#i am done with this woman lmao

[birthofvcnus]

hyuna going instagram official with her new boyfriend who was part of the burning sun scandal is NOT the flex she thinks it is

#he literally admitted to knowingly watching videos of women getting r@ped but ‘didnt think it was that big of a deal’ yeah no #i am done with this woman lmao #hyuna #kim hyuna #hyun a #imagine ‘promoting’ feminism for over a decade only to date a known rapist/sex trafficker #so she was a performative feminist all along LMAO. #hope her career continues to flop <3

[zerodaryls]

it's so funny (read: sad) that if bigoted fuckheads didn't insist i was a woman simply by virtue of my body at birth, i'd probably be chill with she/her pronouns in addition to he/they. if my mom didn't insist i was her daughter, i'd probably let her call me that, and we could still have a relationship.

i'm nonbinary and 'gendered' words are hypothetically meaningless, but because there are so many people who are more interested in telling me who i am rather than lovingly and curiously letting me express my own sense of self, those words carry trauma.

there's no reason a nonbinary person like myself can't be a son and a child and a daughter. there's no reason a nonbinary person like me can't go by he, they, and she.

'she' is not a slur. 'daughter' is not derogatory. 'beautiful' 'pretty' 'gorgeous' 'feminine' are not insults.

to the contrary, they're parts of language that express certain facets of a multi-faceted human existence, like mine.

and i have this sad, mournful feeling that if it weren't for unloving, condescending people, i'd probably be down to be called any of those things alongside my usual masculine/neutral terminology.

but i'd rather die than let anyone tell me what i have to be called.

#i try to reclaim 'feminine' words for myself in private #calling myself 'babygirl' when i need to chill out. or saying i feel pretty. or going 'she needs help' when i'm struggling lmao. #but there's still so much fucking trauma in those words from the people who've forced them on me #who've snarled in my face that GOD made me ONE THING and ONE THING ONLY and that's a WOMAN (stepdad) #who've guilted me for taking their precious perfect daughter away as if i'm fucking dead (mother) #who've mocked me and everyone like me as if we're not the experts on our own sense of self (general transphobic public) #like. i'm not a fucking man. i'm not a fucking woman. i'm nonbinary. gender is absurdity as a concept. i'm done with it. #but being called a man or a son or a guy or 'he' or WHATEVER in that vein is fine and dandy because i've never had anyone say #'that is all you can EVER be'. or worse: 'that is what GOD made you to be and you have a ROLE to fill' #(christianity pls die approximately yesterday thanku 💖) #so yeah. idk. ranting yet again about Cis Audacity. #the complete lack of empathy. the lack of curiosity even. #the condescending bullshit. the 'i understand you better than you do'. the fucking AUDACITY. #i am the expert on myself. i am the ONLY expert on myself. period. no contest. not a debate. #i understand myself better than anyone else is CAPABLE of understanding me. #i could call myself 'she' and understand that i meant it in a nonbinary way. #in fact i could even see myself letting other trans people call me feminine terms at some point in the future. when i've healed more. #but cis people? probably not. they can call me 'he' or 'they' or they can fuck off & never get to know me because they don't wanna know ME #/end rant #any terfs/bigots that try to touch this post will be swiftly blocked and quite possibly cursed. have the day you deserve <3

[littlehatmouse]

i finished this in the last 20 minutes of lesbian visibility week after not drawing at all LETS GO

#lila art #genshin #genshin impact #genshin fanart #arlecchino #arlecchino genshin #navia #navia genshin #arlevia #navicchino #i dont think thats a ship name that anyone uses but im tagging it just in case #arlecchino x navia #this took me SO FUCKING LONG you would not believe #to be fair it was because i kept getting distracted by youtube or twitter or the thoughts inside my head #but STILL #i am very proud of this though this is one of like. two kisses ive ever drawn that look Good and the other one i didn't finish lmao #i was kind of impartial to arlevia until like. Yesterday #and now they are very important to me #arlecchino has a big polycule full of all his lesbian girlfriends and one bisexual woman (clorinde) #im also lowk obsessed with drawing sideprofiles because i am fascinated with drawing different noses #and giving characters different nose and face shapes #it is so beautiful how humans are so diverse in even the shapes that our bodies make #i went on a rant with my friend about this a few weeks ago #ANYWAY i was going to say this earlier but i forgot #i am Sorry for those two panels being so rushed and bullshitted #i had been working on this for like 8 hours and i wanted to be done SO BAD #but i needed to finish before lesbian visibility week ended!!!! #ok going to farm for father before i pass out good bye

[ninawolv3rina]

Finally, a new Spidersona!

Name: Cassidy “Cass” Carver, Spider-Man, X-Spider (she/her)

A Spider-Man from a universe where Spider-Man is a mutant rather than being bit! as part of the X-Men, Cass doesn’t do much solo work, and when the spider-verse comes knocking she prefers to continue sporting the X-Men yellow and blue. More about her under the cut!

Despite being a mutant, much of Cass’ life still follows the classic Spider-Man canon, including her own versions of Gwen Stacy and Flash Thompson. Cass and Gwen dated briefly, but when Cass found out she was a mutant, she joined the xmen under the cover of ‘going to a fancy boarding school’ at Xavier’s. Little does she know, Gwen is also a mutant who’s now going through all the same changes and fears on her own. Eventually, the two face off, ending in Gwen’s death.

Cass loves being part of the X-Men, opting to wear a mask for most of her early time on the team. After Gwen’s death, her parents find out she’s a mutant and disown her, and she no longer needs to wear a mask but still prefers to a lot of the time.

Friends amongst the X-Men include Beast, Gambit, Nightcrawler, and Wolverine, though she also spends a lot of time with Kitty and Ice-Man since she’s closer to their age.

She doesn’t get along as well with Cyclops (problems with authority), Colossus, and Storm. She was beginning to get close to Storm, but Kitty got jealous and Cass backed off to preserve her friendship with Kitty. She thinks Colossus is stiff but will tolerate him bcuz of Kitty.

In Spider-society, Cass connected most heavily with Gwen, but gets along pretty well with everyone. Miguel is neutral-positive on her since she has experience working with a team, though her authority issues shine through in their relationship once again.

She very briefly joined Magneto’s side for a bit, but went back to the xmen shortly after. She still harbors some sympathy and agrees with some of their methods, but missed her specific found family and felt a lot of guilt for ‘betraying them’, as Xavier put it.

I’m definitely going to be drawing more of her soon!

#Spidersona #x-spider #x-men #xmen #original character #Cass carver #my art #my characters #spider sona #i used to have a more cut and dry Spidersona but since i am a queer person with EDS who likes orange and uses forearm crutches… #sun spider ended up doing everything i would’ve done but better #so i decided to go a different direction and make an x-men self insert #living my best life #i haven’t made something this self indulgent in ages lmao #expect some fun action poses of her soon! #also yes Cass is she/her but prefers to go by spider-man over spider-woman #as an x-man making the distinction for her hero name felt weird for her

[gaylittleguys]

hey actually what was up with the artemis fowl series suddenly pivoting to make the grown adult woman a love interest for the teenage boy. like I’ve blocked everything after the first 4 books from my mind bc I hate them for many reasons but like. genuinely what the fuck.

#made worse I think by the new movie making Holly a child as well I think #(I don’t know I didn’t watch it and I’ll never watch it out of spite) #artemis fowl was one of The most influential book series for me personally I loved them dearly #(again. only the first 4 tho) #I HATED 5. it’s the only one I do not own. bc I disliked it that much. #but seriously pivoting the relationship between a literal child and a grown adult woman to be even kind of romantic is weird right #i knowwwww in the book where they kissed she’d been time bullshitty aged back down to a teenager too but like. my god #sorry I’ve had these grievances for nearly a decade now #anyway. I doubt anybody cares about this series lmao #also I must say I’m a niche butch Holly/transfem Trouble t4t lesbian truther it needs to be said #(i am the only correct person about artemis fowl thanks) #.doc #actually I must continue. I loved holly that was a real blow to her character. also no adaption has ever done her right. #theyve always made her too feminine. she’s got SHORT SHORT hair and brown skin and a hooked nose and literally nobody ever depicts her as s

[bonetrousledbones]

i am never getting this fucking ebony event done bro why am i now thinking of how cool it would be to make a lineup of like the entire redesigned main cast of swapfell

#trousled rambles #i REFUSE to start anything that big until i get this damn thing done. but ohhhh i got some SICK ideas for the dreemurrs #and i am. a little pissed about it yeah #“main cast” excluding The Children btw . idk what the hell i wanna do with that yet lmao #but aggghh the IDEAS..........like what if asgore sawed his own damn horns off huh. what then!!!!!! #and toriel could have her cold calculating intimidating aloof Looking Through You thing turned up to 5000000 #not just Asgore But Woman but if the ruler of the dystopian underground was actually competent......oggghhh #does NOT help that im not quite as interested enough in them to put in the same level of detail as undyne & alphys' redesigns #and napstablook's robot form could have something similar to a tragedy mask AHHHH THIS IS!!!! POOOOR TIMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #next time one of my profs assigns something im just gonna start screaming and crying really hard and loudly until they change their mind

[be-gay-do-crime-ahaha]

Holy fucking shit the dysphoria is dysphoria-ing right now. I feel physically nauseous oh my fucking god. I’m gonna fucking kill someone maybe myself rn I’m gonna lose my shit holy hell.

Doesn’t help that I’ve been incredibly overstimulated the past few days every sound is like a fucking cheese grater in my ears oh my god.

#dysphoria #gender dysphoria #sensory processing disorder #tw emetophobia #for the nausea mention #idk if that’s needed or not #but yeah I’m about to tear off my fucking skin and jump off a building I am losing my fucking mind #it’s so over #lmao my brain is fucked i genuinely wanna off myself over this shit #and my mother keeps refusing to even entertain the idea of getting my name changed on the school role #even though all my teachers and friends call me Alex and that’s what I’ve been going by for a few years now #and it would make things significantly easier for everyone because it would fix my email name as well #so that’s not helping #and she was talking about my period and being all “it’s okay all WOMEN get these ❤️ you’re just becoming a beautiful woman #and now she keep being rude to my sister because she uses men’s deodorant (because it works better) and doesn’t really wear dresses #(because she finds them annoying and inconvenient) #and is being all “hurr durr you’re copying your SISTER stop being so masculine” #like fucking hell #shit talking me and harassing my sister all at once #man I want to fucking kill myself im so done with this shit #and I’m so overdue on school work and I feel so overwhelmed and stressed this fucking sucks #and I know the school work and stuff is fully my fault for forgetting and slacking off but I can’t bring myself to do them because the #stress of fucking up and just how much of it I have to do is pushing me to my damn limit #I can’t even bring myself to start on my film and media assignment that’s a week overdue because I’m so fucking stressed just thinking about #it and I’m so overwhelmed I can’t fucking do this. I just can’t. and I know I’m at fault for procrastinating and being too lazy and stressed #to bring myself to start working on it #and things are just gonna get more and more difficult #so yeah. rant over I guess. sorry guys #did not mean to rant in the tags this much dysphoria is just killing me and so is general stress #tw suicidal thoughts

[bangcakes]

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#the book im reading rn JDJDJDJJDJDJDJDMMFF #this teacher moves to a small town after breaking up with her bf #and she gets befriended by this lady that like everyone is weirdly scared of #and she keeps making one off comments like oh i havent done that in hundreds of years or oh! i could curse them for you! #but the main character thinks shes joking JDJJDJDJZJZJZJZMZMZ BUT SHES NOT TICRDJFNRJSM ITS SO #JDJDJJDNSNSNSNSNSND #but n e way spoiler maybe but the lady was just like oh ya i should tell u n im really scared to but ya im not normal and i think you know #what i am ;))))))) #JFJDD IDK IM SO AMUSED LMAO #but also like its in the horror genre and ive read another of this authors books b4 so i KNOW its gonna turn #but rn its like .... idk rom com vibes #tho a student did like. cough up a spider JFJFJFJFJFJF #like i said. the lady wasnt joking about cursing the students JJjdjdjddjd #personal #oh n the womans house is seemingly haunted but i have to say allegedley bc she denies the accusations

[bixiaoshi]

why every time taylor swift is criticized lots of her fans claim it's misogynistic. what r u talking about

#her usage of feminism has done so much damage i am SO serious #do i believe some of the criticism she receives is rooted in misogyny? absolutely #do i believe every criticism she receives is misogynistic? absolutely not!!! #like idk who told yall criticizing a woman who has done smth wrong is misogyny lol #of course it all depends on how it's done and other factors but like. saying she did smth wrong is not misogyny lmao #like i promise u. u can criticize a woman who has done smth bad. i promise #jo.txt

[dirtyoldmanhole]

gunter is a stone cold freak, and in this essay, i shall-- [dragged offstage kicking and screaming]

#[muffled yelling] AM I WRONG THO. I AM NOT. (:P) #pros of replaying rev: soooo much writing done. cons: ...drawing some of the skankiest af shit apparently lmao #i love. i *l o v e* that it's the caretaker daddy jeigan that's the kinkiest bastard man. absolute gigachad brain move by IS there. #the entire archetype being all squeaky clean hOnOr and bla bla bla. #and while he *plays* the part on the surface almost flawlessly.... underneath is ahahaheh. ahem. oh lordy. #jeigan in the streets; yandere kinky possessed villain daddy in the sheets BASICALLY. #ngl i got a chuckle in the forging bonds moment with him and sylvain when he was giving sylvain grief about the womanizing. pftfffffffff.

[swallowtail-ageha]

The categorizing of personality types with clothes is a cancer to society

#like. there are people who thing that to be a tomboy you MUST dress masculine and like. #i am. an extremely '''masculine''' (if we want to play that game where we assign behaviours to gender. blegh) woman #i was since i was a child. i was loud and interested in gross things and i did and still do jokes that are done more by men than by women #i sit with my legs open i eat with my bare hands sometimes #i swear and am vulgar #several irls call me with my exclusively female name but with the masculine o #so. not feminine at all my parents joke that i am a missed man #yet my closet is like. all little chemises long flowing skirts berets large hats #basically i dress like a coquette lmao #does my way of dressing make me less '''masc'''??? no because what i dress like doesnt equal with my personality #i just wished that people got that yknow #this vebt is kinda pointless but yeah.

[umilily]

i'm back. (and i didn't commit murder, but it was close.)

#lily talks #i took some nice pictures that i'll probably post later #many creatures to be seen #but all that really needs to be said is that it was exhausting and i'm done socialising for the rest of the month #i am so tired of dealing with extroverts #there was only one bed but unfortunately instead of a friends to lovers fic this was more like strangers to enemies lmao #(not quite that bad but oof) #like my roomate was alright even if we ahd absolutely NOTHING in common but she was incapable of talking in an indoor voice #or just not saying something for longer than 2 minutes #and this one dude nearly chewed my ear off with his whining about having to walk places and do things #like you know #as is to be expected of a course like this one #food was the shit though #today i ate my weight in Kaiserschmarrn and that is the type of life i want to lead #also once again bavarians are on a whole other level #suffered a cultural shock talking to them #(why would you mix dark beer with coke and cherry liqueur?? #that was probably the first time since i moved here that i felt understood by the austrians #also shout out to the woman running the inn we were staying at who saved us all by literally putting our shoes in the oven to dry #ironically the only day of this trip that my feet were dry was today when i had to put on a chest wader and get into a river up to my hips #in conclusion #i am not made for conducting research outside #(i nearly died on our hike and almost had to crawl towards the end bc it was so steep and uneven before giving up entirely) #but the perfect job for me is work where you have to pay attention to detail and can take as long as you'd like #i had to check riverbed samples for larvae and stuff today and that was the most relaxing thing i've done in ages

[act-more-like-a-dog-sirius]

trying to search tumblr for any kind of HP related meta is an experience alright. one filled with so so so much frustration, exasperation, incredulity, and absolute fucken RAGE. because. holy fuck. people be getting some shit real fucken wrong oh. my. god.

like. even the rare few posts that have a couple decent points simultaneously manage to get a bunch of canonical facts/details straight fucking wrong. and i just cannot even 

#catch me hitting the block button so i am not tempted to go scream at strangers on the internet for being WRONG #i am petty enough to want to #but (hopefully) mature enough not to #lmao #harry potter meta #harry potter #oh god fandom is so bad these days #what has tiktok and wolfstar done to everyone?? #also ngl all the anti-jkr stuff going around has also really warped peoples' ability to objectively analyze canon #im absolutely NOT defending jkr or transphobia #But the proliferation of so many people misreading and straight ignoring actual canon has coincided with the ‘jkr is evil’ discourse #it’s ruined peoples’ ability to think objectively or with any kind of nuance ngl #multiple things can be true at the same time y’all #the world isn’t black and white #don’t come at me looking for a fight I am not interested #salty hp takes #mostly just salty about fandom #and fandom being WRONG #local woman has ocd and HATES when fandom gets canon details wrong

[musical-chick-13]

Very, very tempted to just release this idea out into the ether and go, "I do not have the time to write this, but if anyone wants to claim it, feel free," but I would NOT trust the average person to handle this well.

#yes I AM thinking too hard about dn-where-everyone-but-the-protagonist-is-a-woman-and-it's-an-examination-of-misogyny again #but like. we've seen how fandom deals with female characters. and we've seen how fandom deals with any actual discussion of misogyny. #which is to say that they deal with both of those topics VERY poorly. historically the chances of this being done well would be very small #(ugh how many times can I use the word 'very' in this post and its tags lmao) #(thinking about that one poll I follow where it's specifically about which fictional ladies are most maligned based on misogynistic reasons #and so much of the sent-in propaganda is...STILL drenched in misogyny. truly op is fighting for their life over there) #ANYWAY I think this (almost-genderbent-dn) is a very interesting idea and I so much want it to exist but I do not want ANY #of general fandom touching it. #I gotta shut myself up I'm starting to get too attached to a version of canon that doesn't exist

[lokh]

man. i said i couldnt wear dresses to the office becos id probably get hatecrimed and my mom just laughed like noooo that wouldnt happen. maam.......... either im overthinking it or the boiled frog effect is too powerful

#i said they all think im a guy and she literally was like LOL no way #dude................. like i dunno how trans they think i am but they definitely think im a guy #so putting aside whether i can 'pass' as a woman anymore (on this i Might be overthinking but im not sure) #its like. a hundo percent certain they think im a guy. so #ive been avoiding using thr mens bathroom now but the damage is done LOL #the doc prescribing me t was right btw she was like ur name could be susan and people would still see u as a guy #well. im going by my birthname. and this is still happening LMAO #used to be i would say my name and it would be like Ohhh

[mermaidsirennikita]

Rune is maybe the stupidest hero Kresley Cole has ever written and I love him soooooo much

#romance novel blogging #he’s using edgeplay to torture a woman who is transparently into edging i cant #and he’s not even GOOD AT EDGING HER #he let her come twice in like five minutes and then got off himself and went ‘YEAH UH ALL ACCORDING TO PLAN’ #literally what am i gonna do when im done w this series lmao #immortals after dark