#this post was written by a trans person

[rebeccadoe]

Let us sneak into the church that banished you, abandoned you in time of need.

Let me drape you over their altar, cushion your head with the pages of their holy book, Luke 22:19 right above the crown of your head: “And he took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me.””, and allow me to dip my head between your legs.

I am remembering him while I open up your body with my tongue, feel his presence in the room while I taste you.

But I don't need him to be blessing our union to feel holy, the shaking of your tights and those sweet, sweet noises I am drawing out of you are enough.

Don't hold back, oh please, don't muffle your voice with your fist or avert your eyes.

Within this sacred, hallowed halls, there is no room for shame.

#terf dni #<- this post was written with a trans person in mind so you #better keep your grubby hands off of it! #religion kink #religious debauchery #k!nk #k!nks #k!nky #k!nk tag #k!nk blog #k!nky thoughts #k!nk talk #k!nk concept #nsft #nsft community #nsft thoughts #nsft concept #ns/fw blog #*mine

[dontmindme2600]

One time on twitter I saw this totally bullshit “exposure/callout” thread on Jhonen Vasquez (it was so obviously false and stupid that it got zero attention) and yeah it was just a bunch of fake accusations with no valid looking evidence or sources. But. The thing that still gets me about it is that the person who made the thread was like a huge terf, so they decided to lie about Jhonen having a transgender wife. They spent like multiple tweets out of the entire thread just trash talking his nonexistent trans wife and calling her slurs. The only person who even bothered to give the thread any attention was obviously a friend/mutual of whoever posted it, who ALSO started shit talking Jhonen’s nonexistent trans wife. It was honestly fucking hilarious. I wish I could find it again but its likely lost to time/deleted, and I also don’t want to start internet beef with the type of person chronically online enough to dig up old photos of people to support fake accusations against a cartoonist.

#tw transphobes #tw transphobia #they dug up some really old pics of Jhonen for it though #how chronically online do you have to be #also funny as hell bc Jhonen isn’t married and is very vocal abt it #like all that effort to lie about something so easily disproven #jhonen vasquez #invader zim #sorry about this random ass post I’ve been rewatching iz and it reminded me of this #oh the accusations were s/a against women in the workplace I believe?? #but little evidence. it was like. #a cropped screenshot of a live journal post the person could have easily written themselves #and then they went on to accuse him of other less serious shit #and then just started bashing his trans wife that doesn’t exist

[kithj]

just another day in the IF community 👍

#lesbophobia #i love going on the reddit and giving myself psychic damage every time #also to be clear this person has literally written this character as a lesbian not as someone discovering that theyre bisexual lmfao #one of these days i should post my compilation of all of the horrible shit i've screenshotted between the reddits and the forum #reasons why i left cog/hg: #i do think overall the IF community has regressed MASSIVELY including on tumblr. especially on tumblr #excluding poc and trans people from games and doing shit like this #to having the most bioessentialist nonsense going on with genderselectable characters #man: Big and Blue #woman: small and pink #anyways i am glad there are people in the comments calling them out but it's disappointing to still see shit like this

[syoddeye]

trans 141 is so special to me

#trans reader and trans 141 fic makes me *emotional* #someone smarter and more articulate has probably written about it but #there is something so satisfactory about seeing myself in fanworks for this uber testosterone-filled game #like i am not cis but i am more masc but also i am not SUPER masc yknow #it is nice to read these stories and think wow! i could be loved and desired by a beefcake! #so thank you to writers and artists for trans rep #i will probably regret posting this but i think i've solidified that i am the corniest person alive so

[sailorscouts]

went to a lgbt+ bookclub meeting yesterday for the first time and i'm proud of myself for going outside my comfort zone 🙌 also for managing to finish the books in 2 days! it was great, we roasted the book, which wasn't that good, and then they gossiped about various affairs

#my posts #it was a book about a trans person written by a cis person so it felt a bit lacking #also i'm so happy about my reading speed being so fast now because last year i had a concussion and I had such a hard time reading after #that for a while :(

[the-sinking-garden]

do y’all ever see a screenshot of a tumblr post on another site, and you’re like, “wow that really speaks to me and i like that” and then you go to their blog and it’s just, insanely transphobic and sex essentialist terf

like damn okay, i thought you were cool cause of that one post, guess not :/

#transphobes #tumblr #meta #i still like the og post cause it’s really pretty and well written but like #that person is blocked now #weirdo terf…get outta here with that shit #the sinking garden posts #lgbtqia #social commentary #rambling here instead of going to sleep but damn it makes me mad when terfs or anyone else spout supposedly feminist beliefs #but in actuality they are anti feminist because they paint every “biological man’’ as like #innately evil… which is stupid cause obviously that’s not true and it’s trans phobic AND it’s discriminatory to men and women #not even getting into the terf gender essentialist aspect of it #jesus i ramble when i’m mad anyways i am sleeping now go howl at the moon for me

[pyrriax]

i love writing like 1.2k worth of a crack fic concept that isnt really a crack fic but it is just me running with my headcanons and disregarding canon entirely because sometimes you need to write the (canon) gays being extra flavors of queer and just. yeah.

#haunted ecosystem #anyways im holding this fic near and dear to my heart it is written like entirely based off my experience being queer. #like i just had both of them kind of play into different aspects. clown got hit with the “uses the same pronouns & name but in a trans way” #<- this is about the cubito. please. cubito. not cc. do not mistake. #im not gonna ever post this fic probably because its like. personal exploration of identity. but i love it a lot <3 #also just the blorbos are t4t always and forever. peace and love on planet minecraft they are also just very queer. #.... yeah this fic is also just based off the lovely world of poly relationships and finding joy in nonconformity.... #also it was written for the prompt “oversized sweater” which lead to so much and its so funny because that isnt even too central anymore #it just. i wanted to write about how i perceive love ^_^ #i talk about love so much for somebody who's aro but i think it's just like. i view love as a constant rather than something reserved #i dont really do the romantic attraction thing i just like people for being people and wish them joy and success and good things

[illputdownmyrootswhenimdead]

i have so many posts in my drafts about weird terf shit ive seen, but i don’t want to post them and risk summoning a ton of them to my blog to rant about how im always going to be female and trans women are misogynist men and gender neutral language is misogynistic and all men are dangerous by nature while all women are victims by nature and…………

#transphobia // #child abuse // #mostly in the tags #i saw a particularly unhinged terf post last night that made me so fucking angry #it was advocating for boys to get vasectomies as soon as they hit puberty. #and only being allowed to have it reversed if a woman gives written legal permission for him to impregnate her #cis boys hit puberty around age 9 to 14. that person thought that preforming a genital surgery on 9 year old boys….. is the solution to #men harming women. #and they said it’s not violating those boys bodily autonomy #god forbid trans kids get puberty blockers or hormones but yeah it’s fine to preform vasectomies on 9 year old boys #a particularly fucking insane example of the brainrot transphobia and thinking men are biologically evil #gives you #dove talks #like. do you know how they preform that surgery?? it’s not something that should be done to anyone who doesn’t want it. #if you think it’s totally normal and okay to cut into the scrotum of a little boy and mess with his reproductive organs #you are unwell and i hope you’re never around children of any sex #imagine if that was done to a little girl. it’s fucked up right? #little girls going through puberty shouldn’t have surgeries done on them? #yeah it’s JUST as fucked up to suggest that doing that to little boys is okay. fucking christ #little boys are not worse than little girls. they’re not inherently dangerous. they’re fucking children #if you think something is fucked up to do to a little girl. it’s just as fucked up to do to a little boy #because in both cases. they’re a child. #this is the ultimate result of thinking male = automatically genetically unchangably evil #it leads to dehumanizing and othering innocents like children #like. ive SEEN transphobes and terfs in specific say things to the effect of #‘all fetuses start off female so males are actually a biological mistake’ which is the most insane disgusting thing to believe #idk how to tell you that saying another human being is a mistake because of how they were born. #is fucking gross and despicable #idk maybe it’s being disabled and feeling like im a mistake that makes me wary of saying certain people are genetic mistakes.

[thornshadowwolf]

New hot take I saw (and got yelled at for even asking about) is that it's transphobic and enbyphobic to not HC a character as non-binary despite the fact that the creator has said the character wasn't meant to be non-binary (but is ok with ppl interpreting them that way)

#this is about Party Poison #and this isn't anti-nonbinary-Party I do HC them as non-binary #it's just... such a weird take lol #like Gerard said they don't view party as non-binary and they weren't written to be but they like seeing other people's interpretations #like to me it sounds like 'I did not intend for this character to be NB but you are free to interpret them that way that's cool' #not 'this character is explicitly not male and thinking of them as such is wrong' #like. 'I don't view the character this way but I don't mind seeing you interpret them that way' to me sounds like #'you are allowed to interpret the character' right??? #like I know there is an issue with ppl taking non-binary characters as 'open to interpretation' but this doesn't seem like that at all? #since. they literally said 'you can interpret them however you want DESPITE the fact that I did not view or intend them as NB' #anyway. #the person seemed super high strung and argunentative so I'm not even going to try to apologize and ask for a legitimate explanation #also note just so all the info is there: the person was specifically mad about ppl HCing them as male (trans or cis) #ThornShadow.said #edit: checked their pinned and bio on their main while I considered blocking them and it seems like they're just Like That #I think it's a kinnie thing cuz they were like 'don't tag my Party Poison stuff as kin and don't misgender them in front of me' #also possible they have a Party Poison alter who that would be misgendering #anyway I just blocked them and ofc if you run into the post or something don't harass them about it or anything

[passiveagreeable]

i'd really really like to understand the "based on your likes!" algorithm because it's mostly discreet enough that i don't think much of it but then also i get casually anti-trans, anti-abortion, etc catholics spewing nonsense at me every single day like??? i have Questions

#or like entire drarry fanfics. on my dash in the year 2k22. like #what???? leave me alone #i don't interact with harry potter at ALL what do you want from me????? #every time i see something that's like that. so for example i had to read a post about half a dozen times today #before realizing that it was anti sex ed and anti trans because the way it was written was just. stupid #but yeah each time i get that shit. i'm like. what am i liking tumblr? why is this here? i'll stop liking it right tf now but what is it??? #haven't as of yet seen a person on here that's overtly catholic that i don't want to personally slap across the face

[evilkitsch]

fewer posts about “why do women date men who hate them” and more posts about “why do so many men hate women that it’s genuinely difficult for women to find romantic & sexual intimacy with a man who doesn’t hate them”

update: this post was written by a trans person & is about misogyny, which affects all women, including trans women. transmisogynists begone, please.

#txt

[gayturians]

personally i think there's a balance between "i can't research every op I reblog from" and "i don't care if op is a trashbag"

#gt talks #this is abt people who get mad when you give them a heads up about a user you happen to know is awful #they'll be like 'a good post is a good post regardless of who posts it' #and the good post is just some basic ass vague shit like 'protect women' #written by a terf who meant 'protect women from trans people' #like maybe it's just me but i'd want to know that's the intended context personally

[ipso-faculty]

Perisex allies: stop this shit

CW: intersexism

Came across this infographic during some google image searching and I'm still kind of a state of despair about it because it's not just offensively wrong about what intersex is, it was used to teach university students about queer issues:

Alt text: LGBTQIA+ are defined one by one. Intersex is defined erroneously as "These are people who were born with genital organs of both sexes (male and female). It is a genetic condition."

It's one thing for your rando perisex person to be getting this wrong on social media. It's another thing entirely when it's professionals getting this wrong in an educational setting. 😩 And that this infographic appears in a peer-reviewed publication. 😩

It's even worse to know the students that were taught with this infographic were medical students, who will be the ones traumatizing intersex people for decades to come 😩

It's so wrong in so many different ways:

Intersex is not limited to people with genital differences. Most intersex people have intersex variations that are not apparent at birth, with puberty being the most common time of life for variations to present. Many people find out in adulthood having no outward physical differences.

Of the intersex people with genital differences, they do not have two sets of genitals. Most genital differences are still recognizably female or male (e.g. spadias), and those who have ambiguous genitals have one set.

Intersex is not "male parts + female parts" or even "intermediate male/female parts", it is an umbrella term for anybody whose primary/secondary sex characteristics don't line up with what is expected for male and female bodies. Some intersex variations make women look more feminine, or make men look more masculine.

Defining intersex by genital differences doesn't just exclude most intersex people, it also sets the tone that we are defined by our genitals. To be publicly intersex is to have non-stop DMs about your genitals. This sort of framing sets up openly intersex people for invasive questions and harassment, and it keeps large numbers of intersex people from coming out.

Many intersex variations do not have a known genetic basis. Many intersex variations are caused by exposure to certain hormonal levels in the womb. Certain medications when taken during pregnancy can trigger intersex variations.

While bodily variation is necessary for being intersex, the social experience of stigma, discrimination, isolation, hyper-medicalization, and hyper-sexualization are all just as much a part of being intersex.

📣 Perisex allies: this is shit you can stop. When you see other perisex people parrot this sort of misinformation, correct them. Direct them to look up resources written by actually intersex people.

Here are some starter resources to give:

Intersex explained by Hans Lindahl

Media and style guide by IHRA

FAQ by intersex-support

A recent post I did compiling information for trans people who want to be better intersex allies

#intersex #text #intersexism #queer #lgbt #lgbtia #lgbt education #perisex allies #psa #actuallyintersex #actually intersex