#i. will dm. first. i usually do.

[blushft]

dm'ing a mutual you've never interacted with one-on-one is so embarrassing like. hi.... im sorry. you can kill me if you want... can i have your discord..... if not.. feel free to shoot me down where i stand... im sorry.. i'll leave..

#ianriley #guy who loves to talk #but is so anxious that someone else will actually throttle me for suggesting a conversation #its okay! #i. will dm. first. i usually do.

[fatguarddog]

It's a really big turn on when someone comes in with the energy of "I'm gonna make you so fat because that's I want and that's what you're meant to be" 🥵

#hutch posts #like i just really enjoy being told what's gonna happen to me or what someone wants to do to me like it's a fact yknow #anons like this are usually super welcome but dms it's better to ask first since the private nature sometimes gives me pause #weight gain

[elfsyellowflowerzart]

hey this is a long shot but ill draw a one character fullbody flat colored cleaned up sketch like the things above for anyone who wants to give me 15,000 treasure in flight rising i need to expand my lair, i can finish the art today 👍

#laika's comet #bg3 tav #(for the white dragonborn her name is asphodel) #anthro #fursona #sfw furry #(for the pink cat who is one of my sonas) #original characters #oc #flight rising #flightrising #commission opening #for furries i draw mostly planti humanoids but i can Try digi and ferals im just warning that i dont do that often #and thus dont have good examples and im not super good at it lmao #i consider myself good at fat characters bc im fat myself and have fat friends and usually use myself and my friends as ref for studies #i draw a LOT of fat characters #plus size art #plus size artist #i can draw thin characters too tho as you can see #i also love drawing characters sleeping as you can see from my blog. more examples on my blog btw but theyre mostly not colored #wtf else do i tag this #yew art #also if you want to give me More treasure on flight rising in order to get more art or art of characters interacting we can work something #out #(ran out of space in that tag lmao) #this is probably gonna stay open bc im pretty much always in need of treasure in that game lmao im trying to upgrade all my stuff #but only this one can be done same day. probably. #just reply and ill dm you but ill also open my dms for people to dm me first if i can figure out how to do it on mobile im bad with tech lol

[the-raging-tempest]

Not that I expect anything but! I’m always open to questions and messages about ocs! Yours or mine. 💕

#just a reminder #💕 #my hamster wheel #I’m usually bad at being the first to message but 💕 #sometimes I don’t have intelligent things to say #but I do get invested #sometimes I feel bad taking up so much space in a shared space #so feel free to dm or ask! #my point being! #have no fear about DMs or asks! 💕

[stardrcpped]

{{ sometimes i wonder if tumblr has changed or i did and my approach to interactions is the reason why I don’t have as many mutuals as i used to

#ooc. #{{ like when I was younger I would always always always dm first check in etc send asks #{{ now I’m too socially anxious really #{{ I’m shy on being the first one usually it’s a follow and then I have to pray I have the courage to send asks anymore #{{ dear mutuals … I am scared #{{ I will send asks if given the chance I’m just nervous to do so EVEN MORE SO DMING brother I am terrified

[fingerfuck-the-function]

Being an introvert is really difficult

Cuz , you want friends, but you rlly don't understand how to make the efforts of starting a conversation or making plans ( on top of that introverts are generally blunt and no filter )

I don't wanna be alone , but idk how to makes friends either :/

#i don't usually vent on here #but yeah ig #i feel alone #don't wanna be alone #but how tf do you make friends? #i don't like most ppl I talk to anyway #well #in any case #I may not interact first #and I'm not very much into reblogs n asks #but my dms are always open for anyone who wants to talk

[dullahandyke]

and like sidenote if i can make a post with a target audience of zero. i feel like fhsy was to d20 what aa3 was to ace attorney but aa3 pulled it off better for reasons i cannot explain

#it is. the amatonormativity #^ guy who was REALLY pissed about the sandra lynn stuff #like yknow that bit in the first ep where brennan is like 'oh this drama is going down' and so like the pcs investigate it #probs bcos they think itll like kick off their new quest #and then it turns out to be like. petty romantic drama. #thats kind of a microcosm of the entire season for me #not to say there werent parts i liked (looks at the picture of baron i printed out and hung on my wall) #(and most of the leviathan stuff was brilliant and ayda is a role model for me) #but its all so tied up in the rest of that shit that i dont rlly wanna rewatch it the way ive rewatched fy 6+ times #likening this to aa3 bcos of the rlly noticeable uptick in romantic content in it compared to the rest of the trilogy #like prior to that all that rlly comes to mind is like. 2-3 and pearl's shipping shenanigans and larry existing #but in aa3 both mia and phoenix have past lovers who play big parts #theres a married couple theres tigre and viola (who sidenote i ENTIRELY missed as romantic my first playthru. i am dense) #there's the business with fawles #like it felt like romance played a large part in every case in aa3 #where even when it came up in 1 + 2 it was usually ancillary (2-3 excepted but like. ppl regard that case as a fluke in most regards) #you COULD argue that maggey and adrian also inject some romantic presence in the story #but idk it just doesnt feel as central or prevalent as in aa3 #like i saw a post abt adrian and celeste being cousins in the aa anime being not just the sailor moon 'best cousins' thing #but like. reinforcing the themes of familiar devotion as aa2's core. and that was rlly foundational to my understanding of the game #even tho its a change that comes from an adaptation #whereas you Couldnt make that change in aa3 without it changing A Lot of shit #where was i going with this. shrug. #the zelda and tracker relationship drama was entirely manufactured as punishing the pcs for not centering npcs #whose relationship issues were ancillary to the overarching plot they were focused on and which hadnt rlly been brought up beforehand #'why didnt gorgug call zelda :/' do u want zac to pause the kalina mystery to roleplay good relationship communication with the dm?? #like its one thing looking at sy as a narrative but looking at it as a ttrpg campaign with limited time and a need to split character focus #i dont see what it did for the story besides give gorgug something to angst abt. didnt rlly feel like there was character growth or an arc #sigh. MANDATORY DISCLAIMER its been at least a year since i watched sy and longer before that since ive played aa3 #but at the time my feelings were strong and have only calcified. romance as a theme in something not generally abt romance

[famewolf]

if im being honest and allowing myself to vent a bit about it ... another red flag was when the DM went 'wow i love the detail of your backstory but idk what i can do with it tho ):'

#[static] #it immediately made me feel bad for trying to make a character work with the aesthetic she had given us tbh #i could already tell she didnt seem to be super character story driven so i just made a pretty simple drifter-type #for a post-apocalyptic setting n such and made a group that tied into the whole over-arching premise #i also literally just did bullet points cuz i could tell she wasn't gonna want to read one of the backstories i usually do #and as someone who has mostly dm'd in the past i did my v best to make a character that was super easy for the dm to incorporate in any way #like a solid reason for being there a reason for wanting to adventure with strangers a reason for seeing the mission through no matter what #made a whole small faction and connected them to the overarching theme and plot in multiple ways #wrote down lore and npcs she could use for the faction if she didnt want to make up her own #like all the works and all i got was two sentences back about it ... one of them being like 'cool but i dont like the extra details' #aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh #ok im done yelling now i just need to vent for a second #i feel bad for feeling kinda bummed about the experience because this is the first time i got to play at a physical table in years #and i know how hard it is to DM #but also when you come to the table with zero notes for the first session its ... probably gonna be disappointing jkfghdf #i DID have fun however because the party banter was hilarious and it was fun getting to hang out with ppl! #but communication between DM and players was not great #also let me be clear she did like that i made so many connections and hooks into the story and it helped her a lot #she was NOT interested in my character's past like ... jobs or npcs #but also u could just Not say anything about it and just be like 'sweet cool thanks for the info' LMAo

[gaylightisminetocommand]

wtf someone messaged me on insta saying thanks for the follow back and then asked to show me some of their art and i'm like 'idk why you're not posting it publicly instead but sure' so they did and like. they're decent enough, idc, that has nothing to do with it. i compliment their art and then immediately they're like 'would you like to commission me?' I respectfully say no, I'm not in a position to commission art at the moment, and they're like 'oh it's ok i'm having a sale at the moment, i can give you a discount to suit your budget'. I say thanks but I'm not looking to buy art at this time regardless. And then they're like, 'why not?' like wtf dude that's none of your business??? So I say in the nicest way possible that you don't just come into someone's dms and try and pressure them into buying art and they're like 'sorry, I'm just trying to do my best, I don't have much <3' my guy you are not the only struggling artist and making people feel uncomfortable is not how you gain clients wtf.

#i can totally respect that there are lots of underappreciated artists trying to make money #but that's not how you do it??? #i just felt so creeped out the entire time #like i didn't even know of this person until today #it was just a courtesy follow back like i usually do unless it's a private account or they post stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable #i didn't even interact first #it was like the online equivalent of a door-to-door salesman #and they're notorious for making people feel uncomfortable #and succeeding in selling absolutely jackshit #might just stay off insta for a few days #i've had a few people (complete strangers) barging into my dms and getting uncomfortably personal lately #god tumblr is so much cozier #insta's a fucking warzone #gaylight post

[neomedievalist]

i fucking love splatoon you guys. i dropped splat3 in october when i got busy with school but ive been so fucking addicted to it lately i forgot that splatoon was everything to me and ive been pretending my schoolwork isnt real .anyway please send me a dm or reply with your switch friend code i love you. play squid games with me.

#data #i usually play a couple turf war matches pretty much every day when the clock ticks over (8pm est) to get my first clear #and dm if you ever want to salmon run or do ranked. i havent played much ranked in 3 but rest assured i was s across the board in 2

[jorvikzelda]

having that kinda week/month where my internal life is just completely dominated by d&d. i have only played this game for three hours total in my life but by god will I think about it for every waking second and by god will I know this fucking game inside out when I finally someday do get to play it

#if you’re wondering I’ve made an entire character with backstory and researched relevant mechanics without even having a game I’m invited to #I mean I DID leave skill & language proficiencies & what spells I know for when I actually know the context of a game #like considering that the backstory i’ve made is… far too involved to not have been made in collaboration with a dm that feels. #like the least i can do lmfao #I also have spent half my week binging dnd podcasts but that’s just the usual #z talks #not horse game #Also fun trivia. My first and only dnd game I FULL died after unsuccessfully attempting to befriend a troll #Learned a lot that day

[skunkes]

i hope this doesn't sound too weird but i've been wanting to reach out to people more and i consider you a friend in a "we've been mutuals for a long time" kinda way but i've always wanted to be like. actual friends. and i know you're someone who worries about making new friends, how they'll think about you, whether you'll say/do the right things etc. but i'm someone who truly Does Not Care about any of that and i'd love to talk to you. but i dunno how i'll come off anon after saying that lmao..

i dunno how to respond to dis! if we've been long time mutuals i most likely consider us somewhat buddys anyway! As much as i crave to befriend people I feel im not very good at doing so...best I can do is replying to a mutual's post like twice a year at random

I never hope to sound like idk, im some weird untouchable Beast when I say stuff like dis but im usually open to have small little chats with anyone, its just getting past the small little chats and deepening bonds thats an issue, bc I'm like, a very surface level person lol t_t ⬅️ goes back to lamenting not having many friends

#idk how to make friends...even online wah #its funny bc its easy for me to have quick single convos with people who dm me about a specific thing #and i can usually be chatty bc i assume i wont get the chance to talk again #if it moves past that then i get Thinky...idk how much to share or withhold etc #only one person has like...semi succeeded so far... #sad ! i want buddys i dont think im meant to though im like an alien :( #anonymous #skunk mail #i am friendly and i love persons...im just literally like idk! disappointing...i dont do much or know much or have much to say etc #also it was barely last year that i had my first like. voice chat with someone i met online. can you believe that. #idk how ppl make friends or hang out or do things esp on online sphere...im behind !

[yoohyeontual]

Not gonna lie guys I feel pretty depressed right now so I don’t feel like coming back soon 😭 I am not deleting this account it’s never gonna happen, but I need a break right now, even tho I miss you all so much 🥲 Ily all and I hope you are happy and healthy 💕

Please use my tag for your content so I can reblog them all whenever I come here for like 5 minutes bfksbd -> #Korimilook!

You can follow my Insta I post pets pics mostly -> alex_Korimi

#i don’t like saying depress cause idk if it really what I’m feeling but you get what I mean I’m not happy fkdbdjd #news tho I saw the doctor today she told me I most likely have anxiety probably TDAH and could even be autism #ADHD* I always right in English even when I talk french and now I write it in french fkdbdjd 😭 #she sending seeing a social worker to work on myself first and later see to get a real diagnostic cause a free psy is like 1 year of wait 😭 #it’s not telling anything yet but at least this is more clear jfbsjdjs #if you are also wondering what I’m doing with my life right now I’m like usual avoiding my problems #by playing Pokémon games and drawing fakemons cjbsjsns #I’m working seriously on my own region the bad part is I can’t draw any characters tho fkdbjdnd #but I least it makes me happy to imagine 🥰 #i have like 90 fakemons made not all draw but imagine at least #my goal is at least 100 like a usual new gen has aproximetely 100 pkms each #i may post some soon on my sb even if I’m not here lately #they are not getting enough notes for me to worry about reblogs on weirdos blog anyway we’ll see fkdbdj #love you all 💕 #if I don’t answer dm I’m sorry it’s not you I’m just not here :’) #I’m not really in the mood to talk #also if for Insta you don’t want me to follow back you can refuse I won’t be mad 🥰 but I will always ask to follow back hahaha #alex.txt

[appleebees]

about cigarettes

#i think this is like the first actual self portrait im putting online asdfghjk #and its for this of all things #i dont usually put out anything this personal #but i really liked this little piece and poem #havent written poetry in AGES and this was spur of the moment so i was happy #anyway #smoking is bad for you etc etc #also #if ur one of my irl friends IM BEING DRAMATIC do NOT dm me about this in a panic

[sualne]

hello

hello to you too, this is going to sound rude but your blog is empty and i almost blocked you thinking you were a bot, if you're new to tumblr pls reblog! thats the whole point of the site, what do you want? (<- not in a rude away again, just be straightforward)

#also encourage you to not just send hello to people because that also a bot thing. say hi and then immediatly say what you want to say #first without waiting for the other to answer its a lot easier for both people this way 👍 #because i usually dont answer to single hello like this. but with the twitter folks coming in im going to try this time #also this is the askbox not the dm depending what you wanted to do here you might not being in the right place

[neobisexual]

bbbbbb might meet up with somebody n make gross videos together soon i am debating it

#gotta run it by my boy first ofc #itd be like. at least a week n a half away. idkidkidk. im debating #havent actually had sex in a week as of today which is a weird place for me cuz i usually do like 2-4 times a week 😭 just been so gd busy #anyway in the future. if this happens. u may dm to get said gross videos 👍