#love that for me!

[princesscallyie]

May your life be filled with lots of love, laughter, and friendship…today and every day! Happy Valentine’s Day to you. ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks! 🥰

#unfortunately I had to go to the kiosk but tomorrow is my last day #love that for me! #callyie chat

[amour-de-tous]

Hello my friends, it is that horrible time where I once again am going to be poor on main. (CW for lots of dental talk and surgery talk; if you want the non-medical details plea hit up the TL;DR at the bottom) As you may or may not know, I have had a Dental Emergency™. In very early October my tooth Broke A Lot and the earliest the surgeon could see me was December 13th. That was a long....long wait eating pureed foods. 😅 (I am still not back to eating Regular and I cannot WAIT until I am) I have had the surgery! Which involved general anesthesia! Which was a lot really, both mentally and physically and, mostly, financially (okay, no, mostly physically, but the financially is killing me softly here). This is only step/stage/part 1 of the process, the removal of the broken tooth and the bone graft. I still need 2 more visits with this specialist surgeon, before I have to go back to the Regular Dentist Guy and finish the process/get my other teeth dealt with (plus some day I’d like my teeth cleaned again but that’s not gonna happen any time soon lol). The whole cost of all this is going to be around $8,000. Yes, that is ABSURD. Yes, I am furious. No, my insurance doesn’t cover any of this, because of course it doesn’t. :| No, I am not asking for anywhere near that amount, that’d also be absurd. But any little bit helps, you know? I should PROBABLY start a gofundme but for reasons I Cannot Get Into On A Public Platform, I actually cannot do that, either (anyone wanna start one for me? aha).  TL;DR: I need money for dental surgery/reconstruction that is an ongoing process and going to cost an absolutely ridiculous amount of money. So this is the part where I say if you have any extra cash and would like to lend a helping hand to this disabled, unemployed, still-stuck-at-home-because-I’m-immunocompromised-and-covid-is-a-Thing nerd, would you? Paypal is cnmusic @ cathasaigh dot com. You know the drill (friends/family so paypal doesn’t think I should be providing a shipping invoice for a product that doesn’t exist lol).  However, if you’re seeing this after the new year (after December 31st 2022) please message me before you donate, because Paypal’s new $600 cap is going live next year and I Cannot Deal With Complicated Taxes, I Will Simply Perish. My chronic illness brainfog cannot handle that without at least ten breakdowns and seventy eleven meltdowns and a cry. lol Thanks, lovelies.  And as always, please, please, please do not feel at all bad or guilty or any of that if you can’t contribute!!! I get it! I am also super duper broke! We are still in a ~*;PANDEMIC;*~ . I get it, no worries! Also, since things are tough for most folks right now with ~*;PANDEMIC;*~ and holidays and families and such,  I hope you have a very good day and something good happens to you every day this week and also that you manage to acquire your favourite food or treat, regardless of whether you can help or not. <3 Also, okay to reblog!

#ponderings and musings #donations #watch me reblog 87 things to hide this post now because i'll be embarrassed #love that for me! #me to my friends: please ask for help when you need it! there is absolutely no shame in it!!! #me to me: no one wants to listen to you cry about not being able to work #i have some internal stuff to unpack huh??

[tintedglasses]

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#I faced a big fear tonight #and I didn’t die! #or freak out! #love that for me!

[alwaysspeakshermind]

"some things are still the same."

varchie + 6 seasons of parallels = a&v forever

#varchie #archie andrews x veronica lodge #varchieedit #riverdaleedit #archieronnie #archie andrews #veronica lodge #archie x veronica #the magic 8-ball says YES #y'all #tumblr does indeed let you upload up to 30 pics now! #also i miss my babies #but even when we're 'not getting content' #we're getting content lol #love that for me! #my post #my edit #photoedit #mis bebitos preciosos! #favorite ships #why i ship it #why i will always ship it

[misty-moth]

I could work on my art piece, potentially finishing tonight 🤔

Or I could edit a fic or two that I wrote but never cleaned up 🤔

Or (and this is the most likely option) I can sit here and do nothiiing~~~ 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

#woo! ya! decision paralysis! #love that for me! #(i’m gonna say ‘jk i’ll actually work on art’ but the chances of me actually doing that behind this screen? not good) #anyway here’s wonderwall

[sabrinaacarpenters]

afraid to even ask this but wtf is one piece lmao

#the way im oblivious to everything thats popular on here #love that for me!

[aiqingdemeimiao]

those "black doves" on set pics of ben with the guitar make me think we're soooo close to finally getting that nick cave biopic.

like hello? are you seeing the vision, ladies???? just get rid of the beard and he'd be perf

#i recreated these from what nick cave's albums looked like in my head and turns out i remembered them kinda wrong but oh well lol #ten million hours in mspaint #polly's prob gonna have a breakdown if this happens but i think enough time has passed that it'll be ok #made these during my break at work and accidentally uploaded them to the work cloud that only management can delete things from #love that for me!

[aeide-thea]

i do feel like. i probably need to read some sort of Helpful Self-Help Text abt passive-aggression, bc growing up i couldn't really express my interpersonal discomforts or needs because they would almost inevitably displease my mother, and i didn't have any model for expressing them because neither of my parents were given any room or model growing up for expressing them either! hashtag generational trauma or whatever.

so basically now i'm just like. it's Bad of me to be alienated or upset so the only outlet i have is to whisper abt it quietly on my blog. which is. actively unhelpful in a few ways as per prev post abt Venting (self-disempowerment, alienation of people vented-about, alienation of people not-vented-about who very reasonably feel concerned abt becoming potential targets in the future!).

#like. time to be an adult and work out how to unpick some conditioning. #hard tho bc it's not like i've Escaped and am now in a safe space‚ lol #it really is wild how you can watch a parent feel disempowered and do huge damage because of it and then— #turn around and do the same thing yrself :) #love that for me! #the psyche

[getshimback]

i literally should not stay up until surprise song o’clock because it gives me so much adrenaline and i cant go to sleep

#sleep schedule is destroyed 😍 #and school starts in like two weeks #love that for me!

[waldenborn]

helo having slight touch aversion, but imagine with someone he is extremely close with during an intimate setting slowly taking off his gloves so that he can feel skin on his hands for the first time in years.

#wishlist. #nice! #love that for me! #personally! #ah! #ha! #HA!!

[securcity-archive]

fun fact about hal, she likes being on top because it makes her feel in control of the situation because for so long in her life, she has always felt out of control. so if she's ever on the bottom? it means she trusts you.

#headcanon. #fun fact of the day! #love that for me! #FMNDSJKFNSDJFNDKFSD.

[endlessfurore]

if i change my quince name to quincey i will be going from “named self after a shakespeare character” to “named self after a dracula character” which is pretty fun i think

#love that for me! #maybe i’ll keep both lol #i have too many names already but oh well what’s one more #rambles

[imaginejolls]

omw to pick up my driver's license with my new legal name! it's the last document i need to pick up, i got my new ID 2 weeks ago and my insurance card by post this week <3 still feels unreal that Jolly is on all of my documents now lol

#love that for me! #jolly has thoughts and feelings

[amouria]

#love that for me! #i am so corny #no but they're one of my favorite ships #/// #//////// #//// #///// #grey's anatomy spoilers

[toss-a-coin-to-your-stan-account]

staff: our april fools joke this year is a silly feature that doesn't really do anything but give you a button to boop other users! they have to opt-in first though :)

me:

#mine #tumblr #boop #don't get me wrong I love booping but. hm

[whiteshipnightjar]

Zoozve, my beloved

#i cannot tell you how much this made me smile just bc it's so full of love #moon #venus #zoozve #long post #sorry about that it's very long but it's very entertaining i hope you enjoy this lil zoozve gem haha #astronomy #astrophysics #space