#don’t bother me about it

[pennypyro]

You know something ?

When I don’t like a movie, I’m pretty chill about it, i guess.

A few years ago my friend and I were watching a movie so bad we didn’t finish watching it. We’ve had quite a few movie nights and that was the only time we quit watching a movie before the end cus it was so bad .

You know what I didn’t do?

I didn’t go to the writer’s/director’s social media to tell them it sucked.

I didn’t say they should be unemployed bc I didn’t like their movie.

I didn’t say they should be physically harmed bc I didn’t like their movie.

It never even occurred to me to do any of these things.

But these are all things I’ve seen people do to/say about Taika Waititi bc they didn’t like Thor: Love and Thunder .

#btw #if you hate him for some other reason #don’t bother me about it

[transmascissues]

local cis man makes a “joke” tiktok that excludes trans men from the phrase “trans people” and mocks the music we make based on a stereotype that’s already been mocked to death, then makes a follow up video directed at the trans men who told him it wasn’t a funny joke or just made them feel shitty where he just doubles down and says the joke was fine because it “wasn’t serious” and that the trans men who didn’t like it are “directing their energy in the wrong place”.

maybe one day cis people will learn that 1) most trans jokes simply are not for them to make, regardless of how funny they think the joke would be, and 2) it’s not for them to decide if the trans people they chose to joke about are allowed to be upset that the joke was made. i honestly wouldn’t have even bothered making a post about this if it was just the original video because a lot of trans people also make jokes like this (which i still don’t think are funny or fair) so he could be forgiven for thinking no one would be upset, but the doubling down really rubs me the wrong way.

like, if we can’t even trust cis people to listen to our feelings on something as silly as a joke tiktok about music, how can we trust them to listen to us when it really counts? you can say it’s not that serious all you want, but when it’s already been demonstrated that you don’t always know how something will actually affect trans men, can you really expect us to trust that you’ll know when it is that serious?

because the message that response sends is this: “i find you fun to laugh at, but i don’t think you’re worth the trouble of caring about your feelings. i would rather enjoy myself and entertain others at your expense.” and is that the kind of message you want to send to anyone, especially a group of people you seemingly interact with enough to be familiar with the jokes made about them in their community? even if it wasn’t anti-transmasculine, it would still just be mean, and it’s certainly not a message that will make us see you as trustworthy when shit gets bad.

#obligatory ‘please do not harass him’ both because that would be shitty and because clearly he won’t listen to us anyway #it’s like five days old and that follow up is the closest there’s been to an acknowledgement of people’s feelings about it so. don’t bother #i don’t actually think any of y’all would do that but god only knows someone would accuse me of trying to make that happen by linking it #examples of transandrophobia #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity #transmascphobia

[aardvaark]

the long way down job is such an important turning point in eliot & parker’s relationship bc they’d both been viewing the things they have in common as fairly negative: they’ve both been told that they’re cold and ruthless and dangerous and they know those things are true. so when they’ve recognised themselves in each other, it’s been a sense of "the thing that’s wrong with me is a lot like the thing that’s wrong with you". and there’s comfort in that, in a way. but now eliot gets parker to see that maybe those aren’t all negative traits, they’re just… traits. neutral. it doesn’t make them bad or good, it makes them who they are. and now when they see themselves reflected in each other, it’s not a reminder that they’re wrong and bad - it’s kinship, it’s familiarity, it’s belonging.

#leverage #eliot spencer #parker #parker leverage #the long way down job #leverageposting #wren speaks #they’ve bonded over being different (shameful) but now they’re bonding over being different (neutral) #and eliot has clearly had to come a long way btwn s3 and s4 to make that realisation & we see parker have that realisation… #listening to episode commentary makes me Have Emotions like oh parker has felt like she wasn’t good enough to have a family until now. oh. #oh they recognise similar traits in each other and act different when it’s just them bc they don’t bother w the facade of humanity #and she hasn’t been able to talk to anyone about morality until now but eliot Understands in a way the others can’t #and she’s just now finally realising that she is worthy of hardison & she’s capable of a relationship which she was worried she wouldn’t be #okay. alright. ow my heart

[yendts]

studying up in order to defeat the dark wizard gaea✨

their wand designs and other hcs

#give me a new fandom and i will put them in hogwarts it’s just inevitable #i unfortunately am always tied to my roots😪 #if anyone has any arguments about their houses don’t bother because i’ve got essays to back up all of my choices 😚 #percy jackson #annabeth chase #leo valdez #hazel levesque #nico di angelo #piper mclean #jason grace #frank zhang #pjo #hoo #heroes of olympus #hp #harry potter #hp au #harry potter au #hogwarts au #pjo x hp

[fallahifag]

*shaking my non-Palestinian friends by the shoulders* my family is being ethnically cleansed we are losing more and more people every day to this occupation there has been no food and water for weeks kids are lying in the streets with their organs spilling out of their body women are getting raped men have to dig out their families from the rubble with their bare hands . people’s dead bodies can’t even be retrieved for proper burial and mourning we get no respect even when we are dead HOW ARE YOU STILL SILENT

#do u not have like. the tiniest bit of conscious. of shame. #it really bothers me that some of my closest friends have been either silent #or have made 2-3 vague posts about it #and all the posts they made were some aesthetic kinda thing #like art or an old photo #(which is okay to share obviously) #both things are important #but… #at least share a resource #i don’t have to ask you to ! #it’s been 2 months. and 75 years #at least one resource ! #palestine

[doctorsiren]

When Edgeworth shows up at the detention center in Farewell, My Turnabout…where is he located? Is he standing? If so, how? Perhaps he is sitting on the little table bit? Did he slide on over in front of Wright? These questions and more were all inquiries a couple of pals and I posed while playing through the case on Saturday.

#doctorsiren #ace attorney #phoenix wright #miles edgeworth #ace attorney fanart #farewell my turnabout #aa2 #art #digital art #my art #fanart #procreate #IGNOREEEEE MILES’S GOOFY AHH PORPORTIONS PLEASE #the more I look at it the more it bothers me so like haha don’t talk about that 😳🤫🤭☺️😊 #in the anime. there’s a table bit on both sides of the glass #and if Phoenix was sitting to talk to Matt… #then Edgeworth would have had to slide in really fast #ALSO I MADE IT NIGHTTIME OUTSIDE OF THE DETENTION CENTER BC THEY KEPT BEING LIKE: it’s 10 PM!! #WHILE IT WAS STILL VISIBLY DAYTIME 😭 #Phoenix looks like he’s about to teeter into Beanix territory if he’s not careful #but in his defense he’s not had a great couple of days 😰 #okay but I am actually happy with Edgeworth’s shoe 💥 #also I’m Not The Best with backgrounds but I am working on it lmao #I would have included a screenshot from the part I’m talking about but uhh I’m too lazy to go get one #also you can’t tell but his socks are totally Steel Samurai #also the more I look at how I did Phoenix’s hair the more I realize how his head is in the middle and his hair makes a goofy helmet #like around the sides y’know?? idk what I’m trying to say HAHA

[usereddie]

also i know people are assuming tommy is the same age as lou (39) but that would mean he was 18 in chimney begins which seems silly and impossible.

also sorry for spamming you ik we don’t know each other i’m just super high thinking about him

he COULD be lou’s actual age (39) if we assume he was 20 in 2005 during chimney begins. he would’ve probably gone straight into the academy after high school and finished his probationary year by 19 which means by the time chim joined he would’ve been relatively new to the station but already part of the crew.

which, honestly, is a headcanon i can get behind. tommy was a bystander and ignored a lot of the shit that was going on in the firehouse under captain gerrard. knowing now that he’s gay, if he was 20 and just barely out of his probie year, it makes his behavior way more understandable and also makes the shift in it after gerrard leaves and bobby comes in a lot more honest and just a little heartbreaking. (especially now that we know tommy is jealous of how the 118 is a family. he was a kid looking to belong, too.)

tommy being 39/40 now would make him barely an adult when we first saw him. and the layers to that are incredible. the tommy we knew before s7 was kind of a douchebag and we had basically nothing on him at all. knowing that tommy must’ve been a 20 year old gay kid who joined the academy fresh out of high school just trying to fit in and not get harassed by his boss and his coworkers?

like, it doesn’t excuse the behavior, but it explains a lot.

so personally i’m a fan of the idea that tommy is lou’s age………..buuuuut i’m also never opposed to an age gap ;)

#also dw about spamming me lol!!!! sometimes i don’t answer cuz i don’t feel like talking/am overwhelimg but it never bothers me :) #bia gets mail #911 abc #tommy kinard #safeashousepdf

[donnatroyyyy]

Dick genuinely doesn’t have a favorite sibling, he’s like the parent that says “I love all my children equally” and you believe it, he actually loves them all equally. He’s been trying to convince them that for the last few years, they don’t believe him, so he does what he has to, he says it’s Steph and let’s her deal with it.

#someone tries to say ‘she isn’t even really ur sister’ and Steph chews them out #‘oh so u think just cuz we’re not blood related we can’t be siblings’ #‘oh so you’re calling me unimportant’ ‘oh so yourself saying all I am is a nuisance that hangs around you even though you don’t want me to’ #‘oh are you saying I’m a leech that’s sucking off of this family’s happiness and love’ #no one ever tries that again after that #so now whenever anyone brings it up all she has to say is ‘why wouldn’t I be his favorite? I’m funny #I’m pretty and I’m the best one here’ and no one can argue with that #so they just don’t #and Steph know she ain’t actually the fave she just lives for the drama #and dck is never bothered about it again #dc comics #comics #robin #batfam #dick grayson #bruce wayne #jason todd #damian wayne #tim drake #duke thomas #cassandra cain #stephanie brown

[karuuhnia]

Link needs years of therapy after upgrading his gear to lvl 4...

#botw #totk #breath of the wild #tears of the kingdom #((This is a shitpost #but please don’t tell me I’m the only one who is incredibly freaked out by the great fairies in botw/totk #I hate how they outright sexually assault Link and it’s played for laughs. #Imagine if the gender roles were reversed - there would be an outcry! #Am I too sensitive about this subject? Nobody else I’ve talked to seems to be bothered by this lol #anyway enjoy this shitpost I've spent way too much time on lol))

[bonemeal12]

What a loser /pos

Close ups under the cut!

#been absolutely exhausted lately I haven’t been able to make a full piece just for myself in 1000 years #I only have the energy to doodle if I’m drawing for myself these days #also don’t even ask me about the red robin costume ok I don’t get it either #it has a look somewhere in my brain I just don’t have the energy to draw it #my art #doodle #tim drake #red robin #dc #what does zesti look like?? I don’t know #can’t be bothered to search hard enough to find a ref #he would put orange juice in his cereal unironically cause I said so #he would have bat themed socks #he would wear his ex’s superhero merch

[catboywizard]

sometimes i forget how sanitized tiktok and other platforms are compared to tumblr until i come across stuff like this video i saw earlier where someone, as well as a bunch of ppl in the comments, were absolutely scandalized that aziraphale got called a faggot by a kid early on in the good omens book

gays on here throw it around like loose change but ppl on tiktok act like finding it in a book written for adults in 1990 is a huge mind blowing shocker

i’m not saying the book should or shouldn’t have used it, but the video was definitely a big culture shock bc of just how differently that word is treated on here

#the word faggot used to bother me when i was a teen #but now i don’t even really thinking about it unless someone’s being really hateful and honestly i kinda like how vulgar it is #like fuck yeah i’m a faggot and i like it what are you gonna do about it asshole? #good omens #neil gaiman #op

[honeypleasejustkillme]

i use dissociation more than anything i’ve ever learned in my 10yrs of therapy

#actually bpd #bpd problems #bpd vent #actually borderline #actually mentally ill #bpd fp #bpd #bpd shitposting #bpd favorite person #bpd mood #dissociation is my favorite coping mechanism #that and avoidance #i love avoiding my problems until i can’t take it anymore and have a full blown breakdown about it #it’s easier to go through life ignoring everything that’s bothering you until it all just explodes one day #idk maybe that’s just me tho #right after every breakdown i feel like shit tho cuz i usually freak out everyone around me but i don’t know how else to cope #even tho i’ve had 10yrs of therapy nothing else worked for me #so dissociation it is babyyyy

[oddquake]

the fact that so many ship names (especially for anime pairings and pairings from hyv games) correlate to whether people believe that certain characters top or bottom genuinely bothers me.

it really makes zero sense when the context of whatever post is sfw—whatever their sexual dynamic is is completely irrelevant, so why do ship names have to insinuate one way or the other???

just feels like totally unnecessary sexualization, and i don’t think it’s a coincidence that this is particularly the case for queer asian characters (and in some cases, real people).

personally, whatever ship names i use are based on either popularity or whichever one i heard first (and there’s no right one or wrong one)—NOT whatever i believe their bedroom dynamic to be. i think that’s really fucking weird.

#yes this post is about aventurine x ratio and kaveh x al’haitham #they specifically aren’t asian but my point still stands #edit: yes—i do know that not everyone uses them with the implication in mind #i definitely don’t #it just bothers me that because this concept has been so popularized that it seems to have an implication whether someone wants it to or not #haikaveh #kavehtham #ratiorine #aventio #genshin impact #honkai star rail #anime #quake rambles

[mxtxfanatic]

Luo Binghe really was entirely too forgiving about the whole abyss thing. Y’all talk about how the peak lords must have felt going through hell and high water for Shen Qingqiu, just for the man to still end up with Luo Binghe? Imagine if Luo Binghe had friends and they knew exactly what Shen Qingqiu had done to Luo Binghe over all those years 😬

#svsss #anyways it still bothers me how the entire sect treat lbh #despite KNOWING sqq abused lbh even if they don’t know about the abyss #like imagine if lbh was your friend telling you about all this #and ending the story with ‘and i still want to marry him 🥺’ #i’d be sending over every ‘how to know you are in an abusive relationship’ text i could find! #we would be discussing how low your self-esteem has to be to accept such treatment! #like this is absolutely wild! #(what’s even wilder is sqq also still tryna protect lbh while laboring under the assumption that lbh was destined to be a tyrant) #‘as long as he’s happy’ headass #I imagine that if both groups weren’t convinced that their friend’s partner was one wrong move away from putting their friend in a coffin #they’d have much to lament about together

[fallahifag]

white people stop going into Palestinian’s inboxes policing our behaviour and telling us what you think we should/should not talk about challenge (apparently impossible)

#i’m not answering these shit asks anymore btw so don’t bother trying #y’all r making me wish i never talked about skateboarding which is literally the love of my life

[karuinekom]

those past few days, i’ve been thinking over and over about the tiniest crumbs of closeness frenchie offers to izzy in those three episodes

the way frenchie holds izzy’s gloved hand as soon as he starts crying, even if fang is already there, hugging the small man the best he can, giving him warmth and solace. and then, frenchie leans on izzy’s leg in the red flag jail, when, by now, the crew has already accepted their fate with resignation because having a deadline is much better than what they had before. and at this moment, frenchie naturally leans on him to let him know he’s there, his head propped on izzy’s thigh, comfortable enough to do it. frenchie’s not afraid of him. none of them is undoubtedly frightened of izzy, who not so long ago despised every one of them, every one of the useless pirates of stede fuckin’ bonnet’s dysfunctional crew, because now that specific man is the only one keeping them from being swallowed by the kraken

i like to think that despite the locks keeping that box in the back of his head closed, frenchie can’t lock far away the hurt of seeing someone he cares about being abused even more. now, the only comfort he can give is that unspoken intimacy, those untold words, and that warm touch reminding izzy he’s not alone in the pile of shit life reserved for them

#ofmd #ofmd spoilers #omfd season 2 #our flag means death #izzy hands #frenchie #ouizzy #frenchizzy #frenzzy #izzy x frenchie #ofmd izzy #ofmd frenchie #not a single day of my existence passes without me thinking about them #let me boil in this soup of warm delusion #don’t bother me if in reality is leaning on the whatever thing izzy’s sitting on. that’s husband behaviour #the fact more people recently fell in the ouizzy hole makes my heart throb with happiness. love you guys