving:

- The vampires win a cruise and enjoy the night life on board the ship (it could even be a cruise run by vampires for vampires)

- Guillermo decided to start training as a warlock

- If Guillermo chose to stay a vampire, Nandor begins helping him in his transition

- The Supreme Vampiric Council is putting on a vampire ball and not wanting to appear alone, Nandor asks Guillermo to pose as his date

- Harry Potter AU with Nandor as the Defense Against the Dark Arts professor, Guillermo as the Muggle Studies professor

- Hunger Games AU where Nandor was Guillermo’s mentor and now past victors are being reaped for the Quarter Quell

Word Bank

And here’s some general things that I adore to get some more ideas going:

- There was only one bed/coffin

- Leaning on each other to survive

- Misplaced jealousy (another vampire flirting with Guillermo finally making Nandor come to his senses?)

- Near death experiences leading to a confession

- Drunken confessions

- Overall ridiculousness

Reach out if you’re interested!!

#what we do in the shadows #wwdits #nandermo #rp search #roleplay search

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oathofpromises · 10 months

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These are from the Shipping Meme I reblogged last night that haven't been sent in by anyone just felt like answering them myself. These are the last ones I could see myself answering from that prompt. The rest were already asked or sent in by friends.

13.do you multiship?

I do multiship yes, but it depends on how comfy I am with the other writer. If I do multiship, the relationships are in different timelines. They aren’t within the same one at all. If you manage to like a character I write for but it says I am shipping them with someone already. That is only main shipping partner. I don’t mind shipping that character with others but the same rules for shipping will apply. Chemistry needs to be worked on, and the other writer needs to come talk to me about it.

Even on my carrd I know a few characters I have shipped with and my writing partner's tag but know that I am open to shipping others with those characters just it needs to be a conversation. Example though, Stella canon ship will always be with G'raha but if someone wanted to ship with her can definitely make a verse around that.

14.would you rather ship only with mutuals, or are you open for everyone?

I ship only with mutuals, this is mainly a comfort thing. I need to know that I can trust someone with my muses before any sort of shipping to happen. I will state that this can change if people reach out to discuss things outside rp and even showing an interest in the ship. I have just had bad experiences myself where it felt like someone really wanted to ship with one of my characters but ended up ghosting me. I eventually found out they found someone else to write a ship with that writes the same character and that hurts.

It's just..a respect thing. If you don't want to ship with me anymore please tell me versus just ignoring my existence and acting like all the writing we did was for nothing. This is a huge reason why I am so protective over my muses in regards to romance dynamics. It's awful being made to not feel good enough and the person doesn't have guts to tell you.

23.have you ever been pushed to ship something?

I have been pushed in the sense people would just send me romantic rp starters without talking to me about the dynamic first. I know since I started writing on here that my shipping rules have relatively been the same. To communicate with me, the writer. That's like a tiny thing..I did have someone try and force a ship with multiple of my characters before. They were on different platform and kept trying flirt with each one. It seemed like they were just there to want to do shipping stuff yet didn't want to put in the effort to work on that dynamic.

I think it was mostly some of my KH muses this happened to..which I do very light fluff with them considering they are still young. Anyway, that was one experience I can recall. There was one recently where someone kept sending my Ashley romantic stuff..and that ship isn't one I will ever write for at all. It makes me uncomfortable and people need understand that she is still young and the age gap between those two is just..nope.

24.have you dropped a ship in the past? why?

I have had to drop ships in the past, it's not something I like doing and other times it wasn't even my choice. This goes back to part of my answer earlier. I get super invested into ships that I write with friends. I want to gush about them..come up with head canons, verses and thread ideas. I even sit down and make the ship a playlist..I just want feel that reciprocated. Like I stated before, I have had people end up just ghosting me. Please don't do this. I am slow at replying to stuff yes, but I do put in the effort to each thread I work on. Part of me feels like maybe they just didn't like how I wrote the character, which again I am not asking people stay if they don't want to just move on.

The only other time I dropped a ship was due to health reasons. The drama I was getting wrapped up in wasn't worth it. I was tried of trying my best write only be made feel it wasn't good enough.

35.how would your muse react to someone flirting with them?

It depends on the muse, if we are talking about Stella, she would honestly be super confused at first. It's rare for anyone to flirt with her. The only one that does is G'raha but he doesn't flirt like everyone else. He is tender with her, which she hasn't felt at all growing up in the village like she did. Anyway, if someone came up to her and called her pretty. She could feel humbled but also shocked because it's a rare occurrence.

#— ❛❛ // HEART OF A PRINCESS ¦ Answered Memes・#— ❛❛ // MISSION REPORT ¦ QUEUE・

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nctjpeg · 7 months

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ok one more thing i swear I SWEAR and then i’m probably done talking about this I think

but UGHHHH when everything was going to hell i remember multiple of their friends being like “please don’t let this make you feel like you aren’t enough” and i’m so fucking angry because I KNOW i’m enough, and despite my deep personal flaws I’m actually rad as hell. I have 2 college degrees, a salaried job in the field I studied in college that people say is “so cool” whenever I talk about it, a decently decorated apartment that I live in and pay for on my own, I have a fantastic group of friends, I am constantly showered in compliments about my looks, fashion, dance moves, and makeup, my second language is Japanese (even though I suck at it) and I’ve been there twice, I’m funny, charming, incredibly intelligent, kind to a fault (until you piss me off), creative, strong, hardworking, considerate, and not to mention beautiful enough to reportedly make people nervous when they look at me.

What makes me so infuriated is HOWWWWW can I be all of these things and still be treated as disposable? HOW MUCH MORE do I, or ANY PERSON, need to be before it’s finally enough for motherfuckers like the one who broke my fucking heart on Saturday. WHYYYYY did they do all that shit they did if they were just going to throw me away in the end and WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK do they feel they’re entitled to? Deep down I don’t think they had malicious intent, but it feels so fucking evil to me how they met me not even a month after my breakup, I told them about what I had been through with my ex-boyfriend and my ex-best friend, communicated to them about my fears surrounding the mere concept of letting them into my life as a friend, and yet they still ended up treating me like that.

I can’t say I don’t know where I went wrong, because I knew if I didn’t get my emotions under control and stop asking them constantly for reassurance that it would ultimately drive them away as i’m sure it made me more trouble than I was really worth. I’m also really sad because when we first met and started hanging out I LOVED the vibe we shared and how our personalities played off of each other. I noticed similarities we had in our lives and related to the struggles they had been through. I had so much fun being with them and I was so excited for us to build and create a deep and meaningful friendship. I wanted fun adventures, I wanted us to watch our favorite movies together, I wanted us to have a silly girly slumber party because I don’t think they had ever had one before, I wanted us to craft our own inside jokes and make more silly memes of ourselves and our cats to send each other, I wanted them to tell me more about their culture, I wanted us to hang out and practice dance moves to bust out at the goth club, I wanted them to INCLUDE ME in their anime convention shenanigans, I wanted to go to walmart with them and pal around while running errands the same way the do with their bros, but in the blink of an eye it went from “let’s hang out multiple times a week and I can’t wait for us to do all of this stuff together!” to hardly seeing them, watching them flirt with other girls, and them really only messaging me to keep our snap streak going.

yeah I wanted to date them once upon a time, and i’m sure everyone thinks i’m hurting solely because of that, but in reality romantic relationships really mean dick to me. I’ve only had 3 significant others and 2 of those were in my life for a month or so. I didn’t start dating until I was 20, and all of my significant personality-defining relational trauma came from friendships, not lovers. In my mind, friendship can involve far more emotional depth and commitment than dating someone. If we had just stayed casual sex partners (which is what I was looking for initially) or maybe dated for a few months and then it not work out, that’s whatever. But for them to tell me “I consider you one of my closest friends” and then Not Fucking Treat Me Like It? That’s a goddamn war crime level offense in my eyes.

#lizzy's personal posts

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colorisbyshe · 2 years

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Just wanted to let you know how much I appreciated your post re: gay panic. I’m in my 30s and at least every 3 months I am explaining why using gay panic to squeal about your gay crush is minimally insensitive in places where older members of the community are interacting with them, if not outright offensive for how dismissive it feels to see it used so casually, especially when it is very much still in use in the original sense. Those below mid 20s really do just seem utterly clueless on this front. Sending you strength that people aren’t too awful about this.

It’s just so disappointing because in a lot of ways, some of the people most vulnerable to anti gay violence are young people. Young people of color, young sex workers, young people at bars or just innocently flirting are the victims of the violence excused by the gay panic defense.

Like the same way it’s wrong to dismiss the AIDS crisis like That Bad Thing That Happened to Old Gays, since it never ended and is still happening (again, mostly to young and/or marginalized people), acting like anti gay (and anti trans) hate crimes are over and just a thing of old or that they still happen but no one accepts “but they’re gay/trans, so effectively they deserve it” as a defense is ridiculous.

Over 1,600 anti-LGBT hate crimes were reported in 2019.

And I just… don’t get the disconnect. Because like… why don’t younger people care? Gaybashing seemed like such a real and prevalent discussion when I was younger but now so many LGBT people act like it’s all over. Homophobia ended.

And it’s like??? Is it because people aren’t leaving their houses and their only engagement with gay life is just media (mostly fanfic) and modern gay media everyone comes out and is accepted by all their friends and their parents (with the parents maybe just needing a good talking to before they accept it). Like… is that it?

Are people thinking that since they wore a pin with their pronouns on it to 4th period lunch and came out unscathed that it’s safe for everyone else?

I’m just so confused as to what changed. Cause I still see hate crimes reported on here. Is it because we haven’t had a publicized case where people use the gay panic defense? Cause like… I’m afraid to tell ya most cases aren’t publicized and many don’t even make it to court.

And that the defense is in many ways still used outside the justice system—gay bullying excused by “well he came on to me” and principles who accept that, discrimination in the workplace excused by sexualizing gay coworker and acting like they’re sexually harassing their coworkers just by existing as an out person, and so many more micro examples.

Even the fact that states are refusing to outlaw this defense should feel like a major blow to people. Should make people feel fucking scared.

And yet… nothing.

Just “it’s just a meme, who does it hurt? The main victims of the gay panic defense are already dead and don’t care.”

Fucking insane.

#btw the #‘they’re dead and don’t care’ thing is an actual reply i got

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sweetmage · 1 year

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For the ask meme - 001 | send me a ship:

m!handers to start!

Hi! Thank you! 💖

when I started shipping it if I did: On my first playthrough last year :) I was unsure who to romance and all of the love interests were in the running EXCEPT for Anders. But I was flirting with everyone indiscriminately for fun and uhh... the moment he gave his little confession it was all over for me. He needs to be held and loved and cared for. Romanced him on the spot.🥺

my thoughts: I have always loved stories about love blossoming where it shouldn't. The world does not want mages to live free and normal lives, they are deprived of even their most basic right to love and be loved, to know safety and protection. I love that throughout the romance love and safety are things you can provide him and I love that it comes full circle with him doing what he must to assure mages in the future (and even Hawke) can experience those basic rights, even he needs to give up everything he has to do so. (I play mage Hawke so part of my interpretation/view is shaped by that)

What makes me happy about them: Everything :)

What makes me sad about them: A lot of the aforementioned stuff of course, but also Anders's ongoing struggle with mental illness (on top of everything else in the world he has to deal with) and the way he winds up so isolated from everyone but Hawke. I love their their love endures and is completely unconditional and understanding but it does make me sad that, by the end of it, that's kinda all he has left :( And then, of course, the ending where he fully prepares himself to sacrifice even that.

things done in fanfic that annoys me: I don't read fics often but think the only things that really "annoy" me are harmful narratives. Like biphobia, ableism, demonizing mental illness, etc. of course. but I also don't personally like to read Anders-negative fics (downplaying the oppression he and others faced, making him seem like an unhinged murderer on a power trip, etc.), fics where he is needlessly tortured (not in a whump or hurt/comfort sense but in a sense that it feels like you're meant to be cheering for his suffering), or fics where he is an abuser/being abused. I guess I also don't like fics where he dies but that's just a broader extension of me not liking any fic about character death regardless of the character (too sad😅).

things I look for in fanfic: Again, I don't really read fanfic much. But! I think I would like to read one where Anders is once again in a safe, healing environment post-canon. From a writers perspective, I like to write fics where he is facing adversity, self-doubt, and people (including former friends) misunderstanding his motives, but is still able find healing, inner peace, and connection. So maybe I'd like to read that too!

Who I’d be comfortable them ending up with, if not each other: I think I could see my Hawke getting with Isabela since they are very close friends. I could also see him getting with Dorian, perhaps in my Inquisitor!Hawke AU. As for Anders... 🤔 Well, my Warden thought he was pretty neat!

My happily ever after for them: In all of my canons (that will surely be contradicted by DA4 but I'll just keep them as permanent AUs anyway) they end up moving to Skyhold and opening up a little clinic there. Whether that's because Hawke became the Inquisitor or because, when visiting to lend his aid, Hawke scoped the place out and thought that could be a nice, safe place to move his husband if he wielded enough influence for them to allow it. A quiet life where they can help and are appreciated and don't have to run anymore. A place where they can directly interact with other displaced mages and form a community with them, free from persecution and constraints.

who is the big spoon/little spoon: Reversible! I kinda also picture them sleeping face to face all tangled up sometimes or one of them flopped on top of the other.

what is their favorite non-sexual activity: Perhaps not their favorite activity, but one I picture them doing a lot. My Hawke is actually pretty mediocre with magic. I mean, he made it this far just fine, but so far his method has been "just throw a fireball at it and let the others take care of the rest" and he has honed his fire skills pretty well... everything else though? I'd like to think post-canon, especially when their lives and futures are more on the line than every, Anders takes the time to teach properly and Hawke comes to really appreciate and take pride in his magic, for all the trouble it's caused him. Though I see it often derailing into silly conversations or playful bickering. It's both useful to their life on the run but also a bonding activity for them.

#Thank you for the ask! Hopefully this is somewhat intelligible and not too many typos. I am sleepy tired while writing this 😅#handers #jun answers

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pressroletoplay · 1 year

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Welcome to my special hell <3 I'm Crash, he/it, 21, and this is my multifandom multimuse blog! Here I will write for multiple characters across many sources with other blogs via reblogging ONLY - which means no trying to start anything in DMs.

Muse Database (Carrd)

Rules and Taglist under the cut :)

RULES

Communicate with me. Whether it be about potential plot ideas, just to chat, or if you want a plot we're writing to take a different direction!

Do not hijack threads. If I am playing with one person, I do not want other people jumping in and trying to take control of the story unless it has been specifically asked for. If you do this, you will be ignored, or blocked if you continue to do it.

Please be literal. I don't mind if you use square brackets or asterisks to indicate actions, you can format your replies however you like! But please don't come with one-sentence replies or *attacks you*.

Please do not try to incite a romantic storyline if I am writing a character that I do not want to write romantically with. If this happens, I will turn you down. (However, if you want to try to romance in-character, that is fine! just be prepared to be let down :)) Additionally, if you are under 18, please don't try to start anything romantic. It's incredibly uncomfortable for everyone involved.

I'd like to ask that minors under 16 years of age to not roleplay with me, or at least exercise caution and communicate with me if you ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe. I cannot help you police your experience on the internet, nor sanitize each and every little thing I do. But, I can at least try to help if you are nervous or need advice!

I will NOT write anything 18+. Romance will stop at kissing/making out, and there can be flirting but nothing too explicit. Please message me if you want to make sure something will be comfortable!

If I or you want to write a child character, please be mindful of the situations the child character will be put in. Nothing too violent or mature, please. Again, message me if you want to make sure of something.

In threads where fighting is prevalent, please ask before trying to seriously wound or attempt to kill one of my muses! I will not kill off a muse, but if I am comfortable with it, I will allow you to try to or to seriously impede my muse's ability in some way.

If you dislike a fandom I write, you're welcome to block the tag I use for that particular source, but please don't send anything trying to force me to stop or incite discourse about it. I don't care, I am critical of the media I consume, and your messages will be deleted or ignored.

I reserve the right to refuse to respond to something if I so choose. You cannot bully me into responding to you. You will be blocked if you try.

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TAGLIST

#[PROMPTS] - All RP prompts/memes I've reblogged

#[EGOS] - Youtuber Ego muses (Markiplier, JSE, MandJTV)

#[SCRY] - Inscryption muses

#[TF2] - Team Fortress 2 muses

#[OBM] - Obey Me! muses

#[MHA] - My Hero Academia muses

Specific tags for muses will be added below as they are added!

#roleplay blog #multimuse rp #rp blog #indie rp #rp blog promo #multimuse #roleplay #[TF2]#[OBM]#[EGOS]#[MHA]#[SCRY]

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fairymint · 1 year

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Name someone on your dash that your muse is observing, pining for, or thinks about when they post right now. Are they the same as chars you wanna interact with?

Self Insert Community Inspired RP meme

My ADHD ass with RSD demands to make everything as Fair and accommodating as possible, or so help me god my brain will beat me over the head- if i scroll by somebody without interacting (regularly), it physically pains me. but at the same time if it ain't Perfect why bother sending it amirite hahahahaha-

my muses have other ideas.

I mean, Felix being a self insert is a friendly guy, though I desire More than the scope of his wants. Meanwhile, I have muses who would prefer to goof off and flirt all damn day or be nonsensical and never have any trouble But Guyyyyssss i'm a Cool RPer i need to do cool shit!

like, i enjoy writing interactions that my muse would find unpleasant or even not what they think they want!

A typical Felix musing is *grabby hands*, he wants to date, adopt, be friendly and stuff, but he is plotting mildly. As a mun i can lean toward wanting to plot more than mildly, which could be too much waiting for him.

meanwhile my others have egos. They just wanna run wild, most of them are strong and wanna quash whatever consequences.

anyways did you know that ADHD makes decision making impossible for me

#ask.#starfoam #munday.

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savagecuhnt · 1 year

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○ name : Becca

○ pronouns : she / her

○ preference of communication : IM tumblr thing and Discord. Anyone can feel free to message me about tumblr stuff or just to talk. I’m usually always around. Even if my Rping is a little spotty, I am always lurking.

○ name of muse(s) : Rosalyn Von Greyson, Dmitrious Lazarescu, Aerian Dracul.

○ platforms you’ve used : tumblr mostly. Started here, pretty much stay on here. I do try to Rp on discord, especially if I have no access to a computer, but there are no other platforms that I use.

○ best experience : I mean I’ve had nothing but good experiences on Tumblr, save for like 2-3 iffy experiences with muns and their muses, but I’ve made some really cool friends over the years on here. The muns I connect with are always so supportive and passionate and I love it.

○ rp pet peeves / dealbreakers : I am not a fan of forced ships and “miscommunication”. I will say, My muse Rose is very sexual and aggressive BUT that does not mean to throw your muse at her in any sort of romantic scenario IF WE HAVE NEVER INTERACTED OR COMMUNICATED BEFORE. If it’s a meme you’re sending in, that’s totally fine, because then that gives me free reign over the situation of how my muse will react, which will always be appropriate for the scenario. OBVIOUSLY if we have not discussed prior to this interaction, I’m NOT going to assume our muses are dating, have dated, or even have had any remote relationship besides this first time meeting. It also depends on the scenario as well. I will always assume IF I MUST, that they are at least friends, But in most cases I prefer first interactions be exactly that. Unless of course I have posted a starter that points in a preestablished relationship scenario, or if the meme is meant for some sort of preestablished scenario. EX. “my muse cleans blood off of yours” I am going to assume the interaction is new, perhaps they’re meeting for the first time and something has happened, maybe a little back and forth between muses but nothing EXTREME. EX of what I don’t like: “Oh Rose, sweet cheeks, you know not to go and do things without me. Now get naked and hop in that tub so I can wash you off.” *proceeds to write as if they’ve known each other for years and this is nothing new and talk about your muses feelings for my muse* IF WE HAVE NOT PLOTTED, PLEASE DON’T DO THAT. If you want something romantic with my muse, I want chemistry. I want them to communicate and flirt and build something that I can work with. I want to get a feel for your muse and writing just like I want Rose to feel out your muse...Now on the “miscommunication part” If you have in your rules and bios that you don’t write horror, gore, smut, NSFW topics, then do NOT insinuate a scenario with my muse that you’re are not comfortable with. MEANING: “Oh sorry I don’t write smut.” *proceeds to write that they’re trying to get my muse naked and make a move and write in detail what they would do to them* resulting in me responding to the scenario, ONLY TO BE TOLD THEY ARE UNCOMFORTABLE. I’ve experienced this, I have seen this done to other muns, I have seen drama started over things like this. COMMUNICATION IS KEY, but don’t be hypocritical. TUMBLR CAN BE A VERY TOXIC PLACE and I for one am not here for drama or to be made to feel uncomfortable or make others feel uncomfortable. I AM HERE TO ENJOY WHAT I LOVE WITH LIKE MINDED ADULTS WHO ENJOY THE SAME THINGS. If communication can’t be had, then this is not a place to be. TUMBLR is my safe space as I’m sure it is for others, and it should be as such. SO PLEASE COMMUNICATE PROPERLY. HAVE FUN! DON’T START DRAMA.

○ fluff, angst, or smut : I love it all. We can do it all. of course if you’re under the age of 21, then this is not for you. I am only comfortable with roleplaying with people 21 and up, that’s just what I prefer. sorry. I’m 30 guys...I don’t want to be inappropriate.

○ plots or memes :I love memes! Things can go in so many directions!! BUT I also love plotting! so both. both are good.

○ best time to write : I usually write while I’m at work so 6pm-2am.

○ are you like your muse(s) : I used to think I was like Rose. Pretty much allowed Rose to rule over me at a point in my life, but now that I’m older she is very irrational and irresponsible. I share her confidence and logical thinking, but other than that we are very different.

stole from @gadgetmxn

tagging whoever wants to do it.

#mun stuff #get to know mun #munday

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mcsaiccfmusesa · 2 years

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PSA: Auto-Shipping

Lately, I’ve found myself having to turn down a lot of requests for shipping due to partners wanting to jump into a ship with little development ic or ooc. So I thought I’d write up something about how to best develop a ship with me. Please note: all of this information is based on my personal understanding and preferences, not representative of the community as a whole.

What auto-shipping is: sending memes or requesting threads of a shippy nature without both muns agreeing that they want to explore a romantic ship between the two muses. Additionally, getting upset with a mun who says “no” or “let’s see how it goes”, blocking muns for not shipping, assuming that a mun ships a canon ship because they write a certain muse, or repeatedly sending ship memes that drastically accelerate the ship (for example moving from flirting to domestic or NSFW prompts) without discussion. All of these things pressure or take the choice away from muns and muses about who they want to ship with.

What auto-shipping is NOT: This can depend a bit more person to person... however, from my perspective, autoshipping is not;

1. when muses flirt in character despite the muns not talking about the potential of the ship ooc. Having your muse flirt with another muse is a natural part of many dynamics and still gives the muse and mun leverage to decide if they are interested or not.

2. discussing the possibility of a ship OOC; in fact, I’d say that most of my ship development takes place with those I have a comfortable OOC relationship with. I have friends who can just come to me and say, “who should we ship with this muse?” and I’m all in, because I know they would be respectful if I don’t want to ship that and they would find something I’d prefer to ship instead.

3. asking someone either anon or not, what their canon ship preferences aew! I think this one is especially underused and underrecognized. If you wanna know whether someone ships something between two canon muses, just ask! If they say no or I wanna see how it goes, let them be about it. I have 100% had canon ships I wasn’t interested in until the right partner came along to bring it to life with me.

Now that we have a sense of what is and isn’t auto-shipping, what is the best way of establishing a ship with me?

I would say the first thing is writing a bit of the dynamic with me. A lot of people will come and ask if I see two characters getting together after a few replies. Even if I do eventually see them getting together, I might not feel comfortable admitting I see the potential early on because it takes away a lot of choices for how the relationship could develop. Wait until you have a few threads and/or several replies where flirting or potential romantic tension is present before approaching me.

The second piece of advice I have is expect a longer build up to the muses getting together--either in terms of the number of threads or replies. This is especially true of non-canon/canon ships. I love crossover and OC ships but they take more time to develop. There’s nothing wrong with that from my perspective because I prefer writing the phase where people are figuring out and admitting their feelings. If you look at my rules, you’ll see I don’t really enjoy domestic prompts or NSFW--I prefer the before the actual ship, ship. This can take many forms but I love a slow burn and I mean it when I say slow burn. I have one ship I’ve been writing for 5 years and in their main storyline, they still haven’t admitted to still having feelings for one another. Not all ships need to be like that but it shows what I mean when I say slow burn.

The third piece of advice is to chat with me about our replies and our muses’ reactions to them when they post. Sometimes this can help to accelerate a thread or identify a way it will play out based on the muses mindsets. It’s playful and pressure-free unlike asking someone to commit to a ship full on and it strengthens the OOC plotting and bond.

Finally, if me or anyone else ships with someone else who plays a certain canon muse, that doesn’t mean they will ship with every muse of that canon character. Sometimes muns have different writing styles that may or may not mesh together; that’s ok, it’s not personal. Sometimes muns will have different hcs for their muse and their relationship to other characters in canon that will fit together better; that’s ok, it’s not personal. Sometimes, the mun will have worked hard to establish a few primary canon muses they write that ship with already and aren’t looking for another; that’s ok, it’s not personal.

At the end of the day, this is rp and the mun should have final say in who they want to ship with. If you’re not having fun writing something, it’s not worth the effort. I hope this helps!

#psa #ooc #this has been bugging me #this is just for me personally #long post cw

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