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haunted-xander · 23 days

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Forgot to post this my bad

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recitedemise · 5 months

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𝗚𝗮𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗳𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄𝘀 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗶𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝘁𝗵. That said, when speaking of his paramour with the mention of Mystra, it is not a slight. After all, Mystra, the goddess, wasn't just his lover; she, as she'll remain, controls the Weave.

As a scholar of magic for all his life, Gale is thoroughly enamored with it. He's always had the Weave, casting spells and enchantments for as far as his long memory goes, and there's no power on earth that can pale that devotion. When Gale says Mystra's name, in love, it is never with yearning. When he tells his lover that he forgets his goddess when he stands beside them, he means quite literally that he foregoes his faith. He doesn't mention her like a quality benchmark with which they've somehow surpassed, but to punctuate how wholly he has fallen for them. With a new, honest love, he is turned entirely from Mystra. In fact, so utterly bewitched, he's like a born again man. He isn't besotted by his goddess, held stalwart in her sway and seemingly, abundantly, and frustratingly stubborn. After that disastrous relationship, I promise you, Gale spares not a single thought toward her. She might have control of the Weave, and as such, stands still his only patron deity, but his new, doting lover? They become something of a new religion for him; he is most devoted, taken by, and so loyal to them.

He does not see Mystra. Do not assume he still feels for her.

He's a man of one love, and they will have all of him.

#HEADCANON.#Never go into the Gale tag because the fandom has such bad faith interpretations of Gale 24/7 #I say as another bad take makes me type this up.#Gale isn't still hung up on her GOD. Stop.#Stop saying 'Gale keeps mentioning Mystra when we're being romantic and it's so annoying.'#Dude. Mystra is his LITERAL god. He is saying YOU ARE HIS NEW FAITH.#Oh my god. Stop misinterpreting it. He isn't still ENAMORED with Mystra.#UGHHHHHHHH.#He got out of an abusive relationship and is finding out THIS is what love is #that this love IS something he can put his faith and heart in.#And you reduce him to... guy that can't get over ex tee hee?#Tell me why I shouldn't make your milk curdle.#Someone: the astral sex scene is just him reliving his moment with Mystra.#Or get this... he himself has basically largely only had sex and intimacy through that realm #and knows it to be pleasurable. He wants his partner to know pleasure beyond all imagination. THAT'S IT.#People make me [semi truck comically long honk].#This man makes it a POINT that his heart is made ONLY for one and you all just?!?!? Talk like this!?! You wound Dean. [third person talk]#Anyway (breathes). I'm normal now. I will be on later cuz big things cane up at work. peace.

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literallyaflame · 8 months

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i would also be interested in a post on the whole anti/proship topic, bc im also firmly in camp >can we buy some nuance here? no?< (tho i do have a "side" i lean more towards ig) so im defs interested in other ppl having opinions that fall outside the black/white view n talkin about it...bc i feel like lots of us either dont talk abt it both bc of the worry u mentioned abt getting backlash, or bc it just feels like talking to a wall bc nuance is ignored a lot...

my argument is just that “fiction affects reality” and “fiction doesn’t affect reality” both fail to address the issue. fiction is the product of reality, not the other way around. it represents pre-existing notions about the world, and must be evaluated for tonality and intent, not the mere presence of Bad Things

is this depiction of sexual abuse an endorsement of the behavior, or is it a dark erotic fantasy, written by a self-aware author? i don’t know, i would have to read it to find out. does this horror movie fetishize violence against minorities? perhaps, depending on who wrote it and who the intended audience was. is this loli/shota drawing the product of someone who seeks to abuse children, or does the artist just really like frilly dresses?

more importantly, how the fuck do we tell the difference?

well, we’ve gotta start applying media literacy skills to adult content. it’s not any different from anything else, aside from the guilt and shame factor. if we accept that depictions of murder and violence may or may not be problematic, then we have to accept the same truth about sex. not all stories function as self-insert wish-fulfillment, erotica included—but erotica can tell us something about an author’s relationship with sex in the same way that horror can tell us something about an author’s relationship with gore and violence

how and why people consume this content varies, and may or may not be healthy. regardless, we don’t evaluate fiction based on how it may “affect reality.” not even propaganda, the mind-changer of fiction, is that simple; it appeals to pre-existing biases and pre-existing notions because, again, fiction is a product of reality. not the other way around.

you can’t really defend the idea that “everyone who depicts [x] is endorsing [x] and attempting to normalize [x] and is therefore evil” because it’s neither universally true nor productive. you also can’t defend the idea that fiction is utterly divorced from reality, because artists and writers live in reality, and reality influences their art

i hate to say this, but when it comes down to it, i personally don’t give a shit if someone ships wincest or has a ddlg fetish or whatever. maybe they’re a horrible monster or maybe they just have a run-of-the-mill erotic fascination, i don’t know. i don’t feel the need to pass final judgement on individual strangers, even if they make me uncomfortable. i’m more interested in advocating for 1.) ethical, enforceable rules about tagging and filtering sensitive and/or adult content 2.) systems that prevent real-life abuse without reducing it to an evil subtype of person and 3.) the case-by-case application of media literacy skills to the aforementioned adult content, which can absolutely perpetuate all sorts of alarming ideas about sex & abuse

#tw pedophila mention #tw abuse #kind of #listen i mentioned lolishota i feel the need to tag for something fhsjfhdj #dear god i hope this makes sense #I was gonna make this a longer thing and cite sources but tbh #when you break it down it’s not that complex #like #the difference between fetishizing a trans person and eroticizing a trans person #isn’t magical an unknowable #and the solution isn’t ‘ban!! ban all the trans sex videos!!!!’#it’s just a matter of… you know…. the relationship between the audience and the creator #how and why that relationship is facilitated who benefits from it etc #*and unknowable #man i hate typing tags on mobile lmao

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italic-doing-random-shit · 4 months

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Consent is, infact, extremely hot, only when it's between two adults

And this isn't meant to be me arguing it

But

If someone has a thing for non-con in like

Stories

Or roleplay

Due to trauma?

It's understandable to some level

Irl non-con is terrible and those ppl should be burned at the stake though

Please bare with me im having trouble wording this

Tw lots of talk about sex and consent

if the non-con roleplay is consensual, as it both parties say this sort of behavior is okay and will still respect boundaries, then sure, im not here to govern your sex life

and reading is fine as well in my opinion, as long as you very clearly understand the difference and do not let those two over lap or face my knife

And yes, non-con irl is absolutely disgusting and we will burn those people and beat them with metal pipes

all I’m saying is, have as much fun as you want

as long as your an adult/age of consent at your respective area and it’s consensual

Coaxing into sex or other activities is not consensual

not having a clear and enthusiastic yes is not consent

going on after someone says stop is no longer consent

but to add on, consent does apply to non sexual/suggestive activity as well

I mean stuff like kissing, physical touch, nicknames/verbal communication

TLDR: consent is sexy only as an adult or die

#asks #anon asks #Tw sex mention #tw suggestive #tw sex talk #please tell me if I need to add other tags #And if something is unclear I can specify

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zeninsama-moved · 1 year

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Hate fucking with Yoshida. Just Sunday things. 😘

HATE-FUCKING WITH YOSHIDA... had to share this idea with @existentialisttrashh and rem brought up the amazing thought of hate-fucking IN FRONT OF A MIRROR so you can watch yourself get fucked by the man you hate <3 yoshida fucking all of his frustrations out on you in sharp, mean thrusts, each one jolting you forward with a gasp, gritting through your teeth "that hurts, asshole" and he merely dismisses you with a "does it?"

yoshida being a sick fuck that likes when you fight him. it gets him hard when you bite and scratch and tell him how much you fucking hate him. especially when you get that look in your eyes, glaring at him through angry tears like you actually want to kill him.

he likes to push you down, force your ass higher so his dick can press deeper, and feel your walls squeeze him, see your wetness coat his dick each time he pulls out of your cunt. he picks up his pace, fucking into you with punishing thrusts, maybe hooking his fingers into your cheek while he mocks you in the condescendingly sweet voice that you hate. "yeah? you hate me? is that why you're cumming on my dick?"

#nearly fell to my knees in goodwill #tw noncon #tw dubcon #to be safe #another thing rem mentioned was telling him not to use his tentacles bc they're weird but he does #i could expand on that......#something abt hate sex makes me... damb #mercury speaks #special zell tag

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these-terrors · 3 months

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i love taking myself way too seriously i feel like it's self care at this point. what i feel like is important and it should be important to the people who care about me too

#terrors.txt #nsft mention in tags>#but god admitting to myself that hey maybe i feel fucking anxious about fucking around/my partners doing that isn't something i should blame #myself over but rather look at. again thanks to my partners ofc bc if i eere alone in this i wouldnt have been able to look at my needs and #not consider myself a terrible person for that #so yeah good 4 anyone who's into scenarios involving casual sex w/ ur friends but i'm glad i realised it's not for me #and stuck to it 4 my mental health #bc i put myself through so many situations bc i thought i wasn't being chill and laid-back enough and tried to overcompensate #ough !

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mars-ipan · 2 months

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talking to my mom is such a blast. meeting of the minds

#marzi speaks #pseudosexuality moment #<- for what the tags shall entail #it’s great we both engage in good faith share our perspectives #and then we both come out of it having learned something new #and it rules!!#we had a really good discussion about kink and sex tonight #and we talked about negotiation and sex positivity and the specific things we liked and didn’t like #and how important it is to communicate that with a partner #and how all of this ties into being acespec #i even explained pseudosexuality to her! and she seemed to get it pretty well! about as well as i do anyways lmao #and then i mentioned my kmda crush bc he’s a good example of it being easier for aspecs in some cases to be attracted to fiction #to which she was like ‘that makes sense- it’s like fantasy’#anyways i was trying to explain why i liked him to her. and i was like ‘ok kmda. my mom grew up in the 80s. kmda. 80s. what connection. OH’#and i said he had the JD appeal and my mom went ‘ah gotcha mkay’#eventually the discussion turned into how stories like heathers are being simplified and reduced for the sake of remakes #and that was also a really good convo #but i really enjoyed talking about kink stuff with my mom. we bonded :]#also it was cool to see where we differed. some things i was like Yes about she was like Absolutely Not about and vice versa #it was also fun to see where we had similarities. rope bunny solidarity 🤝 it’s the GAD lmao #anyways i love talking to her. she’s so smart and when she sees something she doesn’t understand she doesn’t judge it or shy away from it #she just asks for clarification and tries her best to understand and contribute to the conversation #and usually we both end up learning from each other!!! it’s so cool #also a lot of my friends (at least that i regularly see irl) are not nearly as freaky as me so i rarely get to talk kink with ppl #so it was nice to just get to have that conversation

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ineffablecollision · 5 months

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my top 9 characters of 2023

thank you so much for the tag @mandycantdecide <3

guillermo de la cruz - what we do in the shadows casper - relax, i'm from the future vladislav the poker - what we do in the shadows stede bonnet - our flag means death aziraphale - good omens murray hewitt - flight of the conchords jemaine clement - flight of the conchords steve rutherford - wrecked bret mckenzie - flight of the conchords

i tag everyone who wants to do this!

#i put way too much work into this slkdfsjdfsd #honorable mentions!! the wwdits main cast in general #also vianton!!!! they would've deserved to be here as well #probably any of rhys' characters... let's be real #furfur and muriel from gomens #i don't even want to put the entire crew from ofmd here... i love them all so much. but stede blorbo'd all over me #super honorable mention to kim and harry from disco elysium #also rewatched masters of sex and bill is still near and dear to my heart that bastard #and i could've cheated and put michael and david from staged pfpfpprt #half of this was also just... me going through my folders to look for my old discord pfps soooo xDDDD #these are also in no particular order. it's more for the aesthetic.... or something #turns out this is my 4500th post #tag game #jazz.txt #all that jazz

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rottenn-angel · 3 months

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therapist has recommended i see a sex trauma therapist

apparently my level of sex repulsion and desire to boil my skin off with acid whenever I feel libido isn’t normal lmao

#rottenn vents #gonna start tagging personal vents as this so ppl can tag it if they dont wanna see #my post #s/a mention #s/a implied #tw s/a #me: yeah im thinking about seeign a sex therapist but idk #therapist: you dont just need to see a sex therapist you need to see a trauma sex therapist. i really think something happened to you #-even if you dont remember.#me: oh.

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