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#so at least fucking respect my boundaries about that on my posts thanks
peachyykira · 1 year
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Hey hi I’m not a feedee or feeder so if you’re here for that kind of content you’re not gonna get it.
Do not leave feeder related comments, don’t tag me with them. None of it. It’s not for me.
I am fat, but I’m not trying to gain or lose. I just want to exist as I am. Thanks.
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lieu-rey · 1 month
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yeah I'm aware of it, and the way I found out was kinda wild bc I literally opened my twitter the other day and the very first thing I see is my own art. I was dumbfounded to say the least lmao. im still not gonna put this person on full blast bc i dont want them getting a bunch of hate for this. regardless, thank you so much for letting me know, i really do appreciate it!
and I actually was gonna make a post about this since I've always allowed reposts with permission, it was in my bio for literal years, but it seems like people could never respect my bare minimum request of at least telling me that they're gonna repost my art. I've said yes to every person whos asked for my permission, honestly bc I'm just so thankful to them for honoring that.
I think the worst part is that for too long now, i thought so little of my own work that I didn't care that much where it went. and now I realize that I make this art with my own hands with years of practice and years of improvement and hours of work, I enjoy making it and i get to put boundaries and put in an effort to protect it. while I share it here so that I can share my silly drawings with others that can enjoy it too, there's something disheartening about a repost getting way more traction than my original post, especially on a completely different site. I understand that if I wanted alot more people to see my art then I'd post it myself on twitter (and not everyone has a tumblr either), but that doesn't give other people a right to post it for me. not to mention the fact that they're exposing my art to AI scraping on other websites, even when I go through the effort of glazing/nightshading it.
basically, I'm not allowing reposts anymore. not that that'll do much in the grand scheme of things but I'm just not about it anymore bc im sick of not being given the barest modicum of consideration.
moral of the story: for the love of fucking god have some goddamn respect for artists. no matter their skill, no matter how they feel about reposts.
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lipglossanon · 5 months
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Hello! I just wanted to let you know that it is 100% not your job to monitor what minors are doing online whether you write nsfw content or not. Minors who want to consume nsfw content most definitely are not going to care about a warning and it is 100% on parents to ensure their children don’t have access to that kind of content. I wish tumblr had a better system for blocking minors from viewing that kind of content, but it’s the internet and I feel like people really need a dose of reality when it comes to the internet. I’ve seen some real vile, fucked up works of fiction online and yours are literally just basic taboo with very, very common kinks that are usually only hot in a fictional setting. I understand everyone has boundaries, but some people truly shouldn’t scour the internet if they can’t grasps that someone that’s not committing a crime (or even writing about minors in the first place because can we talk about how common it is for fandoms to write porn between minors or even minors with adults??) should be able to write a work of fiction. I might come off as overly mad about this but as someone who dealt with sexual abuse from a family member as a minor, I find it crazy when someone starts suggesting that engaging with incest fics or even ddlg fics is supporting grooming or pedophilia. Writing should always be a safe outlet of expression and if people find it gross, they do not have to consume that content. If I was you, I would just ignore it all. You’re not at fault for anyone but *you*. Not what your followers say, not what someone doesn’t agree with, not if a minor reads your work. This is your page and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone for writing insanely common smut even if you do want to be respectful. You deserve respect as well and I find it disrespectful that people expect u to be mommy to everyone on ur page.
U don’t have to post this either, I just wanted to rant as well because I’m mad that u had to deal with people making u feel bad about small things like a warning and accidentally using the word grooming in the wrong context when u obviously have 0 bad intentions and are always so fucking kind.
Hi anon!
I know you said I didn’t have to post, but I wanted to reply back to you (and this is the only way to do it haha).
I just wanted to say thank you! 💜 💜 It might seem silly but this means a lot to me! 🥹🥹
You seriously made me tear up cause I really do try to be respectful and kind on this platform; it’s the least someone can give to another. We’re all just people ya know?
And looking back at it now after a few days have passed, I’m still confused (since I don’t even know what was being said about me/my blog) as well as disappointed cause I thought I was on friendly terms with these people. I didn’t even get a chance to defend myself before everyone just dropped me like I have the plague lol.
And to be quite honest, I find it kinda hypocritical to unfollow me for a misunderstanding when most of the mutuals I followed at the time wrote equally problematic/dark content (and I’m not even writing underage or grooming to begin with!).
Like it’s one thing for someone to not follow me for their own reasons; it’s another to tell people not to because of X, Y, Z and it not even be in the correct context cause you’re just cherry picking my asks/posts based on my ignorance.
Also, I’m sorry you had to go through that sort of abuse, anon! ❤️‍🩹 thank you for sharing ❤️‍🩹
I’m moving past it! I’ve blocked/unfollowed anyone who I thought might see my content that was involved (just in case). And any hate gets deleted. I’m honestly doing fine! Just get peeved every now and again cause like why be nice to me up until zero hour and then not even discuss it with me? I mean critical thinking skills are a thing ya know? 🤣 it’s giving Kelso (damn Jackie, I can’t control the weather 🤭)
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pink-devolve · 1 month
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Y’all I feel so fucking awful and gross and ugh why does every seemingly nice person that comes into my life have to hurt me
This is another rant post sorry elohel(small NSFW mention, 18+ post)
I was seeing this really awesome trans guy I met on a dating app for the past two weeks, and this morning he bought me coffee. On the way back he said “You’re also 21 right?” and I responded with “No I’m 18”. He kinda freaked out and said that he didn’t know that, and that he didn’t feel comfortable being with someone that is 18. Which is fair?? But also my profile on the dating app says I’m 18, and I mentioned to him that I was taking a gap year like 5 times.
So I dropped him back off at his dorm and got super fucking upset. I feel so gross. I keep thinking like, did he not care enough to check that?? It’s obviously a boundary of his, why did he let me get attached and then not fucking check that??
Last night we fvcked, and it was really intimate and nice. I think it might have been the first time I did that without using it as self harm or being taken advantage of. I felt safe and comfortable enough with him to fall asleep with him holding me, which I’ve only ever been able to let one person do before. I woke up to them playing with my hair, and I just felt so pretty and cared for. And he didn’t care enough to check my fucking age, and now we’re probably never going to see each other again.
I texted him later saying that I respect his boundaries and thanked him for giving me a good experience, and he responded with “Yeah. Just for future reference, a 21 year old wanting to date you is a red flag. It might not seem like a big deal to you, but it’s a pretty big fucking deal. You’ll understand when you’re older.” What the fuck does that mean??? Don’t fucking treat me like a child when I’m barely 3 years younger than you and we literally had s3x the night before. It didn’t feel creepy until he started patronizing me.
So now all day, I’ve been super fucking triggered. I already have so so much sexual trauma, and when I try to have a sexual experience that’s positive and healing, I fucking can’t. I feel so so gross too. I was vulnerable and trusted him, and he hurt me. He didn’t even care enough about me to look at my age. Maybe I just don’t deserve people that actually care about me.
I keep checking Instagram to see if he’s messaged me. I just want him to ask me if I’m doing okay, and then I could say “yeah, I’ve had kind of a sad day but I’m taking care of myself” and then I could at least know that he cares enough to check on me.
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metamelonisle · 1 year
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what are your words of wisdom
the backgrounds of kirby games are heavily underrated. egg engines is really scary. nintendo has a very strange obsession with eel enemies in their games and kirby is the least unnerving instance of this because barbars are sort of adorable aand land barbars are like giant salamanders that i love so much. if you're bad at a video game and cant seem to hold onto health for very long but are good at reaching checkpoints, just focus on racking up lots of lives and take no shame in eating a punch to refill your health. take any help where you need it. when you wake up always go to the bathroom because you won't be able to sleep on a full bladder. its better to fall asleep early and wake early than to fall asleep late and wake up late. being awake at night sucks. play more indie games and rom hacks. give affection to your friends and comfort when they need it and also respect their boundaries. dont ask me for wisdom when i'm slumbering over the keyboard. don't bite suspicious fruits. learn how to swim and learn how to drive and learn how to cook. kill people who make you unhappy or scared or angry and if you can't do that either leave them or ignore them. eat salmon. reblog my posts so i can hit 3 likes for once. it is infinitely better to be a hidden gem than to be famous because it brings endless stress and too many problems. listen tot he voice in your head that tells you destroying things is gonna leave a bitch of a mess or that hurting yourself is gonna take a long time to heal, that's hope. eat food that makes you happy but always be careful and prepared about it. always be true to yourself and don't hurt others unless they want to murder you and your loved ones wholesale over arbitrary things. chicken noode soup with white rice and potatoes fucks so good. if salt tastes good its probably because you need it. neil cicierega's mashups are goood. if someone mocks you for something you're sensitive about you should unequivocally give them a purple nurple without warning and i mean PURPLE. paramecia devil fruits are always way more interesting than zoans or logias. no matter how old you get cock jokes will always be hilarious if told right. wear clothes you enjoy and if people judge you than do horrific things to them in return. celebrities are people so don't treat them like they're fictional characters. get plenty of sleep. don't proofreead ANYTHING until the last word is typed.
memories are forever until they aren't. keep physical records of the things you love and keep them safe.
thank you.
i love you.
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kissatoru · 6 months
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for the FINAL time: indicate your AGE on your blog PLEASE
i know i’ve said this so many times that it feels obnoxious at this point, and trust me, i’m as tired of saying it as (those of) you (who this doesn’t apply to) are of hearing it, but i need to reiterate it one last time. honestly, this is more of a rant than anything, but these thoughts have been on my mind for a while and i’ll just be glad to get them out. maybe this is making a big deal out of something quite small, but it wouldn’t have to be if people would actually listen/care.
i want to start off by saying if you’re someone who doesn’t have an age or an indicator of it on your blog, and the title of this post annoys you, you can go ahead and unfollow me right now.
or don’t, because i’m going to block you sooner or later anyway. which i realise sounds harsh, but apparently being polite about it isn’t getting me, or any of the other 18+ only blogs on here who are constantly repeating themselves, anywhere so i don’t care about being polite anymore.
the cheap price of literally nothing but having some numbers in your bio is still too high for some of you to ‘pay’ to read mine and others’ work. like we’re writing stuff you can read for FREE and all that us nsfw writers ask is that you have an age on your blog — yet some people still refuse to do that much. it’s not only disappointing, but also straight up disrespectful. there’s blogs who’ve been following me for WEEKS who still don’t have an age indicator, despite me posting about it regularly and despite it being clearly stated on my pinned post.
believe it or not, i don’t want to block you. some of you are always in my notifications, interacting with my posts, and especially when you reblog mine/my moots’ works, i recognise you, and seeing you makes me really happy! but when i check your blog and see that you don’t have an age on it, that’s telling me you’re seeing my reminders but you just don’t fucking care.
it’s all well and good interacting with me and my posts, but if you can’t even respect the simplest of boundaries, i don’t care whether you’re actually a minor or not. you are obviously too lazy or don’t care about me as an actual person as much as you care about the content you get to see on your timeline.
maybe you have your reasons, like maybe:
you’re not comfortable sharing your specific age. that’s totally fine! you can tell me in my dms if you’d like to. if not, anything from the year (e.g. 02’ liner) or the decade (e.g. 90s baby) you were born to an appropriate age range (e.g. 19-23) etc. will suffice. if you’re unwilling to do at least that, then i’m sorry but my blog is not for you.
you’re new to tumblr and don’t know where, or how to set up your blog. in that case, you google it. yahoo it. bing it. i don’t care. use the internet you clearly have access to and find out. there’s plenty of tutorials, you just have to look for them. or ask a friend or a mutual. you can dm me your age just so i’m aware until you figure it out.
you don’t have time. in that case, i don’t fucking believe you lol. if you have the time to read a whole fic, you have the time to punch in a two digit number into someplace on your blog — or to find out how, and then do so.
some of you don’t have an excuse though. some of you will list literally everything about yourself but your age on your blog?? you clearly know how to use tumblr, you clearly know where to put info about yourself, you clearly have time so... maybe you clearly just do not care enough to do the bare minimum of reading my byf or my pinned post.
also, it genuinely does not matter, nor do i care, where you actually put your age. whether it’s in your bio, your title or a pinned post, as long as it’s there, in some place i can access, it doesn’t matter.
i think i’ve talked about everything i wanted to, so to end this post on a more positive note, i want to thank the people who actually listen. i, nor anyone else, should be having to thank people for doing the bare minimum, but, at least in my experience, when you’re having to block 9 out of 10 blogs that follow you on a regular basis, you can get pretty used to the constant disappointment, and seeing that 1 blog who actually has an age on their blog can be pretty relieving lol so thank you<3
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bihansthot · 7 months
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Girl I had the craziest night ever, I’m writing you this from somewhere i don’t even know where lol we all might be heartbroken but at least we are alive. You’re a good person, always nice and understanding. You have been through enough shit in your life and right now you need to prioritize yourself. Stop caring about him or your feelings about him, cheater will be cheater he will keep doing this and you can’t fix him. Yes it might hurt your feelings but listen… what if you and his wife were not the only victims? There’s always a possibility. Dump his ass you deserve much better than that jerk. You deserve to be showered with rose petals and some good fuck. I know it sounds impossible now but You will have it if you start to prioritize yourself again. I have been following you for 2,5 years? Maybe? And with all my heart I can say YOU ARE MORE THAN THIS, PUT YOURSELF TOGETHER AND REMEMBER WHAT WOULD BI-HAN SAY?
I know you’re right, I know everyone who’s reached out to me is right but it’s hard to end things. I’m going to though because y’all are absolutely right if he’s been lying about things this long he’s absolutely lying about things I don’t know. He also doesn’t respect my boundaries as I talked about in my other post and just assumes because he calls me his girlfriend is automatically consent which it isn’t. That’s never ok and I’m saying this not only because I need to hear it but everyone needs to but “no” means fucking no even if they’re your s/o, it doesn’t make it ok or acceptable if they force things just because they’re your significant other. That’s still wrong. That’s still a violation. It’s not ok. It’s still rap3. I need to put myself first and I need to put an end to this because it’s not healthy. I’m just scared because I am a people pleaser and don’t know how to put myself first. I have to though. I deserve better.
Thank you for all your sweet words and good advice lovely and everyone who commented, I really appreciate all of you so much. 💙
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queeranddepraved · 8 months
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So your dom or sir "per se" must be either king or ryan. Those are the only two other who like so much of your personal stuff.
Is it really that important to you, anon? Do you really need to know the details of the "relationship" I have with every person I talk to on here? Every person I do slutty things for on here?
If you must know, yes, the Sir I referenced in the picture I posted of my ass is theblindking94. We talk a lot, I do slutty things for him, he's a great guy, and I'm really glad I convinced him to join the dark side (come back to tumblr from reddit 😅). He also thinks it's hilarious that you so desperately need to know any of this.
Ryan is a friend and mutual who probably doesn't wanna be dragged into this weird, jealous nonsense. Leave him be.
Not sure if you're jealous or just really freaking nosey.
Either way, gonna remind everyone that I talk to lots of people on here. I've been on this site for over 10 years. I've been slutting it up on here for at least that long. I've talked to soooo many people. I have people i started talking to in 2015 who I still talk to from here. Like I'm gonna be a slut, I'm gonna talk to a variety of people, and if I wanna "publicly" (on my blog) do something for someone on here, like Sir, then I'll do it, and I'd prefer to do it without jealous anons worrying about who my "dom" is.
Also, to be clear, I deeply appreciate the relationship I have with my 2 mains (Sir ❤️and Dad 🩷) and other people on here as well, but...
No one owns me.
No one owns me.
No one.
Not a single person I've ever talked to owns me in the way it feels like you're implying by saying dom or sir and trying to figure out who my "dom" is.
I'm not owned. This isn't an exclusive situation. I talk to as many or as few people as I want on here.
You jealous? You want to talk to me?
Then fucking do it.
But be interesting, be respectful of my boundaries, don't try to own me, and understand that sometimes I won't reply. Sometimes, I disappear for a bit. Sometimes, other people in my dms take priority. Sometimes, the vibe just isn't right. Sometimes, talking on here is meant to be more casual, and that's okay. Either be okay with these things or like go. Lol
Anyways, thank you, Sir, for letting me set the record straight for these silly jealous anons. ❤️
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goldiipond · 1 year
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AAAA tell me about your post canon raydon hcs!! if you please!!
answering this a few days late bc my brain is full of bees but AWWWWW HELL YAH THANK YOU!! THEY MEAN THE WORLD TO ME so!!
fair warning this is really long. i don't know how this happened. what. <3
i like to think they start dating probably a few months after getting to the human world. they had developed romantic feelings for each other a while before that (likely sometime during the vol12 timeskip because they had a lot of time to grow closer while traveling <3) but it took them both a bit to realize those feelings especially due to being a bit preoccupied with. all the problems <3 they were obviously still really close and important to each other regardless
ray was probably the first to realize the way he loved don was different from the way he loved everyone else. he probably didn't really think much about the way he got butterflies whenever he was near don until he took a moment to be like oh. fuck. a more funny alternative to this is him offhandedly mentioning the way don makes him feel to emma and norman (i am looking away from emmas memory loss i do not see it <3) n being like 'yeah that's weird huh. anyway' and they just sit there like. i know what you are
it's not that don is oblivious, at least not to his own feelings. i think it might take him a bit longer to realize his feelings for ray because he's just. always allowed himself to love everyone so much more openly and freely than ray has. don has soo much love that he is constantly giving to others that he doesn't really. see his constant desire to be near ray as anything unusual for a while. he does notice how uncharacteristically shy he gets around ray, and his thought process was probably a gradual shift from 'well i didn't really get to have a bond with ray like everyone else growing up so i don't really know what he's okay with' to 'well of course i'm nervous. ray's so cool and smart and amazing so anyone would be nervous. this is true' he's a dork but he does figure it out eventually <3
after getting to the human world they naturally start hanging out with each other a lot more. once they both have some idea of their own feelings they take every chance they can to hang out together because being around each other just feels so nice. they're very sweet <3
i talked abt this in the tags of the post that prompted this ask hsfgfg but its really sweet to me so!! i think after ray's reaction to the hug in chapter 148 don makes sure to be more aware of and respectful of ray's boundaries regarding physical touch. he tries to make his intentions clear before hugging him and give ray a chance to say no if he doesn't want to be touched at the moment. the sheer amount of affection don had to give was really overwhelming for ray at first, but as they hang out more he slowly becomes more comfortable with don's touch and eventually builds up the confidence to start initiating contact himself as well <3
adding on to that last sentence, don has no idea how to react to this at first. he is so much more used to giving others affection than receiving it that when ray holds his hand for the first time his brain just factory resets. it's not like he's not used to receiving affection at all, but he's just. a very affectionate person so when someone, especially ray, initiates instead he just gets super emotional <3 it is not hard to make don emotional and ray is at least partially responsible for 3 separate instances of don crying happy tears in the manga so. he just loves him very much ok
don would probably be the one to confess his feelings! it was something he spent days hyping himself up for and then finally did on one of their hangouts. i can imagine don stumbling over his words even though he rehearsed them several times and ray doesn't know what he's talking about and he's trying not to laugh because man he's just so cute. and then don takes a breath and just gently takes ray's hands and says 'i like you, ray. i've liked you for a really long time.' and ray is just so taken aback he's just. absolutely speechless. and don asks if he'd like to go on a date sometime and ray just loses his composure completely and starts crying and all he can manage is a shaky 'yeah...' and don is a little shocked because its so rare to see ray cry like this but then he's just so overjoyed he hugs ray as tightly as he can and they both start laughing and AAAUGH. sorry what. my demons
it might take them a little bit after they first start dating to really 'act' like a couple? they're both new to the concept of dating as a whole and have no idea what they're doing but i don't think it'd take too long for them to sort of go back to the level of comfort and familiarity they had before. ray has some lingering feelings of self-doubt over whether he really 'deserves' someone as amazing as don but being around him just feels so right and don's affection is typically enough to reassure him at least a little. if he ever voiced these feelings to don i think don would go off on a massive tangent about everything he loves about ray and how he means the world to him and probably get a little too emotional and ray wouldn't really know how to react but he would be touched to say the least and he'd probably think about don's words a lot for. a very long time
while a lot of don's poor self-esteem is resolved over the course of the series, i think he might still experience some self-doubt on rare occasions as well, and he might have trouble opening up to ray about his problems at first. don has always been very open about his emotions, but when it comes to ray he knows all the shit he's been through and his own issues might seem. silly when compared to ray's? he isn't afraid ray would judge him, but he also doesn't really feel like he's 'justified' in causing ray to worry about him when he's been through so much already. but at this point ray knows don well enough to sense something is wrong and when he gets don to eventually tell him this he just explains that he never wants don to feel like his needs aren't as important as his own, and that he wants to be there for don the same way don's always there for him. then he pulls him close and softly says 'tell me what's wrong, don.' and don just breaks and ray just holds him and lets him get it out and its just. very very sweet jdastsadgdsghgdfggfdfghjg. i;m unwell
plagiarizing my tags from my most recent art of them but their first real kiss was initiated by ray! theyre probably cuddling a bit and just talking about whatever and he doesn't really realize what he's doing until he has don's face cupped in his hands and suddenly his heart is pounding and his hands are shaking and he can't even make eye contact and he just says really quietly, 'can i kiss you?' and don is so absolutely awestruck that all he can manage to do is pull ray closer and nod and its just so. it's about the little burst of confidence after a childhood of self-loathing its about the soft tenderness they both deserve so so much it's about [stares into the ocean
OKAY those were long (<- unwell) time for some more general hcs [strikes a pose]
ray is gay and don is bi! don's line about wanting to date a cute girl in s1 plays and then ray walks into the frame and don's like oh. a cute boy is also good
they're also t4t because all of my ships are t4t. you understand
while i mentioned him being more mindful of ray's boundaries, don is just soo physically affectionate that he doesn't even realize he's doing it sometimes and it makes ray's head spin. i can imagine them walking together and don just sort of grabbing ray's hand without really thinking about it and it taking him a good moment to notice 'hey ray's face looks a lot redder than usual wonder what's up with that' and then taking just a bit longer before being like OH. fool <3
MORE PHYSICAL AFFECTION YAYY anyway ithink they cuddle a lot. ray is 'i need to be swaddled and snug at all times' autism and don is 'if im not constantly holding or snuggling something i'll die' autism and thats why they are the perfect couple
once they do get more comfortable being a couple i think cheek kisses become a very common occurrence among the usual affection, especially from don. they both get flustered pretty easily, but when don kisses ray's cheek he just melts. this also creates a scenario where if don's on ray’s left he'll push ray's fringe to the side so he can kiss him. don did this once and whispered 'my emo boy <3' and ray almost died of laughter
adding onto that last scenario, don likes to think of the most unbearably cheesy pet names specifically to get ray's reaction. if it came to serious ones though i don't think don would use them that often if at all because he just really loves ray's name <3 ray lovingly calls don a dork all the time though
don really likes playing with ray's hair. goes with my hc that ray grows his hair out a bit and his hair is also probably really soft and don loves it. the feeling of don running his fingers through his hair is really calming and comforting to ray and don's probably the only one who could get away with touching it for any extended period of time
they have movie nights with emma, norman and gilda (because im weak for the 'group of best friends ends up living together' trope) and they all usually end up falling asleep in a big pile on the couch. ray usually snuggles up against don and ends up using him as a pillow <3
speaking of friends i have a really funny hc where it was very very common for ray to playfully tease norman when he had a crush on emma, so once he notices how hopelessly smitten ray is with don, norman is an absolute menace. they are the besties ever to me
don absolutely adores ray's singing. ray hums to himself while cooking and don will just come up behind him and wrap his arms around him and just listen to his voice, and sometimes he'll ask ray to sing for him and listen with this look of just. pure adoration <3 ray's not that confident in his singing and i think it's something that's very personal to him as he really only did it as a coping mechanism growing up, but seeing the way don lights up when he sings is really really special to him and i think it'd get him to appreciate his own voice more as well <3
on the other hand ray really loves don's laugh. it's just very loud and unrestrained and genuine like everything else don does and ray's heart absolutely melts when he hears it. ray will find any excuse to make don laugh <3
ray has come a long way with his healing in the years since the gracefield escape, but he still has lasting scars from that trauma that will never fully go away and don will drop everything to comfort him through his more emotional moments and the rare panic attack. it means a lot to ray that he's finally able to cry freely and openly and don will hold him as tight as he can and run his fingers through his hair and listen to him for as long as he needs. im very emotionally stable about this incase you were wondering
ray is a serial clothing thief. don's sweaters just feel warmer somehow <3 ray will walk into the room in the morning wearing a pink t-shirt with a bunny on it and the others instantly know it's not his HDSFG
don canonically gets warm really easily so i think if they were somewhere outdoors and ray got cold don would give him his jacket without question. ray felt bad leaving don without anything to keep himself warm and knew don wouldn't take no for an answer so he settled on giving don his scarf as a compromise. don got really really emotional over ray offering him such an important comfort item and tried to decline but ray also wouldnt take no for an answer so he ended up accepting it <3 it meant a lot to both of them
don is prone to going on long enthusiastic rants when he’s excited about something and his joy is so contagious for ray he just can't help but smile and laugh along with him. he can absolutely talk ray's ears off and ray adores every word and sometimes they might even start happy stimming together <3 autistic love its everything to me. you understand
OKAYTHATS. ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT FOR NOW <3<3<3 i definitely have more but i'd have to dig for them and i feel this post is really long so <3 but yeah they mean a lot to me. here's a kinda old little doodle i'm still really fond of as prize for reading this ridiculously self-indulgent rant
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vyther16 · 9 months
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wip wednesday!
hi friends it absolutely hasn't been months since i last posted one of these lmao (rip to the entirety of 2023 bc the last time i posted a wip wednesday was in february)
anyway have a snippet of a Wednesday (2022) fic that i started today, and will (theoretically) be posted by the end of the week bc i feel productive. (by putting this in writing, i have probably jinxed it so everyone knock on wood for me)
(also thanks to @myhamartiaishubris for the prompt of "this prompt contains spoilers for the fic that are not revealed in this snippet")
snippet under the cut (cw: light torture, magical compulsions, implied grooming)
When Tyler wakes from Bianca’s siren song, he’s chained to a chair in a shed filled with paintings of the monster. He clings to the last shred of self-control left to him in order to keep from having a panic attack.  He knows Wednesday. He knows the lengths she’ll go to. He prays that he’ll be able to explain. If Laurel’s command lets him. If Wednesday lets him. “So,” Wednesday begins, opening her bag. “You’re the Hyde.” There’s a truly impressive amount of torture instruments packed away. Wednesday is laying each one out methodically, and Tyler can feel his breath picking up at the sight. At least he’s already sitting down. Laurel never gave him that luxury. “What made you finally turn on Laurel? Did she ask too many questions about your mother?”  Tyler snarls, fear momentarily lost. “Leave my mother out of this.” “Ah, but she’s a major part,” Wednesday replies, pulling out a manila folder. “Francoise Galpin, admitted to Willowhill Psychiatric Hospital after postpartum depression triggered her Hyde nature. That same nature that was passed down to you.” Tyler blinks at the folder. “What the fuck Wednesday. Did you steal my mother’s health records?” he snaps, incredulous. He knows she has no respect for boundaries, but still. That’s his mother. “Technically, Thing did. I was preparing my bag.” Wednesday drops the folder in his lap. “Now, are you going to tell us the truth?” Tyler opens his mouth. Laurel’s command washes over him again, and he almost retches trying to force out the words he wants to say.  Finally he manages to get out something. “What do you want me to say, Wednesday?” He hates how desperate his voice sounds. He hates that that's the closest he can get to saying what he wants. “What was Laurel’s grand plan?” Wednesday asks, reaching for a taser that’s been set out. Crackstone, he tries to say. “I don’t know what you’re talking about,” he says instead, the command overtaking his tongue again. There’s a sharp, crackling pain in his neck, and he shouts in surprise. Laurel never used electricity, no tasers or car batteries or anything, but it fucking hurts. No blood though. No broken skin.  “Don’t lie,” Wednesday snaps.
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hedghost · 7 months
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Another Arsenal fan here. Frankly I could not give less of a fuck about the booing. Alessia didn’t care so why are there fans who still do…? I find booing in general to be a waste of time but I’m not going to get mad or complain when people do it, because it’s my opinion. Just because I think booing is unnecessary and choose not to do it doesn’t mean everyone else has to feel and act the same way. In the grand scheme of things booing is incredibly insignificant anyway and I’m bored now
Regarding the Arsenal fanbase, I’d say it is not as common for there to be a fan who lands in between the following two main types: the ones who understand and practise what it means to be a respectful fan, and the ones who typically lack self awareness, don’t view players as actual humans and/or cross boundaries. You encounter the second type more than any other type because they are the loudest on social media. Obviously this is the case for every club fanbase but I think Arsenal has more of the second type than the first at the moment (not to mention the influx of younger fans post-Euros), making the whole fanbase seem more obnoxious. There is very much a “either you’re one of us and follow our rules or you’re not a true fan” vibe so being passive/neutral isn’t really an option. In my experience at least
The culture of the team and fanbase is intense and intimate but not always in a good way, in my opinion. My theory about how it got this way is related to the WPS vlogs. Those gave fans an inside look on the team and player dynamics. They made it easier for fans to connect with players in a way that fans of other clubs maybe weren’t able to with their players at the time. Made the whole thing more personal. Over time people began to feel entitled to knowing personal information about players, so they’d do weird shit to try and figure it out if the player wouldn’t say anything. This mindset has stuck around and fans now treat any new player the same way because it’s been normalised (fans rarely face real world consequences for it so it’s easy to continue). They are infantilising Alessia because it has been accepted as a normal thing to do with players for years. All of this is why parasocial relationships, especially unhealthy ones, can be common among some Arsenal fans. I could talk about this for hours but my ask is already long as hell (sorry)
nah this is such a good take thank you!! i know i talk shit about arsenal fans but let it be known i am not talking about fans like you bc this is a very sensible and intelligent take so cheers! i agree 100%, it’s a shame that these kind of fans are so vocal on social media because it taints the experiences and voices of normal fans with sense ! 💕💕
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Rating whatever ST ships I can think of bc it's night (post lemon) and I'm bored
Lumax- 10/10 so poetic and beautiful the show doesn't do them justice which is SAYING A LOT romo lumax and platonic lumax have my heart
Elmax- the first ST ship I started shipping before joining fandom! 10/10 incredible beautiful drop dead gorgeous romo and platonic elmax are perfect
Hopclair- 10/10 I may currently be running on a hopclair ANGST high, but as I've said and will not hesitate to repeat, these two NEED to team up and NEED more screentime together! Romo, platonic, and queerplatonic hopclair love in my brain
Henclair- recently found appreciation for them upon season two rewatch and reflecting join season two, cute enough for a maybe 6/10 as romo 15/10 platonic
Henderhop- I just can't picture it 0/10
Morallysus- idrk seems kinda morally sus to me :/ -10/10
Elmike 8/10 platonic and I will not elaborate
Byler- objectively 10/10 but they are not who I'm thinking about when I'm actually watching- that's when my elmax and platonic stobin brain turns on romo and platonic byler on their respective places in the timeline are literary impeccability
Byclair- adorable and I could totally see it, 7.5/10
Wheelclair- surprisingly cute but not my first instinct I do truly Get the cuteness but 6/10
Elumax- be it romo lumax romo elmax with pl hopclair, romo hopclair, or qp hopclair, still adorable to me and I actually understand them more than you do don't go near my children sorry guys blorbo is just for me actually 100/10
Stobin- 10/10 platonic and queerplatonic aromantic and lesbian solidarity!! But also their arc and how they support eachother!! Beautiful precious my precious you can't have it wow am i gatekeeping?
Rockie- unopinionated so 6/10 besties endgame material romo
Ronance- I can never stop thinking about Nancy comparing Barb and Robin to eachother but y'all's headcanons are cute 5/10
Stancy- you know me. I love Steve. I love Nancy. Which is exactly why I can't in good conscious dare ship them together! Nancy's whole thing of relating him to Barb's death (valid) is word on its own if you don't throw in the fact that Steve super cool dream directly contradicts everything Nancy wants in life! Neither of them should have to compromise their LIFE around accommodating the other! You can say what you want about "they still like eachother romantically" which isn't even really true imo but had it ever occurred to you that sometimes people can feel romantically and and decide that a friendship would do them more good? Which isn't to say they are super close friends either because honestly their friendship has gotten the least amount of attention by the writers. -20/10 romo and 7/10 potential friendship that we will never get to see on screen.
Jancy- I honestly could not care less whether they are endgame their unbreakable bond etc etc doesn't care whether they're friends or dating 6/10
Jargyle- 10/10 how does it feel to be the most perfect ship in the world? Pl, QP, romo, alterous, whatever it is these two mean the world to me
Stonathan- question why? I'm sure it's cute I just don't understand the origin of the hype. What's it ABOUT for y'all?
Stoncy- see above, both 5/10
Steddie- I actually like it as a ship kind of if it weren't for the fact I can't see Steve not being aromantic. Also while we're here thank you if you've stopped cross tagging because I'd I look up Erica Sinclair In not looking for Eddie x Reader fics 6.5/10 romo
Boyce- wait actually this might have been my first ST ship not elmax.. anyways they're adorable and I totally hated the way they did the love triangle thing. Hopper being annoying distracted me from Bob being the coolest guy in the world.
Jopper- I guess I'm cool with them now but I was so anti jopper in S2 not because I'm invested in the love triangle I fucking hate love triangles but because Hopper was insufferable in seasons two and three and Joyce had like no boundaries in season three that got weird because ofc the writers decided to build up their canon in the most annoying way possible. Maybe they could have been an 8/10 if ST writers had fucking tried at all before season four but now they're closer to a 4.5/10 for me tbh but go back to season one where their friendship was pretty cool and they've known eachother forever and all that- super fucking sweet 8/10 points taken off because I just generally find Hopper annoying (as a person not as a character I get how he's important to the story and blah blah)
Boycer- since the suffers never ruined it I mean wrote it and I can imagine them however I want- polyamorous Joyce with her two boyfriends is a 10/10
Edissy- I genuinely thought this was a joke 2/10 romo 7/10pl
Joyren- not to be a Karen hater but I kinda hate Karen 1/10
Kargyle- I love Kali with all my heart. I absolutely adore Argyle. But I don't get this ship. Like why. 5/10 romo 8/10 pl
Kalancy- yes let women kill people! I mean I'm the scenario I imagine they are def at Kali's home not Nancy's and it's def not a healthy mindset but let's not think about that.. honestly I don't think about them at all but I guess it could be cool. 8/10 romo 9/10 pl 9/10 qp
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mayalaen · 9 months
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Yeah it’s another post about my dad but hey I’m happy because boundaries YAY ME!!
The dude does nothing and won’t even come out of his room to ask me a question, but has this habit of waiting until I hand-deliver his dinner to him in his bedroom to ask me questions.
Stupid questions, but that’s not the point.
By the time I deliver his food, I’ve been up since at least 5am working, cleaning, cooking, and doing all the things. I’m tired, I’m starving, I’m sweating/hot from being in the kitchen, and I just wanna sit down and eat my food.
He can come to me ANY other time and ask all the stupid questions he wants. All I ask is don’t make me stay in your hotbox of a room when I feel like I’m about to faint from exhaustion after cooking YOUR dinner which is different from OUR dinner because you don’t like the same foods we do.
So my mom talked to him a few times about this and said if you still want your food delivered, you gotta stop trying to talk to her and asking her questions. She’s flustered and tries to answer you and is too out of it to stop you.
He’s known for agreeing to anything and doing it for a short period of time, so after a few times of this I said I was done. My mom was like wait gimme one more chance to get through to him.
So I said okay.
He managed to go THREE WEEKS after that - the only thing he says is “thank you” when I go in there.
But dude fucked up last night, and yesterday was not the day to fuck up on boundaries because my mom’s sister (also bipolar and has malignant narcissistic personality disorder like my dad) fucked up TWO things yesterday and I had to put my foot down and take away her access to her medical/doctor account (long story).
So today I told my mom that he used up his last chance and I’m not delivering to his room anymore.
Dude is NOT happy.
But it’s like too fuckin’ bad dude! You had plenty of time to respect my ONE ask and you didn’t. It’s a definite pattern with him - the lack of respect, sympathy, empathy for anyone other than himself.
When his dinner is made, I’ll set it aside in the other room, and my mom will text him that it’s time to retrieve his dinner.
As ridiculous as this all sounds, this is what living with someone who has MNPD is like. If you complain about each of the little things they do one at a time, you sound like the asshole.
Add it all up -- the constant disrespect, lack of space, lack of empathy & compassion, and the CONSTANT gaslighting, and you have a horrible piece of shit that has been alive WAY too long.
If I didn’t suck at boundaries, this would be easier for me, and once my mom is dead, there’s no way in hell I’m going to have anything to do with my dad or my mom’s sister. They’re too fucked up and have done way too much damage.
But I’m SO FUCKING RELIEVED I can just put the plate on the dining table and not even have to look at his stupid face at dinnertime anymore.
*HAPPY DANCE TIME*
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nekropsii · 2 years
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anon who sent the ask abt deadnaming june here. the reason i am so adamant on respecting june as a whole is because transmisogyny in fandom seems to just be getting more and more extreme. hussie themselves has been transmisogynistic and i suppose it is a means of wanting to reclaim that and uphold the support of transfems by making the most important character - the protag - transfem since when transfems do get rep it is often a label plastered on side characters. i hope this makes sense
You know, that’s honestly genuinely fair. I understand that perspective completely, and I thank you for getting back to me on this.
There are a lot of people in the fanbase who are a little too eager to be shitty and aggro about June or other transfem headcanons. Hell, as you said, Hussie themself has been transmisogynistic. Those are people I’m not keen on trusting- just because those aren’t your headcanons does not mean you get to be an asshole about it, you know? People see one little thing they don’t agree with and take it as a Free Pass to be a transphobe. It’s horrible. It genuinely, really is.
The backlash people get for supporting June hurts my heart. I honestly think it’s an intriguing direction to take her character, and I love seeing the fan designs people make for her.
That said, I still stand by my original points that sometimes things just aren’t a black and white thing. Transfem June means a lot to people. Transmasc John means a lot to other people. Same for Roxy- she was the predominant transfem headcanon for years upon years, the same way Dave was the predominant transmasc headcanon. That doesn’t negate that transmasc Roxy means a lot to some people, and it doesn’t negate that transfem Dove means a lot to some people.
I cannot in earnest cross those kinds of boundaries with people. I’m going to tag… Whatever character the artist would be drawing. I don’t know 99.99% of the people in the fandom, and cannot assume what a character’s gender means to some random person I’ve never met before.
I love and support June wholeheartedly. I love and support people who support June wholeheartedly. I also love and support John, and I think these two things can coexist. Or, at least, they should, in a kinder world.
People who use June as an excuse to be an asshole… Really should do a lot of self reflection. I’m not talking about you, here, anon- I’m talking about people that use her existence as a headcanon as an excuse to be a fucking transphobe. No matter how hard you proclaim yourself to be an ally, no matter how many posts you reblog, if you can’t sit down and be normal about the existence of trans women… You’re probably not as good of an ally as you say you are. Being an ally to transfems does not start and end at saying “Fuck TERFs” every time the existence of transfems is brought up.
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babypuffinzoe · 1 year
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Replying to your NSFW questions post
Can you answer 1-50 please?
😁😁😁
So many questions! Thank youu! 😁
1. What is your biggest sexual fantasy?
Hmm this is hard because I have a lot of sexual fantasies. 😂 One of my biggest fantasies is getting gangbanged anal only while having my legs held open and my pussy spanked 😇
2. What are your kinks?
I have a lot of kinks 😂 some of them are rope/bondage, dd/lg, spanking, omorashi, breath play, praise, orgasm control, degradation...
3. Have you ever had a threesome?
yes
4. Have you ever had sex in public?
no
5. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
no
6. What are your favorite sex positions?
missionary and doggy 🥰
7. Any kinks you would never admit to?
well if I admitted to them then they wouldn't be kinks I would never admit to 🤔🤓
8. Does pain turn you on?
yes
9. Are you a sadist or masochist?
I would say I'm both but I'm definitely more of a masochist
10. Dom, sub, or switch?
sub (I do switch very occasionally)
11. Have you tried anal? Did you like it?
yes 🥰 physically I don't feel much pleasure from anal but I love the psychological side to it and I really enjoy (safe) painal
12. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve done?
I don't think there really is a scale on which I could place something as 'kinkiest' 😂
13. Do you like biting/scratching?
I don't like biting but scratching can be fun
14. Do you like being spanked?
yes 🥰
15. Do you like having your hair pulled?
a little bit
16. Morning sex or nighttime sex?
Tumblr media
17. Shave, wax, or natural?
I prefer to wax but lately I've been shaving
18. Do you have a favorite sex toy?
not currently, my favourite dildo got ruined 😭😂
19. Favorite pornstar/porn?
I don't really watch porn, I prefer to read stories
20. Who do you want to fuck the most right now?
he knows who he is 😇🤭
21. If you were the opposite sex for a day, what would you do?
pee a lot, masturbate and maybe have some sex
22. Biggest turn offs?
arrogance, not respecting boundaries, being insensitive, someone constantly being on their phone if we're together in person, bad breath
23. Do you like foreplay?
yes
24. What turns you on the easiest?
the right words
25. How do you feel about creampies?
I've never had one
26. Spit or swallow?
neither, I prefer it on me
27. Have you ever had sex with the same gender?
no
28. Opinion on hookups?
it's not my thing
29. Can you deepthroat?
yes, but of course it depends on the size of the object being deepthroated 🤔
30. Have you ever filmed yourself having sex?
by myself yes, not with someone else though
31. How often do you masturbate?
at least once a day usually unless I'm not in the mood then I can go a period of time without
32. Opinion on giving/receiving head?
I enjoy both but I prefer giving
33. Have you ever been caught masturbating/having sex?
no
34. Do you ever go commando?
yes
35. How was your last sexual encounter?
it was eventful 😂
36. Have you ever tasted yourself?
yes
37. Booty or boobs?
both? but probably booty haha
38. Girth or length?
girth
39. Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
on but dimmed
40. Rough sex or intimate sex?
rough intimate sex? 😂
41. Do you like dirty talk? 
yes, I love it! 🥰
42. Have you ever taken someones virginity?
yes
43. Most embarrassing sexual experience?
the most embarrassed I've felt during sex is when I've accidentally farted 😭😂
44. Do you like lingerie?
yes
45. How would you rate your own sexual performance?
10/10 🤓
46. Can you squirt?
I'm pretty sure I can but I've only ever squirted a tiny bit 😂
47. Have you ever made yourself sore from masturbating? 
yes
48. Do you like being called derogatory names during sex?
yes
49. Do you like to be choked? 
choking is a hard limit for me but I like other forms of breath play (but I do enjoy having a hand around my throat 😏) 
50. Do you like to be restricted during sex?
yes
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airlock · 2 years
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okay, so, I was going to save this rant for the middle of my full Scarlet Blaze opinions post (... as one does, I guess), but I’m starting to worry that it’ll either get so long-winded it’ll take up more than its due real estate there, or that I’ll have lost too much of the immediate fervor by the time I finish the entire route. so here’s a quick rant concerning Monica and Fire Emblem fan reactions
not to bury the lede though. some people find Monica pretty annoying -- I don’t agree, but that much is perfectly fine. lately though I have been seeing a lot of comparisons to fucking Tharja and Faye, and that’s starting to make me frustratred possibly beyond the point of rationality. more under the cut!
so I haven’t seen everything that Scarlet Blaze has to offer, and for all I know something nasty is going to crop up ahead of the line and I’ll eat crow. crossing that bridge when I get to it. where I’m at right now, though, how shall I describe Monica? she has it bad for Edelgard, of course. it’s her Repetitive Character Thing, so it’ll always come up in those scenes where Linhardt is being lazy and Bernadetta is panicking and Petra is misuderstanding an idiom and Caspar is screaming -- or, as it were, ehum, revealing that he doesn’t know what sex is. it grates just as much as the other ones typically do, naturally. she’s also not a character with a wealth of dimensions or screentime outside of this, though, so there’s not terribly much else to anchor the screentime she does get. I can very, very easily see how not everyone would have the stamina for it.
Monica is not a fucking stalker, though.
is she obssessed with Edelgard? yes, for sure. but I’ve also yet to see a single scene where Monica actually violates Edelgard’s boundaries. she’s often a little much and kind of embarassing, but on occasions when she’s affirmatively told to reel it in, she does it without a complaint. and it almost never actually comes to that, anyway; she’s perfectly respectful most of the time without anyone telling her how to do it. conversely, I don’t think I’ve seen a single scene where Edelgard actually sounds at all uncomfortable with Monica’s attentions; at most, their B support almost goes there, but Edelgard is only really upset because she doesn’t want Monica unwittingly projecting affection into a decision that she made perfectly callously.
none of the above is stalking, by half. most everything Monica does in this game is just a kind of a comically exaggerated version of having a completely regular crush.
and naturally, that’s where her and Tharja differ dramatically. like, I am going to abstain from making too many definitive statments about what Tharja did or didn’t do -- it’s, thank god, been ages since last I touched Awakening -- but if nothing else, the known and obvious writer intent doesn’t lie. Tharja was conceived as a sympathetic stalker, whose repugnant behavior we’re expected to find sexually appealling. (and if her perennially solid CYL results are any indication, yeah, a bunch of us do find it sexually appealling, some freaking how).
I speak at least for me when I say that is the reason why Tharja is a garbage character -- and if she’s also one-note annoying and has one of the dumbest character designs this series has seen prior to Fates, those are secondary annoyances strictly, which would have easily blended into the sea of other Awakening characters with these exact same flaws if not for how #1 stands out as the real problem.
so like, if I’m willing to take things in good faith, I can at least sometimes let folks slide if they’re making that comparison, if I just assume that what they’re saying is “those are two characters that annoy me because they’re intensely obssessed with one other character; no statement on whether their similarities run any deeper than that”. even in that regard though, I can’t help noting that characters who are kind of obssessed with specific other characters have been a thing in this franchise since the freaking Akaneia Saga, so I can’t be too charitable to the thought that such a misleading comparison was the best one they could come up with.
(and in any case, for that matter, noting as much is a balm against the ones who are catastrophizing about how every Fire Emblem is going to be “like this” or something. like, I get, it’s hard to get over how dizzyingly stupid the whole thing was with adding a stalker to a remake -- but if this really is just about being annoyed by obssessive characters, then I regret to inform you, that’s just where we’ve been this entire goddamn time. you don’t have to like it regardless, but don’t treat it like a novel trope when it isn’t.)
now, those of you who know me well enough know that I really do not like making this kind of accusation just to win at fandom discourse (possible to achieve, normal to want, etc), but every now and then there are situations that actually call for it, so I'm just gonna let it out here in the heat of the moment and hope I won’t be embarassed whenever I’ve fully well calmed down about this. here goes -- if you can’t spot the line in the sand between an annoying lesbian and a goddamn stalker... you might need to work on your general opinion of lesbians, dontcha think?
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