#but i don't interact with those shippers

[epickiya722]

An izuocha shipper said this:

Bkdks are just so transparent and easy to read. The people who rant now and want "justice for iida" are the VERY SAME people who always call him irrelevant to the story, boring, annoying, talk down his friendship with izuku and still havent forgiven him being rude ONCE to izuku in the very beginning of the manga before he and izuku even were friends (ohhhhh but anti bakugou people have to forgive bakugou ABUSING izuku for 12 YEARS, right?) and unlike bakugou didnt need over a century to apologiez! Lets be real, there is maybe just 1% of bkdk shippers who are really mad that it wasnt iida. For the majority thats not what the real problem is. They arent mad, because iida was "swaped" with ochako in the opening, they are mad because it was ochako and NOT bakugou! NOT ONE OF THEM would complain if instead of ochako reaching her hand out for izuku, if it would have been bakugou! Despite that there is no such moment in the manga between them! Its all about their shipping agenda. The anime can be as inaccurate as possible, bkdks dont care as long as bones highlights izukus and bakugous relationship even if its not manga canon.

What do you think about it? I'm interested in your opinion

And I am happy to give my opinion!!

Once more it's just other shippers trying to take a stab at BkDks and for what? Because they can't let it go. They're just bored and can't help but be asses.

For one, a lot of BkDks I have seen NEVER said Iida is boring or that irrelevant in any way. When it comes to other characters, I have seen a lot of BkDks defend them, Iida being one, Uraraka being another.

Hell, ask a BkDk who their favorite female character and most likely you'll get Ochaco Uraraka aka Uravity as an answer

No one is upset that it wasn't Bakugou that held Midoriya's hand in the opening. We're upset because once more Uraraka is just being used to fuel that role that it seems she's being forced into, which she doesn't deserve. She doesn't deserve to be a girl who only seemed to have Deku on her mind. A lot of her actions aren't even influenced by him and it sucks that others don't get that. On top of that, Iida, who a lot of us love, myself included, hated seeing his big moment taken away like that.

That's what it's more about. When that chapter came out that the opening is alluding to, no BkDk shipper I saw get upset. Why?

Because Iida is another good friend of Midoriya’s, he's also a great character on his own and it was nice seeing him getting the spotlight in that moment. It's like with Kirishima, BkDks like Kirishima because he is also a great character. He just happens to be a friend of Bakugou's. Do BkDks hate that? No!

Also BkDks and Bakugou fans aren't asking for anti Bakugous to "forgive" Bakugou. No one cares how they feel about Bakugou.

At most, what is being asked is not being so annoying about it and leave that space alone that does like his character. They're constantly the same ones sending threats, purposely tagging their anti posts wrong, commenting under fics, reblogging posts, etc. Like hate Bakugou, that's your preference and no one is forcing for a change of heart.

But how in the fuck (excuse my language) are antis going to throw the "Bakugou is a bully" card (mind you, who at the end of the day is a fictional teenager) yet do trolling and bullying REAL PEOPLE?

And!

The anime actually CAN'T be inaccurate as possible because all it's doing is ruining what Horikoshi and his team has worked on in the manga. It's why it's highly encouraged to read the manga.

I'm not surprised an IzuOcha shipper said that because guess what the anime is doing? Making IzuOcha seem more important when there's other things they should be highlighting like Iida's importance. If anyone is easy to read it's some of them.

BkDk shippers love BkDk, yeah, but most I have seen are always excited for the other characters, analyzing scenes about other characters and themes, hell, some are even multishippers so they do like other Bakugou and Midoriya ships.

Honestly, BkDks and Bakugou fans are probably the sets of people that seem to actually care about the story as a whole the most.

Ashido got a scene cut? A BkDk shipper will point it out. Shigaraki didn't say that in the manga and it's out of character? Oh, look that Bakugou fan caught it! Uraraka being reduced to nothing more than a girl with a crush despite having other great qualities that should be highlighted on? BkDks and Bakugou fans are ENRAGED.

Overall, to summarize this (it is long and I apologize for that, I ramble) BkDks in general don't care that it should have been Bakugou who held Midoriya's hand, I know I don't. We care about Iida's and Bakugou's significance to one of the darkest times in Midoriya's life. We care that Uraraka is also treated with care as she should be. If the opening wanted to have an IzuOcha moment, they could have! Just why make it the moment that should have gone to the characters that was important in that vital moment? They've been doing original scenes and whatnot forever, why stop now? Why take something away from other characters that are just as important as the protagonist and main girl character?

#and i don't mind izuocha there are worse ships #but i don't interact with those shippers #bnha #mha #boku no hero academia #my hero academia #kiya answers #bnha s6 #bnha season 6 #bnha spoilers #midoriya izuku #uraraka ochaco #iida tenya #bakugou katsuki #bkdk #bakudeku #💚🐇👊 #💞🌌🪐 #🧡💣💥 #💙🚘👓

[astro-b-o-y-d]

I don't wanna say that the Dunmeshi fandom is speedrunning towards that hyperspecific level of annoying a fandom gets to after a while, but whew buddy

#Hayley Speaks #I think the main annoyance is the ship gatekeeping #Like you know what; I'll say it #I can see the intrigue in shipping Laios and Marcille #Would I still prefer Farcille at the end of the day? Yeah! #But to pretend they have NO potential chemistry is silly #I was watching their interactions during the dragon episodes and it's like 'Alright I could see something there if I were interested- #-enough in poking further' #It's definitely not /just/ comphet (even if I'm SURE some shippers out there probably do ship it for that reason) #Also the whole thing about people shipping guy characters together being an invasive species is annoying #Those wlws are PLASTERED everywhere I look; don't act like people shipping the boys is going to suddenly get rid of that #Also again..........this is the anime where a rugged hairy man is constantly flashing taint at us #And we're NOT supposed to ship him?? #You're out of your mind

[cinnamon-phrog]

A mutual reblogged a pr*ship post and their dni is now neutral. Unfallowed. Bolcked.

#see if i joke i don't CHOKE. on my tears. because this just keeps happening #i'm so scared to interact with mutuals for this exact reason #most i've made have either left me. became toxic over minor differences or become a degenerate. #which is sad because i really enjoyed this friend and all those friends before they or i cut ties #but this kind of shit is unforgivable to me. i've had bad experiences with a friend turning out to be a pr*shipper #everyone flocked to me to fix their traumas but i had talked to that person often. it hurt a lot. they harassed people who harassed them #i was only 15. and i was threatened but what the hell is a sheltered kid SUPPOSED to do back. i wasn't taught shit #people in their fucking 20's were trauma dumping to me in dms and sadly still go to me when they catch wind of this person- #'i need support' you need to get offline. please. just block and ignore. i'm tired. #i should not have had to be babysitting adults and older teens when i didn't know what half those words were at the time. #months ago i did something stupid when i was at my limit and mirrored the pettiness i saw. i was told i would drive someone to suicide. #over saying the person was a bit mean and bringing up some posts i thought they made #i did apologise when i got it wrong. but got threatened with the person possibly killing themselves in my inbox. #this person and the pr*ship person were famously at eachothers' throats #i do not stand by the pr*ship persons' actions. their opinions on the other person were honestly right though. the only thing i agree with. #once again i complain about proshits and gatekeeps. the two are almost as bad as eachother to me #or at least two awful sides that have affected me and my ability to make friends online. #so that's what this remined me of.

[shopcat]

i think perhaps saying dnis don't work is a bit silly because well they do as the function of them By and large "work" by showing what you will and won't tolerate or stand for as a person and what you will be posting about in that regard and anyone who willingly follows you will know this and if they didn't read it and would be upset by the criteria on it for whatever reason it's their own fault. it's like a built in contingency as well as a statement more so for others than a big sign saying "keep out racists!!!" that the racists will sadly walk away from your blog with. so. you can't reasonably say do not interact x y and z especially for systemic bigotry that anyone including ourselves are capable of enacting but you can reasonably say i don't agree with or tolerate this shit and will kill you if you are near me, which i think is better than people just assuming so personally, esp bc a lot of things AREN'T just like, something you can assume. mostly i think it's just quicker to say a 3 letter abbreviation than anything else.

#🐾 #like yeah ppl will do whatever they want anyway but i'd say most ppl esp the kind in my dni for example #are very insecure and hateful individuals who consider themselves the victims and do not want to be quote unquote ''discriminated'' against #WHICH is why anyone saying something like pr*shippers dni works anyway bc they're so entitled that they wouldn't be ABLE #to follow someone who hated them they would rather pitch the mother of all tantrums than do that lol #and if they did follow or heavily interact despite it they have to put up with people being hostile towards them so well it's lose-lose #for them.. lol #dni's as a function anyway came from im pretty sure just normal etiquette culture in certain communities #like those banners and stuff ... ppl integrating them into their blogs themselves is a pretty natural progression but does come with other #issues that i guess other people are critical of but i don't really see the point in being so bc like well everyone KNOWS so who cares #like yeah you can't actually control who sees ur blog or posts / no one checks people bios before interacting w something #but it's expanded to just mean a plain ''don't follow me/talk to me or i'll block you'' #you can't necessarily be mad perpetually at the idea of someone you dislike as a person touching your stuff but you can control ur own like #space... #other stuff that's like sounds obvious/could be interpreted as pandering/is ''the bare minimum'' is like well okayyy but it's not FOR THAT #it's for saying you don't tolerate that type of harmful bigoted shit

[gideonisms]

tamsyn could say two characters fucked nasty and people would still interpret it as platonic. And they might be right, depending

#harrow & ianthe fucked nasty and it was platonic on harrow's end. tbh #i truly do not get all the (redacted) hate tho. people who aren't interested in other ships just don't interact with those ships #like if you want cam corona friendship content you just make some! #but no one's saying they can't possibly be romantic etc #if it was just about the level of problematic content then we could have a field day with every openly abusive dynamic that ppl still ship #or. hell i saw augustine/ianthe the other day. i've seen john/ianthe #that woman is a whole lesbian hggjjklll #like this is barely headcanon. hanging onto *not* being canon by a fucking thread. she shows as much interest in men as harrow #i don't get what it is about this one ship in particular #just make platonic content! most of the shippers will enjoy that angle too #i really like platonic (redacted) as well it's just every platonic redacted post ends in 'and here's why they're canonically confirmed #to be exclusively platonic do not ship!!!' #and that's just factually untrue #nothing is actually confirmed and i think that was a deliberate choice #because that's not the point. the point is their weird ride or die codependent relationship and it #doesn't actually make that big a difference whether it was platonic or romantic imo? it's exploring similar themes either way #people just have their preferences

[kakusu-shipping]

hi there! I just came by to say that I think you're really cool, and we might not share an F/O but we have F/Os from the same family and I just find that to be a fun coincidence /gen. Like, your F/O is Makarov Dreyar, and mine is Laxus 🫶 (I hope it's fine to interact btw, if this makes you uncomfortable in any way I'll immediately back off). I hope you have a very nice day bc you've got great taste and you deserve to be happy 🤠

okay obviously sharing F/Os is my absolute favorite, but do you want to know what my second favorite is?

Sharing media with another self shipper!

ESPECIALLY when they're related to my S/I in some way like you smoocha my grandson?? My little Grand Baybie??? I love you. Makarov loves you. Second grandchild. Another thing to bully Laxus over and maybe you too I love to tease

I had another anon at a time talking to me about their Fairy Tail S/I and I ADORE hearing about it PLEASE anon come tell me about your self ship with Laxus and any Self insert lore you have and send me reference if you have one?? If you want to fdjgkfdj

I hope YOU have a GREAT DAY anon because YOU have amazing taste and deserve to be happy as well!!!

#EVERY self shipper can interact with me but SPECIFICALLY #Those who share media with me????? Talk to me. Give me details. #Hell just give me your self ship blog I'll come ASK for details myself if you don't want to ramble in someone else's ask box #My favorite anon ever was the one who responded to my call for someone who Self Shipped with my son boy Neito Monoma #Self ship with my familial F/Os lemme be the cringe embarrassing dad part of your Self Ship it's FUN #You're so polite and well mannered anon Laxus is in good hands I see #Fairy Tail as a whole is just one big family so you could self ship with anyone in the guild and become my child #Anyway #This is everyone's reminder I am ALWAYS insane about my fellow self shipper #And I ALWAYS want our S/Is to interact and be friends #Even if us as real human people haven't spoken to eachother before #so PLEASE #IF WE SELF INSERT INTO THE SAME MEDIA #TELL ME!!!!!!! #SO I CAN COME BE ANNOYING IN YOUR ASK BOX FOR LORE!!!! #I love you <3

[ferretwhomst]

i've been getting a lot of new followers out of my gravity falls posts lately so just wanted to say this before . if anyone tags my pines family art as pinec/st or stanc/st or some shit i'm gonna get Violent

#or b/lld1p for that matter but i haven't made any art of those two interacting so it's not a worry of mine yet #i'm just worried that inc/st shippers might be on my ass because i post so much pines family shenanigans #if you are one of those then unfollow me immediately #i don't wanna argue abt the morality of pr0shipping just leave #proship dni #ferret rambles

[welcometoteyvat]

the rarepair pipeline really is just (wants to see two characters interact) (the only people who make content of those two interacting are the shippers) (doesn't mind them having a romantic relationship and thus is converted into the rarepair)

#xiao.yun...... albe.qiu....... any iteration of the xq cy xl ht xin.yan yj gang that don't involve xing.yun....... #i think the minds of koko.mi x raiden shippers are very large but i honestly haven't interacted with enough ship content to rlly get a vibe #yae.sara is also something that tickles the brain mostly bc the people who write fic of them give them so much depth its very nice #x.iao x ht too tbh #like maybe i haven't read enough gen fic of them but i feel like there are so many good potential parallels and a lot of them #are only present/prominent in the ship fics between the two. bc there the writer will have a heavy interest in developing both chars and th #relationship (in the platonic and nonplatonic sense) they have w each other #idk man i'm like thinking about why i seem to ship an endless amt of rarepairs and i think the answer is just ships give people a lot of fr #freedom in imagining things #since so much fanfic is like romance geared bc the development of a relationship begets a natural plot #like yes that's probably something to take note of in fandom that there's so little nonromantic stuff that focuses on more than 1 character #but i dont mind its cute to play w characters like dolls and make them kiss kiss fall in love or whatever #as long as they're a round character and not just used for romance reasons or flattened into like 2 traits im down #ramblings! #2 clarify i honestly think those ships i mentioned are really cute im just analyzing how one could get into them (neutral connotations)

[orihimekurosaki]

Rukia literally changed ichigos world, the same way orihime changed Ulquiorras Both those ships are build on the sense of equality I know ulquihime didn’t had the best start but please don’t get obsessed over the first few chapters where the story clearly shows Ulquiorra started loving her Ichiruki is just perfect Remember that canon doesn’t mean better so get off of your high horse You can ship what you like but kubo loved ichiruki (the saving scene???) and ulquihime (the hand scene???) and you lie saying over and over how ichihime was the only option since begging

Changing someone's world is not synonymous with romantic feelings blooming. Please grow up.

What sense of equality are you talking about? Because Orihime was held hostage and was threatened/taunted by Ulquiorra, he was abusive and venomous towards her. Remember how he specifically waited for her arrival on the dome before giving Ichigo the final blow? Fuck off, there was no equality in their relationship. As for Ichigo and Rukia, again what sense of equality? Ichigo was always stronger than she was which is why a tag-team between the two stopped being a thing before the first arc (SS) even started. You guys act like Ichigo and Rukia were always a fighting duo in the manga when it was never like that.

Both Orihime and Ichigo and their bond changed Ulquiorra's outlook on life.

Your argument about Kubo loving IR and UH is literally delusion that stems from bias. I'm not even going to bother getting into this with you.

Ichihime was the only option. We saw in the first pilot how Orihime had feelings for Ichigo with Rukia teasing Ichigo about being in love with Orihime in return. The pilot was scrapped, but Kubo still brought a few things over to the main series and Ichihime was one of them. Orihime was introduced with having feelings for Ichigo which later turned to love then we got the ONLY confession in the entire manga-it doesn't matter that Ichigo was asleep because the confession was for us readers to understand that her feelings have grown and blossomed into something more. Kubo could have taken the love interest role away from her and given it to someone else (Rukia, Nel, Riruka) if he really wanted to, but he didn't. Bleach is a battle shonen, and like majority of battle shonen, it made the love interest quite clear from the very beginning.

TD;LR

If Kubo truly wanted to make Ichiruki canon then he would have, it’s that simple.

#don't know why i even bothered with this ask lmao #anon is probably one of those deluded shippers who believes kubo is going to reveal an ichiruki ending any minute now LMAO #like he told us that they wouldn't happen in that one interview where he stated that precious nakama fits their bond the best and that ther #was no romance between the two. mind you this interview took place after the SS arc which means their interactions weren't meant to be #viewed in a shippy light. you losers were warned years before the ending LMAO #HANG IT UP FLATSCREEN #ichiruki chaos

[nebulaleaf]

heehee hoo hoo procrastinating things so i rant here

#this is all on my mind because recently i interacted with one of those like... twitter akechi stans who are in an echo chamber of #akechi/akeshu. and its just impossible to talk about anything because a)the characters can't be divorced from each other. akira only exists #to prop up akechi and be his cute bf and in a way vice versa for akechi but at least he's allowed to be a bitchy asshole/have more emotions #and its considered 'cute'. #b) in those circles there's a very specific interpretation of akechi that really grates me which makes it even harder for me to take things #seriously or speak when whatever we're talking about is completely at odds. #and its not like I'm inserting myself into akeshu convos and going 'wow youre wrong' we were literally just talking about akira and akechi. #no romance. just them as characters and about the persona awards and its just bah bah bah bah bah shipping #and akeshu is a good pairing but man some of y'all make me go 'damn its not That good' #UGH and that's another reason why i find it hard to hold a conversation about anything regarding royal. because it all fucking boils down #to akeshu and 'maruki being the no.1 akeshu shipper hehe!!!' thats WEIRD you know thats really weird right #and so tiring. i know 3rd sem focuses on akira n kechi's relationship but like. you can talk about it in a way that isnt sosssososohggtgrgh #running out of steam for this rant i forget my original topic i just wanted to yell #idk man i just want nuance. please. i think this ends up being true for any fandom that gets too steeped in shipping #but Fuck nuance is one of the core themes of persona 5 and yet people don't have any

[aetheternity]

No because wtf??

I was reading someone's DNI list and normally those list have things that make sense like dni if you're a homophobe or racist but someone deadass seriously had a dni with: Ittosara shippers and Ittosara apologists in there??

AND ONLY ITTOSARA SHIPPERS..

Like what did Ittosara shippers do to girlie I-

And since when does that ship need apologists????

#cal rambles #Like i'm not offended as an ittosara shipper #that's just weird asf like why only people that like that ship?? #idk telling shippers not to interact with you is dumb and weird anyway #like I fucking hate xiaoven and xingyun and zhongchi but you don't see me telling those shippers to fuck off #idk it's complicated #whatever it's almost 12am

[knickynoo]

.

#I am growing So Tired of how pervasive the ''Mammett'' shippers are in this fandom #i mean thankfully the majority of us here feel the same way about it #and don't interact with those fans/their fics etc #but it still feels like such an issue especially with trying to find fic content #and this morning i saw a post on here of a link to a Mammett Discord someone made #🤢🤮 #just. why. #stop #back to the future

[firebirdsdaughter]

Wait…

… I’m sorry. s5 tried to. Tried to make Mac and Riley a thing???

Uh. Yeah. So nothing but 5x05 happened, I’ll just fill in the rest myself.

Christ. That’s so. That’s so uncomfortable. That’s his sister. You can’t just. You can’t just suddenly announce that. That is very clearly his sister. Ugh. Yeah, no, s5 a disaster confirmed. They were going for cheap drama shots. Cheap. Really uncomfortable shots. Ew. I… Really wish I could unlearn that.

#MacGyver (2016) #Mac and Riley shippers do not interact #I say this w/ complete respect #I understand everyone sees things differently but I absolutely cannot fathom the idea of those two being romantic #like Desi COULDA worked it's more context and timing that throws it off #and I don't know her well enough #but this is just uncomfortable for me #they have a very clear sibling bond to me and I hate that the show tried to wedge romance into that #esp to claim Riley had a crush on HIM??? no #at no point was there ever any sign of that #they're Jack's kids they're siblings #the family that spies together #if anyone is married it's too Bozer and it's totally platonic #Riley has comfortably dated multiple guys across the course of the show #never showed romantic interest in Mac #BC THAT'S HER BROTHER #like just bc he's the main character does not mean everyone woman he meets needs to swoon over him #in fact it's better if they DON'T #Mac and Riley are siblings #they're Jack's kids #they absolutely love each other dearly they're family #but they are not and nor should they be romantic #and the idea that show would try to force that just shows how much they lost the core of what made it good before #and are relying too much on melodrama and wangst #season one was great season two even greater season three had good parts #Jack/George leaving ripped a hole from which it never managed to recover #and from there… just went downhill #like I said #just goes to show they'd lost sight of what made the start so great #thought they needed to add romance and nonsense to make drama when really

[puzzlebean]

Sometimes a fic does so shitty that I go like yeah not writing for this ship again. Especially if it's a bigger ship and longer than a drabble.

#i can write for so many other ships that i am not gonna spend all my time on stories people apparently don't wanna read #puzzle's thoughts #this sounds so salty #i am generally happy with my fics rn and the things i do #just some shippers are not good at appreciating a wide range of authors #and i just wanna connect with people so if people don't read or like it when i write for a certain ship i just nope out #there's one ship *coughs* st*cky *cough* is so beloved by so many people and yet i cannot get more than 30 kudos on a fic so i am really #reconsidering finishing and poting my longfics for them #cause whats the point #i can write my other ships that people do apparently like because people comment on those and generally interact #which is much more exciting

[complete-clownery]

Hahaha okay rant about this amazing fanfic (you probably heard of this one already but still)

So whenever it comes to explaining and writing under my posts I just get lazy but I need to push through this cuz I need to talk

So the fanarts were made for the lmk fanfiction sunbreak, that a lot of you (probably mostly shadowpeach shippers) had read, and it is amazing, I read trough it as fast as my brain let me and as you can see it has pleasantly scratched my brain so much so that I even (attempted) to make fanart for it

Ngl if I wasn't a major pussy I would try to illustrate the whole thing or make covers for each chapter but Im unable to work on something more than 2 hours and I would want those to look good, but good looking art (if I don't mess up) takes 6 hours ughh--- annoying much---

Anyways I'm not good with literature but man is this fix a masterpiece *chefs kiss* its everything its amazing, I was unable to put it down once I started it

Okay i dont think I have the brain capacity to explain how much I worship the writer of this masterpiece @ladygreenfrisbee , so i'm just going to talk about the drawings a tad

So first picture with Red Son and MK its sort of like an au in the fic where the whole lbd plot is somehow nonexistent and after Macaque gets to his sisters domain they settle down and raise the kids together without much of an issue aside from assassinations keep happening and trying not to get in trouble with the heavens

Id like to think that Gongzhu still wouldn't let the court tailors to put any form of red or gold on MKs outfits and only allowed the yellow after when MK was old enough to declare that yellow was his favorite color, but even now she would insist on some form of purple and shadow motives to let others know who the mother is

We also got baby MK and toddler Red Son and sassy LIF and Mac

Third pic with the lion: I don't know what it was or why but I just love general Song so much--- he's a major dickhead but sgvshshsevkdididhr (actually I kinda love all the original characters in this one, from the generals to the old lady in the beginning of the book, (gosh I also wanna draw some scenes from those chapters I loved how Mac and she interacted hshsjsj))

so chapter 34 was probably my favorite so far I re read it about two more times cuz it was amazing to see Macaque being the schemer he is and try to piss of Song lol

Last picture: its a sketch/a wip or whatever (probably not going to finish it but im still putting it there cuz its somewhat decent looking)

Its the part where Wukong remembered of Macaque finally finding him and asking for him to come back to flower fruit mountain.

I tried to make Macaque look more unhinged on this one but since I didn't finish it I dont think its that noticable so fuck that but I also gave him a halo like the saints to symbolise his suffering and what not (thought it looked cool and fitting think whatever you want about it lol)

And that all ((((hollly mother))))

If you read this trough, thank you and congrats👏👏

#clown does art #lego monkey kid #lmk sunbreak #sunbreak #shadowpeach #lmk macaque #six eared macaque #lmk mk #lmk red son #fanfiction #lmk #lmk pif #princess iron fan

[dagrimble]

This is a rant but just gonna say that stuff like the in/est issue in the p/kemon f/ndom is why me and bf aren't involved in the space and why we don't make friends with most artists who participate in it., that lesson was learned in a previous fandom space through horrendous trauma and toxic shitheads. Just gonna reiterate that we're not f/ndom artists and we won't ever be, we're just doing our own things.

#censoring words cuz this is mainly just a rant and i don't want it to show up in tags or anything #but yeah #literally seeing artists with huge platforms awkwardly scooch by the problem is way too similar to previous experience #when people bitch about 'well they're not hurting anyone' and bypassing the fact that pr*shippers lie and violate boundaries of others- #and that they're catering to an audience who use 'it's fiction' as an excuse to find siblings fucking or naked kids attractive #literally seeing people waste more energy bitching about 'wasted resources' than just fucking blocking or stomaching using their platform- #to just say 'this person's fucking disgusting and a danger block and be safe' #apparently the fact that this one in particular purposely hiding what they're doing and interacting with people who have clear boundaries- #isn't an issue and is just 'drama' /s #like it doesn't kill me and my bf to reblog a post or two warning people in the space because we happen to get some traction now and then #it's not hard but apparently it kills some people to just say 'wow that's awful lemme use my huge influence to keep people safe' #literally me and bf who are smallfries who just pop up every bit for fun: :/ #but yeah me and bf aren't f/ndom and we won't ever be because those spaces are horribly toxic and catering for the most part #and we don't make friends with huge artists because a huge percent of the time they end up being a pompous prick #and both of us can confidently speak from experience that that's how it mostly goes #also to clarify yes I know there are really nice artists who are in f/ndom spaces and they give off good vibes #i'm not talking about those people in why we try to not make friends with f/ndom artists #but yeah we do keep our distance from the majority because of previous stated reasons of trauma #because holy shit the absolute cruelty and toxic those spaces can breed is disgusting #anyways yeah if we happen to become friends with people in the space awesome and we love them #but otherwise nah we aren't touching the space with a 10 foot pole #rant