#negativity under read more

[bayleafpaprika]

i tried watching scarlet heart (the original cdrama version) years ago and thought it was horrible but kept thinking it has to have some redeeming quality given its popularity

and yeah it's going down a little easier this time around because im trying not to judge it too hard

but jfc the doom starter relationship between Ruoxi and Yinsi annoys me so much. dude spends years pining after her older sister and then immediately turns around and hits on her the second she gets there? like wtf is wrong with him? if Yingsi had decided to try sticking his dick in anyone else, it would've been fine/whatever/who gives a shit given he's supposed to have multiple wives. but if he genuinely gives a fuck about the woman he claims to have fallen in love with he would not be trying to get into her baby sister's pants. what a fucking asshole

what's even more annoying is Rouxi somehow reciprocates his advances and does not seem to give a crap about how it affects her sister. yeah, Roulan hates him but imagine the husband you're forced to marry starting up an affair with your younger sister behind your back?? at best that's massively inconsiderate, at worst it's a fucking betrayal to your feelings when you made it very clear where you stand with him

and sure you can argue that Roulan isn't really her sister but as a viewer i honestly don't know which way i dislike more; 'Rouxi' thinking of her as a sister and still went ahead and got emotionally involved with Yingsi anyway, or 'Rouxi' never thought of Roulan as her sister in the first place

im still going to finish the drama because the premise is interesting enough but it sucks to watch something when you have zero respect for the main characters as people

#scarlet heart #步步惊心 #negativity under read more #rant

[thatfirehairedshifter]

I am going to say this one time and one time only.

If you follow strode, knowing what they did? Unfollow me and never speak to me again. If you dont know, I will happily tell you. But if you know and are still friends? Don’t talk to me and leave me alone. Also do not bother sending me anon hate on either of my blogs, it’s getting deleted automatically

#out of shifts #negativity #negativity under read more

[aromanticduck]

🖤🩶I hope every asexual has a good day today🤍💜

💚🤍I hope every aromantic has a good day today🩶🖤

I hope anyone who comes into the notes to say something like 'why can't you just wish everyone a good day?' has a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

#bonus under the read more is slightly negative #ace #aro #asexual #aromantic #ace things #aro things #organic home grown content #colour text #100 tier

[hajihiko]

Re: Kokichi: I was like "oh it's another tiny little dude with the same voice as my all-time favorite DR character! I'm on board!" ... "Hmm. Probably getting off board, actually."

I love clownery and I love lying and I enjoy that voice acting so I'm mad the character ended up being. As he is

#Kokichi Ouma negative #That should deck it right #Not an art #Drlive3 #Ok that's all the neg for now . If I get mad I'll put stj under a read more

[dalishborne]

SO glad i'm reading (listening to) the masked empire bc it's not only giving me a little more material to help me shape revie's use of magic (thanks felassan lol) but the insight into dalish clans has been v reaffirming for my personal headcanons about clan aravun.

#sobs i was gonna put a bunch of jotnote headcanons under a read more but i have negative brainpower rn #i'll come back to this when im done finals lol #i have a lot of muse but also a lot of writing anxiety rn so im hoping headcanons and drabbles will help me kick my worries to the curb #ooc.

[bdoubleowo]

New Life series general spoilers and also a bit of personal taste neg (under a read more just in case u don't wanna see it)

me, yesterday: Yeah last life was probably my least favorite of the 3 seasons. I didn't really like the boogeyman mechanic, I thought it disrupted the players relationships in a relatively unsatisfying way. Similarly the extra lives made the deaths feel less dramatic and less important. Some of the most compelling moments were when people resisted this, Scott taking the life penalty, or Etho refusing to abandon Bdubs when he turned red. Frequently people who were red/boogey and became green again didn't face consequences because they were just following the rules of the system. Bdubs boogey kills Tango and its a VERY funny moment because of how Tango reacts, but its mostly brushed aside by the team as a whole, compared to when Cleo held a grudge against BigB for his boogey kill, leading to the absolutely iconic "do me a favor, die for me". 3rd Life I think also benefited from contrast, everyone was very kind and excited at the beginning before id devolved into chaos and bloodshed, whereas everyone was distrustful from the start in LL. So yeah, I'm glad other people like it but really wasn't my cup of tea like 3rd Life was.

Limited Life (same acronym as LL): Boogeyman is back :] and we did extra rounds of it

me: cool

LL: everyone basically has 24 lives

me: sick.

LL: like 10 deaths already on episode one

me: awesome

#i want to reiterate its TOTALLY COOL if other people love these mechanics and/or have opinions that differ from mine #i am SO glad for you if u loved last life and love where it seems limited life is heading. #its also possible that i'm just a fucking wuss. i generally don't like things with unhappy endings. though 3L didn't have a happy ending #and i REALLY liked it. even though everyone died it felt. kinder. like. the duos. no matter what the world threw at them they had each othe #i dunno i never actually finished double life and its been a while since i've rewatched any of them #Limited Life SMP #Limited Life SMP spoilers #limited life spoilers #last life neg #last life salt #<- just to be safe. i don't hate last life by any means but i get some people might not wanna hear someone critique it #i know i also put it under a read more but shshhshhshhhhh i'm playing it safe #og post #i forgot my fucking post tag

[captain-hen]

I think a lot is down to perception depending on who your favorite is, though. I've seen so many good posts on eddie and his character development, also people pointing out that buck hasn't even had a scene that wasn't related to eddie. So I kinda feel the opposite sometimes, some people only see buck as a love interest for eddie (even though... he has a girlfriend) and some people are annoyed at every bit of screentime he gets, it's exhausting and kinda sad. They're both main characters and deserve the screentime

i'm just gonna put the rest of this under a cut because it gets quite a bit negative:

it's not that people are annoyed at every bit of screentime buck gets—they're frustrated and upset after season 6, which was particularly bad in the way it focused on him. season 6 had roughly twelve or thirteen episodes where buck had something major going on. that's insane! that's more than what eddie and chimney combined had! i don't think any other 911 season which had a particular character at the focus was so unevenly distributed in terms of screentime. so, no, i don't agree, and i think it's perfectly reasonable for people to be annoyed and frustrated about this, especially when buck's arc wound up going in circles.

and btw, this is still an unpopular opinion. most people are thrilled that the 100th episode is named after buck and will likely focus on him. i saw way more instances of people being told to shut up and stop being upset about 7x04 being buck-centric, than i saw people complaining about it. when people point out that buck gets way too much screentime, they'll instantly be accused of being negative and buck stans will act like you're personally bullying oliver stark by saying this.

so, like, it's not in any way comparable to the way the buddie fandom consistently disrespects eddie's character and makes literally every aspect of him about buck. i'm not denying that there are still some really good posts about him that go around, but for the most part? ao3 is a hellscape. there are posts that will just invent things about eddie's character that never happened in canon for the sake of shipping. people are so resentful and weird about eddie dating someone, even though it's the only thing he has going on rn, and they're never this way about buck's love life.

like...this is just the way it is right now. and i doubt it's gonna get better.

#sorry to go off on a tangent lol #*captain holt voice* apparently that was a trigger for me #neethu answers #anon #seriously do not look under the read more if you don't want to see some pretty heavy critique of season 6 and the fandom #negativity

[singersalvaged]

hi loves,

my time here may be sporadic over the next few weeks or so. I just found out some hard-hitting news last night and I'm not in the best mental space. I'll be in and out for a little longer, my focus just isn't what it normally is.

#tw negative #tw loss #putting this under a read more just in case

[theygender]

Does anyone have any good book recommendations that talk about transmisogyny in a way that would be entry level to like. A 50 year old cis lesbian

#especially ones that talk about the ways that our society primes even trans allies to view trans women in a negative light #my mom is trying but i think she could use some help understanding in a way that i dont think i could just talk her through #she seems to think my gf is more like standoffish than she actually is and she thinks my gf is being rude when shes emotional about smth #and im talking her through it from the perspective of like #'as a human being and as someone who is all too familiar with homophobia please understand what this is like from her perspective' #but i feel like. theres some unconscious transmisogyny going on here and i really wish my mom could understand that #but i dont think shes ever even heard of transmisogyny before. she has no context #i cant try and talk her through it from that perspective bc she would need a lot of background to understand what im saying #and i dont think trying to explain transmisogyny theory in the middle of an argument would be helpful #if i could recommend her a good book under the context that it would help her understand me and my gf as trans people #and if she read through it and took the time to understand it which i do believe she would #i feel like it might help her to kind of analyze if the thoughts shes having are influenced by transmisogyny and start unpacking that #and also importantly i feel like she could look at what my gf is going through not just from the human and lgbt perspective im asking her to #but also from her perspective As A Woman #bc i feel like theres a missing piece there right now. my mom supports us and respects my gfs gender #but i dont think shes looking at these situations in context As A Fellow Woman #idk #rambling

[aeviare]

{trying to be better with mood drops. deeper breathing and mentally forcing myself to not think about things that make me unproductively Sad™️ <3 it's gonna be a lil hard for me throughout this weekend and into next week, but i hope that i can try to focus on staying productive and not going down a mental spiral. it's not a secret the end of last year was hard, but i'm trying not to bring too much of that into the new year.}

#❥ 🇹‌🇭‌🇪‌ 🇰‌🇪‌🇪‌🇵‌🇪‌🇷‌ 🇮‌🇸‌ 🇫‌🇦‌🇩‌🇮‌🇳‌🇬‌ 🇦‌🇼‌🇦‌🇾‌ {ooc} #not negativity? but also felt better to keep it under a read more

[ndostairlyrium]

That toxic trait post going around is like, at first I was like "hahah yeah that's fun! my toxic trait is [insert stupid thing], let's note it down and reblog it later"

Then I saw how unhinged it became like, straight up mauling characters, pissing on other people's choices and nasty takes. And that was my dashboard tonight

Like, not to guilt trip anyone but how can we complain of that kind of toxicity while acting just like that at the first chance we get?

#spritz is kicking in #I was putting this under a read more but at the end who cares #fandom critical #jesus christ the level of negativity I've experienced tonight #and I'm 100% sure I'm not alone in this

[stories-of-the-multiverse]

((So. You ever give someone the benefit of the doubt, only to find out it was a mistake because it turns out to be someone block evading just to trample over your boundaries?

So, here we are, me coming out pissed, tired, and with a lesson learned that I will now impart on you all.

If you recently blocked someone for trampling boundaries, and someone claiming to know them in any way follows you, block their ass. Especially if the person has proven willing to block evade to try to keep in contact with you. Chances are, it's just them trying to worm their way back into your space, regardless of your feelings on it.

And if you get blocked and are thinking about making alternate accounts and even pretending you're not you to bypass them cutting you off? Guess what, that's harassment, and it's a very shitty thing to do. Nobody owes you their time and energy, and you are not owed a justification for being blocked nor are you owed being unblocked. To think otherwise is, frankly, entitled at best.

Man. And to think I would have been left wondering if my boyfriend didn't approach me to let me know the person I blocked followed him recently. And when I brought up the other account, he tells me that one followed him roughly around the same time.

I'm not giving names here, because frankly, this can be a learning experience. Thank my boyfriend for gently suggesting I don't drag you with names and screenshots, because I was pissed enough to be about to do it.

I still have your messages open while I'm typing this because you asked me not to block you until you had a chance to read this, and I'm willing to give you that inch so long as you don't try to weasel a mile again, and you asked me how you can make it up to me as I type this.

Well here it is; I don't think there is a way you can. You crossed a major line here, and it's doubtful there's any coming back from this anytime soon.

I'm willing to believe you're not malicious, and that you meant no harm. But if you truly care, then heed this; Don't ever try this again. Not with me, not with anyone else. When people make it clear they want to be left alone, then the best you can do is respect that and leave them alone. Whether or not they let you back in is up to them, but certainly not up to you. Don't assume you can just walk back through that door if you weren't invited back in, and certainly not with groncho glasses and a different name.

Sorry about the rant guys, but one more thing before I turn you all loose; I'm turning off Anon for a while, and until further notice, I am a mutuals only blog. This situation has admittedly shaken me quite a bit, and I feel weirdly violated from this whole ordeal.

Please, stay safe and take care, guys.))

#OOC #Negative CW #Drama CW #Tumblr Drama CW #Stalking CW #Harassment CW #Long Post #idk what else to tag but #Yeah- #Not putting it under read more because this is something everyone needs to see #I am sorry in advance but #Fuck this entire situation I am so tired

[ofgentleresolve]

ferre's thoughts!

hi everyone! so sorry to have been absent ( or at least very sporadic ) here and across all my other blogs- i promise i never stopped thinking about my muses and all of the wonderful dynamics i have with everyone!! recently though, i guess i've been feeling a bit...meh about this blog?? so i'm just going to ramble for a hot second in these bullet points to air out my thoughts and hopefully i can get to some kind of conclusion here....feel free to throw your own opinions in here if you want to!!

this is my fault, but uh, i think i accidentally isolated myself on this blog?? like, these days most of my activity rp-related has been in discord, but i would like...to reach to ppl again if they are still interested....that being said, i know i say i love plotting with other muns, but i also know that truthfully, it takes me a while to open up and it probably doesn't help that i can take like weeks to get back to ppl ic wise....i dont want to get into the details but i'll just say that this summer was kinda...not great ( don't worry nothing bad happened, i'm just going thru a rough patch....) so that's been killing my writing mojo for a while ://

this also relates to the first point, but i realize plotting really does make a difference to me about whether or not i'm excited for a thread so i'll probably make a note about that when i rewrite & condense my rules....

ever since i moved patrick to his own blog, i've noticed that annie ( and since i gave him a connection to her ) and ga ram seem to be the most active on there...tbh there are some muses on my main muse roster that truthfully, haven't been used in months due to the lack of plots/active dynamics- i don't want to get rid of them bc nostalgia and i do intend to write them on occasion, but....if they aren't garnering as much interest then i might just have to switch around my rosters a bit....

this blog isn't nearly as much of a slice-of-life blog as it used to be....if anything, i feel like it might be better to call it a crime & slice-of-life multimuse considering that the muse who seems to come out the most often now is annie....as such i was wondering if....perhaps changing the aesthetics of this blog might help with getting into the mood for writing on here again?? if anything patrick and calum's blogs seem to embody this blog's current core themes more ^^'

this might also mean changing the username for this blog....although i will say, i am quite attached to this url as it's been my brand for YEARS... but on the other hand perhaps a url with a bit more...grit to it could help ( that and if it is change then better to accept than resist...right?? )

also saw lena on my dash ( WHICH WAS A SIGN OF A GOOD DAY FOR ME 🥺🥺🥺 ) and i lowkey?? wanna follow in their footsteps aka be more lax and free-flowing on here...so i might drop the formatting ( sans the small text ) bc that does, i will admit, take up more time to post responses than anything else :'D

okay if you read all of this, thanks for listening, i promise everything will be fine on my end <3 i really really just miss writing on here and being part of dashboard shennagans so....hope to see?? you all soon in the meanwhile, will try to get to some memes & maybe do the bingo boards for some of my muses here <3

#that would be truly wonderful ( ooc. ) #it's not really negative but it's long #so that's why i put it under read more :'D #that and....ngl in the last few months i kept on seeing some...bad energy on my dashboard across all my blogs :/ #no one i follow now bc thankfully they disappeared to the wind/i got so fed up i bit the bullet #but i guess in my rules i really have to make it clear that i'm slow ooc and ic #literally my partners and i can take MONTHS to get back to threads #and it's all gucci jfsldkjfl <3 #okay this time for REAL i'm heading out now #I WILL BE BACK I PROMISE :DDDD

[lighthouseborn]

oh cool a new fandom blog i wonder-

oh ok.

#pinned 💀 #tbd. #i am actually laughing and i'm not going to read it because i'm sure i know what it says #and it's under a read more and i don't need that kind of negativity in my life but holy shit lmao

[oxventure-text-posts]

I'm gonna try out adding images descriptions for the text posts so if anyone has any tips/advice for them, feel free to let me know

#not a text post #like if they should go under a read more or if that negatively affects the accessibility of it

[aro-attorneys]

God. Second attempt at writing a sort of coherent Good Omens Season 2 rant/review/thoughts. Whatever you want to call it.

First, things I really enjoyed:

Pre-fall Crowley scene. Though this was not liked as much by some other critical Book fans. I understand from canon-conflicting perspective, but TV and Book Omens are separate in my head (sorry Neil Gaiman I can't buy the Same Canon thing)

The flashbacks scene (especially the one with Job and the Resurrectionist, the zombie one was kinda bad though)

Aziraphale getting to use the Bentley

Ok that's all that stood out to me of what I really liked. Time to complain!

God I'll just...start with The Kiss. I saw spoilers for it before I got a chance to watch it and immediately felt disappointment. I do like the Ineffable Husband ship, but I liked it as this...vague thing they kinda had going on in the back. They absolutely did not need an angsty one-sided confession scene with a forced kiss. Everything about it felt so inorganic too. I was trying to be open to the possible (different/romantic) chemistry they might have in s2, but it never happened. Instead there was Nina and telling Crowley he's in love with Aziraphale. Even though nothing really indicated that? To the public they could just be friends?

They did make more "gay jokes" (like they did once in season 1, which I did not like, it was very amatonormative which goes against the vibes those two have). Did not like those. Felt forced.

I have made posts before about the lack of aro and qpr representation in media and Yes that does play into why I did not like this ending of the season. It felt like this possible representation was forcibly taken away from me. I get to be sad about that. It's technically a separate argument but I'm throwing it here anyway.

Aside from That, the vibes of season 2 was...not really Good Omens? I really love the season 1 adaptation on so many levels. It is not perfect and there is valid criticism to be given, but overall it catches the absurdist comedy and relevance of everyone at play Very Well. Both the book and the show have this "ah it's all coming together" thing that's executed so well. I agree Crowley and Aziraphale got more of a main character role in the Show vs. The Book (where the humans and nonhumans are equally important/get similar screentime). And they amplified this in season 2. This post-book "canon" seems to focus a lot on Crowley and Aziraphale, which feels Wrong. They don't work on their own like they did in the Book/s1. It was their interaction with Earth and its Humans that made them shine in the end. Giving them their own problems to deal with was incredibly uninteresting. This is probably why the flashbacks stood out to me more. ...Yeah, I think it boils down to them not being as interesting on their own.

(of course when fans draw Book Omens Ineffable Husbands it's a different thing altogether, but art or comics usually don't have TV-style drama)

I feel I should say something about Gabriel and Beelzebub? It caught me by surprise that I just laughed when I saw it unfold. It was just very weird idk. I will miss Beelzebub though, I loved their trash gender vibes (then again, the new actor did not sell the vibes as well as the previous actor).

This season made me dive a little into the Book Omens fandom again and made me realise how much I missed the Book. I read it back in 2017 and a lot of fine details are lost on me. I want to read it again for sure. I see a lot of mixed reactions from Book fans on this season. Oftentimes criticism of different kinds, sometimes someone who did kind of like the season.

Overall I hate it when a screen adaptation takes a fandom over. I have to see incredibly bad takes on the Ineffable Husbands every day since the show came out.

In short: it was mostly not as interesting/memorable and I am pissed off about the kiss scene that I have to see everywhere.

#good omens critical #good omens #good omens season 2 #book omens #hey the negative stuff is under a read more #unless you're open to criticism of your beloved gay angel demon show you shouldn't open the post okay? #this isn't important enough to ruin someone's day bc they like the show #but do know that i find the tv omens fandom (the ones who didnt read the book) to be annoying as hell #not the individuals obviously. #anyway is this coherent at all #i tried to just make paragraphs on the main stuff that bothered me #I will push the qpr acearo ineffable husbands agenda