#because she's an extrovert and all

[13oddballbooks]

Not sure if anyone has written or posted this idea yet... (Miraculous Ladybug x DC)

Its a common trope for Alya to look up to Lois Lane. I've seen a few fics where those two actually interact, but... I don't think I've seen a fic or post were Marinette is the one to reach out to Lois. With how much shes done for the class, why wouldn't she reach out to Alya's personal hero? But what if... Marinette reached out to Lois for help? With Alya so caught up in Lila's lies, she lost sight of journalistic integrity, and despite the stress of the situation, Marinette truly does want to help her friend... Alya getting a cold wake up call from her personal hero would be just the thing to make her sit back and realize that she truly was becoming a tabloid journalist instead of one that sought the truly like Lois. Idk i think that it would have great potential for Alya to do some serious, long-term character growth, and have her start thinking more and reacting less. She'd backtrack and start fact-checking before posting whatever was said to her. Of course this wouldn't be an overnight fix it, and it not a salt fic either. Just the slow, dawning realization that just because someone who is nice to her and makes promises (that she also realizes always end up falling through or passed onto another to fill) says things, doesn't mean that they're true. That people aren't always who they say they are, and adult aren't the only ones who create damaging lies.

#maribat #alya cesaire #lois lane #mlb x dc #guys i dont even Like alya #like #at all #full sail can't stand her personality #what an extrovert *hisses* #but I think she could have the potential for some serious character growth #that kind that takes months of self reflection and research #and makes for a life long lesson #and just because you try to make things right doesn't mean irreparable damage gets fixed #after all- not even ladybugs magic can fix everything #the teacup has been broken but you only get kinsugi and not time-reversal #bo writes

[thebeautifulfantastic]

heard some people saying that hayley atwell's character grace is being set up to be the next ethan hunt and carry on the mission impossible series, and my first thought was "well, she definitely looks just as good in a suit."

#watching them together in dead reckoning... they matching #the only reason i'm slightly skeptical of this is because hayley has said during several interviews that she doesn't see herself doing what #what tom cruise does -- with stunts and all #she Definitely has the acting skills and the versatility and the passion #but she has described herself as an extroverted introvert and talked about how tom cruise is in a total extrovert and very #in touch with his physicality & the environment around him; and that's why he can pull off the stunts so well and so successfully #so idk. she's obviously excelled in the physical action part of being in a mission impossible movie and i she's super capable #but they'd have to set her up as a completely different person from ethan with her own style of leadership for it to work #instead of as a female version of him #also?? with the way that mcquarrie doesn't plan out his films' plot until he finishes filming i'm not even sure that HE knows how the #franchise is going to end #mission: impossible #hayley atwell #grace #tom cruise #ethan hunt

[tiktaalic]

Another pretentious post warnnnnning sorry but. hm. the articulation of this thought.

one. i feel like i do watch a lot of #nothing girl shows where everything's very low stakes and has ardent let people enjoy things with their brain off defenders. and i like these shows i love em. but its very much . 20 minutes of television. cool. 👍. im going to sleep now.

two. i a mcurrently reading a fanfiction that is the most play by play of a fanfiction that could ever be done. there's plucky Girl Best Friend. There's slutty Guy Friend who's like thats whats up love is love. what do you mean you're not dating. theres "so that just happened." and dated references . and mixtapes. it is Every Fanfiction. and. i think i am realizing. the reason that i never read plotted fanfiction is because most of the time its this. and it sucks. ive speent the last 100 pages going. ok. and when is it going to get fucked up. one of the characters is #SoNeurotic that he goes to therapy 4 times a week and is on antidepressants but he hasn't said something unforgivably cruel even once? if this was destiel fanfiction* there may not be any overarching conflict but at least ONE of them would be one. unmedicated. TWO. crazier than all get out. THREE. the most closeted man this world has ever seen. FOUR! have the sickest family background invented.

*passable destiel fanfiction. a level above bad and a level below good will hit this mark. good will also obviously hit this mark but the point i am making is that it's a fairly low bar that many destiel fanfictions leap over.

what am i saying. stream epota i guess. is the mesage.

#we're all friends here i can say i'm reading the andrew garfield jesse eisenberg rpf by the rwrb author. and i can say i have spent the #entire time going ok. how do you take a man who has openly said he has an oedipus complex and is dating his girlfriend because she look lik #his mom. and make him boring. oh because we're doing Every Fanfiction. sure. fine i guess. lets make one of them #awkward but not TOO awkward and demisexual. and one of them extroverted manic pixie dream girl pansexual. #because we gotta wrap this up quick we have a ya romance novel to write after this. #etxt

[ciderjacks]

why are these the same couple

#ok. like. guess which ship im talking about here: #Guy is calm and logical but also very obviously deeply traumatized. Autistic/autistic coded and has a lot of friends despite audiences #assuming he’s gonna be an outcast. Also trans/trans coded. introverted but genuinely cares about the people around him and displays #incredible kindness for everyone even though he is low empathy and comes across as an asshole sometimes. very selfless. #Girl(?) is genuinely unhinged and also clearly traumatized. Autistic coded too but its less obvious to audiences. worshipped for her #looks. not really treated like a person or respected at all. obsessed with appearing perfect because thats what everyone expects of her. #extroverted but not really. empathetic and nice but struggles with being earnestly selfless sometimes. #they work as a couple because the guy doesn’t really care what she looks like and just treats her like anyone else would #and she is allowed to actually be herself and unwind around him. which in return makes him start genuinely enjoying her as a close friend. #and they end up being one of the only people who understands the other. #guess. guess which one im describing. #abedison #saiteru

[doomed-era]

one of these days, I, glider, will go on a long rant explaining to you based on a single line from rhoam's diary and a few implications that zelda actually does not wear her heart on her sleeve all the time, also that she's a harmed extrovert and not introverted, also that she's pretty entitled, also that she doesn't actually like frogs, also that her interest in tech could be part of a scheme to forego getting powers completely, also

#breath of the wild zelda #botw #loz #for the record i think she is a extroverted feeling type but knows how to keep quiet #but she just doesnt want to around link because she's already mad that she has to be around him at all #ive jokingly called her the expositor as well shes so sillydumb homeschooled #i could talk about her for sooooooooooooo long

[ladyhallen]

I'm really sorry, that sounds so hard :((

Other people would mope around and be sad while the person is there, I'm the person who's going to be 'normal' and 'fine' and then when she's gone, I'm going to be very sad for a long time.

I don't want to make her second guess her decision to leave. I want her to leave happy and exited.

It's just that...I didn't even notice I was burying my feelings with fanfic until I ran out of my "to read" list. I was reading so fast I burned through all of them.

I can manage though...it's just two years...I mean, I didn't manage three months during the pandemic and we were separated, but this time, we have more warning! so...we're more prepared for it...

#I mean #I don't know if preparation for separation is a good thing or a bad thing #but we've never been separated for so long #and she's an extrovert #and I'm an introvert #and I am straining all my introvert muscles to stay and hang out with her even if shes draining all my batteries #because I want to see her for as long as I can

[tumblasha]

maybe i'm just being misogynistic

because there's no reason why i shouldn't like you

because i've met people who interrupt me before

because i've met people who talk too much before

because i've met people who travel to a country and don't know the language before

and they're ... fine?

there's so many aspects that i don't like in people across the world that just happen to be compounded in you. i value my friends for being people who Listen to me [1], for being people who wouldn't cut me off when i'm trying to say something

i value natural curiosity. if you wonder something and need to know the answer, why should i be the force that stops you from asking a question?

and your job is anthropology, you're an ethnographer. you're supposed to be curious and invade ask about people's lives like this. your Job is a direct descendant of the people that take take take stories out of people's communities.

but knowledge is supposed to be shared! the job can't be all that bad right?

and it's not like boys are socialized to ask questions [2]

and i'm jealous. because i feel like i have a delay in getting to know people [3]. and you manage to make people like you because you make them talk about themselves. you're able to invite people to your birthday party in a country that you've spent six (6) weeks in because you know how to make people like you

and how could i do anything you do? i can't go to a country where i don't speak the language (guilt). i can't bring myself to care enough about new people to ask them questions about their lives. i can't do it because i get overwhelmed and i need my ipad enrichment time [4]

but lately others have been catching on. they shush you when you're speaking over the waiter. they finish their sentence when you ask a question. sometimes they don't even answer your question. they look at Me when i'm talking and i put my hand out to shush you every time you interrupt me.

maybe i'm just being misogynistic. because you're a girl who talks a lot. i'm not either. and why should you have to burden my hatred?

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[1] i almost had a falling out with a friend in high school bc they acted in a way that showed that they didn't listen to something i said. mind you this was in my (soft spoken) era. nobody could hear me say shit

[2] it's actually Impossible to receive gossip from a man. they never ask questions! follow me for more fun facts :)

[3] historically it takes me two (2) years to find Actual Friends whenever i switch schools / cities / places

[4] everyone should play hello kitty island adventure and stardew valley

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tl;dr: i hate people who interrupt me or ignore mre and maybe i should just get over it

#also the valley accent makes me want to swim to brasil #i can'tttttt #someone affirm me and tell me extroverts are annoying pls #i usually feel a debt of Human Love to all people and treat them kindly because of it #but sometimes a slap could solve so much #pls don't tell anyone i've said this LOL #dash rambles #tipsy dash rambles #dash rants #i just feel like as an american i feel guilt over studying cultures not my own #but she doesn't! #maybe part of growing up is accepting shit like this? #i have so many thoughts that i think are just 'i am more oppressed in society and it bothers me that u don't have to think about this' #and i feel like that's not fair #to anyone!

[sailforvalinor]

😶

#oh yes forgot to mention that my mom very suddenly told me that she’s pretty sure that this guy at my church likes me…30 MINUTES BEFORE WE #WENT TO HIS SISTER’S GRADUATION PARTY #LIKE WHAT #he’s 4 years older than me but not necessarily a bad option I just…don’t think we’re all that compatible? #we’re both a little too introverted with weird niche interests I think #I am so introverted that I think it would take a miracle for me to date another introvert I think it’s going to have to be an extrovert #(though I’m certainly not ruling out any boys solely based on that trait) #mostly it’s just WEIRD because I grew up with him in my youth group you know??? his sister is closer to my age! #WEIRD I TELL YOU #anyway dating right now is probably a bad idea considering I’m leaving the country for a semester in the fall #but I am fully preparing myself for an intense theatre crush because boy howdy have I gotten those BAD before #when I was 15 and in newsies I developed a crush on the boy playing Romeo (yes yes ironic I know) and it was like getting hit by a bus #nothing came of that of course because I never do anything in those situations but in hindsight I’m not convinced he didn’t like me back

[bluejaybytes]

Cricket my OC Cricket... admire her ^

#my art #my OCs #This is from April actually but I feel like posting it so. Cricket <3 #She's trans genner because all robots are inherently ungendered and she decided she's a woman #AND she's autistic <3 #she's autistic by human standards bc she has no volume control + special interests + a handful of other very human autistic traits #she's autistic by robot standards because she doesnt think in Literal Binary #she doesnt really have any lore or story or anything shes just a cute OC for me to give silly little traits and shenanigans #her human girlfriend (also transgender and autistic) does Robot Brain Surgery on her to make it so she can run pirated movies on her visor #Cricket's extremely extroverted and part of that is because shes solar powered (vs introverted robots who need to charge via cables) #her 'ponytail' is a magnet stuck to the back of her head

[peapod20001]

I like to think that if my tumblr pals came to my house, they’d have a good time

#random post #I don’t mean that as in ‘yea woo let’s party and get fucked up’ like no lol #I just mean. our house is a place where people get along #there’s no expectations here. wanna sit and talk? we can hang out and talk about whatever #wanna play a game? chances are a few other people do to #need to get away for a bit and maybe take a nap? we’ve got plenty of beds take your pick. we’ll make sure no one bothers you #hungry or thirsty? help yourself don’t be shy. we can always get more #like we had ppl over on Saturday and it was so FUN like ppl would talk all together and then different conversations would split off of that #we would go outside then back in. we had food and some ppl had alcohol #we were laughing SO hard about funny shit (like discovering that my sisters bf worked on the gas meter at grandpas but didn’t SAY ANYTHING #ABOUT IT LMFAO) my cousin brought his gf to meet everyone and she just fit in perfectly and so obviously had an obsession for animals #her and my sister were like sudden bffs it was hilarious. my brother and younger cousin ate at 2:40 and slept upstairs till 6:00 #and all we did was turn of the light and put on a fan for em lol. crack up at how comfortable they were #me and my lil sister were walking up and down the driveway talking and looking at the stars. the nap duo were pointing out constellations #when most everyone left it was my household and my sister and her bf. she played uno flip and incoherent with me (usually no one does lol) #and we laughed very hard at all of the adult cards. one of the hints she gave for sidechicks was ‘sad used to have a lot of these’ and #I immediately got it. it was fun. we blasted music from the 2000’s and ate bread #I slept for 11 hours that night lmao and I was tired the next day but I wouldn’t have changed it. I like them lots #it’s days like that that make me think I’m more extroverted than introverted. just because I don’t always know what to say doesn’t mean #I don’t like to talk yn? anyways I’m writing a novel in the tags but I don’t care <3 I just love us and I wish #other people were able to have love and fun times often #I hope this doesn’t sound like me bragging about my home life. trust me I know it’s not some shining light in the darkness or whatever #but it’s something. and I don’t mind sharing my love with other people

[dykefever]

exiling my best friend to the couch tonight i can't do another night sharing a bed and having not a single minute of alone time

#she will be understanding but i still feel bad because she's so social and extroverted it doesn't bother her at all... #i've been working the whole time she's been here pre much too and then going out n partying so i'm just so drained and anxious #i need to lie in my bed and not be perceived #also she snores!!!!! #laura says some things

[bun-parade]

Momo, Mina, Ochaco, Jiro, and Tsu in a girl band a la Citizen Queen

#jiro writes all the songs and mina is the choreographer #Mina is the most popular because of her extroverted personality #Ochaco is a close 2nd because shes so cute #Momo is the mom of the group #jiro isnt a huge fan of all the attention but everyone knows shes probably the strongest vocalist #Tsu is super sweet and cute and people adore her sweet but unintentionally starky observations during interviews #momo yaoyorozu #jirou kyouka #tsuyu asui #ochako uraraka #mina ashido #bnha imagines #bnha thoughts #buntalk

[saph-yells-into-the-void]

saw an art of fem!reonagi and oh my god the brainrot of bllk character as girls....

flooding my head cannot stop thinking about it. goddamit I HAVE AN ESSAY TO WRITE- FOCUS

#bllk #blue lock #i already started a character design for reonagi as girls.... #idk i think its neat #reo as a rich extrovert girl who is so cool even the girls are falling for her #and nagi most likely being a tomboy because she saw all the work that came with being 'feminine' and said nope #she had long hair because she was too lazy to get a haircut but eventually got so sick of it #because long hair is a pain in the ass to deal with (coming from someone with long hair) #so one day she was like fuck it and just cut it on her own #reo was APPALLED- #she dragged nagi's ass to a hair salon to cut it properly #nagis closet is all hoodies thats it. im mean its canon already but its a much bigger deal when reo asks what clothes she has in her closet #(i imagine reo very fem because of her mom and rich girl status) #and nagi just shrugging because she only wears like the same three hoodies #reo takes her clothes shopping and nagi is complaining the entire time #reo tries on a million different clothes and asking nagi what she thinks and nagi says the same thing everytime. that it looks good #and reo getting upset because she thinks nagi is just saying that to get it over with #but nagi is confused because she really did mean it every time reo DOES look good in everything #reo tries to get nagi to try on an outfit she picked out but nagi is lazy and doesn't wanna #eventually she gives in and when nagi steps out she looks so pretty and reo blushes like crazy #she has to step out and catch her breah cuz oh mY GAWD #nagi would be soo pretty are you kidding. reo would be too but nagi is the type that always gets overlooked #because she only wears hoodies #but listen just put her in some nice clothes a dress or something fix up her hair she'd look aSTUUNNINGR #reo just always looks pretty and nagi is kinda used to that #she constantly compliments her casually #'yeah i can see why you like her (reo). shes pretty and smart and beautiful and nice and did i mention pretty-' #IM SORRY I CANT STOP #just them as girls is soo #its not just reonagi theres a bunch of other ships that would be amazing wlw ships but these tags are getting really long

[nightsofvangogh]

Introverts having to constantly adapt for extroverts just because is a fucking nightmare

#yes im talking about myself #its the city festivities and last night a friend adopted me into their group of friends (all so nice no prob) but i had to go because i was #at the edge of a mental breakdown because they were going to a very crowded concert and my mum just told me i may have a fucking problem #she said that it was an opportunuty to meet new people and i had to talk about it with her because the fact that i am not an extrovert is #obviously a fucking problemm to them and the society #i hate my city's festivities i swear #i hate pretending i'm nice and comfortable being surrounded by people #maybe i should go to therapy after all #inesuke life

[caterpillarinacave]

Love that in the last five minutes, I have been, by someone my own age; A) told to shut the fuck go three times

B) been flipped off

C) told to go die in a fucking car

And got to respond with “oh! That’s very mature.” And “that’s the sort of thing we don’t say to togther people, becuase its not a nice and hurts their feelings”, because I don’t get to be mad about something

And that no one did a thing about it ✌️

#The worst I get to do back is talk like I’m taking to a three year old #Condescending. That’s the best I get to be when someone says I should die #You know what how dare you??? How dare you talk to me that way??? How dare you talk to anyone like that? #I would literally never in my life tell someone to go die #Even when I’m arguing I wouldn’t tell someone to shut the fuck up because it’s totally pointless and degrading #I would not dream of shoving my middle finger in someone’s face becuase I’m in middle school #I would never flip someone off period! #Notably I did not return the middle finger even in the presence of one right in my face #Because I don’t get to be upset #Hey you know my moms a nice person who tries to help people and be kind and perky and extroverted #And she also gets pissed all over and cussed out and also gets to respond in mature appropriate ways #Generational trauma! #You be a good person to everyone. Oh no they aren’t gonna be a good person to you. You have to be nice to them because it’s your job. #Once you stop being polite you’re a dumb bitch. You snap back and no one will ever listen to any of your opinions again #Stopped my mental health haitus soley to psot this becuase apperantly real life is worse for my mental health