#tranny dating shit

[redheadedfailgirl]

I'm now actively watching my ex try to hop into a new relationship on tinder. Her choices are between an incredibly hot, socialist, urban exploring, kerbals space program playing, computer science working, totally badass transfem, and a cis woman who's good at makeup and just kinda thicc. Can the peanut gallery please guess which one of these she's drooling over?

#if if helps you guess shes 100% a chubby chaser #not in the sense that she finds fat people attractive #shes full on fetishizing the chubby fem homies and its wild because she knows nothing about this girl but she is drooling #and she keeps getting away with it cuz i guess shes pretty and she knows it which makes a bitch do wild things #tranny dating shit

[herosbrine]

no way i just saw a whole ass adult use "pannie" derogatorily towards pansexuals without an inch of irony. can we grow up please. that is such a childish insult to use in genuine anger. i thought we were over this years ago

#yeah a lot of pansexuals are biphobic but where are we even going with any of this #i'm not taking your bi/pan discourse seriously if you're using terms a 2nd grader would use #teaching people about the origins and actual meaning of bisexuality will help 20 times more than mindlessly insulting the other side #i don't wanna say bi/pan discourse is terminally online bc ppl actually believing the 'bi means u dont date trans and nby ppl' bs is- #genuinely effecting us. but some of you need to step outside and see what actually fucking matters #its just a little funny that you only see this shit on tumblr. how curious #but yeah if you actually believe that pansexuals only exist out of hatred towards bisexuals you need to get the fuck out of here #like i said before a lot of pansexuals r biphobic. but that doesn't mean i don't think they're real or don't deserve their own word #bisexual is a very broad label. its okay for people to want more detail about their identity. they're not stealing anything from us by #simply existing. its what they say do and think that makes them biphobic #sorry for the essay i just think the whole bi vs pan war going on is ultimately useless because y'all have strayed from the key argument #SOME pansexuals being biphobic doesn't mean we need to be panphobic towards all pansexuals and vice versa #pannie just tries SOOOO hard to be tranny but it could never be her. its far too childish to even be taken as a mockery

[voidcoretxt]

shaking crying throwing up projectile vomiting i just wish i was in a place in life where i can start streaming or at least doing youtube stuff...

#DO NOT OPEN THESE TAGS THEY GOT SO LONG AND IM NOT EVEN FUNNY IN THEM JUST MENTALLY ILL... #going to like. basically boarding school #idk how those work but like during the week ill be in dormitories and ill only be back for the weekends #and ugh dorms r no place to do that stuff and currently home isnt either so 🙃 #13th of september... The End Of All That Garbage starts then and theres no way therye gonna b fighting in court for more than a month #so like. #might come out in october mayyybe ? #then i could go try to get hrt but Laws Exist and i can only start at around the end of april :I #and i probably shouldnt do that then bc i do not want to make myself A Target by being openly transgender #but also back to streaming if i am perceived as a woman ill cry and kill myself ( only half joking ) #so like. ig my last year of hs would b a good time to start and ill be 18 by then so i wont even have to tell my parents #and 4th grade ppl have more important shit to worry abt than some tranny so ! thats the earlier possible date for me. fucking hell #and omg even if i didnt have All The Issues ( transgenderism ) i still could start streaming when i have my own place so like. at 17 at best #since we should be done with selling our old apartment in warsaw by then and mums chill with me being by myself for a bit when im older #like before its legal for me to live alone #i just. fucking hate waiting i wish i was 30 and none of this shit would matter #UGH. and it would be nice to have some sort of following in uni or id have to drop streaming #since id still have to Work to Make Money as well as Study and i cant have too busy of a schedule #so it would only be worth it as a job and not a hobby #and no matter what id rather not drop out i really want to do architecture and a degree Will Be Helpful #why the fuck am i worrying abt so much this isnt even a quarter of it all and i already have filled myself with stress. my shoulders hurt #a lot of things hurt actually i should stop sitting on my legs or theyll hurt #ugh and its so humid in my room but thats bc its humid outside #and i cant close the window bc my room gets sorta stinky bc of my lizards terrarium #jeez and i have to deal with that too since hes badly placed adn doesnt get enough privacy which makes him stressed #which in turn makes ME stressed #ANYWAY uh. i should speak abt all that stuff with a therapist and not in my tumblr tags i think #voidcore.txt #ethan cringe compilation

[ev3rgreenxtrees]

hiii could you do a nick x trans!reader where they’re out on a date in public and a fan comes up to nick for a photo and says something transphobic to the reader?

Not A Fan

-N.S

Summary; Nick and his boyfriend are on a date, when Nick gets noticed by a fan. The fan asks to take a picture, but says something vile to Nick’s boyfriend.

Pairing: Nick Sturniolo X Trans!Reader (he/him.)

Warnings: Use of the t-slur, transphobia, cussing & foul language, arguing.

“C’mon, slow poke!” You giggle, tugging at Nick’s arm, attempting to lead him into the restaurant, that Nick had a reservation for.

You two had been dating for a long time, but out of respect, Nick hadn’t taken you out to many very public places. As a trans guy, you were worried that one of Nicks’ fans would be transphobic to you, or even just anyone walking past.

Today, however, was your one-year anniversary, and you agreed to let Nick take you somewhere ‘fancy’. He had picked a well-known restaurant, one that you had been wanting to go to for a while.

“Excuse me..?” You hear a voice call out from behind you. You and Nick both turn your heads, and you were met with a girl, who seemed to be around eighteen. She smiled brightly at Nick, but completely ignored your presence. You didn’t mind much, since most of the triplets fans didn’t really acknowledge you.

“Yeah?” Nick asks, looking down at the shorter girl. Her friend stood behind her, minding her own business. She must not watch them.

“I’m a huge fan, could I get a picture..?” She asked shyly, and Nick smiled. Nick was always sweet and gentle when it came to his fans. Without them, he knows he wouldn’t be where he was today, so he was always appreciative.

“Of course. Do you mind if my boyfriend is in it?” He asks sweetly, and the girl glares at you. Her demeanor almost immediately changed.

“Yeah, I do mind, actually. I don’t want her in the picture. I don’t wanna get contaminated.” The girl rolls her eyes, handing her friend her phone. You immediately felt tears prick at your eyes. This is exactly why you hate being in public with Nick.

“What the fuck?” Nick growls, stepping away from the girl. “You fucking disgust me.” He snaps, and the girls eyes widen.

“What-? Why?” The girl asks, as if she had no clue what she did wrong. “Because I don’t want your tranny girlfriend in the picture? I’m a fan of you, not her.” The girl scoffs. Nick’s eyes widen.

“You better watch your fuckin’ mouth, you dumb bitch. Don’t think that just because you’re eighteen doesn’t mean I wont beat your ass. You are not a fan. You disgust me.” Nick growls, immediately grabbing your hand.

“What— whatever. You’re right. I’m not a fan after this shit.” She rills her eyes and turns around to walk away.

“Thank fuck. Trust me, you weren’t a fan in the first place, you stupid cunt.” Nick snarls. You stood there, in complete awe.

Obviously you felt bad for possibly ruining your date, but you felt safe with Nick.

“I’m sorry, my love,” He coos, gently rubbing your cheek. He places a small kiss to your lips.

“There’s nothing to be sorry for, Nick. That was fucking amazing. Thank you.” You gape, pulling him into a hug.

“Of course. You’re my man, i’d do anything for you, baby.” Nick reassures, taking your hand in his once again, pulling you into the restaurant.

“God, I love you.” You mumble to him.

“I love you too.” He says back.

『 ↳✧･ﾟ Finn yaps❕ ;

Im so sorry this took so long and its so short, but i really hope you like it🤍

˗ˏˋ꒰ 🍒 ꒱ I do NOT give permission for my work to be published on any other site, nor to be claimed as your own . However , reblogs , likes , and comments are much appreciated ! 🤍

ੈ✩‧₊˚ @bernardenjoyer @lovely-calypso @junnniiieee07 @tillies33ssss @imwetforyourmom @slut4mattsturn @thenickgirl

#sturniolo triplets #chris sturniolo #matt sturniolo #nick sturniolo #christopher sturniolo #fanfic #nicolas sturniolo #sturniolo fanfic #fluff #angst

[boccher]

gosh and like people saying "it's not men's fault they were raised and conditioned to inevitably be misogynists" like they're totally helpless plankton being carried along the current of patriarchy LIKE they fucking grew up with women around them. their classmates their teachers their caregivers strangers on the street, sitting next to them in the bar, messaging them on games or social media, writing the books and tv shows and movies they enjoy.

And obviously not every woman is handing every man an essay on feminism wherever they go (and theres MANY reasons why tons of women will reinforce the patriarchy even if it oppresses them but that's a different convo). But inevitably it crosses EVERYONE'S minds that maybe women are equal human beings to men. Like the level of disconnect by so many men to never see women as equals, to disengage and deflect whenever sexism is brought up (like holy shit do they disengage and deflect). that's a series of ACTIVE and continuous decisions to dehumanise women in spite of the reality that they can clearly see around them, that's them being presented with the opportunity to have institutional power and superiority over women and actively taking it. It goes way beyond just abosrbing misogynistic beliefs around them, and it's SO common. You know how so many guys think of women as a disposable commodity in the dating game? or are totally sympathetic to rapist celebrities? and spout shit about "false accusations" "#metoo was a mistake" "what about the male custody rate"? it goes waaayy beyond "internalised misogyny" it's fully externalised and they're often proud about it

IMO it's far more essentialist to dismiss the autonomy that men have in fully wholeheartedly embracing patriarchy, that's steeping into bullshit talking points like "men can't change their nature" "you can't take the male socialisation out of the man" and ignores the feminist men (definitely not a majority lol) who don't completely buy into patriarchy from the outset, y'know like guys I've actually interacted with and are legitimately trustworthy nice people. and it ignores my tranny ass as well, like they wanted me to go "eww girls im better than girls" as well, but i fuckin talked to girls and deduced that the whole power game was bullshit. I just wanted to play with the people I liked whoever they were. far before i knew what a transgender was or that i might be one. cuz its fuckin logical if you have any theory of mind

[thyfleshc0nsumed]

I really hope I can build my own strange kinky queer family someday, thanks for sharing parts of yours! It’s sexy but also heart warming?

This is legitimately so sweet. It honestly made me tear up a little

It's weird it kinda just... Happened. I met my sweetie 5 years ago now. We met on Grindr and she brought over some drinks and I was like "oh if you're at the grocery store, can you pick me up some milk." We dated for about six months and stopped seeing each other cuz life kinda got in the way. We saw each other a handful of times over the next two years and when I moved I asked if she could help, which she did. I hadn't even realized that I had moved less than 10 mins away from where she lives (she always came to me when we were dating)

I was still madly in love with her (tbh I'm realizing that she was really my first love) and she knew she couldn't give me what I wanted from her and she told me that. I needed a couple months to feel my feelings (and also get footing in my sobriety) before I was ready to be friends. Late fall of 2022 we started hanging out sometimrs again, and then probably spring ish of 2023 I met her Daddy. She started modeling some leather for me not long after I started doing it, but it wasn't until that spike strap photoshoot in ~ Oct 2023 that things got weird in some fun ways. That was like the first time I feel like I really domd her in a way that wasn't just for the camera. Since then, it's been a rollercoaster of constantly developing so many dynamics. She's my sweetie, she's my lover, she's my auntie, she's my sub, she's my best friend, she's so many things to me.

Her and her Daddy started dating like spring of 2022 and I was maaaaad jealous, I projected allllll my insecurities onto him, despite never having met him. The first time we hung out one on one was in late July of 2023 where we went and saw a screening of a porno. After that I think we saw each other at tranny takeover nights at one of the local cruising bars and just started hanging out in group and solo settings. He's truly one of my best friends in the world, and the brother I never got to have

I met his husband (the rabbit) not too long after and we've gotten really close too. One of the most insightful people I've had the pleasure to meet in my little time on this earth. Such a profoundly compassionate person who consistently challenges me to be kinder and gentler with myself. Theyre witty without ever being unkind, and goddamn can they carry a bit. Also they're really fucking good at pointing out when I'm letting ppl be transmisogynistic towards me cuz they're hot lmfao.

I met the femme, the rabbit's girlfriend at the rabbits birthday party last November. She's such a delightful presence and really admire how strongly she stands by her values. I remember a month or two ago, I was on some fuck shit, I don't even remember what, and she was like "hey girl you're on some fuck shit." I respect the hell out of her, and am so glad she's in our weird little crew

I didn't realize what we had was a family until recently. It was a lot of things tbh but I think it was this moment I had in January that really showed me. I was having the worst mental health moment I had had in probably a year. I was feeling so unstable. I was out and I was feeling impulsive. I was planning on either going and getting fucked by some guys at the cruising bar or getting in the lake with my clothes on. The daddy told me to come over cuz I clearly wasn't okay. I did. By the time I got to their spot it was probably 11p and I was nonverbal. The rabbit made me a bagel. The daddy got me a stuffed animal to squeeze. It was probably 45 minutes before I got even a single word out. And they were fine with that. They didn't pressure me to talk, but they didn't ignore me either. They let me be with them the way I needed to be. And when I was ready to talk, I was met with such compassion and emotional intelligence and love. I was taken care of in ways a family does.

Idk. This was long. And maybe over share y. I just. I fucking love these people so much and it kinda all spilled out.

#family #hi lil brother #hi auntie #also just using the monikers from the photo account to preserve a little anonymity

[notpettypete]

why would you want to date a tranny? that shit is fucking disgusting and it's just a mental disorder

Cutting your hair doesn't make you a man

both of my boyfriends have always been men. i’m not sure what you’re talking about

[hello-nichya-here]

Pffft in what fucking way radical feminism is about apologizing abuse?? xD

Hun if you have no what you're talking about just don't talk about it, don't embarrass yourself

Glad you asked!

First we have this very thing that you're doing right now, which is shutting down anyone who mentions that radfems can be abusers. Major red flag whenever someone's first reaction to hearing "Someone in your group has been abusive" is to immediately get all defensive and say "NO ONE HERE WOULD EVER!"

Secondly, we have the very thing that made me point out that radfems are abusive as hell. I pointed out that a stupid radfem was insisting that I was being abused because I like kinky stuff, and then had the nerve to go "You deserve to be beaten until you get brain damage." Saying that some people just "deserve" to be mistreated is abuse apologism 101.

And since we're talking about people who "deserve" abuse according to radfems, let's look at the list of women you guys have thrown under the bus:

1 - Women who have been abused by other women. After all, "rape is a male crime" according to you guys.

2 - Women of color. You guys always get hella defensive whenever a non-white woman points out that radfems are often racist as fuck, and pull stuff like basing their list of "how to spot a tranny" on racist shit like literal nazi propaganda posters to help people "spot jews." And let's not forget the large overlap between plenty of radfem groups and white supremacy groups. Oh, sorry, forgot we're not supposed to mention all that so we won't "devide the comunity."

3 - Bisexuals who experienced abuse by a male partner, since we "choose" to associate with men despite having the oppornuity to date just women, like lesbians do (What? That sounds just like incels who are mad women only go to "jerks" instead of "nice guys" like themselves? Impossible! That would mean radfems feel entitled to sex and believe women DON'T get to say no!)

4 - Lesbians that are not "gold star lesbians", aka who have had sex with men at some point. After all, they're inferior since they didn't have stuff figured out right away, or had no choice but to stay in the closet for years and years due to where they live, or, ya know, were raped. Too bad for them, they were touched by man, therefore they're icky.

5 - Asexuals, because you guys will just hate one ANYONE apparently, even someone who just says "I don't really wanna fuck anyone".

6 - Trans women. After all, you guys literally admited that you made up the whole "predatory trans in the bathroom" myth just to have an excuse to hate on them. And let's not forget this also led to shit like radfems trying to spy on other women in the bathroom to "make sure they're really women." After all, trying to see someone naked without their consent is totally what normal, not at all creepy people do.

7 - Kinky women! After all, we are brainwashed by the patriarchy, and need you guys to step in and save us from ourselves, because YOU know what makes US comfortable or not. It's for our own good really. It totally isn't just slut shaming with some pseudo-feminist terms thrown in the middle.

8 - Sex workers. Once again, they need to be saved from themselves - and that rescue includes ignoring them when they say "your way of helping us in dehumanizing, robs us of our agency, and often ends with us being thrown in prison." And lets not forget that some of the anti sex-work laws you guys swear exist to protect victims of human trafficking who were forced into prostitution often end with said victims thrown in prison anyway because surprise surprise, demonizing people for harmless shit makes a target no matter what.

9 - Any woman who doesn't like that you bitches are constantly associating with the alt-right - including the most violently misogynistic members of the bunch - just to get more political allies. Does it ever cross your mind that if THE biggest women-hating scumbags around think you are "one of the good ones" that shows you totally fucking failed to "rebel against the patriarchy"?

And there's also the group that you guys refuse the acknowledge the most! Men who were abused by women. After all, that doesn't work in your fantasy world where men always hold all the power in every situation, and women are always powerless. No way things could be more complicated, even with misogyny still sadly being a thing, no, no. It has to be an Us VS Them.

So, no acknowledging all the times young boys get sexually assault and are mocked for "complaining that they got laid", even when they're minors and their abusers were grown adults. No acknowledging that while women are more likely to be victims to domestic violence, people often refuse to understand that men can also victims of intimate partner violence - even if said partner is a woman. We can talk about abusive fathers, but not abusive mothers. We can talk about how abusive males tend to become cops, but not about how abusive women tend to become nurses.

And, once again, not ever, ever, ever pointing out that radfems are ALWAYS going on about how some people (in this case men) DESERVE to abused. After all, that will totally make it "fair" after all the shit women endured, since THIS is the way to deal with society's problems: you make sure they hurt as many people as possible instead of just your group.

So yeah, you guys are abuse apologists. You always have been. Now either become a decent person or die mad about it, bitch.

#asks #fuck radfems #fuck terfs #fuck swerfs

[enarei]

I say that about HRT dosages based on personal experience. the first three trans women I dated and myself were all passed basically the same regimen for early transition: three months of >100mg spironolactone, no estrogen. kill your libido and make you sick with basically no sex hormones in your body, make you ill so we know you're a true tranny. this shit was extremely common befored informed consent and trans patients having more of a say in how they're treated as a whole became more common, and it still is the norm in many places.

[redheadedfailgirl]

Watching my ex break up with someone else for the exact reason I broke up with her and being like 'i don't understand why it has to be like this' is honestly very funny. Like God damn.

#tranny dating shit

[booperbeanv3]

🔥

Homduck

UNPOPULAR OPINION: i mean besides "if you read homestuck without the slurs/poorly aged content you're not reading homestuck" i got nothin. Homestuck will always be dated as hell, that's why people read it nowadays (and. i guess peer pressure)

a lot of old homestuck misconceptions died out in 2012. most people are really reasonable on Tumblr in my experience so I'll rapidfire ramble here. sorry you get opinions plural

-> The way people treat June is insane. You're not gonna die if you admit she used to be a dude named John. Especially considering, y'know, June doesn't exist in the canon. Dove Strider has more basis than June and I don't even like that headcanon (<- FtM Striders FTW)

-> Cont. pls stahp making june like diet jade . you HAVE a silly girl. right there. pls. jade is silly. june is mischievous. learn your jesting terminology! some of you guys write her like your quirky tranny oc and not like. a person. it's rlly obvious for homestuck characterisation in particular bc most characters are at least two-note. even the dancestors. and those guys SUCKED

-> Horrible Gamzee is actually top-tier. Bro is a tar pit. Toxic gamkar(ezi) needs to be explored more... in a way that ISN'T "hurr addicts are evil" i have SUCH strong opinions on how addiction is written in fanworks HOLD ME BACK

-> what the fuck why did we never get good quadrants that aren't flushed or meowrails this annoys me so much. give me a good kismesissitude ffs. pre-retcon davekat could've been so awesome...

-> The retcon was fucking retarded. The way they just never address the disconnect John probably has between all his friends because of this. Maybe it's addressed in the epilogues/HS^2 but I. I'm not touchin that shit

-> The act 6 art style is ugly and I don't understand WHY they kept it up for the post-canon content. Actually I do know why. It's easy to emulate and mass produce at the speed of light. Still, it lacks the charm of the earlier panels. I'd rather have Hussnasty Round 2 than Act 6 Bloboramas

#homestuck #bean answers

[crunchy-capillaries]

It’s so discouraging to see modern queer youth completely disown their queer elders. The amount of my peers that I see write off our founding communities because their language is “out of date”, or they were “too sexual”, or because the words they used to refer to themselves are slurs is overwhelming. Queer folks in the 70’s, 80’s, etc used terms like tranny and fag as words of solidarity between them and now people are looking back and painting it as something undesirable and almost barbaric. There’s a prevalent “holier than thou” mentality on the rise and it’s not doing us any favors. People are so quick to paint any use of the words transsexual, transvestite, etc. as problematic without looking at the people who are using them first. I swear to god the color gray is being discontinued. For me at least, I feel so much closer to the word transsexual than I ever will the word transgender, because it reminds me of the people who fought so hard for me and every other queer person out there. Far too many people are becoming all too confident in cherry-picking queer history, or developing the audacity to do no research and then talk out their ass about it. Also, current queer discourse is a brain rotting shit stain, man. It’s totally useless and often repetitive, like how every year WITHOUT FAIL the whole kink at pride “discourse” resurfaces, and people are blowing enough hot air to power a wind turbine. So much stuff is just so useless and it makes me mad. It seems like there is no longer a place for fluidity among labels, or use of labels that seem contradictory, or consideration for the fact that peoples real-life experiences hold president over arbitrary rules created online. I think I’m going to drown if I go any farther down this iceberg right now, so thank you tumblr dot com for having me, goodnight.

#queer history #queer #trans gay #transsexual #trans man #gay

[cator99]

why do poly people always assume everyone else who happens to be some flavor of lgbt wants what they have as if it's the epitome of sexual freedom ...... like ok also this time it was a really ugly mtf who exclusively dates younger early-in-transition ftms who was saying it... like hm I wonder why exactly our ideas of sexual freedom might differ... hmm wonder what that's about....... I was strongly warned not to bother with the poly community here in a way that was so presumptuous for absolutely no reason... I have done nothing in your presence but play sudoku and talk about making big life changes and focusing on my future yknow pursuing an education and whatnot WHY would I be fucking... who even has the time...... also told me I could go get tested (for sti's and stds) at some clinic nearby like BRO do you talk abt anything but sex (mostly no ftr) this doesnt feel like sex positivity this feels like sex pest behaviour no I will not be joining your harem of ftms you actually disgust me and no it's not because of the tranny thing it's about the presumptions regarding my sexual availability simply because I'm living a very ftm type of life. But for the record yeah transwomen annoy the shit out of me a majority of the time. Not because think they shouldn't be allowed to be trannies or whatever but simply because I'm a hater

[viscerax]

hiii could u write a vance and a transmasc reader ? :D

Vance x Transmasc! Reader

TW: Period-typical transphobia, use of the t slur. I would also like to preface this by saying that I am transgender, so please don't come after me for using the slur. I do not use it to describe actual transgender people myself, I've only used it in this story to imitate how things were in that period of time. Oh yeah also D/n= Deadname

Personally, I headcanon Vance as Bisexual. He probably leans a bit more towards the fem attracted spectrum, but if he's honest, he just thinks that if he finds a person hot, then they're hot, female or male

He's very much closeted about this fact considering it was yknow- the 70's.

I feel like he probably would've been dating you before you started to transition or present as masc.

When you came out to him, he was definitely a little bit confused at first. He loved you though, and in the end, you being a girl or a boy didn't change that.

Since there weren't very many resources at the time, he would definitely try and help you bind. He would buy all the stuff so that it didn't seem suspicious to your parents.

He would try and teach you how to act more "masculine". He would try and teach you how to deepen your voice.

If anyone even looked at you weird, or say anything remotely hinting at making fun of you, he beat the shit out of them. "My God, did D/n's boobs get smaller? What is she, a tranny?" That person barely made it out of the fight before someone pulled him off of them. Vance ended up breaking two of their ribs, and one of their arms.

He didn't go around outing you, because he understood how dangerous that was. However he still gave nasty looks to whoever would deadname you or use the wrong pronouns. But he was very careful to not expose you in front of everyone.

He would definitely cut your hair himself, since your parents wouldn't let you get it done professionally. I have a headcanon that his moms a hairdresser, thats why his hair is so fucking amazing.

I'm not sure what else to say. Overall, Vance loved you, whether or not you were a boy or a girl.

#vance hopper #robin arellano #black phone edit #the black phone x reader #the black phone #vance hopper x reader #headcanon #im sorry but vance is sooooo bisexual you cant change my mind

[butchdykekondraki]

KEEP DRAFTING THIS ASK OVER AND OVER AGAIN. i am losing it. how did you get over the initial fear of wanting to stay in your nice neat boxes of sexuality and gender if you did (guy whos having issues and you're the only person i know with in depth knowledge on it)

-🖥️ (on anon because i be a spooked animal)

you invoked my autism and this Got Long WHOOPS!! tldr you can do what you want forever and everyone who says thats wrong is spreading terf rhetoric and should not be listened to (and also Killed)

ok my best advice is basically just like. remember older queer history. queer pride is based on the movements of drag queens/kings and bi dykes/fags and fags who dated dykes and transsexuals and mspecs and butches and femmes and etc etc right?? right okay. <- KEEP THIS IN MIND

the term queer is literally meant to be used as a catchall. being queer is something that directly goes outside the norm of a cishetnormative society. there is literally no wrong way to Be Queer. do what the fuck you want forever. you can be a tboy dyke on estrogen and a tgirl faggot who wont take estrogen. you can be fucking anything you want so long as that is what you want to be.

a lot of newer queer discourse is created by terfs (think of the whole mspec lesbian debacle, terfs used the rhetoric of mspec lesbians ''not being real lesbians'' because of their bisexuality, a SUPER common terf talking point in regards to trans women and trans lesbians especially) in an attempt to shoo trans people out of the queer community. once you realize that and start being able to spot terf dogwhistles (''real women'' / ''fake lesbian'' / putting quotes around ''women'' or ''lesbian'') you'll see how much shit is just terf propaganda and rhetoric, and once you start seeing how much shit is just terf rhetoric you can just Stop Caring. like seriously.

the fundamental backing point that people usually use to hate mspec identities is that its "invalid" but really, what the fuck does it mean to be a "valid queer" anyways?? we're all faggots and dykes and trannies. we're all filthy queers. we are the exact same no matter what in the eyes of the fash. labels don't fucking matter. they're Labels. they're optional!! you don't even have to say what you are!!!! you can be queer in however way that you fucking want, it does not fucking matter!!!!!!!!

basically this boils down to You Can Do What You Want Forever. and kill anyone who says no because thats terf fash shit. okay? ok.

#[ren]

[daughter-of-sapph0]

someones probably gonna ask what a political lesbian is, and there's a bunch of conflicting definitions online. so uh... let me be clear

political lesbians are not real lesbians. political lesbianism is and idea or ideology that was created by the (mostly white upper class cishet) 2nd wave feminist movement that homosexuality was a choice, and that all straight women should leave their husbands and date women instead. they somehow believed that this would end all sexism. however, as literally anyone with a single brain cell knows, sexual orientation is not a choice at all (because if it was, I'd be even gayer). so all these straight women who called themselves lesbians either didn't leave their husbands like they said they would, or they did but ended up living alone because again, they were hets who weren't attracted to women!

that brings us to today. the modern terf movement has a lot in common with the racist homophobic so called feminist movement of the sixties, and not the actual real feminists who were progressing human rights. terfs brought back the idea of the political lesbian. they claim that they believe in leaving their husbands and marrying "adult human females". except they don't. about 80% of them are married to men. a good portion of them are literally self identified "tradwives" or traditional housewives who uphold sexist standards and stereotypes from the 50s. as for those few who actually do avoid dating or marrying men, they're gonna have a tough time finding women to date. obviously, they aren't lesbians at all. they don't find any attraction towards women at all. besides maybe themselves, and jkr. but even if they did try and force themselves to met other women, any self respecting dyke would know they're a shit person immediately.

I'm friends with tons of dykes. lesbians, bi women, aces, pan women, poly women, etc. we all fall under the umbrella of "dykes". for every single one of us, our relationship to ourselves, our gender, our attraction, and our sexuality is all different.

for political lesbians, it's not. it's all homogeneous, because it's not an actual sexuality. it's an ideology. they all believe that they are the most important special little thing in the universe, that their gender is inherently tied to their cervix or whatever, and that they should divorce the person they love and try and date someone they don't because that will somehow end sexism.

sexuality is supposed to be about joy and love and what makes you happy. political lesbianism isn't about being happy. it's about control.

I'm tired. it's 11 at night and I'm just going on a huge rant because I'm tired of these asswipes trying to pretend like they're the authority of all dykes when a) they literally shrivel up like a salted snail if you dare to call yourself a dyke or a tranny or queer in front of them, and 2) THEY LITERALLY DON'T EVEN LIKE WOMEN

#dostxt #political lesbians kill yourself challenge #long post #rant