#it's like youre TRYING to piss ppl off

[slythereen]

yaknow i kind of feel bad for carlos because even if i don't agree with his attitude, he's absolutely getting more hate than others would be if they were acting the same way precisely because his teammate is charles. like. anyone is going to look extra bad compared to a teammate who never says a bad thing about anyone ever in press and seems perpetually in love with ferrari and motivated to help the team as a whole and is also, you know, insanely talented.

in the grand scheme of ferrari, carlos comes out looking even worse because his interviews get followed up with charles's angelic "only complain privately" approach... against others it'd be like oh, racing drivers are just selfish like that, all teammates screw each other over from time to time but still care for the team it's fine, etc. etc., but the problem is that charles isn't selfish like that generally so it just looks extra rude to do it to him 😭

#personally think charles should be more vocal about shit #and carlos less vocal perhaps #maybe they can just transfer some of the vocalness between c2 to produce the dream pr scenario😭 #im ngl im enjoying watching the chaos bc at least it adds entertainment to the ongoing misery #but sometimes carlos says things and im like bro #it's like youre TRYING to piss ppl off #carlos sainz #charles leclerc #f1 #scuderia ferrari #(slightly less derogatory) #british gp 2023 #*delphi

[thrilling-oneway]

Also shout out to the person who said in the tags of that airi post who said that half the debates in this fandom are over gender or sexuality because that’s true and it pisses me off immensely

#all the debates over whether VBS is gay coded or not and that their fans are biphobic if they don’t like m/f vbs pissed me off enough to #make me leave the fandom one of the times i left it. it’s also the reason I dont really like interacting with the fandom anymore LMAO #the thing is I don’t think it really matters lol #like mizuki is canonically trans but no one else is and I genuinely don’t get why people get so heated when ppl don’t have the same gender #hcs as them like it’s a HC not everyone has the same one as you. obviously this happens with airi a lot but with the boys being hc’d as #tfem as well? like I’ve seen people get SO up in it about them being called boys and it’s like full respect for your HC but #…they canonically are? #sexuality is a bit more complex bc while nothing is canon there definitely ARE things implied and since nothing is canon I don’t think it #really matters what ur HC is but at least be able to recognise what’s in the game? like kohane and minori showing attraction to multiple #girls but never to any guys. or an being canonically interested in kohane romantically or bad dogs being implied soulmates #and like it doesn’t matter what you ship or HC but loads of ppl try to claim this doesn’t exist for the sake of winning internet arguments #which is just So stupid #specifically i see this in the wxs fandom a lot over ppl HCing them as not mspec. especially with rui like ive seen loads of arguments #caused by people pointing out that he is actually gay-coded and then people trying to counter that. usually with shipping as evidence lol #and like sure ship him with emu or nene who cares but the coding is there so maybe don’t pretend it isn’t #this fandom is weird there’s like two sides to it of ‘everyone is bi and if you don’t HC that or like m/f ships ur biphobic’ and then #there’s ‘every character should be exclusively gay and if you disagree ur homophobic’ #both of them are wrong #also i doubt clpl gives a shit about any of this #tag ramble over this fandom annoys me

[indelicateink]

i am just so earnestly curious. i read the books a long time ago, i am struggling to put myself in the shoes of someone who doesn't know what's coming. the latest promo that has the sinister projection of L: does this come across as menacing to people who are book-innocent? do those audience members have anxiety about him showing up in paris?

i know he was fucking excoriated by a lot of viewers for season 1 and ep 5 especially (no matter one's experience with the canon), and a lot of people now despise the character.

but does like. anyone actually have concern abt the guy showing up and making trouble? it seems to be the reaction they want people to have, I'm curious if it's working?

#yes i'd love your thoughts (but ofc i am trying so hard to keep this out of the tags aha) #I feel like they gotta run this thing on like two different tracks: #appeasing the longtime fans who know what's coming but intriguing those new to the story #and this latest promo along with the chair photo from earlier seem to be directing ppl to be Concerned #as someone who can't unknow what's coming i'm curious how their choice to double down on making L unlikable is coming off #bc lbr he's at the center of this property and at this point they've cultivated a significant portion of audience who #wouldn't piss on him if he were on fire #and i hope they have some god-tier writing in store to hang a sharp u-turn on this massive semi-truck of hate? #i appreciate they have to meld a property she nearly retconned from book 1 to the rest of it and #the writers made a daring choice to demonize ldl and query ldpdls memory #i'm assuming for maximum angst and to make it all creatively come together #but framing him as the biggest Big Bad for s2 is a lil odd to me when you have the obviously sinister TdV crew *right there* #does he really come off as scary to people? #between the threat of ldl and the TdV are newcomers meant to see A as ldpdls soft(TM) savior love interest? #lol it's so frustrating not being able to see this innocent of the knowledge of events...to get how it's coming off to other viewers #i can't unknow the fucked-up flip side to this story #but i am v curious!

[earthcookies]

reminding myself that just because some ppl (my former boss and ex) decided to do some fucked up shit to me, it doesnt say anything about me as a person. i didnt do anything to “deserve it”, it wasnt my fault that they chose to hurt me the way they have. this experience showed their true colors, and now everyone in their lives know who they really are: irredeemable pieces of shit who only care about themselves. they lost a lot of friends and its kind of beautiful

#bc of the way i grew up i struggle with trying to justify why bad things happen to me #but the reality is that sometimes bad things happen for no reason and id be doing myself a disservice trying to 'make sense' of everything #sometimes assholes roll into your life and make it hell literally Just Because #at first realizing that pissed me off bc its so unfair but after thinking about it more its helping me make peace with it #like sometimes shit is just out of my hands and i cant control everything and other ppls crazy behavior isnt on me in this case #and like. there wasnt anything i could have done to change the outcome anyway. it is what it is but i can move forward despite everything

[kuroosdarling]

hand model! kuroo is something so dear to me

#no like he didn’t even mean for this to happen #obviously he has rlly nice hands #tries to take really good care of them bc he spends sm time using them to shake ppls hands #and try to make a good first impression #also he always has a super nice watch on #anyway #he goes to an event for work and does what he usually does — network #he’s talking to some other ppl in marketing and advertising and they notice his hand #they say he’d be perfect to use for their newest watch launch #so they give him their card #he doesn’t really think much of it at first but he figures .. why not ?? #so he does it #and he’s so surprised when he sees his hand/wrist on a billboard in tokyo a few months later #kenma says he doesn’t believe him just to piss kuroo off btw #he keeps saying ‘kuro i know that’s not your hand’ #cue kuroo furiously flashing his hand in kenmas face #he gets all pouty like ‘what do you mean?? i’m literally wearing the watch rn .. see !!’ #kenma just deadpans ‘it’s sad to see how far you’ll go for a joke these days.’ #sighs. i just love this concept. #one day i might write a fic but here have this for now #⁺. ʚ tetsu ɞ ⋆˙ #⁺. ʚ aims thots ɞ ⋆˙

[videogamelover99]

Actually really pissed that discourse around stereotyping and bad writing in media turned into "does this character have X,Y,Z traits? Is this character an admirable human being? Are they the good guy?" instead of promoting actual good writing and what that entails.

It's not about the presence of individual traits! It's about if the minority character is treated as a complex human being with believable motivations and who is looked at with an empathetic eye by the story!

If you personally don't like certain traits to be present in a character that has your identity, you have a right to do that, but it's not criticism, it's your opinion. You know what your dislike doesn't do? Make that character a stereotype! Because a stereotype isn't a character with traits commonly assigned to them, it's a character who isn't written as a fully fleshed human being save for those traits. The character isn't treated with dignity by the author because the author does not give them a character.

If they are fully fleshed out and complex with understandable motivations then? They aren't a stereotype. Because people like that exist in real life, and you viewing them as a stereotype says more about you than it does about them.

#its the hot take twitter nature of criticism nowadays #'X character has Y trait so problematic' is ppl using like 5% of their brain when they read the text #if the author wrote them well then theit job?? is done??? and they arent obligated to adhere to your preferences #part of this is the amount of bullshit said about vivziepop's stuff but also #i saw people try to claim catra is a bad character because shes an 'angry lesbian stereotype' #a) her sexuality isnt revealed in canon you just assumed #b) you forgot about all the 500 other things to have happened to her to make her angry #like yes sometimes we find characters falling into similar types and having the same identity and if 1 author does it 50 times #they arent being creative anymore theyre copy-pasting #but a well written character isnt copy pasted they feel original #if this blows up i might have a problem on my hands enough to delete this XD #writing #like why did ppl get pissed off about stranger things s4 and will byers #its not bc hes sad his crush has a gf thats such a universal experience tbh #its because he does things that make no sense #hes not gonna be unconditionally supportive of El and Mike no matter how much he knows they have a right to their happiness #hes a person with limits it would make sense for him to be resentful #it makes zero sense for him to further their relationship in the finale cause no person would do that! #it wasnt given enough justification in the writing and so its bad #this same scene would have worked in a different context if told by a better writer who treats will as a character on equal footing #with everyone else #wow i have a lot of opinions suddenly

[yodeleyewho]

(gang I double posted, so just check the OG video in the Vice tag)

Watched “Gillian” today and the scene with Starsky and Gillian made me I think of the dinner scene of MV’s “Nobody Lives Forever” (go watch Gillian cuz tumblr isn’t letting me put the scene up)… except.. tubbs and brenda are absolutely horrible to each other…

#tubbs and Brenda are like the dark reflection of Starsky and Gillian 😭 #context for ppl who’ve never scene MV: #Sonny (mc) has started dating Brenda (blondie) but he hasn’t been paying enough attention to his job #so Tubbs (his beloved partner) steps in and is trying to get them to break up #at the beginning of the episode Tubbs seems happy that Sonny is dating this lady but later he is really pissed/annoyed 😭 #and here the thing tho. earlier when Brenda and Sonny were hanging out she asked him about he and tubbs’ relationship #asking ‘is partnership like a marriage 🥺🥺’ then asking ‘well when will I be your partner 🥺’ #like.. girl you’ve only being seeing Sonny for a few weeks why are you like this 😭 #so that’s why she’s so pissy when Tubbs hits her with the ‘jealous girlfriend’ attitude #she thought he would be cool.. but no he’s just super pissed off #I don’t condone Tubbs’ behavior in this scene btw. he was so rude #miami vice #rico tubbs #philip michael thomas #starsky & hutch #dave starsky #starsky and hutch

[tariah23]

Literally still annoyed a little bit from the other day because no way

#the audacity of trying to paint me as a terf just because I mentioned some antiblack of a black t blogger from a wt blogger #y’all really do love to use your identities to put false shit on black bloggers I hate it #there are ways to talk to ppl without sending long ass paragraphs cussing mfs out like #I had to turn off my inbox since I’m not used to harassment #but I refuse to argue with ppl online and to make me out to be a bad person just because I pointed out some antiblackness that I saw #associated with someone from briefly searching up their name in the search menu #rambling #like #I was like ???? #white people piss me off sm bro

[caruliaa]

OH MY GODDD idk if i needed to make this clear but apparently i do but DONT FUCKING FOLLOW ME IF YOURE A THINSPO BLOG OH MY GODDDDD !!!!! if ur just doing it bc i posted haha funny bingus post and ur following me from tht or w/e other unrelated reason then to make it clear i am infact a fucking fat person who doesnt support tht bullshit and tbh i dont need to deal with it in a society already constantly telling me to hate my body and if youre one of those ppl tht delibreatly follow fat ppl bc we like motivate u to loose weight bc you think wehre that gross or w/e youre a giant peice of shit and fuck all the way off !!!

#and before you get on my case there is a difference between having an ed and posting content encouraging an ed in yourself and others #and following fat ppl and getting them involved in your attitude based on the idea that nothing is worse than being like them #which is what ik this person was doing btw bc they also had followed a fat acceptance blog i know #all while actually posting thinspo conten along with following thinspo blogs #YOU PEOPLE ARE GROSS AND NEED TO FUCK OFF !!!!!!!!!!! #ik the ppl this post is aimed at wont actually listen to it. whatever ill just block you assholes but jesus omgg #flappy rambles #CAN YOU ALL JUST BE DECENT PEOPLE FOR ONCEEE !!!!!!!! #ugh sorry just . very fucking pissed off !! #and i hate it bc im working thru a lot of this shit trying not to hate myself for my weight #so okay first of all i know you can work thru tht shit without bringing other ppl into it nd saying their bodies are gross #and two i dont need to see that gross shit youre posting when i notice you followed me and i go to block you asshole !! i really dont !!

[mrburnsnuclearpussy]

#all you have to create is something about skinny white men in love and everyone will care about you and them #anything else is just nothing to you ppl lol #what’s the point of trying to be an artist I swear I just wanna give up coz I can’t create enough finished art in general #WHY CANT I DRAW LIKE I DID WHEN I WAS A KID. it felt so easy and now I’m scared to do it for no reason ugh!! #i wish I was interested in the same things as everyone else coz at least then the quality wouldn’t matter and people would care anyway #sorry I know this comes across as really childish and mean and yeh it is I’m just venting #coz sometimes I look at certain popular profiles and stuff and it makes me ache coz I’ll never be a part of the big club where you can feel #love and I’ll never be able to coz I’m just a robot thing with no humanity!!! #even the LITERAL ROBOT is still reduced in the fandom to being shipped like just fuck off all of you #one of my bigger recent passion Roberts is a story and even when I have some motivation and energy I just remember that literally not a sing #single person on earth has any reason to care about it and why should they! so I just feel like crawling into a hole and sulking like a piss #pissbaby which is what I’m doing lol #just because it’s not about young skinny men and the ‘purity/beauty/divinity/superiority of romantic love </3’ and #and YUMMY SQUISHY ORGANIC RED PASSIONATE things because illl never be a part of all of that anyway #I’m not amazing I don’t have the inherent drama and meaningfulness of romantic love in me as a potential so I’m basically nothing #my life means nothing because i can’t feel the one thing that matters #-(one thing that matters according to the world and like all communities and societies and any place to feel like you’re a part of somethin #) #and if your broken (empty of romantic love) like me you’re told to go play by yourself in the corner and not complain that #everyone else gets to be in the group #‘just do your own thing it doesn’t matter what society thinks’ is well meaning and <3 but for me I just hear ‘don’t be a part of us’ #what if I want to be a part of something? what if I want society to know and understand me?

[235uranium]

every day i barely restrain the urge to bitch about the social sciences

#☢️.txt #listen. all of the fields under this umbrella are legitimate and worth studying #but trying to group them with mainline stem is. silly at best #ppl always turn this into a 'hard vs soft sciences' thing but like. its not that! #im gonna be honest before i took higher level social science classes i didnt think much about this but like. the social sciences #place huge emphasis on the subjective nature of things and imho that goes against the very core philosophy of the natural + logical science #and like. that methodology WORKS for these fields. history benefits from a degree of subjectivity #but social 'scientists' always get pissed off that natural and logical scientists DONT consider that valid #in our fields!!! god the amount of social 'scientists' who insert themselves into physics discussions #using extremely complex aspects of quantum mechanics to justify themselves #while half of them bitch about being expected to know stats. is absurd #im gonna be real i think ppl are attached to the term social sciences bc they think thats the only way for those fields to be taken #seriously and like. thats the fucking problem isnt it???? #you want fields outside of STEM proper to be taken seriously but you continually reinforce this idea by insisting #fields like history and sociology Have to be sciences in the same way as biology and mathematics #and instead of accepting that. youre the humanities its fine its literally fucking fine #you do stuff that scientists dont do. bc science alone cannot answer every single question people have #the naturalistic + objectivist worldview is very good in certain contexts! but it has faults! #and the same applies to the philosophies behind social sciences! #you cannot use the techniques in anthropology in physics and vice versa. its fucking fine #also humanities people need to stop craving approval from STEM people its so. #you are reinforcing the cycle youre pissed off about

[archive2394934]

@wheelercore -> tags from this post.

No you're so right, I'd actually be shocked at this point if Virginia wasn't hooking up with another man while Victor was at war, hence Alice. It all makes perfect sense. Victor comes home from the war and Alice exists? I don't think he's so stupid as to really believe this was his kid but maybe Virginia "convinced" him it was, not so much because he's stupid but because he WANTED to believe it was, because the alternative is acknowledging his wife was a cheat-- which-- at this time was a SERIOUSLY bad and shameful thing, not just for Virginia herself but for Victor as well. At this point in time family and marriage was held in the highest possible esteem. Put this with the fact its OBVIOUS the Creels were Christian, this is why Victor is going on about sins and demons and would explain WHY he he says "punishing us for our sins" meaning his entire family, not just him, not just his mistake in the war, but because BACK THEN this would basically mean his entire family was built on sin. Built on a lie.

This could also be part of why the Creels moved from their old home town to Hawkins. Trying to get away from the "sin" and the shame, especially if the community knew that Victor was at war when Virginia fell pregnant with Alice and sure Virginia could insist it was Victors and Victor could back her up on it but people would know. Which just makes the suggestion they moved because of Henry's possible problems with school even more noxious because there they are using their probably disabled child as a scapegoat again. ALSO LET ME EDIT TO ADD THIS REAL QUICK: I cant help but imagine how it might have felt and looked to Victor if he knew for a fact that Henry WAS his biological child and HENRY was the one who was labeled as abnormal and broken by his teachers and doctors. We know back in this time period children like Henry, children who were "different" and had difficulties and "special needs" were often considered punishments to their families for sinning. So theres also THAT. And maybe part of Victors thing in forgiving Virginia for this wasn't just because it was a lot more awkward and painful not to in a sense but also because he was traumatized by a terrible mistake he made during the war. He comes home and finds out his wife has made a terrible mistake as well (or so she might have claimed) and he decides well how can I judge her? Like is that all theory? Sure, but it seems backed up enough by canon at this point. And I FULLY AGREE. Theres more going on, and I THINK the duffers have confirmed that they're going to be focusing on Henry's past a lot more next season-- I also feel like some things in the script were changed to make things a little more vague in order to keep folks guessing for s5 and not give everything away right off the bat. (Like Henry's transformation for example, I have a feeling that might have been changed the way it was BOTH to make it easier to translate to the screen but also to further obscure what the "line" between Henry and the MF actually is, so to speak. Cos I mean just think if we had the scene on screen in its original form how could people doubt that Henry might not be the big bad? Like if they SAW THE VINES transforming Henry in some weird attack (similar to what we saw with Billy) how could they deny he's not the one controlling them? I MEAN there should already be sufficient enough doubt with what we did see and the things we do know but I think a scene like that would p much confirm my thoughts and it seems the Duffer brothers are treating that a bit like a spoiler for the next season. (sorry Duffers if thats true I ratted y'all out a year or so in advance)

#henry creel #vecna #001 #:) the fact that it was such a stigma in that time to have child who was possibly disabled / nd is a real thing also #when me n u talk about henry and the creel family its -ancient philosophers meme- #but when the rest of the fandom does it its -angry baby meme- #love that for us smh #like moving to a new house + town might fix the shame of Virginias infidelity #but they still had henry their weird kid who was pissing off teachers and doctors were claiming was broken #the solution? :) have him institutionalized #call a doctor a SPECIALIST in the 'human mind' to come fix him #fixing him meaning either putting him through some fucked up mentally corrosive therapy (like we see with Terry) or simply keeping him shut #away in a mental hospital #like ppl do not seem to understand stranger things is a period piece they really dont #and they dont get how normal this sort of thing was back in the time periods ST deals with #the 30s-40s-50s were horrific to mentally ill/ND/disabled people #this was the era of highly glamourized eugenics-- all the people in this fandom who try to claim henry #would be a eugenicist are so out of their mind open your damn eyes he was a victim of eugenic ideals that were normalized back then #FROM HIS OWN MOTHER and possibly his father was complicit #anyway end tag rant this fandom shows their ass around this character so bad #I don’t want to apologise for Vecna’s murders – I’m not sorry

[applejarjar]

Shitstorm of a day

#Person I was working with today broke down and cried #I broke down and cried #I'm just so pissed and disappointed #Ppl act like we're not giving our all and hold things against us that they have no right to #We can't help that our backgrounds are just different #And we're in this program to make up for our shortcomings of not having direct plant experience #Like we are here for a reason it's not just for shits and giggles #And the me that goes into these plants is a different me than the one at home #Because I am going into a place with the intent to do work and absorb as much information as possible #So I'm sorry if I don't ask you about your home life when I'm being paid to learn the process and how plants differ #I'm trying to do my job and most of that is ask questions about the process and how things are done #I'm not here to unnecessarily take up your time and shoot the breeze with everybody #I tell myself that otheelr ppls opinion of me doesn't matter but have I been failing this whole time #Do most ppl think I'm too shy to do any job in the future properly #I'm not always this quite but I just don't like spending my time unproductively #I was told that this was the time to sell myself and show the plat a that I mean business #But has it all been for naught? Are they just taking this 2d impression of me and writing me off? #I fuckin can't right now #Can't believe I'm crying over this after I promised myself to do better by myself and say fuck em if other ppl don't like me #I just don't have the strength to deal with this rn

[littlepetbee]

not to sound like a judgy bitch but i literally have no idea how people go around not liking or getting pissed at/bothered by normal ass people all the time

#personal #b4 i get jumped on i don't mean assholes...i just mean your normal garden variety coworkers/family members/neighbors/friends/whatever #like idek HOW to be irritated with or not like someone who's just....living their life #and anyone i'm around regularly i feel positively about unless they suck #isn't it exhausting to take everything as badly as possible all the time? or get offended at the slightest provocation? #or find normal human idiosyncracies to be so annoying it's the end of the world? #i'm sorry i just--- liking people and letting them Be is so fucking easy!!!!! way easier than trying to be pissed off all the time!!! #and that's coming from me. the foremost of angry stubborn bitches. BUT only when people actually deserve it #i've got plenty of patience for good people that don't conduct/express themselves in a 100% perfect way all the time #bruh i love to love people! g*d. anyways. i wish ppl irl would just chill out more often smh

[jasonntodd]

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#i finally finished queen charlotte and DAMN #the best bridgerton show hands down 😭 that shit had be rooting for americans FIRST ENEMY LFMAOMCOD #also i absolutely despise penelope and colin so tragic that the next season is them #they’re bland and bleh and have zero chemistry and they’re just UGH they piss me off so goddam. much. #so sad i guess the only bridgerton season i’ll be watching is season two again or queen charlotte #but also #back to queen charlotte #i just think it’s funny how so many are now dumping for king george iii #*simping #but damn some ppl are also so fucking stupid #like…..what happened to just enjoying the show ? not nitpicking and trying to find every tiny ass detail to complain about ??? #man i hate ppl these are the kinda of idiots that ruin shows and movies for me #bc yea obv if something is blatantly wrong and gross it’s one thing but like….if you have to go out of your way #to make some sort of argument or complaint about why THIS one thing is bad etc….. #just stop and don’t watch it it was so obviously not meant for you then #god sorry it’s bc i’m seeing stupid ppl make posts and tiktoks of the new show and it’s just pissing me off #oh yea side note i wish in one of the upcoming seasons they decide to choose a east asian love interest bc #representation? it’s alsways so nice to see asians onscreen and season 2 was literally amazing #so MORE !! #more diversity to piss of the nazis #personal