#gender is crazy dude

[bugisawesomeasf]

you fuckers are really hating on travis when hes literally a he/him lesbian, also the wilderness is literally a metaphor for girlhood do you really think it wouldve let him survive if he wasnt at least a little girl coded ?

#a bunch of ppl have said this in more smarter ways but i feel like the yj fandom needs to be reminded of this every once in a while #also hes just genuinely a fascinating character?? like he saved his girlfriend only to have to eat his brother #he ate his brothers heart RAW #literally that scene is so insane and underrated #like yall went crazy about shauna eating jackies ear (which fair because it is gen insane) but not over travis eating his brothers heart ra #(which equally as insane) #any ways sorry for the rant my tags are always so long 💀 #i am gonna make a more analysis type post on this once i rewatch the show #yellowjackets #travis martinez #travnat #(its not my fav ship but its still toxic yuri so i have no choice but to stan) #javi martinez #🐝 #also i get not wanting to see any men in this show about women but guys please he’s literally just a girl as well #hate on jeff or waltor or kevyn or the weird cop dude just leave travis alone 🙏🙏😭 #also not girl coded in the way some men are. hes girl coded in the more literal sense #gender fluid travnat my beloved they are so t4t <33

[0w0tsuki]

How long do you think it's going to be before "women are my favorite guy" gets unironically used as an excuse by a TME misgendering a trans woman.

#dj crazy times #'dUdE iS a GeNdeR nEuTraL tErM!' #like its a fun meme but you know its going to happen #misgendering

[chiarrara]

okay....am I crazy or-- Kirara's a trans girl, right? She's a girl. And for some reason gege (or the translators idk) are just intentionally misgendering her in the narrative?? Like I'm looking, I'm seeing her, and she's a girl. I'm not the crazy one here right? They're gaslighting me. Right?

#please if this is a big point of discourse I don't actually want it i have my opinion but if not plz tell me I'm not alone here #jjk manga #jjk spoilers #jjk kirara #kirara hoshi #hoshi kirara #I've only read through chapter 186 #so last time she was on page was before the joined the culling game #so if there's spoilers about her character from later in the manga just let me get there but #idk I'm not crazy here #yes gender is not only presentation but this is a character created by a dude with... #questionable gender representation habits so far so i don't trust that he didn't just create a trand character and then misgender her

[sadrockandwaltzes]

Don't Fall Out of the Apple Tree

some doodles for the song

I realized after the fact that the song made a lot more sense from the Finny pov...😅

#Tried to draw Finny with brown hair... I still don't know how I should draw him #anyway turns out the song's sort of a big deal #it has the record for being the longest top hit for a war song (at least in US not sure about rest of world) #And the song really just sounds like this kind of creepy yandere Mafia gf #but then I looked it up and found that it was originally written by dudes as a ww2 song which makes way more sense #Especially with the marching bit sung to the tune of 'the saints go marching' and the letter writing in the beginning #Crazy how just a gender switch completely changes the meaning/vibe of a song #I wanted to draw Finny thudding down the stairs but I'm not quite sure how to do that😅 #asp #a separate peace #music #my art

[ozymoron]

dude its always "be yourself" till youre trans and now suddenly oh i get to nitpick every little thing about you oh that gesture was very feminine made you look like a girl oh youre wearing a shirt thats cream coloured? seems a little feminine to me oh you paint your nails? so youre a girl after all like ???? youre giving me mixed messages here am i meant to be myself or am i meant to conform to your idea of what a man is in order to be accepted as one by you

#⚠️ #one time after i came out my mum saw me lounging around in a black t shirt and she was like oh it made you look like a man thinking it was #compliment but dude i got so mad i was like for fuck sake is that seriously what i have to do to be considered a man is lounge around in a #black t shirt??? lounging around is masculine???? what???????? #i was also just a very angry person in general but still that really confuses me #had a psychiatrist note down shit about my appearance saying whether they thought it was feminine or masculine (they thought it was all #feminine) which was fucking crazy cause i went in for an adhd diagnosis #people just find out youre trans and suddenly start acting like experts on whats feminine and whats masculine and what makes you either #gender like shut the fuck up #can also come from people who they themselves accept some cis men are feminine and some cis women are masculine but suddenly as soon as you #try to transition now you have to be masculine or be feminine or youre not valid in their eyes #its fucking crazy #like if i showed them a dude with long hair theyd be like thats a dude with long hair but as soon as i have my hair long im told to cut it #i can show them a dude in a skirt and theyd probably laugh thinking its funny or some bullshit but theyd still think its a dude in a skirt #but if i wear a skirt suddenly im a girl #i know at the root of all this they truly believe people cant switch genders cause in their minds sex and gender is the same but still its #so annoying especially when they pretend to be accepting or think theyre being accepting and when you challenge them on their transphobia #they get all mad at you and act like youre being rude for criticizing them for doing the bare minimum whilst also just continuing to be #transphobic #like yeah you use my correct name but when im not around you use she/her for me and you say i **want** to be a boy instead of i am a boy bu #when i talk to you about this suddenly im the bad guy like its my fault youre using language for me thats transphobic #like ok man. whatever. #sorry for asking you to be a decent fucking human being toward me and treat me with respect #its like people just treat trans peoples gender like something they can just dismiss like its nothing liek we're just playing pretend or #something #like god its frustrating. i need to cut my mum out of my life fr

[shopcat]

we gotta start for real killing whoever made it seem like nonbinary and genderfluid/queer and bigender and what the fuck ever people can't use their own fucking flag we are literally all trans. for that matter even the term trans. personal identity and preference aside we are just literally all transgender like what the fuck are you talking about actually

#🐾 #had a convo with someone once and they ended up explaining why they don't use the flag and i was like oh okay sure and then a day later i #found out we are the EXACT same like identity like oh my god. DUDE #specifically bc they were talking about how they didn't want to overstep like it's okay 😭😭 #i dunno maybe it also just drives me crazy bc like yeah binary trans people exist but also i don't think they fully do but even then #that there seems to be this weird divide between binary vs non .. as if it were a new binary 😭 #this also goes one million for like every lesbian i've spoken to who has a complex relationship with gender but doesn't think they can #consider themselves trans. BROTHER !!!! WE ARE ALL TRANSGENDERS

[grntaire]

IM JUST TRYING TO KEEP MY HEAD ABOVE WATER !!! IM YOUR SON AND IM YOUR DAUGHTER !! IM YOUR MOTHER IM YOUR FATHER !! IM JUST A PRODUCT OF A PROBLEM !!

#fuck they ate with this whole song but this bridge goes fucking crazy #the gender of it all. the fucking rage dude it’s so good

[maddykomtrikru]

my mom was being heavily transphobic today so if y’all know any good gnc ronance fics, please send my dudes🙏🙏

#i need gnc ronance happily im love and feeling good in their gender to fix my mood #moms are crazy dudes #shes so quirky🤪 #ronance #robin buckley #nancy wheeler #gnc ronance

[maleclownenemyofthestate]

for each mcr show they play on tour i gain 1 mental illness until my collection is complete

#‘im normal about them’ i am not i am not normal about them i am going fucking crazy #my head is in my hands i am sobbing #4 dudes (gender neutral) from new jersey got me fucked up #mcr #mcr return #my chemical romance

[sharp-tooths]

If theres not at least one severely traumatized man im not interested

#or man adjacent #cause i wouldnt call link legend of zelda a straight up man #thats where my gender fuckery comes from #i owe it all to link loz cijsjwjekdoxijejf #anyways #vash the stampede #nicholas d wolfwood #xiao genshin impact #but first it was venti #then i wasnt interested in scaramouche until VERY recently and even then i havent genuinely played genshin #since the whole dream sequence thingy #it just turned into too much of JUST a gambling game withthe wishes and i stopped enjoying it #i wanted to stay for the story but fuck. im too mad at it rn #anyways traumatized men! Give me. #idk why women hit different #its nice but i also realized i only hyperfixate like a crazy person if theres a traumatized dude involved thanks to honkai #which is. all playable characters r women #and GOD are they pretty but i need my token traumatized dude u know? #keep in mind im a genderqueer bisexual im gay for anyone i find pretty #but when it comes to hyperfixations my brain needs the little guy the little guy is key

[summer--song]

Damn t shot day really is just. Normal. Suddenly Very Horny. Hunger of a thousand suns. I Must Go On A WALK!!! sleepy.

Then next day is completely normal...

#t shot tuesday ✌️ #ok like 7.5 months on t and it has definitely evened out more #like its less of a hormone induced rollercoaster each week and way more balanced feeling #but t shot day is still crazy sometimes #like esp 4-8 hrs after my shot? #idk #also i cant believe im 7.5 months on t #got called sir for the first time today #but I also got misgendered yesterday #ppl are convinced im cis but some people think im a dude and some think im a girl #its useful for not having had my gender marker or name changed yet #but its also like #it sucks too #sorry for the ramble #chattering

[candyradium]

WHY did i not get noise cancelling headphones sooner holy shit hello. im immune to Sound now. i genuinely feel like ive been inflicted with a debuff this whole time and only realised it once i stumbled across an immunity accessory

#candy posts #wow i had no idea i was so badly affected by noise! haha crazy! (<- is literally autistic) #im not even kidding btw like. i feel so much less drained over the course of the day #like obv i still lose so much energy from Existing In Public (masking) but like. god damn dude #i was doing NOTICEABLY better at the end of my longest college day bro #the last class on that day is normally sensory hell but like. it WASNT as BAD!!!!! I DIDNT CONSTANTLY FEEL LIKE I WAS ABT TO IMPLODE!!!!!!! #we love disability accommodations and taking care of yourself ❤️ #now all i need to do is get rid of the Gender Dysphoria debuff and ill be strong enough to kill God #also can u tell ive been playing too much terraria by the way i talk abt debuffs and shit. shhh

[lilgynt]

evolution of how men and i interacted at my different jobs so far

doing exact same work and being physically stronger than some of the men > men start lifting things for me and shooing me away when i try > guy held open a door for me and after i said thanks he said i’m just happy to be ur knight in shining armor today

#personal #granted last one i was on a scooter for a broken foot so like context #but still crazy my first job we all did the same jobs #like granted some were only for people literally strong enough #then next job men start just #lifting stuff for me #like not even heavy stuff but also heavy stuff #if it’s even a little heavy men at home depot will just grab it from you immediately a good chunk of the time #if they let you even get near it #now granted also very common a dude ignoring you struggle and then rip a nail out like avoid eye contact #dude and chicks to be clear but we’re talking dudes #then now #nothing super weird actually to report gender wise nicely enough #only thing is maybe sercuity telling me i should be smiling but i think i missed the end of a joke #but he’s a nice guy anyway so like no biggie either way which sounds bad but like #it’s just not that deep i don’t see this dude super often and it’s a usual quick hello how are yous and asking how im doing foot wise he’s #nice plus he said i look like some celebrity my first day i can’t remember her name and i’m not re asking #no idea where this was going but there we are

[l-e-g-i-o-n-losh]

I dont give a shit abt other people retransitioning as long as they dont immediately start using their personal experience to justify transphobic bioessentialist crap its no ones business what you do with yourself in any direction. However i do go hmmmmmm when deep in to transtok i suddenly get spammed with detrans vids. I wonder what could possibly have pushed that content into the fyp algorithm

#danny shush #'wow crazy how i suddenly realized i wasnt the gender i spent years transitioning to! wild!' sure dude identity is always a trip #'top 10 signs YOU might be a reverse egg' shut the hell your mouth i got free gender right here ya fuckin asshole

[nullcoast]

Hmm it's almost like gender is a construct so getting into minutia arguments about microlabels is a complete fucking waste of time and an expression of extreme ignorance. almost like the million different ways queerness has been expressed all contradicting eachother for hundreds of years is for a reason and they all equally have important things to say about HUMAN EXPRESSION

#it's almost like gender isn't real guys #it's almost like a gender system of rigid labels and is ontologically and biologically fucking ridiculously #I'm so sorry but asexuality and bi lesbians and gold stars and guy dudes and bi women who have only been with women #they're all the same they're all human #and I don't give a FUUUUUUCK #all I know is respecting individuals and how they'd prefer to be interacted with #bc I love people and want friends who know I see them and hear them #crazy #guys I found the secret to ontological purity and it all has to do with the split attraction model #/j #shoutout to the Magnus archives mutual I had who blocked and black listed me bc I said I was a gender abolitionist #and they confused that with gender criticalism #how do I say this #yes straight ppl are different but I legit do not believe in 'straight ppl' #gender and sexuality are not something different from any other emotion or human action #and as such WHAY a queer community should be based on is not purity of who is oppressed #or like. who is Actually Gay And Different #but a rejection of the oppressive structure that seperates us #and anyone who rejects that structure in any way is welcome #in my book #dialectical material queer theory

[lavenite]

cannnnn you people stop misgendering people you hate . im going crazy

#i just cannot comprehend someone. especially a trans person. not using the correct pronouns or purposely being cruel abt gender for online #argument sake. qnd then think theyre the bigger person #idgaf abt the actual argument or whatever this just happens so often and its. dude youre just being transphobic. #what the fuck am i going crazy