Hey, I'm a nonbinary teen from Iowa. I'm also autistic, and have a hard time making friends. Do you have any advice on finding a queer community when you live in a place that isn't really accepting of LGBTQ+ people?
I know some parts of Southern Iowa are much more difficult for pretty much any minority than other parts of Iowa. Even though I am in rural Benton County I have experienced very few issues and I have been here 20 plus years. I grew up in Solon Iowa in the 1980's and it was in no way safe for me to come out if I wanted to "fit in" with my peers in school.
My first suggestion is your public library. Librarians tend to be socially neutral if they are any good at their job. Bascially they are passionate about supporting all sides of their community and nuetrality makes everyone feel comfortable in the public space. Ask them if they have a reading group or if they would help you start one.
I have found that I am most comforable and able to grow among lesbians who are most like me and share common stories. I suggest you find others who are most aligned with you. Contact a local or Iowa Autistic group and ask if they have any other teen/minor NB people who you can befriend. They are awesome community oriented people and will likely be happy to help you find some like friends
See if there is a local PFLAG. There is one in Mount Pleasant if you are near that location. Contact PFLAG National at www.pflag.org and ask if they have local connections or a group or resources. If you live near a larger city that has a pride reach out to them to see if they have resources or a FB or website or if they allow minor volunteers.
United Action For Youth and The Tanager Place LGBTQ+ Youth Center might be good places to contact for resources and ideas.
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Raymond Vaughn Banner, son of Vilas C. and Mary A. (Clark) Banner, was born December 16, 1937, at rural Tingley, Iowa in the home of his grandparents, Dellno and Lola Banner.
He grew up on several farms in Ringgold County and attended various country and town grade schools. In 1956 he graduated from Benton High School. Raymond graduated with a certificate from Grace Bible Institute, Omaha, Nebraska, 1959; received a B.A. degree from Bob Jones University, Greenville, South Carolina, 1961; earned a Th. M. (Master of Theology) degree from Dallas Theological Seminary, 1965.
From August 1965 to 1969 he was engaged in preaching and religious work. In April 1970 he moved to Des Moines where he was employed as a clerk at the Des Moines, Iowa Post Office from April 27, 1970 to August 31, 1992 when early retirement was taken. He had worked part time at the Dallas Post Office when in seminary.
He purchased a home at 603 N. Hayes in Mount Ayr, Iowa and moved there December 2, 1992, across from his mother, Mary Banner. Raymond assisted his mother during the last ten years of her life, until her death on December 4, 2002.
In 1972 Raymond became involved with the Right to Life movement and was an active volunteer for twenty years. After moving to Mount Ayr he served as president of the Ringgold County Historical Society for nine years. While living in Mount Ayr he attended the Regular Baptist Church and occasionally the Free Methodist Church.
In May 2011 Raymond moved from his Mount Ayr residence to a home at 410 South Vine Street in Creston, Iowa.
Raymond compiled, wrote, edited, and published a number of books on genealogy and local history.
He was conservative in his Christian faith, politics, and lifestyle. Reading, research, and writing were favorite pastimes. Raymond was a lifelong bachelor.
In April 2021, Raymond became a resident of Clearview Home in Mount Ayr where he lived the remainder of his life. Raymond passed away on June 20, 2022. He was preceded in death by his brother Eugene at age sixteen in 1963 and by his parents.
He is survived by cousins, distant relatives, and friends.
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U.S. Daily High Temperature Records Tied/Broken 8/7/22
Anaheim, California: 98 (previous record 97 2018)
Channel Islands National Park, California: 95 (previous record 92 2018)
San Isabel National Forest, Colorado: 86 (previous record 84 2018)
New Hartford, Connecticut: 91 (previous record 89 2018)
New Haven, Connecticut: 92 (previous record 91 1977)
Norfolk, Connecticut: 88 (also 88 2018)
Boca Chica Key, Florida: 95 (also 95 2021)
Unincorporated Hillsborough County, Florida: 95 (also 95 2017)
Plant City, Florida: 98 (also 98 2021)
Tarpon Springs, Florida: 97 (previous record 96 2017)
Unincorporated Maui County, Hawaii: 95 (previous record 93 2019)
Elizabeth Township, Illinois: 91 (also 91 2001)
Gladstone Township, Illinois: 93 (previous record 92 1996)
New Boston Township, Illinois: 93 (previous record 92 2006)
Guthrie Center, Iowa: 99 (also 99 2001)
Osceola, Iowa: 98 (also 98 1980)
Williamsburg, Iowa: 99 (also 99 1920)
Belmont Township, Kansas: 113 (previous record 109 1970)
Manhattan Township, Kansas: 102 (previous record 101 2000)
Plainville Township, Kansas: 109 (also 109 1946)
Plymouth Township, Kansas: 106 (also 106 1964)
Russell Township, Kansas: 107 (also 107 1970)
Caribou, Maine: 89 (also 89 2001)
Millinocket, Maine: 92 (previous record 91 2001)
Portland, Maine: 96 (previous record 93 2018)
Barre, Massachusetts: 98 (previous record 97 2018)
Bedford, Massachusetts: 97 (previous record 95 1949)
Boston, Massachusetts: 98 (previous record 97 2018)
Brockton, Massachusetts: 99 (previous record 96 2001)
Buffumville State Park, Massachusetts: 94 (previous record 91 2018)
Great Blue Hill summit, Massachusetts: 95 (also 95 1924)
Lowell, Massachusetts: 97 (also 97 1965)
Middleton, Massachusetts: 96 (also 96 1996)
Nantucket, Massachusetts: 85 (previous record 84 1980)
Norton, Massachusetts: 93 (previous record 92 2018)
Walpole, Massachusetts: 96 (also 96 2001)
Worcester, Massachusetts: 93 (previous record 90 1965)
Franklin, Nebraska: 100 (previous record 99 2012)
Hudson, New Hampshire: 96 (previous record 92 2018)
Londonderry, New Hampshire: 96 (also 96 2001)
New Brunswick, New Jersey: 94 (also 94 2018)
Malone, New York: 90 (also 90 2001)
Niagara, New York: 90 (previous record 88 2005)
North Tonawanda, New York: 92 (previous record 90 2001)
Wappinger, New York: 97 (also 97 2001)
Monclova Township, Ohio: 95 (previous record 94 2001)
Vienna Township, Ohio: 93 (also 93 2001)
Unincorporated Benton County, Oregon: 95 (also 95 2005)
Calvert Peak summit, Oregon: 91 (previous record 89 2017)
Cannibal Mt. summit, Oregon: 86 (previous record 85 1996)
Unincorporated Josephine County, Oregon: 100 (previous record 99 2017)
Klamath Falls, Oregon: 94 (also 94 2001)
Unincorporated Lane County, Oregon: 92 (previous record 90 1986)
Mt. Hood National Forest, Oregon: 95 (previous record 94 2018)
Mt. Stella summit, Oregon: 96 (previous record 93 2017)
Rye Mt. summit, Oregon: 98 (previous record 94 1996)
Santiam State Forest, Oregon: 89 (previous record 86 1996)
Siuslaw National Forest, Oregon: 88 (previous record 83 2018)
Squaw Peak summit, Oregon: 91 (previous record 85 2012)
Sugarloaf Peak summit, Oregon: 93 (previous record 90 1996)
Umpqua National Forest, Oregon: 101 (previous record 99 2000)
Willamette National Forest, Oregon: 97 (also 97 1996)
Providence, Rhode Island: 95 (also 95 2001)
Unincorporated La Salle County, Texas: 106 (also 106 2015)
St. Croix, U.S. Virgin Islands: 93 (also 93 2020)
Berlin, Vermont: 89 (also 89 2001)
Lincoln, Vermont: 87 (previous record 85 2018)
Mt. Mansfield summit, Vermont: 79 (previous record 77 1965)
Newport, Vermont: 91 (also 91 1947)
Cougar Mt. summit, Washington: 80 (previous record 78 2018)
Unincorporated Grays Harbor County, Washington: 81 (previous record 80 1989)
Mt. Rainier National Park, Washington: 78 (also 78 2019)
Snoqualmie National Forest, Washington: 79 (previous record 78 2012)
Adams, Wisconsin: 92 (also 92 1930)
Germantown, Wisconsin: 91 (also 91 2001)
Montello, Wisconsin: 93 (also 93 1984)
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