For once, actually it's only been the 2nd time but-
I've remembered it this time...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY @xxtc-96xx ! YEAAA 🎉
It's a new age cycle for you to experience more events ahead of you! (Especially your birthday celebration lmao)
Seriously though, your Mew/Mewtwo drawing makes my day everytime when I take a look at it... 😭
Please keep making Mew/Mewtwo drawings, they're the reason I don't feel as depressed 😂
Oh yea and uh
Thanks for creating THAT Green Bean Xd
Here's a lil drawing that I've made, can't really find any suitable reference other than your pokemon trainer character ^^' (Ft. Mega Huey)
Hope you liked it ^^
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In retrospect i think a lot of my aversion to people hitting on me unprompted or right away or getting a little "too friendly" too fast has less to do with actual discomfort with that kind of attention and is more of a trauma response to having been used, abused and instantly thrown away by so many people. I myself am extremely forward and flirtatious when i like someone and don't think it will make them uncomfortable, and when it comes down to it i don't think i dislike receiving that kind of attention in kind.. i just have gotten used to it always being about surface level sexuality for them, it being less about me as a person and more as a freak that can fulfill whatever taboo kink they otherwise can't engage with, and it's never about that for me (because y'know... being an ace autist lol) it's always about feelings and emotional connection and i think that for some reason scares people as much as i dislike being approached purely as a sexual object. I think i would have been better able to fit into this environment of casual and friendly sexual/intimate interaction if i hadn't had so many people take complete advantage of how willing i was to give that and fulfill that role in exchange for basic human kindness and interaction at such an early age..
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I finished writing the book I've been writing for four years and I'm so proud and also thinking everything is shit and confusing but I FINISHED and it the feeling it's like I just eat my favorite food and I have all these neurotransmitters telling me I'm happy
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li tianxi blaming herself for her parents not divorcing and because they don't things escalate past boiling point. blaming herself in the first place for the tensions between them because she has needs and not everyone is willing to try and meet her with them. li tianxi choosing to look away and not say what she sees anymore so this won't repeat. but in the process just ending up enabling tianchen as he spirals down and down.
li tianchen blaming himself because he wanted to fix things for his mum and do what she couldn't but instead he gets her dead. and tianchen just wants to protect tianxi like he failed to protect his mum but he doesn't try to actually *understand* her. so instead his efforts eventually drive her away because there's only so much she's willing to take. she didn't want to be 'protected' like this.
they've both lost their parents and tianxi doesn't want anyone to suffer as she has whilst tianchen wants everyone else to suffer as he has. everyone except tianxi.
wanting to protect someone but not giving them the agency in the decision. in whether they even want to be 'protected' in this way.
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Doctor Who "The Giggle" spoilers
It took 15 years but finally, finally, the awful pain inflicted by DW s4x13 "Journey's End" was healed in my fangirl heart. I'm not even saying that facetiously, my friends. Donna's ending in s4 hurt. The fact that here in the year 2023, Donna not only got her memory back, but she got the Doctor back? And the Doctor finally stopped running? And he found a home, found a family, and it's with Donna?
I can hardly believe it.
It took so very long but they got the happy ending they were denied back in 2008. I can't even tell you how happy I am right now. 🤗💖
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it's actually so fascinating to me that Brennan has created a character that maintains a pretty relaxed and mild-mannered demeanor and has said multiple times that the absolute Core of her is "FEAR" and how often we see this Fear manifest specifically in Avoidance; it really nails a relationship to that mentality where your brain fully Stops recognizing the emotion properly out of like, sheer self-defense from the stress of having to carry it all the time
I think this is also perfectly showcased in the way we tend to see Tula swing so suddenly from 'level and steady' to 'snarling Panic' and then back again - Just because your brain has detached itself from the Conscious Recognition of the emotion doesn't mean it can Actually stop itself from experiencing it. So the Fear is always there and always acting as a stressor, but because of that inability to Identify it there's no way to recognize or address it before that final straw hits and your bodymind jumps Straight into Full Meltdown Mode; but then once again, once you drop even a Little bit below that Peak Terror your brain ceases to process the emotion; it's like the most exhausting form of Poor Object Permanence in the world
And even if Tula is aware of this happening to her, that doesn't really make it any easier to deal with / address. Even if you're able to spot the symptoms Around the emotion -- chest pain, irritation, nausea, whatever -- because the Emotion Itself is basically impossible to find, you can't really Successfully Pin Down what the problem is OR a way to cope with it. If you can't figure out That You Are Anxious, then figuring out What Is Making You Anxious is impossible, which makes Find A Way To Make Peace With That incomprehensible. That's where the Avoidance comes in: you can no longer identify what might be a Dangerous Situation, which means that Anything New has a big potential to be Really Bad in a variety of ways (ranging "I don't Feel Good" to "Fully Lashing Out bc you've entered Fight/Flight and can't get out of it" to "Actual Outside Danger This Time") and that means the Only Way you know how to be Safe is to just Avoid Doing Anything New and Only stick to Familiar Situations, because anything unfamiliar is a monster of a gamble you don't know how to prepare for or cope with
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