#as a person with AuDHD

[eldritcheyecryptid]

I will never not find it iconic that Juno Steel, a lady who is petrified of heights, was about to climb out a window to avoid social interaction and just do his special interest (being a private investigator) . Neurodivergent icon honestly. /j /lh

#penumbra podcast #juno steel #junoverse #jupeter #as a person with AuDHD #I too would climb out a window to avoid social interaction #to engage in my special interest #THIS IS A JOKE I PROMISE #/GEN #rex glass #peter nureyev #tpp #tpp juno #Juno Steel and The Autism Diagnosis #adhd #tpp fanart #funny ig

[softpastelqueer]

Having autism is like

Having ADHD is like

Having both Autism and ADHD is like

#actually autistic #actually adhd #autism #adhd #actually neurodivergent #also I’m not saying this is universal to everyone this is just my own personal feelings #anyway Happy National Autism Awareness Month #this is my first one fully aware and officially with both conditions #neurodiversity #neurodivergency #actually audhd #audhd

[warmafternoon]

#because I just opened yogurt that had wet snotty fruit chunks in it and almost threw up #ok so all of these may be personal to me with the way I describe them #nerodivergent #neurodivergent #nerodiversity #neurodiversity #neurodiverse stuff #audhd #autism #actually autistic #adhd #actually audhd #audhd things #audhd problems #autistic things #actually adhd #neurodivergence #adhd problems #adhd things

[anatomical-puppet]

they are so smart but also. so so stupid 🫶

#love gay people who are smart stupid. my favorite kind of person actually #they are both soooooo audhd to me it’s insane btw #ace attorney #klapollo #apollo justice #klavier gavin #ajaa #puppet scribbles

[purpleflameb0i]

Shout-out to all the teachers that allow neurodivergent kids to use their tools during class; whether it be during a class lecture, taking notes, work, etc.

Y'all are amazing

#neurodivergence #neurodivergent #autism #adhd #audhd #actually autistic #actually adhd #disabled #I'm not just talking about autism and ADHD btw #I just mainly have those tags because it's what I personally struggle with

[dailydivergent]

Neurodivergent reminder: Overstimulation feels a lot like anxiety, and understimulation feels a lot like depression.

More importantly, you don't need to know which it is to practice self-care.

Self-caring anxiety and overstimulation looks the same:

Recognize you're feeling big feelings

Take as many deep breaths as your need to slow your mind

Identify what’s causing the feeling, whether sensory, environmental, or situational

Minimize that cause as much as possible immediately

Self-caring depression and understimulation looks the same:

Recognize you’re in need of stimulation

Turn on an interesting long-form video of some kind

Do some quick exercise like a walk or jumping jacks

Call a friend that'll let you infodump

If you're neurodivergent and easily get stuck on labelling things — I see you.

I'm here to remind you that you don't need to know what it is to take care of it in the meantime.

You can — will — figure it out later.

#neurodivergence tips #neurodiversity tips #neurodivergencies #neurodivergence #actually adhd #actually audhd #audhd #actually autistic #autism #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse stuff #actually neurodiverse #its the neurodivergency #dailydivergent #bipolar #cluster b #cluster c #avpd #ppd #avoidant personality disorder #cluster b pds #actually aspd #tourettes #tic disorder #actually tourettic #tics #fnd #nuerodivergent #bipolar disorder

[vroomvroomwee]

When Crowley put his glasses back on, every neurodivergent who's unmasked with the wrong person shed a tear

#if it isn't a metaphor I don't knoe what is #obv Azi is not the wrong person just pointing out the similarities #goodomenss2 #crowley #goodomens #aziraphale #good omens #ineffable husbands #aziracrow #goodomenss2spoilers #good omens 2 #good omens season 2 #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #autism #adhd #audhd #go2 #gos2 #go2 spoilers #gos2 spoilers

[clown-around-and-find-out]

what i've learned thus far in my life is if a neurodivergent person has a personality they're annoying. but also if a neurodivergent person doesnt have a personality they're annoying. if a neurodivergent person acts how people want them to they're annoying. and if a neurodivergent person doesnt act how people want them to... they're annoying. basically, i've learned that as long as you're neurodivergent somebody will take issue with you, find you annoying, say you're too much or not enough.

#🦈: my posts #🦈: rant #🦈: vent #<- kindaaa lol idk not really #neurodivergency #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #autism #autistic #audhd #adhd #bpd #ptsd #personality disorder #asd #autism spectrum #autism spectrum disorder #neurotypical #neurodivergence #neurodiverse #why be you when you can be queue?! #1k #clarice's chart toppers

[cypric-rat-hyperfixation]

many laypeople wonder: what's the difference between autism and adhd? allow me (Bachelor of psychology) to illuminate

💠💎💠💎💠

really autistic pictures of rats

really adhd pictures of rats

hope this helps

#rats #fancy rat #ratblr #pet rats #gifs #stim #repost #shitpost #uploads #memes #autism #adhd #audhd #tag game #tag yourself #looks at you with my autistic eyes #neurodivergent #personal hall of fame

[honeypleasejustkillme]

#bpd shitposting #actually bpd #actually mentally ill #bpd #actually borderline #bpd fp #bpd favorite person #bpd vent #bpd mood #bpd problems #audhd #adhd hyperfixation #adhd memes #autism spectrum disorder #autistic things #actually autistic

[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

*displays textbook symptomatic behavior of my own disorder that I am well educated on* what’s my deal why am I like this

#I know exactly why I’m like this but why am I like this #I know what’s wrong with me but wtf is wrong with me #adhd autistic #audhd creature #cluster a #cluster b #cluster c #personality disorders #bpd stuff #late diagnosed autistic #cptsd recovery #did osdd #bpd #audhd #adhd problems #audhd problems #borderline personality disorder #complex trauma #mood disorders #anxiety disorders #psychotic disorders #neurological disability #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #trauma disorders #traumagenic

[jellycatstuffies]

Unfortunately, I have bad news. My disability money that I receive because of my Level 2 Autism, my main income, has not come in this month due to a bureaucratic mess-up that is going to take too long to be solved and may also not come in next month. (I am in Germany btw, and it is not just a stereotype that bureaucracy here is horrible and just... hellacious)

Coinciding with that, my parents have stopped supporting me financially thinking that the money that the state gives me now is way more than I deserve and that I am somehow living "the rich life" with that... I get this money because I cannot work a job. If you could work a job in Germany, they would absolutely make you, but they have ruled that out for me now completely. The money one does get as a severely disabled person is not more than what a non-disabled unemployed person gets (a fact that is unethical and immoral in my opinion but that as a sidenote) We have special needs, for example, I need meal replacements due to my autism which I am also working on having covered by insurance, but again, it is taking forever.

To make it through this month after having paid my rent, I will need some other financial support. I do have some of my Jellycats up for sale on my Ebay and may put up more (shipping outside of the EU is not an option for me, sorry) but I would appreciate it more if this post was shared so I might receive some emergency Ko-fi donations.

I would not be writing this here if it wasn't an emergency. This blog is about Jellycats and the autistic boy that loves them and sharing them with the world. It is making me uncomfortable to post this in my safe space which is why I will delete this post after the end of the month. But for now, I am desperate and do not know where else to turn to.

(I will continue to be posting on my blog as usual, that is not changing, although please understand that I am under a lot of stress right now and the frequency might be less this month)

Thank you for reading, for sharing and for your support, whether financial or emotional, it is greatly appreciated.

Happy Autism Acceptance Month💖

-Victor

Ko-fi / Instagram

#jellycat #jellycats #jellycatstuffies #personal #jellycatplush #autism #autistic #actually autistic #autism acceptance #autism awareness #actually autism #signal boost #disability #actually disabled #spread the word #mutual aid #neurodivergent #actually neurodiverse #autism spectrum #autism special interest #audhd #neurodiversity

[ohara-n-brown]

I feel like people don't want to accept personality disorders as neurodivergencies because doing so would make us face the fact that they deserve accomodations too.

People with PDs need Accomodations too!!!

Like, yes. People with BPD do legitimately have a different style, context, and understanding of socialization. Just like Autism.

And just like Autism, PWBPD deserve relationship accomodations and their unique socialization style respected.

They may need more attention, or more verbal assurance. Thats accomodation!!

Some people with BPD cannot read nonverbal affection or affirmation. They need it said to them. And being extra clear with them - is accomdation.

Yes, people with NPD may need support, or affirmation, or for you to be clear with your approval, or acknowledge their accomplishments instead of acting like their behavior is expected.

THAT'S ACCOMODATION!!

Like we can understand that Autism and ADHD comes with different patterns of socialization that makes our relationships look different than those of neurotypicals-

So why wouldn't that be the same with them????

I feel like denying people with BPD or NPD or people who are Bipolar their neurodivergency denies them the accomodations they so desperately need.

People with PDs get punished and scrutinized for the way they communicate and their needs in relationships - JUST LIKE AUTISM AND ADHD

Instead of trying to get them to 100% conform to the idea and image of neurotypical relationships can we realize that the people around them will have to meet them halfway in understanding their CURRENT communication style

And that these people are NOT a burden because they require so.

The same as us. Coming to understand an autistic family member or friend means understanding you may need to be clearer, or more direct than with others.

Coming to understand a family member with BPD for instance means understanding you need to direct with affection, motives, and your feelings.

The same is true for all of Cluster B including Antisocial Personality Disorder.

Call them neurodivergent - so we can accommodate them. That way they aren't forced to use coping mechanisms when others around them refuse to acknowledge their needs.

For the love of god stop expecting them to conform 24/7. Stop expecting them to understand everyone else's communication skills when no one does the same for them STOP

GOSH

Like.... Can we give them accomodations now. Can we.

#actually autism #The shit people with PDs get put through #neurodivergent #actually autistic #audhd #autism #bpd #neurodivergency #neurodiversity #actually adhd #actually audhd #it's SO TIRING #actually bpd #borderline personality disorder #borderline #actually npd #npd safe #npd positivity #cluster b #aspd #aspd safe #hpd safe #hpd #hpd positivity #aspd positivity

[uncanny-tranny]

I jokingly thought before that reading Junie B. Jones as a kid turned me into a feminist, but unironically, it kind of did.

I honestly think it comes down to the fact that Junie B. was not only allowed to be "weird," but her character arc never concluded like other girl characters would. In other media featuring "weird girls," the girl always ended her arc tamed - by force or convince, she would be prettied up, she would smile and be polite, and she would never speak out of turn. She would be perfect then, and would shed her veneer of individuality with the freedom that is conformity. As a kid, I noticed that girls weren't permitted to be "weird" like boys were. So when I read Junie B. Jones, I loved that she was frankly just fucking weird. She said things out of turn, she was rambunctious and imaginative and she was a realistic portrayal of a little girl. I loved reading those books because the narrative taught her lessons without punishing her for being weird, if that makes sense. So often, narratives punished weird girls for the crime of being a socially unacceptable girl, not for any true wrongdoing like lying.

Anyway, I just think it's interesting, because I watched and read a ton of books and shows and movies featuring girls and women, but none of them truly empathized with (or even tried to empathize with) weird girls on their own merits and capabilities and terms, or embraced the idea of a "socially inept/unacceptable" girl without punishing her in some way for her supposed ineptitude.

#feminism #and like junie b. got in trouble A LOT but she wasn't punished FOR being weird (honestly i thought she was adhd as a kid) #i haven't read the books in WELL over a decade but this is what i truly remember liking about the books #and i felt as a kid it said something that she was a seeming rarity among the sea of other portrayals of girls #am i looking too deep into this? honestly i don't care #and it makes me wonder if all the pushback those books got was partially because junie b. wasn't an 'acceptable' girl #like she's no more 'out there' than the portrayals of little boys that are out there and there were lessons and things from what i remember #i'm not saying you HAVE to like the books by the way but i think sometimes other people can get really angry about GIRLS acting like kids #i was ranting about these books to my dad because he didn't like them but he did still let me read them so thanks dad 🫡🫡 #i just remember them being a huge part of my personal library because of how realistic and relatable junie b. was #like i acted really similarly to her when i was a kid and i felt like i was being understood (which is why i hc she's adhd/audhd/autistic)

[autisticgayplushie]

BPD tortie kitty!! for a name for xem thinking maybe Jazz or Jasmine? but not sure!

#??? the BPD kitty #audhd creatures #not plush #yet #bpd #borderline personality disorder

[lightsaber-dreams]

#fox mulder #x files meme #txf #the x files #x files #me as an AuDHD trans person going through life