#anon says

[transgenderteensurvivalguide]

To the person that felt like they were faking being transfem,

Sometimes, what helps me is simply just saying "I'm exploring" - I've found that trying to specify what, and who and why I am, often ends up stressing me out, more than it helps me.

So in the start of my journey it was very important for me to define myself very specifically, (Since I had the feeling that it wasn't "Okay to be me", having a label back then helped me get this feeling of "Normal" & "Okay", it also helped get me a sense of "community". )

but as time went on, and I explored more and more, I learnt that it was okay to change/grow/adapt & reinvent myself - That It's okay,,, To just be. It's okay to be like this. It's okay to be like me.

— And so, Specifically defining myself as one thing or the other wasn't useful to me anymore.

And now, when I say "I'm exploring" it feels like... how can I fake exploring? How can I be fake, simply by trying out different things? To try and figure out, and grow and change.

I think that's the meaning of identity, dear fellow anon, — To explore. It's okay to try out things, figure out who you are, and also, who you are not. It's okay if you end up being wrong, and figuring out that you'resomeone else. It's about what makes you the happiest, not where you fit in the "best".

Does being transfem make you happy, anon? Does it fill your stomach with butterflies? Does it make you excited? Does it make you feel alive, anon?

Then why not follow it? Follow what makes you happy anon. You deserve happiness.

I hope there's something in here that may help you, dear anon. (Or anyone else for that matter.) Best of luck on your journey. <3

Lee says:

I absolutely love this answer! Thank you anon!

#Lee says #anon says #questioning #exploring #identity #trans

[rachi-roo]

WAAAAAA!!!! 🤣 Friendo wants to stay anonymous for this post, but I've been blessed with some quality content!!!

HE CAN'T! He just can't do it! 😭 He needs his Master! Probably letting Iruma win too. The damn goober XD

"A draw 4!? Master Iruma, please, let me take the fall for you! I will carry the heavy burden of all these cards! Anything to assist your VICTORY!"

Thank you so much buddy! You've made my day! 😂😂😂🩷💕🩷💕🩷💕🩷

#rachi says #anon says #anon submission #ART #Mairimashita! Iruma-Kun meme #funnies

[workof-tortured-poetsdepartment]

<3

Ye mera dil aap lelo

aise kisi anjan ka dil kaise lelu?

#*jaari black market m bechdungi #paisaaa hi paisaaa muhahahahaha* #jk lol #anon says

[olivescales3]

❤️🌸 appreciation ask 🌸❤️

hey friend! i just wanted to remind you that you are worth every gem in the world and that you light up my day when you appear on my dashboard! feel free to send this to others or keep it in your ask box. wishing you good luck with all your endeavours and a very happy day!

Thank you anon! Have a nice day and I hope you continue to support me and my work! :D

Chima is beautiful and I'm glad someone also thinks this :)

#anon #anon speaks #anon says #writeblr support #writers of tumblr

[aromanticmina]

A qpr is just a close friend and no one ever explained it as anything but what a friend is so far, are y'all so lonely and freaky that you don't know what a friend is? You should go outside more

Why is any of your business how people label their relationships? lol

friendship is different for everyone,your concept of what a close friend is is not universal,and if people choose to label their relationship with someone a qpr is because they feel that what they have is different from any of their friendships.

sometimes the labels of "romantic" or "platonic" don't quite fit,relationships and feelings are complex and if you can't understand that,then you're the one who sould go outside more.

#ask #anon says #qpr #queerplatonic #I barely get any asks and when I do I get this? #also #thank u for calling me freaky anon I'll take that as a compliment ♡

[sri-rachaa]

hi there!! your vincent makes my bones vibrate <3

hi hello !!! and if you’re in the west, goodmorning !!

anything vincent makes my bones vibrate as well

,,,,,,ahah,,,,,,,,,vincent <33333333

BUT I’m so happy you like my design of him !!! I really like to think with the revival of late 90’s hairstyles recently Vincent embraced his late 90’s/early 2000’s look <33

anyways!! thank you so much again !!! hugs <33

#redacted asmr #anon says

[girlwithwolftatoo]

I'm not the one who asked about the Steven hate sex hc but it made me think...if you pushed enough of his buttons he can get rough

Let's say it was a tough work day for both of you Donna treated him like shit and all the way home he's talking about her meanwhile you're tired from your awful job and honestly you're so done with the Donna conversation, you arrive at home and he's still talking one thing leads to the other and now you guys are fighting, perhaps you tell him he should "man up" and stand up to himself and stop complaining.....outch that must hurt and you can see that on his face and before you even apologize he's out of the apartment when he's out Marc and Jake try to soothe things and tell him to prove you wrong with the perfect amount of hurt , encouragement and perhaps some alcohol, Steven would go back to you and want to show you how can he "man up" perhaps with some help from Marc and Jake.

Dom!Steven is something we don't see very often...

Yes, perhaps my idea of him trying to be calmed and reasonable the whole time is very partial, we know he has a fang when it's needed.

Marc and Jake giving him instructions from the back it's something that may happen, surely, and he'd find it interesting having you moaning and squirming while he viciously whispers in your ear "is this man up enough for you, love?"

#steven grant #steven x reader #anon says #steven with a v #moon knight

[cheerstotheelites-if]

respectfully, mc's dad is hot.

also, i've been wondering, since eliseo and fleur... lowkey hate eachother... how would they react when they see that mc is crushing on/has a thing with their ex? (or maybe this is a spoiler and i shouldn't have asked LMAOOO SORRY)

Respectfully… Zeke is a dilf so… *Coughs in character design*

And lmao dear anon your question IS in spoiler territory so no answer for that!

#general #RO ask #Fleur #Eliseo #Zeke #anon says #Zeke is hot

[lokisgoodgirl]

I ccan't believe you finished that seven minutes req where you did. GIVE THE GIRL A BREAK FGS oml 😳❤️🥵

Thems the breaks, sorry boo 😌😊😇

#Anon says #Get in my cupboard #And finish the job #hot loki #lokismut #Loki fanfic

[rachi-roo]

DID TUMBLR DELETE THE FIRST BOOP BOOTH DRAWING BECAUSE I CANT FIND IT (little disappointed because I wanted to look at it again ahem anyway) I THINK IT DID YOU MIGHT WANNA CHECK

IT DID! 😭 I've been having some real issues with tumblr deleting/ swallowing up my posts lately.

It gone gone. Poof. And I didn't even get to see the results.

Not to worry, anon! I'm taking this opportunity to re-draw the whole thing! I spotted lots of oopsies after I posted, so it's given me the chance to try again XD

WE WILL HAVE A CHUUYA IN THE BOOP BOOTH OR I WIL COMMIT STEP ON LEGO! XD

Love you! 🩷✨️

#rachi says #anon says #my dust bunnies #Bru 😭

[workof-tortured-poetsdepartment]

You'll be fine. Idk what's bothering you. But you are stronger than what is bothering you. Stronger than you know or believe yourself to be. You got this.

Life will get kinder but till then stay strong for yourself. Love you <33

...i dont want to be strong thats the thing, im tired of it all and no one gives a fuck, not even the ones who i thought would and im just very disappointed (makes no sense but okay)

yeah i got it, im okay i will be fine thanks anon

#Anon says

[aromanticmina]

what is your honest opinion on kiri mina?

romantically? I don't like it, it's not a bad ship but I see them more as friends (I don't really mind qpr kirimina) so not really my cup of tea.

#asks #anon says #raysaystuff #kirimina

[sri-rachaa]

your art is so good omg i love it

especially the way you draw vincent and lovely <33

hi hello my dear !!!

thank you so so so much !!!!!!!!!! im so happy you like it <3333 it means so much to me that you like it, in fact you quite literally have made my night anon!!! **hugs**

and trust me, much and more will be coming- ESPECIALLY Vincent/lovely content as they are my favorite <3

again thank you so much, I am currently virtually hugging you <33333

#anon says #redacted asmr vincent #redacted lovely

[cabbagegunk]

I personally think that all whale sharks should be put on Mickey’s Dick Smasher.

WHAT!!!! they are such gentile creatures why would you say thst…

#for people rbing this about to tell me gentile means nonjew i know!! i was saying they’re not gentiles guys .. #im shit scared of whale sharks actually but that’s not the point #cabbagetalk #anon