#that mean gay

[pinkieloveheartpastel]

Will never, ever, ever understand people still trying to be nice to bigots.

I used to be one of those people. I used to believe in respectability politics, and that having a “civil” conversation with someone who hated my existence would automatically change their ways, and they’d just stop being hateful. I used to think that they simply needed someone to be kind to them.

But the more I was nice to them, the more they were nasty to me, and the more they wanted to hurt me, and when I calmly told them to stop being the way that they were, and they kept going, and I simply ignored them and moved on… I would sit back and think about the fact that I should’ve said more.

I should’ve stood my ground, told them exactly how I felt about them, called them out, and just straight up cussed them out, because they did not deserve any ounce of niceness whatsoever. Because even after all of that, even after trying so hard to convince them to stop being hateful, they were still the same exact person they were before I even encountered them. They were, in fact, even worse than before.

Because at the end of the day, they do not want to change. Bigotry does not give a fuck about facts, about kindness, about growth, none of that shit. Bigotry simply wants to feel superior. It wants to be above everyone else. It demands people to obey it, it destroys and it crawls into holes to fester a foul stench.

Abusers do not give a fuck about being better, about wanting to change. Abusers want power.

So now… I no longer care about being nice. Especially since niceness is a product of capitalism. A product of upholding the status quo and “keeping the peace”, aka making the bigots comfortable, and ignoring those who are oppressed.

I say what I say, and I mean every fucking word, because I’m tired of spending all of my energy on something that was never worth it in the first place.

I was told I was too nice, and I needed to “learn a little spite”, as a friend said to me. Well, I’ve learned much more than that. I’ve learned to be fucking nasty, and that is what I always will be.

My voice is my strength, and my greatest weapon.

Since y’all wanna fuck around and find out, oh be my fucking guest. Cause I got time.

This voice has been hidden for years. This voice has been boiling beneath the surface, begging to be released, and I will not bite my tongue.

#that angry black #angry black woman #that mean gay #mean and angry and fed up #bigotry #respectability politics. #respectability politics are bullshit

[butchfalin]

the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

#yeehaw #1k #5k #10k #posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours? #also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that! #unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference #edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense #also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags #1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now #he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic #2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign #like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock #3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing #it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is #extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once #it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life #i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about #Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect #if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it #aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week

[seenthisepisode]

no offence but the reason tumblr is “dying” is, well, yes, of course the cursed like/reblog ratio and the change in user behaviour (because of people being used to how instagram and tiktok work) BUT also the lack of weekly shows. i say it with my whole chest, they don't produce captivating and engaging stupid weekly tv shows anymore because streaming killed that so you have spikes of activity here when Something happens in general fandom or up to three days after a new season of whatever drops and then it's a wasteland. this is obviously an old woman yelling at a cloud missing supernatural and the vampire diaries and pretty little liars and all these other shows type of post but honestly give me back weekly tv shows where i have something to watch for 40 minutes almost every day of the week after work so then i can read and reblog it on tumblr give it back for the sake of my sanity

#we used to be a proper country #or something #this post is brought to you by me coming back from work and being like okay what now 🧍🏻‍♂️ #i mean obviously i have stuff to do but these are just chores and what i need what i have been programmed to need is a 40 minute long #episode of stupid cw show with a gay ship that's never gonna go canon... :((( #tumblr #fandom

[butchdykekondraki]

14k moonwalker

#look at my wife ok. #og tags -> #[ren] #um. i mean what who said that you guys..... #preemptive ''this post is about wanting to have gay sex with a computer''

[nicostiel]

#The holy trinity of queer agony

#goodomensedit #good omens #good omens 2 #supernatural #our flag means death #ofmd #david tennant #neil gaiman #gay #lgbt #lgbtq #spn #destiel #queer #ineffable husbands #*myedits

[ayo-edebiri]

#Literally wlw on mlm violence

#byaurore #usersugar #tuserrachel #userallisyn #nessa007 #noalook #userbbelcher #rhys darby #ofmd #ofmd spoilers #ofmdedit #our flag means death #lgbt #gay #useravia #userelio #userkristi #userisaiah #alivedean #taika waititi #userzo #this is literally good omens omg. i love it. #stede doesn't even know what gay sex is </3

[edscuntyeyeshadow]

the way some people reacted to David Jenkins and Neil Gaiman saying their shows would only have 3 seasons is so funny because I saw so many feeling devastated while I am so relieved and relaxed about it. don’t get me wrong I love getting more content with the characters I love but… normalize cohesive storytelling. normalize ENDINGS. do you REALLY want another s*pernatural????

#our flag means death #ofmd s2 #good omens #good omens 2 #ofmd #gentlebeard #gay pirates #ineffable husbands #david jenkins #neil gaiman #edward teach #stede bonnet #ofmd season 2 #our flag means gay #gomens #our flag means good omens #my posts

[corttheartist]

obsessed with ed’s hair up.

our flag means death s2 slaps btw.

go watch it.

#fanart #digital art #art #artwork #our flag means death #ofmd fanart #ofmd s2 #ofmd season 2 #ofmd #ofmd 2 #ofmd blackbeard #blackbeard #edward teach #our flag means fanart #our flag means gay #our flag means soup #procreate art #procreate #illustration

[mwagneto]

FUNNIEST WAY TO DESCRIBE THIS SHOW

#WHY DONT YOU AS A MAN FIND TREASURES IN OTHER MEN AND MAYBE YOU'LL CALM DOWN !!! #literally obsessed with this oh my goddddd #me when the show about gay men is described as a show about gay men 🤯 #<- copying that from dms coz like OMGGGJFJJGJFFJ.... men will literally love each other #ofmd #ofmd s2 #ofmd spoilers #ofmd season 2 #ofmd s2 spoilers #our flag means death

[weirdly-specific-but-ok]

Pt I good omens but i've never watched it

i've never seen good omens but it's all over my tumblr dash so this is what I've gathered can someone please confirm if i've got it right

there's a demon named crowley

there's a biblically inaccurate angel named aziraphale but like it's very sexy when the demon calls him 'angel'

the demon and angel have been married for 6000 years and they still keep looking at each other all sappily

Neil Gaiman is somehow involved, I think he's the writer but also he's on tumblr (uh, @neil-gaiman) and people keep questioning if he's real

is neil gaiman like a fandom inside joke why is everyone asking if he's real

there actors are called michael and david and amazon prime thought they were the same

there is a bookstore and crowley is sad

they kiss and it is very nice and desperate and crowley says we could have been us. i have no context for this. someone is going to heaven i think.

there is a god, i'm not sure if they're good or evil though

the demon wears sunglasses

it's a comedy but for some reason everyone's crying after whatever the last season was, are you guys okay

things are on fire

they are very gay

there was a book and at one point they switch bodies

more fire and crowley screaming

they are called ineffable husbands i dont know what that means

they fight crime or they do crime or they fight crime by doing crime i really cannot remember which

gay

#good omens #lgbtqia #crowley #aziracrow #azirowley #aziraley #aziraphale #michael sheen #david tennant #fire #gay #ineffable husbands #good ineffable omens #WHAT DOES INEFFABLE MEAN #husbands #angel #demon #we could have been us #6000 years of pining #wait why did this tag complete with pining #why were they pining when they were married sorry what the hell is happening #good omens summary #what is good omens #neil gaiman #5k

[hansoeii]

Do you think of me?

#I am not ready to witness these two longing for each other in season 2 it's gonna ruin me #stede writing love letters to ed while on his way to win him back #and ed stealing the wedding toppers and imagining marrying stede during quiet and vulnerable hours #yeah I'm very much not ready #these two are my favorite thing in the world #our flag means death #our flag means death fanart #our flag means death 2 #gay pirates #ofmd #ofmd 2 #stede bonnet #edward teach #ofmd fanart #ofmd 2 fanart #david jenkins #rhys darby #taika waititi #my art #fanart

[amnestyliketaz]

in honor of the nimona movie (it’s so good i’m gonna scream and cry for the next million years) i must share my favorite nimona art ever

drawn by ND stevenson ofc and posted on twitter a few years ago i believe

do i even have to SAY anything? the shark, it’s not rocket surgery, baby nimona, the DOMESTICITY of it all im gonna explode

UPDATE!!!! GAY DADS AU THREAD https://twitter.com/gingerhazing/status/1676058949504892928?s=46

#anyways stream nimona #and buy the book #and read it #god. #i’ve been here for a year and a half welcome everyone #so glad i’m finally getting some nimona CONTENT #nimona #nimona movie #nd stevenson #ballister blackheart #ballister boldheart #my only question is why did they change his last name #i mean i get it #but still #ambrosius goldenloin #just found out this is called the gay dads au by nd #what if i scream and cry #amnesty original #gay dads au

[nicostiel]

#Queer Agony

#goodomensedit #good omens #good omens 2 #david tennant #our flag means death #ofmd #ofmdedit #neil gaiman #aziraphel #ineffable husbands #crowley #michael sheen #azicrow #lgbt #lgbtq #gay #*myedits

[ayo-edebiri]

Our Flag Means Death (2022 - ) I 2x04-Fun and Games

#ofmd #ofmdedit #byaurore #rhys darby #our flag means death #userbbelcher #usersugar #tuserrachel #noalook #userelio #gay #taika waititi #ofmd spoilers #userisaiah #usereena #userkristi #useravia #lgbt #jemmablossom #userzo #tuserpris #tuserhan #i need 4K.......

[edscuntyeyeshadow]

rewatching ofmd right now and literally all I can think about is how the guy on the left is somehow also the guy that shoved edward teach against a wall for the purposes of having hot gay sex

#ofmd s2 spoilers #ofmd s2 #gentlebeard #ofmd #ofmd season 2 #our flag means death #our flag means gay #gay pirates #stede bonnet #edward teach #stede fucking bonnet #blackbonnet #ed x stede

[overlordjanefire]

Why is he like that

#gay lawyers #ace attorney #miles edgeworth #i want him so bad i #i mean who said that