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sad reality of the fanfic-to-published work economy is that the weirdest people are willing to do it. that's why there's now hundreds of shitty no plot cishet hate-to-love enemies-to-lovers books that are ex reylo fanfic. and it's not even good. that's because the people who wrote book-quality steve/bucky and kirk/spock fic are too normal to think to themselves "i should get this porn published". they're too busy working in local government offices

#this is so real #fan fic

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i hate that twitter post going around that's like "what's america's great epic?" shut up you know what it is. its supernatural

#true #spn

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#RIP #Matthew Perry #Friends

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listen. i know it's not 2014 anymore and i know it's just a throwaway line and that the russo brothers didnt intend for marvel action blockbuster captain america the winter soldier to become the tragic gay love story that never was but man. having steve say "it's kind of hard to find someone with shared life experience" in a conversation about romantic relationships right before the bucky reveal is so cruel. it's not just about steve and bucky obviously having the shared experience of being "out of time," it's the fact that they've both been stripped of their humanity in opposite directions. steve is a legend, he is an american hero and a national icon before he is a human being the same way that bucky is a weapon and a killing machine before he is a human being. steve knows that anyone who falls in love with him in the 21st century fell in love with captain america first, and that's just not him. but then the one person who knew him first and knew him best and loved him (not captain america, that little guy from brooklyn) so much he died for it is alive, impossibly. and it's a miracle because he's back and it's horrific because he's back under the worst possible circumstances. but to steve, the winter soldier is worth tearing the world apart for because he's always been bucky first. they find each other and suddenly they're human again. and maybe, despite it all, being "out of time" becomes a blessing, because in this century they'd finally be allowed to love each other the way they've always wanted to. like real people do.

like. no. the captain america trilogy isn't about two queer men traumatized and alienated by war and modern life rediscovering and reclaiming their humanity through their love for each other. but. i mean. it couldve been

#stucky

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i cant believe that on this day, 70 years ago, captain america and bucky barnes had sex and created the us. amazing. happy birthday us.

#lolz #stucky

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ok i don’t mean this is a weirdo hater way but i genuinely do not get the hype for olivia rodrigo. i thought maybe it’s because i’m old but i enjoy a lot of the younger pop girlies. Vampire sounds like a song that would be in a TV movie about a famous singer and it’s HER MOMENT but the movie is on a tight budget. and we’re like YEAH GIRL because it makes sense with the climax of the story or whatever but it’s not like. a real song. 

#pop music #pop

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out in New York, June 26th

#taylor swift

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She’s saving that one for after she breaks up with m*tty

can we go back to talking about gayle requesting getaway car and taylor still not playing it? she really said no reputation for anyone goodbye

#taylor swift

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tbh im really tired of us making light of straight women feeling compelled to marry men they don't like due to the combo of robbed agency and the idea that women should naturally be expected to compromise on their own wants and needs. like this is an element of patriarchy but you're still logging into twitter talking about "straight women can date ANYONE and they pick men who hate them". can we practice some critical thought and (more importantly) compassion?

#taylor swift

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Here is Taylor’s little golden book that releases in a few days. My preorder arrived early!

#omg #adorable #taylor swift

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a few reminders because i’m tired and angry

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes

the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually

liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space

preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good

no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl

liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that

just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny 

some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have

no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems

abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships

y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

feel free to add more

#fandom

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‘How do you write Cornelia street about someone and still break up?’ Have you listened to Cornelia street?????? It’s literally about how love comes with the risk of unimaginable heartbreak it’s about hoping that it won’t lead to that but knowing that hoping is all you can do! That’s literally all a love song is!!

#taylor swift

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damn ‘daylight’ hits different now. not even in a sad way, just bittersweet. life can bring the right relationships to you at your lowest and help you out of the darkness. even if they aren’t around forever. it’s amazing. fate does its thing

#taylor swift #joe alywn #pop music

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#taylor swift

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Hawkeye Gag Reel - Florence Pugh & Hailee Steinfeld

#them #<3

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Shoutout to everyone who has died and come back sluttier each time

#spn #dean winchester

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Chris Evans as Steve Rogers in Avengers Infinity War

#chris evans #steve rogers