#better polyamory

[discoveringpolyamory]

"Compersion"

The positive emotion felt when witnessing someone else's happiness.

More specifically, this is the feeling garnered by seeing your partner happy completely independently of you and being okay with that.

Many people call compersion the opposite of jealousy. But I believe it's more than that. Compersion is about letting go of your ego. It's about understanding that your partner being happy without you is a good thing and that it doesn't lessen your connection or your love. 

In a healthy relationship, seeing your partner happy with other people shouldn't be a threat. 

(Discover more at DiscoveringPolyamory.com)

#polyamory #polyamory advice #polyamory education #polyamory words #words #compersion #polyamorous #polyamorous relationships #better polyamory #better relationships #relationships #ethical relationships #relationship advice #relationship education #open relationships #modern relationships #green #ethical non monogamy #non monogamy #enm #polyam #poly #infinity heart #Discovering Polyamory #jealousy #love #dating #marriage

[polyamorousmood]

Polyamory Merch from Small Artists for Pride Month

@foxflightstudios makes many queer pride pins, including this kick-ass polyam one! Etsy this pin specifically

@lawofcollage makes these neat pride collages! Merch available through the threadless shop and here's OG flag & new flag designs

IfsAndsOrButtons on etsy has the OG flag, the edited flag, & the new flag for polyamory! yay! A variety of other queer flags, pins, & buttons. Portion of sales goes to charity. Too much to link indv., so all poly shit

@polycraftory has a small shop of queer shirts on their etsy including this poly meme shirt!

@soluscheese has a ton of simple, elegant pride designs, including lots of polyamory ones in all sorts of products on their redbubble (poly shapes) ("and")

These gorgeous stone bracelets from ToadintheSun on etsy immediately strike me as something nice enough to wear to work, etc, and subtle enough not to out you! Other flag designs too!

@who-tf-even-am-i made some poly merch based on my suggestions! Available on t-shirts, hoodies, pillows, phone cases, and way too many more for separate links, so check out it all on teepublic

Look at this adorable little frog sticker from @sofftpunk! This is the only poly one I could find, but there's lots of other queer stuff at their shop,featuring a lot of identities I don't often see!

Honorable mentions:

@prideful-things-shop has plans to make poly stuff, but its still in the works! They're a poly creator with other killer🔪 (this is a joke cause they have horror-themed pins) pride designs currently available on etsy

@frogboi2023 is a small artist doing commission work at (honestly too) cheap prices. As such, there aren't any pre-made poly designs to showcase, but they reached out to say they'll do custom poly work, incl. traditional/digital art, jewelry, plushies, bookmarks, & keychains!

@@aesethewitch is doing pride themed readings on their Ko-fi. A follower confirmed they're willing/able to do poly romance readings!

Bonus! queer but not poly shit:

@izzi-illustrates has a variety of pride pins, stickers on etsy

@tflohr is a non-binary artist making weird & wonderful stuff available on redbubble

Abprallen on etsy has a variey of pastel queer merch

Queer, spooky pins, patches, & stickers available at grrrlspells' etsy

LucknLavenderStudios is an etsy shop with queer stickers & prints

@lyrabracelets is selling beaded pride bracelets on etsy

Kyri45 on redbubble does cute pride designs for a LOT of identities

#does tumblr still bury posts with links? Better rb this one to be safe!! Please. I'm serious please I want people to know there's merch 4 us #poly merch #polyamory merch #small artists #queer merch #happy pride 🌈 #polyamory shirts #polyamory accessories #polyamory stickers #polyamory buttons #polyamory bracelets #polyamory jewelry #polyamory gifts #polyamorousmood original post

[crystalbeastsquidney]

Had a friend recently tell me a funny idea for a couples’ shirt combo

#sorry i’ve been dead for three months. the past year’s been absolute hell on my cofidence and motivation as an artist #it will unfortunately happen again #also for the record i don’t think any of them are stupid. this just feels like something Johnny would do #hanzo hasashi #scorpion mk #kuai liang #sub zero #johnny cage #mortal kombat #mk11 #subcagecorp #subscorp #<- fuck it this counts and i want more attention #polyamory #my art #click for better quality #please let this do well i’m so tired of sharing art making me sui/cidal

[sunlightrays]

How I didn't realize I was poly before 21 even though my go-to reaction to love triangle drama in media is "Why don't they just all date" is beyond me.

#polyamory #poly #non-monogamy #media #shipping #love triangle #i genuinely do not understand the issue #“no but *i* want them” “but i am better for them” well what if you stop yelling at each other and just kiss #what then #jealousy who

[hysteriafossil]

a redraw of something from october, original under the cut!!

i like to think ive improved !

#this drawing KILLED ME actually #i started it like?? 2 months ago?? and abandoned it at some point #so by the time i finished it my art had already progressed even just slightly more so i had to redo all the people sketches #im glad to have it done though and im fairly proud of the finished result #remus and roman r playing mariokart btw. if you even care #sanders sides #dlampr #<- not explicitly at all and this can be entirely viewed as platonic im just evil and think polyamory makes everything better #sasi art #ts sides #remus sanders #virgil sanders #logan sanders #roman sanders #janus sanders #patton sanders #my art #art

[fyepertine]

Something to Cry About, Part 2

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Part 1

#degrees of lewdity #dol #dol fanart #dol comics #comics #artists on tumblr #dol whitney #whitney the bully #dol pc #mallory the rapier #cw: implied abuse #i mean what do you expect from this game lol #joy feels so much better after angst am i right #so I’m actually writing mallory’s polyamory fanfic and the first story is about whitney and him #it’s pretty fluffy #but mallory is hmmm complicated #anyway their dynamics with each other is consensual challenge/fight/submit #it’s a funny rom-com right now #but it wasn’t that way at first #anyway #third part next

[tadbitsickchickwithadick]

Friendly reminder: I don't actually know what the difference is between friends and partners, but most importantly, I'm always a lil dtf👉👈

#yea i think i just need to get better at vetting partners #for my darlin' #polyamory

[themightyhumanbroom]

Heard you were struggling to pick between Sonamy and Sonadow.

Proposition: Polymary.

I'm currently on the fence with poly ships. on one hand they can a lot of fun. On the other hand if not done right they can come off as......cowardly to me. I do plan on having a MLM ship later on in Lead To Light, whether sonadow is one of them is still up in the air. I'm not completely discounting the poly ship just yet.

#indecisive is a better word actually #sonic the hedgehog #lead to light au #amy rose #shadow the hedgehog #sonamy #sonadow #sonic shipping #sonic ships #polyamory #sonic fanfiction #sonic fanfic #sonic au #idw sonic #sonic idw #sth #sonic #ao3 #ao3 author #ao3 writer

[linktothefags]

I don't wanna take exams I wanna cuddle boys :(((

Life is so unfair

#one of them is actually 14 questions i should not be sp stressed #where are my cute guys to hold and kiss #they'd make me feel better (hopefully) #gay #gay yearning #mlm #mlm sfw #mlm thoughts #mlm yearning #polyamorous #polyamory

[wangxianficrecs]

I'd Be Home With You by thunderwear

I’d Be Home With You

by thunderwear

T, 5k, Madam Lan/Cangse Sanren

Summary: “And if I steal her away?” “Then we figure it out together.” What if Cangse Sanren and Wei Changze took Madame Lan and her children from Cloud Recesses to live happily ever after? Kay's comments: Sometimes I just think about Mama Lan and I get so sad. She deserved better, OK? And today, in my time of need, this fic came to me and offered my a lovely canon divergence where Mama Lan was Cangse Sanren's first love, so of course she's going to Gusu to break her out of her jail and of course Wei Changze is there too, absolutely supportive. Cangse Sanren has two hands!! One for Mama Lan and one for Wei Changze. And I love that for all of them. Excerpt: “Do you want to meet my son?” She asked, giving one last squeeze to Luo Sihua’s waist. They pulled back to look down at A-Ying who hid a little bit farther behind her robes at the sudden attention. There was one last hitch to Luo Sihua’s chest before she took a deep breath and then leaned down to introduce herself to A-Ying. “You can call me Madame Lan.” The fury that ripped her was unexpected but not undeserved. He’d taken everything else from her, and now she didn’t even have her name? “No.” Wei Ying jolted in surprise beside her when she spoke and hid his face in her robes again, but she didn’t have it in her to care. She was too angry. “No, A-Ying, you’ll call her Luo Sihua.” Luo Sihua looked up and met her gaze with a soft, sad expression on her face, and neither of them looked away as Cangse Sanren bit out, “My son will not call you by his name.”

pov cangse sanren, canon divergence, cangse sanren and wei changze live, madam lan live, madam lan deserves better, cangse sanren/madam lan, cangse sanren/wei changze, family feels, polyamory, fluff and angst, angst with a happy ending, implied/referenced rape/non-con, gusu lan sect rules, lan family feels, wei wuxian isn't adopted by the jiangs, families of choice, fix-it

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(Please REBLOG as a signal boost for this hard-working author if you like – or think others might like – this story.)

#May 2024 #Wangxian Fic Rec #The Untamed #Wangxian #MDZS #Kay's Rec #short fic <15k #teen #I'd Be Home With You #thunderwear #pov cangse sanren #canon divergence #cangse sanren and wei changze live #madam lan live #madam lan deserves better #cangse sanren/madam lan #cangse sanren/wei changze #family feels #polyamory #fluff and angst #angst with a happy ending #implied/referenced rape/non-con #gusu lan sect rules #lan family feels #wei wuxian isn't adopted by the jiangs #families of choice #fix-it

[ellewritesandrants]

Hopper: Are you sure about this, son?

Billy: I’m as sure as I can be, dad. Trust me.

Hopper: But Munson? What about Steve? You know, I like Steve. We like Steve. Steve doesn’t have a criminal record. Anyway, I thought you were dating Steve.

Billy: Oh, I am.

Hopper: Then, what’s this thing with Munson?

Billy: Oh, we’re both dating him.

#billy hargrove #harringrove #billy hargrove au #steve harrington #billy x steve #mungrove #billy x eddie #billy x steve x eddie #harringroveson #stilldie #steddilly #harringrove incorrect quotes #elle rants and writes #jim hopper #and that’s how Jim Hopper was introduced to polyamory #poor jim #he thought El dating Mike was bad #now his son is dating two deliquents and one them’s a drug dealer #There’s a reason Mike liked Eddie and it has something to do with how much better he looked in Hopper’s eyes #it’ll help him a lot when he goes to date Will tbh #all Will has to say is that Billy has two boyfriends so why can’t he have one

[polyamorousmood]

I'm literally so confused as to why you would... find that a bonding activity?

#dating apps #like that's for letting me know I'm better off not talking to you ever #but that is not enough information to know this is your long-term person? hello? #polyamory #count the red flags with me!

[bittsandpieces]

Hi...i'm a married man and love my wife but have just discovered your blog.....you're so damn pretty you make me want to cheat on my wife.

I'm going to find your wife and fuck her so well she leaves you for me because I can actually make her come

#bitts answers #in case you were wondering: with extremely rare exceptions i fucking hate cheaters and if i ever catch wind of you cheating #or wanting to cheat on your partner i will block you #if i know you in real life and find your you're cheating i will ruin your life. ill tell your partner. ill tell your boss #ill spray paint it on your house and your car #i have been used and used and used by men who thought i wouldnt find out and it almost broke me #and unless youre trapped in a dangerously abusive environent you had better stay loyal to your fucking partner because they TRUST YOU #absolurely need to fuck somebody else? polyamory exists. partner says no? break up with them because they deserve better than you anyway

[nuvimuvi]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!

#Nuziv #murder drones uzi #pride month #vuzin #murder drones #murder drones v #murder drones n #vnuzi #murder drones art #murder drones fanart #n x uzi x v #violentbitingbiscuits #polyamory #bisexual #Nuvi #v x uzi x n #serial designation n #serial designation v #uzi doorman #i tried to do a painting style and it feels complicated #i might repaint this someday if i get better #or maybe not tho idk #update: N's arm was bothering me for a moment #Update again: I had to put shades

[crunchycrystals]

i did not realize going into this season i would come out shipping gorgug with three different people i was coming into this with the biggest donospring mindset and yet here we are

#crunchyposts #i miss zelda but gorgug and mary ann and gorgug and unit............ #they can all date i dont give a shit #zelda is a purely emotional thing logically i know its good they broke up like normal teenage relationships #BUT i do also think gorgug dating both unit and zelda and/or mary ann would be a good extension of his character arc #melding barbarians and artificers !!!!!!! #the chill part of his personality (mary ann and zelda out of combat) and the more emotional side (them IN combat) #also his parents are swingers he knows polyamory i believe in my ship. #side note first time ive genuinely shipped more than two people very happy day for me !!!! #usually i just have one monogamous ship and some others that i am chill w but this time its like no. all of you kiss #d20 #fh #fhjy #fhjy spoilers #fantasy high spoilers #fantasy high junior year spoilers #WAIT CONCEPT. i like gorgug and zelda together but logically i feel like they just wouldnt get back together #in hs at least i still love them but thinking logically rn i think theyve done normal growing apart #concept before emotional brain comes up w ideas to get them back together. gorgug and unit and mary ann. and then mary ann and zelda #zelda learning from mary ann how to not give a shit and mary ann learning from zelda how to be a bit better to her friends #alright ive solved every problem i have making this headcanon lol #edit ok ive made up my mind. all of them date. i dont know unit well enough to see how theyd be good in the ship #just like date gorgug MINIMUM but mary ann and zelda and gorgug all dating each other. ive created the best case scenario for me lol

[polyamorouscultureis]

polyamorous culture is two things

Having two wonderful partners!! you are a violinist and your partners play the cello and the bass respectively. the guy you are quite possibly catching feelings for plays the cello *and* the bass. i have a type i hate it here /j

you are also in band with said boy. you are both percussionists. you fell for a percussionist. i continue to hate it here /j

Ahaha this is great, getting a whole orchestra together

#even better than the dnd party stereotype #submission #polyamory #polyam #polyamorous #lgbtq #poly #polycule #polyamorous culture #poly culture #gay culture #polyam culture