honest to god that’s why i believer noor being friends with her makes no sense because noor would neverrr, considering she’s also friends with sander lmao. their friendship literally doesn’t make any sense to me. either way, she was just the worst god even if i try to understand where she was coming from, i just can’t. and that night with robbe was the last straw. she’s got nothing on sonja, who actually loved and wanted to protect even. and as much as everyone want to use the age excuse like i get that but... literally no 16y/o thinks behaving like that is normal. i just can’t see it that way bc i was that age not that long ago and believe me, i was ignorant too lmao but i would’ve never thought of acting like that🧍🏻♀️sorry but that scene after the hotel clip just triggers me sm i swear it’s the worst sfjsks
nah, i get it’s triggering, esp for people who have had people in their lives who disregard feelings like that. every single one of those after-hotel scenes makes me uncomfortable. i don’t agree that age doesn’t play part of it though, she’s not a teenager in woke circles on the internet where mental illness isn’t taboo. and even then... you don’t know everything either. i can’t make a blanket statement abt teenagers being great bc literally MOST teenage girls are hellions at 16 (for a lot of reasons.. that legit suck and also your brain is just changing), definitely not to THAT degree, like she is a certified mean girl in unnecessary ways we can’t relate to, but... that’s legit a shitty time in every way and i’ve known ppl who would be and have been that dramatic/obsessed in relationships. she has never been forced to think about people not like her in terms of mental health and she has ZERO frame of reference that we know of or lived experience in any way. she doesn’t get it, VERY clearly. and i honestly think sander’s bipolar diagnosis is fairly recent in wtfock. i have nothing to back that up other than... bipolar takes a while to be diagnosed and normally happens early 20s and onward, and sander himself doesn’t get to talk abt it much on screen but i wouldn’t be surprised if he was still trying to figure it out for himself.
imo, the sonjas are worse bc they know what they’re saying is just to be manipulative and get isaks off their backs/to leave them alone, lol. like they KNOW what they’re saying isn’t true and are just trying to break a spirit. maybe it’s out of protectiveness, but you could argue it’s out of selfishness and their own fear too and i think the sonjas being older and having dated evens for longer puts them at an extreme power advantage in that situation. like that’s real manipulation, not that i think it’s some lasting scar on the isaks or makes them irredeemable, and i’m grateful they have them turn around and apologize/explain. they clearly understand what they said and did is wrong like.. as they did it. britt legit is just............ ignorant. it’s hard to watch, she gets in robbe’s face and shoves him, and it gets even harder bc you never get the apology from her. but in the end, it comes down to emotional immaturity and britt’s full of it. her exbest friend cheated with her exboyfriend, her current boyfriend cheated on her with robbe, and she has a tight n aggressive rein on him, which IS unhealthy and bad for them both. anyway, i don’t think she’s evil lmao. i also don’t think what she did was the end of the world, even if she caused my faves pain. sander’s own brain serves him far fucking worse i’m sure, and all i can say is now that robbe and sander are in a happier place, it’s easier to logically look at the situation than it was when it was airing. that specific situation always really forces me to try to put myself in people’s shoes bc anon.. i legit wouldn’t have done it at 16 either! and also i think people do things when they’re overly emotional that they wouldn’t condone on a normal day, ESP when you’re young and hormonal. with britt, it just makes me wonder where the redeeming side to her is BECAUSE sander also started dating her in the first place. like...... jflksdjflk noor and jana associated with her.... there has to be something beyond the villain positions we see her in.
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