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theinheriteddutchess · 3 months

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Does anyone have the feeling they should read fanfiction more, support your friends and your favorite writers, but then feel a little pressured to "perform"?

I know I'm so behind on stories that I still want to read and that I've been tagged in, that I just block. I don't read at all.... Or I read a totally different story and then ferl guilty if I reblog that.

My adhd brain also guess "no, now I don't want to" when I remind myself I should still read this or that. It thinks of it as a chore suddenly. So I don't read.. And time passes and I feel awful.

In my mind I'm constantly reading constantly talking about it through comments to the writers.

I'm not ignoring you, I haven't forgotten about you. I really like your stories! I want to say, but I'm just tired.

I'm still so tired and not better, and if I feel ill I just want comfort.. And my own designed pressure is preventing me from being able to enjoy what I normally enjoy and what I want to enjoy.

If you saw me say I'll read it later, or have shown excitement before, and then I don't even if I say I will.... It's this. I haven't stopped liking, I'm still rooting for you and your stories... I'm just a little stuck sometimes. I read other stories out of the blue not because I care less. I haven't forgotten (unless it's on my to be read list and I forgot still.... That's just my forgetful brain, sorry... It's inconveniencing me daily)

#feeling guilty at times #it's not you #i don't try to ignore you #i just need to be in a specific mood or i just can't do it #ranting again

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masochistartt · 5 months

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thinking about the drag queens roy had brunch with after his night at g-a-y and how some of those drag queens were probably either a) little gay boys very into football growing up or b) little gay boys with brothers who were very into football growing up and those brothers probably never assumed that their little gay sibling would be the first of them to meet roy kent but there they are, sharing a table with him and having crepes together

#roy kent #simultaneously. little gay kids who are very into sports (unbiased) (me)#and also little gay kids fucking over their siblings who never thought they'd get anywhere #LOOK who's eating brunch with roy kent NOW MARVIN. LOOK WHO IT IS #IT'S NOT YOU

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canongf · 8 months

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i think i'm getting a cold so eddie is learning how to be a caregiver. he got me soup. he drew me a bath. he also keeps insisting on skin to skin contact and i don't have the heart to tell him that that's for dads trying to connect with their newborn babies.

#(so we're doing skin to skin contact)#i just have a sore throat and sniffles #and BRAIN FOG i'm just SLEEPY #if you've sent me a message / ask and i haven't responded yet #it's not you #i'm just sleepy #<333 #live #eddie.txt #🦇

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glitterypin · 2 months

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ghosting my professor because I've decided to abandon my phd

#is it okay to break up with your supervisor over e-mails #it's not you #it's me #jk it's not me #it's the fucking subject we chose I fucking hate it and I'm a grown up now I can't be arsed with shit I don't care about #goodbye teacher I used to idolize as an undergraduate #I still respect you but I think we should see other people #academia #phd #university

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wheatley-labs-official · 1 month

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I-

No that’s fine. I’m not ready to be lovey dovey again anyways

sorry (if it helps i don't answer most of my asks, there's a lot)

#like #it's not you #it's everyone else

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jenniferament · 9 months

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IT'S NOT YOU

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Linoleum Cut Print

Limited Edition

#jennifer ament #artist on tumblr #jennifer ament art #jenament #art #print #print making #it's not you #it's not you it's me #linocuts #linocut #prints

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torchickentacos · 1 year

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ALMOST DONE WITH MY ASSIGNMENT SO I CAN GO DO HOT GIRL SHIT TOMORROW (see like 3 friends and not drink because i'm the only underage one by like 2 months)

#ALSO ANSWER DMS I HAVE BEEN BEHIND FOR LIKE THREE MONTHS ILY GUYS #AND I'M SO SORRY #I'M AWFUL AT IT #IT'S NOT YOU #I JUST HAVE A PROBLEM

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blazichu · 1 year

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Oh, right. I stopped visiting that person's blog because, even if they have good taste, they're insufferable.

#blaztalk #don't worry if you see this #it's not you #i just needed a second to be a bitch and vent

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animezinglife · 1 year

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Person: [offers different, factual approach and explanation to incredibly toxic idea to show why most women have a different opinion about said topic and the real-world consequences of what the toxic idea can bring]

The Catholic OP: WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS HAVE TO MAKE IT ABOUT THEM??? WE ARE TALKING ABOUT ME?? AND MY OPINION??

#yet more reasons I'm not Catholic #it's this. all the time. every time.#funny #personal #I mean no offense to my Catholic friends on here #it's not you #women's health #education #I just genuinely hope more Catholics than I think understand that their actions and what comes out of their mouths #do the opposite of make people want to find God.#I'm convinced if I'd been raised Catholic I'd be a hardcore atheist in adulthood.#Not to mention their so-called ''medical'' professionals at the Catholic hospital borderline TORTURED my friend #when she was trying to have her first child.#She's a tough woman who's been through a lot.#She'd been abused before and in her relationship.#She doesn't use the term lightly.#She's an older woman in her sixties.#They refused to give her anything for the pain because *they* didn't believe in it.#They treated her like garbage.#She was only seventeen and they abused her too.#They hurt her worse.#Not to mention all the delightful stories my DHS friend shares with me.

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gungieblog · 2 years

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Halestorm It's Not You

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#Halestorm #It's Not You #Youtube

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morinover · 2 years

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I wish people would recognize better the difference between abusive relationships and toxic ones. I don’t know how much difference it makes, in practice, but maybe knowing they’ve hurt the other person just as deeply and that person is also still carrying that hurt years later, would make people feel less helpless, when that’s the case.

#vagueblogging #no one on this website #it's not you #but if you feel you can benefit from this perspective go ahead #I hope you hurt less #you deserve to heal #you deserve to acknowledge your agency and how you affect others #you deserve to feel your power #and use it for good #brought to you by two people who each wanted me to recognize the other was abusive towards them #but my judgement says neither was abusive #both were toxic #we're too old for this shit you guys

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roetrolls · 2 years

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I am many things but not a quitter. How are things running the mafia

> She stares at you. Miss DeVroc is not a fan of small talk.

"I don't speak of work with strangers. Any other questions?"

#lenore ic #an ask tag (happy chase?)#im sorry robin she's just.#she's like that.#it's not you

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cemeterything · 3 months

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