#so SOOOOOOOO annoying

[bitegore]

When i say i want to hang out with weirdos I do not mean "I want to hang with gay people and that's my marker for whether or not someone is weird." I'm not saying "weird" and meaning "vaguely aro" or "polyam" or "nonbinary" or whatever. Those are not personality traits. They tell you nothing about what that person is like. If i say I need more weird people in my social circle I'm talking about people who are weird. People who aren't like, going with the grain of any community based on literally anything. I have standards for this. I'm looking for like. People who won't blink if I say i only ever enter my house through the window or when I talk about drinking gasoline and then do it and they see I'm not joking, or people who won't think anything huge of me cracking the top of an eggshell and drinking the whole thing from the top in one mouthful. Or if they do, they do enough same-vein shit that it doesn't faze them. These are not really the same as being part of a very broad group of people who happen to have an exogender or whatever. I have met some incredibly normal (derogatory) trans people and gay people and aro people and nonbinary people. When i say weird I mean weird.

#saw a really annoying post. #red rambles #im being so brave by only saying this #like. why are you convinced exclusionists are the ones who want their circle to be more interesting and permissive 1. 2 no the fuck i dont #mean 'i want to know more aros' when i say 'i want more weird as hell friends' that means nothing! thats like saying i want more friends #that eat chocolate. thats not a fucking personality trait #weird is a trait about a personality! weird is a thing about THE PERSONALITY of the person ARO is a ROMANTIC ORIENTATION #im not befriending people on basis of their fucking genders do i look that boring to you????? #fuck of. #-3x0 #-3x5 #if you think i'm weird because i'm transgender rather than weird because I'm weird and transgender because i'm transgender then like you've #genuinely lost the plot. 80% of the things i do are much weirder than wanting a different appearance and none of them have almost anything #to do with me being any kind of queer except the non-loaded dictionary kind #my gender situation and shit is probably more normal than the rest of my life by far #i dont even disagree with the idea that you have to be more broadly accepting of people if you wanna share space with people like me but for #the love of god. i would rather hang out with a cis straight avowed furry than a nonbinary xe/xem user who thinks that anyone who dresses #differently from the Fashionable Standard or doesn't listen to the same music as them is somehow Transgeessing and Being Soooooooo Annoying #^not a hypothetical

[fluffypotatey]

Miguel O’Hara: *giving a long and “serious” monologue about how important it is that no one disrupts a Canon event* me, a long time veteran of fandoms and breaking or bending canon events from my favorite stories just for funsies: he’s never heard of headcanons

#atsv #atsv spoilers #spiderman atsv #across the spiderverse #like yeah i understand this is an important conflict in the movie and stuff #but i also disagree with Miguel’s ideology soooooooo 🤷🏻‍♀️ (and methods but that’s a whole other thing) #Miguel should be so glad he never met me I would be super annoying to him lmao

[acewithobsessions]

Ok look the "only one bed" trope is great and all but how do they even get in that situation? I've tried writing it before but it never works because the characters would just, like, sleep on the couch. Idk it just feels so forced.

#ESPECIALLY if I'm writing but it's supposed to be kinda silly and they each are pretending that the other is annoying #often acting so well that the other person believes them too #soooooooo #ramblelele #writing #only one bed

[theflyingfeeling]

okay I'm not expecting anyone to care all that much, but I was looking at the prompts for the 18th Day of Gift-Giving for my Olli/Allu fic advent calendar and I'm between two options on what to do with them, so if anyone out there wants to put in their two cents...

(see the pros and cons in the tags of the original post)

#on one hand i'd like to write a standalone with a storyline of its own #because that way i could probably manage to write a better story #on the other hand i kinda feel like i should focus on the main plot after all the standalones i've posted this week #but if i stick to the main plot my options would be more limited 🤔 #because i don't feel like making either of them have a random headache/migrain or some kinda personal crisis #just for the sake of the prompt #i know there's barely any plot to begin with but i still don't want to make it too scattered 😅 #i have an idea that would work alright for the main story and it would probably turn out cute enough #but some of the other prompts that wouldn't really work for the main story are soooooooo tempting #and i mean. at least 4 or 5 of the stories for next week will be related to the main plot #plus the stories for the 16th and the 17th #so there'd still be plenty for that too! #i'm probably gonna make my own decision regardless of the voting result but i'd like to hear from you anyway #i've never made a poll before and i'm kinda nervous about this lol i really am expecting this to get maybe 3 votes max 🤡 #i hate how the title is so huge pls don't be annoyed with me i'm sorry for existing i promise i'll never make a post ever again 😭 #not putting this in any tags. you see this if you see this

[deus-ex-mona]

rage is a ✨way of life✨

#found out that i successfully angered someone by not showing up to work on saturday lmaoooooo #and im just like… gOOOOOOD. BE MAD!!!!!!!!!!!! #mans has no room to be mad anyway. it’s his fault i had to ot for 7 hours to cover his work for him in the first place soooooooo #a nd he’s getting demoted next year and im ahauxucjsjjsjsjsjxjdhss #in other news im kinda annoyed by my mother’s (unfortunate) pressuring of me to go to the upcoming family christmas gathering :( #like no way manssssss i haven’t seen the extended fam since my grandma’s funeral and i’d like to keep it that way thanks~~~~~~~~ #and a c h r i s t m a s gathering of all places… m a n. im half expecting them to drag everyone to church to end off the gathering… #i wouldn’t put it past the hosting aunt to do that ngl. she had tricked me into attending a church service in the past and all… #like. man. there’s this local mall that has a similar name to said church service… #so ofc it’s normal to assume that said mall is what she was referring to when she said ‘let’s go to [insert name]!’ with no context right??? #and uggshdhdjjsjsjdjs i don’t wanna be introduced to my cousins’ kids as ‘auntie [insert nickname i hate]’ bc that’s lame #and m a n. i definitely don’t wanna interact with my cousins’ kids. i either don’t know or can’t pronounce (or both) their names #i only remember the oldest one’s name (bc he has a stereotypical frat boy name) and the one who’s named after a ninja turtle #but none of the rest. i think some of them have names from my cousins’ spouses’ home countries? dk about the others though #i’m 80% sure one of the girls was named something like ‘triceratops’ but that doesn’t seem right… #being named after a dinosaur sounds cool though… or any prehistoric creature really #if i could choose my own name i’d like it to be ‘coelacanth’ #just so i can say ‘i coelacan’t do it!!!!!’ if someone asked me to do something i don’t wanna do. the pun potentials are endless mans #huh. wow… i started this off with a mad coworker and ended it by turning into a coelacanth… how did we get here anyway…? #oh wells no one reads the tags anyway uehxudjdjdjsjsjss my secrets are ✨safe✨

[liamlawsonlesbian]

.

#I GET TO SEE RO IN LIKE 25 HOURS #theyre coming to my work xmas party which is going to be v weird and then also a fam thing which is going to be v weird bc theyre my fav #im soooooooo excited and it’s so fun to say that here bc ro is never on insta anymore #it’s more fun to be annoying ab how much i love them where theyll actually see it #personal

[hecksupremechips]

Persona romance routes are all pretty bad but damn they really hit rock bottom with p3p femc route like the misogyny is very blatant and it’s almost hilarious like look at the Shinjiro romance. When you do his social link he’s like very clearly respectful of Kotone as a leader and explicitly says stuff like "oh yeah you’re clearly the best fighter we have, I don’t really know much about fighting like you do, I hope I’m not dragging you down, you’re doing a good job as leader just remember to take care of yourself, everyone looks up to you I know you can rely on them" etc. like he has faith in her leading abilities. But then when you romance him he’s like got dialogue like "bwah bluh i gotta look after you because you’re a GIRL and you need to stick by me, a big strong MAN so you don’t get hurt" and "don’t wear that revealing outfit in front of other guys 👺" and it’s like. Does he respect her or not and also like it doesn’t make sense for him to look down on her for being a girl cuz he literally has never not been led by a girl leader during his time in sees and Mitsuru in particular really has her shit together when it comes to being responsible and a good fighter and she’s always known the most about Tartarus

It’s also like. Idk maybe its just me I’m not a girl so FUCK IF I KNOW but to me the appeal of romancing Shinji is the fact that he’s sweet and sensitive and gentle and has respect for you despite the fact that he acts all scary. That’s like, what made me like this character in the first place. But the writers seem to think what women want is for a BIG STRONG MAN to protect them because they are just DELICATE WOMEN who are inferior in every way it’s like. Shut upppp thanks

#persona #persona 3 #shinjiro aragaki #this is soooooooo obviously not the only romance route that sucks in this game yall know which one im referring to 🤨 #and i actually tend to think of the shinji romance as the best one in the series cuz at least his confession scene is the only unique one #that really highlights who he is as a character and goes with the story #but ughh just idk its so annoying how the writers cant decide if hes sexist or not its really weird and its like #really shows how poorly the writers think of women playing their game its like all the romance options are trash and then your boyfriend is #sexist to you and its so clearly done in a way thats supposed to be romantic which is. ew #like idk if my partner was like talking about how i need to stay close to them because im a weak girl and they are strong man #especially when im literally the leader of the team and have been doing perfectly fine thus far and am clearly the strongest here #id simply run him over with a bulldozer #and its like this will all the guys in this game its like girl shut up and eat glass #meanwhile when youre a male protagonist your gf will kiss your ass to the point its infuriating #and their character arcs can never be too grand cuz then they might not wanna fuck you if they realize they have worth #uh sorry my brain is all over the place basically i hate persona romances lol and i hate how they wrote shinji in his #like dammit i dont want him cuz hes gonna protect me like a man i want him cuz he isnt great at fighting and prefers cooking and puppy dogs #and has respect for me and trusts my judgement and asks me to talk about my life and interests and smiles sweetly #but god forbid a woman in this series be respected i guess

[samdyke]

Isn't it funny how the straight Sam truthers are usually the same people who are always talking about how they don't care about him and forget he exists or whatever

its sooooooo funny dude i think its so funny how coincidentally people who dont care for him give him at best a token straight ally role in the greek chorus of their destiel fic and otherwise its more of a marker that they dont like him or want to give him any rich internal life. and not to sound like what if gay was normal and straight was the minority dot youtube dot com but its so funny how in this kind of online area, “only the characters i dont like are cishet” is common practice and yet we are meant to agree with this one. its funny i LOLed

#soooooooo annoying. #its not that deep but sometimes its so intentionally meanspirited its a little tiring 💔 #kora.txt #asks #anons

[tomatoluvr69]

Optimism is so wild to me. Like i go so many hours/days mired in the sludge and it’s like wtf why am I in yay mode now. Honestly kind of annoying my own damn self 🙄 like get out of here Zooey Deschanel and take the kittens and puppies elsewhere

#im soooooooo mad that fucking EXERCISE is the answer. fuck offffffffffffff #im glad im on tumblr and not ig because I would be so fucking annoying. id be a poolfluencer and condiment content creator #interview went fine I think??? maybe even we’ll #well 🙄 #also someone I’ve hit it off with a few times in groups w/ mutual friends is doing the legwork in becoming friends which is SO nice #like 🥺 me??

[six-of-ravens]

went to The Nutcracker and then drove home blasting music and I feel like I drank a mana potion

#i can cast level 6 spells now #the ballet was soooooooo pretty 10/10 worth dragging my ass out #and then qhile i was driving home ghostrider by suicide came on so i took the long way #couldn't pass up the chance to be the Most Annoying Car on the Highway :)

[youngpettyqueen]

my dad is continuing his Star Wars watch (and by extension I am also watching because once again I am home sick) and he's on Episode 7 which means unfortunately I am going to have to sit through and deal with Episodes 8 and 9

#not putting this in the tags cause this is a hater moment #I do legitimately love Episode 7 #but Episodes 8 and 9 I regularly pretend just dont exist #they did Finn and Poe soooooooo dirty and for what. to elevate Kylo Ren. who is a whole lot of nothing #im never forgiving them for retconning Poe's backstory so that they could make him the Latino drug dealer stereotype #or for shoving Finn to the sidelines and having his character do absolutely nothing but worry about Rey #I dont even like Kylo in Episode 7 but there was at least some potential #all wasted and squandered afterwards of course #I cannot fucking stand him he's so annoying #and the treatment of Luke's character. sickening #everything post-ROTJ in terms of tv and film has SLANDERED Luke as a character #the only thing that got him right was Mandalorian s2 finale #TBoBF was doing fantastic until the fucking. choice scene #have any of these writers ever watched Star Wars. do they know Luke. #anyways #so sad they didnt continue the sequels after Episode 7

[skrunglydungly]

The little lad

#i was playing residebt evil 2 today #ada is sooooooo fine #leon was shot but its ok bc i played as Adaaaa #the tyrant needs to leave me alone #he sacres me #HE BROKE THE WALL TEOCE AND IT WAS SO ANNOYING 😖 #i saw a note tgat was wrotten by jill #i got an achievement and i literally screamed #i loooooveeeee jill #she is soooooooo fine #jill valentine my beloved

[57sfinest]

what do you think the best case scenario is for jean and harry's relationship post-martinaise?

okay so not to be Like That but i do have one fic up about this with another one currently in the works

but anyway. obviously their relationship is never going to go back to the way it was. there was just SO MUCH between them that they have no hope of restoring with harry's amnesia, and also jean knows rationally that things shouldn't ever be the way they were again. it's not like they were ever supposed to be that way anyway.

in the best-case, i think it takes MONTHS for them to even start to bridge the gap, and harry has to initiate it. jean is done being the one reaching out, being the fixer, overlooking things. IF harry wants him back, as a friend or anything else- and secretly jean wants him to want him back, but he'll never admit that- he has to take the first steps and do the work. so first harry has to put in the work to recover (if harry kept using drugs, i don't think jean would care, but he'd have to kick the alcohol) and then harry has to put in the personal work and learn how to communicate properly and respect boundaries. even when he starts trying i think jean pushes back for a while and harry has to take his turn being the bigger person and let jean complain or shut him down or whatever and not bitch about it or start a fight, because that will just push jean away more.

best-case is that harry passes these little trials of jean's, and they finally sit down and have an actual conversation about everything and clear the air. i don't think it's a pretty conversation, but they (jean mostly) says a lot of things that have needed to be said for a long time. assuming this goes to jean's satisfaction i think they agree- harry gets ONE more chance to stay on jean's good side.

buffered by the few months of jean REALLY hating harry and resenting him and being jealous of his second chance and all that, i think a friendship between them has a better chance to be healthy at this point. harry is ostensibly working on his shitty habits and behaviors, and now harry probably has kim (and possibly others) to talk to, which takes a lot of the burden off jean, because imo one of the biggest issues harry and jean had was a lack of distance. they just couldn't get away from each other, and ended up not wanting to. so now they have an opportunity to keep a healthy buffer and *choose* to engage, which also allows them to step away from one another if things get heated. yes, they'll definitely still clash sometimes, but it's a lot easier to deal with when they can just agree to leave the argument there and not speak until they've gotten over themselves.

the best-case requires harry to do a lot of personal work but assuming he does do it, i do think he and jean could go back to being friends. their new relationship would definitely start off very rocky and tentative- mostly harry is afraid to ruin it again- but given enough time i think harry proves it's for real this time and they can come to actually trust each other and be comfortable around one another.

#there's a lot of capacity for hurt in that first year or so of their new attempt at friendship #no matter what jean just can't get the old harry out of his head #like harry has some kind of crisis and jean's instinct is still 'he's doing this for attention :/' #jean is still in this mindset of 'fuck harry he hurt me so i can hurt him back' and it takes a lot to get him out of it #he's not super comfortable being a shoulder for harry to cry on for a while because he's just holding his breath #waiting for the other shoe to drop. for months he doesn't believe harry is capable of getting better #and he's justified given harry's old attitude but like. post-amnesia harry is a different person #and he can't come to terms with that right away #once harrys earned trust back though theyre menaces. #harry holding jean in the most annoying bear hug on earth like #'hi everyone this is my beeest friend jean he loves me soooooooo much he'd never say anything mean to me' #jean pinches harry as hard as he possibly can like 'let go of me i fucking hate you. fucking moron' #then they go get dinner #thats a minor hc of mine. in their repaired friendship jean stays playfully aggressive towards harry a lot #but harry feels he needs to be a little more careful so doesn't do that much. although he does taunt jean a lot regardless #kiwipost #ACTIVATING MY MENTAL ILLNESS!!! #harry: this is my bestie jean. i made him a friendship bracelet but threw it in the trash #jean: this is my rescue dog harry. i don't kick him as much these days even though i really want to #(they are best friends. jean won't say so) #jean vicquemare #harry du bois #ask #jv meta #hdb meta

[lovelornnobodyknows]

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#personal #i am soooooo frustrated #i love my mom but i get so annoyed when i have to cancel my plans to stay w her bc she's not feeling well or whatever #and like. that is always going to fall on me bc my brothers decided to move to another country #so i'm the only one here. and it feels so unfair i am not an only child!!!!! they should do something!!!!!!!! #but of course they wont. they cant. they barely ask her how she's doing #its soooooooo frustrating and upsetting

[charlescherie]

this fucking car. i swear.

#SHE'S SO. SHE'S SOOOOOOOO #i love her so much #and to think im so annoyed by loud cars #im probably annoyed by STUPID loud cars. #she can be as loud as she wants. #when he fucking speeds up???????? CARGASMMMMMM #don't perceive me while im being a carfucker on main #charles

[esrpublicist]

bukayo when i airlift him out of Lens’ stadium to drop him off at a swiss spa (arteta is exploding below)

#im soooooooo annoyed mikel is so fucking stubborn and STUPID #arsenal lb