#basic cleaning and cooking

[nguyenfinity]

She’d stay with them while visiting I think

Bonus:

#enstars #mamagi #rinne amagi #niki shiina #rinniki #i think despite him being raised to be served she'd have taught him how to at least do basic things #basic cleaning and cooking #even if he's technically serving as chief he's not living in the village as one so like. go pick up the broom son #number 1 niki defender is rinne #number 2 is rinne's mother #also she's the type of lady to call you 'hon' and 'dear' and 'sweetheart' and stuff like that #i don't know if i'm writing her right but i really would like to think she's a kind lady. #if she's like everyone else at the amagi village i'm gonna be so sad. #also i love how every time i'm like 'this is gonna be my last drawing for a while' i come right back because i am an impulsive fool #also i think rinne d o e s help out around the house it's just that niki's significantly faster and more efficient when no one's in his way- #-in the kitchen--

[cairafea]

the primordial desire to fight a krill is at the top of maslow’s hierarchy of needs

#sky children of the light #sky cotl #sky cotl krill #my art #fanart #art #comic #sky memes #meme redraw #sand guardian vine #had this one cooking since 2019 #if i continue the metaphor then i came back to the kitchen after it was deep cleaned and the food on the pan was gone #it took a 2 hour flight for me to revive it via basic phone drawing app #anyways go play sky. #travelling spirit soon. you know you want cosmetics. #krills have no soul and i would fight one with my bare hands if they weren’t invincible #A SIGNATURE! FINALLY! IT’S BAD BUT IT’S FUNCTIONAL #dont repost or you’ll be buried in sand next. #drew sky memes on a plane. couldn’t be closer to the source material if i tried

[dungeons-and-dragon-age]

Hiii everyone, say, how do your Hawkes go go about sharing their estate? If they do it at all? Is everyone free to come and go or are they more private? Or do they only invite their LI to stay? I'm curious!! :)

#lay rambles #my ocs #oc: liam hawke #oc: lilian hawke #both my hawkes are very social w their friends but i love comparing their boundaries around it #theres variation in rules for specific ppl with both of them ofc but theres still general differences #with liam its all very open and everyone can p much come and go whenever #they dont get extra keys (theyll get lost and he doesnt want randos finding them lol) but they know where to find the spare key #and bodhan and sandal and orana know to let them in whenever #hes very lenient in this this regard but he does have rules abt what he does and doesnt want them to do #mostly its about not making too much of a mess lol bc liam prefers to clean himself #(he doesnt trust the crew with his household and also he has particular ways of doing things and Hates when theyre done differently) #so things like keep your dirty garb at the entrance dont cook by yourselves (this was banned after they did it one (1) time lol) etc #also no fucking allowed. do that somewhere else for the love of the maker he does NOT want to walk into that in his own house #(and it also comes back to liam not trusting them with cleaning but also Not wanting to clean that up lol) #also he is not fond of them going into his room uninvited. most of the house is chill but that is *his* space #he accommodates these rules by e.g. having spare slippers and a little washing basin in the entrance hall for dirty shoes/feet #always makes sure to have snacks in stock that he knows they like #food will have notes abt what to leave for leandra/orana/etc but otherwise food is prepared with his friends in mind #and in general he'll make sure to adjust the space/routine in little ways to accommodate them #(air out when fen isnt there cus he doesnt like drafts; keep curtains open cus anders prefers open spaces; etc) #lilian on the other hand doesnt like when her friends come into the estate without a heads up (cept for emergencies) #but once they have her 'ok' its basically mi casa es su casa #dont yknow. overdo it and get too rowdy but otherwise do whatever #however. she also expects everyone to clean up after themselves. she aint here to play maid and youre all adults #also liam has a general 'please try to not be too wild when leandra is here' and lilian doesnt #not cos she doesnt care but cos leandra is bothered by sth she can speak up herself #oh and lilian uses the basement space as temporary refuge for anyone who needs it (mostly escaped mages) #also side note: both offered gamlen to stay but he refused (out of pride/remorse) #...this got long and i ran out of tag space lmfao so this is it for now xD

[gideonisms]

The way this job randomly took away one of our breaks and told us we have to work 6 days a week for the next month kjhjkhkhjhj y'all are so silly we aren't doing that ♥️

#i think most of us are just finding something different #on one hand this is basically the first job i've had that hasn't made me wanna kms on the other hand 6 days a week is a lot for any job #and it's like 9 or 10 hour days...girl... #there are times when i need to cook and clean...

[s-c-l-n]

sakuatsu psychological warfare against each other when one is mad at the other

#sclnposting #miya atsumu #haikyuu #sakusa kiyoomi #sakuatsu #honestly this is such a rediculous post #its like. kiyoomi buys more and more cleaning supplies and then one day sends atsumu on some errands and basically fumigates one room #its a room he KNOWS atsumu will go into #but the secret is that its actually all just scented water vapor #so atsumu thinks hes walking into a crazy clean room and is dying cause of them chemicals its actually just nothing #atsumus version would be making the mitchen look like a mess and all dirty then cooking food for kiyoomi there #its perfectly clean atsumu just knows what food will dye certain thigs what color #kiyoomi loses his mind cleaning until he finds out it was like basil all along #yep #thats the headcannon

[taegularities]

some men are textbook villains fr

#tw religion? #kinda need to rant.. kinda wanna explain what's going on #some ppl are part of humanity but don't know how to be humane... like the guy i started talking to almost 2 weeks ago #liked him a lot bc he was funny sickeningly sweet mature and understanding.. until he was not #tl dr version is that we somehow drifted to the topic religion and i told him im not too religious and don't believe in superstition much #i was extremely respectful and even when he said that he does believe a lot i was like 'thats cool!! different people believe in different #things!!' and at first it was a normal convo until man went all psycho on me (after one damn week!!!) and started talking about how #id have to be religious in a relationship with him.. my dude i barely know your fav food can we not talk about relationships yet #but he says he doesn't even need a woman who cooks/cleans just someone who believes.. n im like i get it but i can't change myself like that #and then guy moves to marriage and is all 'well my entire family is religious' n my mom and sister (who's 16) would be putting pressure on #you n force you to pray etc.. and I'm like???? who can force anyone to a thing like that are u kidding #things escalate and my absolute STUPID ass tells him about my deepest fkn trauma to explain what made me abandon religion bc #life just never got better and this trauma remained for yrs... and he gets so angry that he says he wants to stop talking to me just to spam #me all day next day.. he'd keep messaging me switching between 'i still want you we shouldn't throw this away i have feelings for you' #AFTER A WEEEEEEKKKK!!! and then goes back to 'i wasted my time with you you were so unnecessary im in a bad mood bc of you' #even said 'you'll never find a guy with a trauma and mindset like this. i will find a religious girl but no one will love you like that' #and the worst thing is that he told his friends and mom about the trauma i had just to spite me.. note that he promised to never tell anyone #(and then still asked for forgiveness and for me to rethink whether we want to end this after telling me 473626x he wanted to end it) #(nothing even ever started you bitchass) #also note that his mom knows my mom n basically most of my relatives.. so i was here trembling for days fearing they'd get to know about it #mom somehow convinced her to not tell anyone bc it's important to me and very very fucking personal.. #but he harassed me all day - i wouldn't answer and he'd send 55 messages.. multiple missed calls like dude i got so fkn scared #my heart jumped whenever he texted he was so fkn aggressive and SO MEAN #'you just needed to adjust and we would've been okay' 'tell me are u gonna fkn be religious or not????' 'you ruined everything' kinda mean #i just :') it was the worst time and i don't think i've ever seen someone degrade me so much or make me feel this defective #but.. it's finally over. his mom called my mom and mine was like pls teach him some manners.. n since i couldn't and wouldn't text him back #and literally avoided whatsapp bc of him she ended it all for me and now it's hopefully done forever #anyway i saw jks gcf performance yday n him singing still with you put a genuine smile on my face.. ill stick to THAT boyfriend honestly lol #def gonna delete later #but ty for reading if u did <3

[inkdrinkerworld]

Guys I stood up for myself and the fact that I do all the domestic housework and now everything is tense but my head feels clear

#fawn.mumbles #peace of mind won’t be scarified like that again #guys I was basically the maid #and while I do love cooking and making desserts and cleaning #I don’t like being the default person so something had to be done about it

[shakingparadigm]

Would the human pets be capable of basic tasks like washing their clothes or preparing food? I can see some pets knowing how to prepare food as like, a fun little party trick to impress others, but as a basic survival skill I don't think it's commonly taught to humans anymore. There's most likely a line drawn between pets that are helpful and reliable, and pets that are too capable, to the point where certain owners may feel threatened by their level of intelligence and independence. I wonder just how helpless the humans would be without their aliens.

#alien stage #alnst #rambles #my take is this: hyuna is completely independent and knows every basic survival skill (a long process of learning if she was self-taught) #but afterwards she taught every single recruit how to take care of themselves. #i think hyuna would be the closest to a normal functioning adult in terms of skillset among the main cast #mizi would know how to prepare certain foods but only very simple ones #im not sure if till would know how to do anything properly but he's at least resourceful enough to keep himself going on his own #(since it seems like Guardian Urak leaves him to fend for himself most of the time) #Ivan would know how to do a lot of things in theory but has most likely never performed them himself #and i think sua and luka perform very decorative trophy-esque roles to their owners #so they wouldn't really know how to do anything other than what they're trained to excel at #of course theyre smart people so theyd pick it up eventually #but as of now they probably dont know how to cook or wash or properly clean aside from the basics of tidying after themselves #especially since sua is stated to constantly be in a daze with no plans #and luka as a kid seemed in his own world most of the time #THIS IS JUST ME THO LOL my opinions are bound to change eventually im jist #im just speculating and headcanoning for funsies

[amatres]

Okay so what are circle mages allowed to learn life skill wise? Obviously they are taught how to read, can't live in a place that's just a huge library and not, but beyond that what?

Wnnye knows how to mend clothing, according to dialogue between her and Alistair, so they can learn at least some form of sewing skills. How much though I don't know, is it something they need to get permission to get supplies of for from the supply room, similar to things for projects such as with the Rod of Fire?

The Circle is a place purposely set up to deny it's wards the opportunities to learn basic life skills so they remain dependent on the Chantry and it's amenities, however by virtue of not everyone getting their magic at an age where they learn nothing of a normal life before being kidnapped from their families and homes, some of the older apprentices brought in will know how to do tasks that otherwise a mage could be denied.

At what point is a skill considered harmless enough to let them learn, such as how to mend their own clothes, and to what point does it get that they are denied any opportunity to learn it, as I imagine what happens with cooking, which is either handled by tranquil, Chantry priests, or servants hired from outside. What is a Circle mages day to day life outside of their lectures and experiments?

#ama mumbles #dragon age #this is going into the main tag because i want to hear other peoples thoughts #what is the day to day life of these ppl jailed for life for being born bioware i need to know #feels weird that this spiraled from my question if my surana would wear a stay under her armor when she becomes an arcane warrior #the answer is no btw. alternatives ive come up with is: a. half stay with less boning which im not going with #and b. she wears a kirtle and/or maybe a lengberg castle bra #but anyway. i still think tranquil handle a lot of the day to day labor and more basic life skill stuff #such as cleaning cooking and possibly making a majority of the clothing worn in the circle #on top of being the main sales people for circle made goods as seen in denerim in dao and the gallows in da

[area51-escapee]

One of the many hills I’ll die on is my defense of the Girl Scouts if you hear the “girl” in Girl Scouts and immediately assume “well, clearly all they’re teaching them is how to bake cookies and manage a household and become a good wife and mother who stays home and cooks and cleans” then that shits on you yeah some troops aren’t going to be as good as others it all depends on the leadership and resources available but that doesn’t negate the fact that at it’s core it is there to teach young girls valuable skills and it can provide unique opportunities and a nice community for people who may need it

#like. my experience wasn’t even the /best/ #I wasn’t bullied by the other girls by any means but I also wasn’t liked I was just. there and kinda outcast from them #and my troop was on a military base we didn’t have a lot #but we still did fun arts and crafts projects and we went camping ALL the time #I wasn’t allowed to do much of anything so it was a chance to get out of the house #and spend time with people my age outside of school #even the cookie selling is often used to teach about managing money and businesses ect #and lots of people get experience with first aid and STEM projects in it #when my sister was signing up after we moved they were talking about doing #lots of conservation and environmental clean up projects #which is cool!!! #from what I hear the Girl Scouts keep up with the fucken times besties #it’s been a long time since I was a part of it but I still think it’s a great thing #and I hate when people dunk on it and reduce it to just selling cookies #and assume that because it’s for girls it only teaches old fashioned misogynistic standards #also things like knowing how the basics of how to cook and shit like that are still important??? #they don’t teach that in most schools anymore except as an elective #it’s not that young girls /shouldn’t/ learn that it’s that it should be taught to people regardless of gender #you need that shit to survive damn #we support Girl Scouts in this household

[90s-html-lesbians]

“[rich] smart s/o x [poor or working class] dumb himbo s/o” girl that’s literally just classism

#shout out to all the korrasami caitvi avatrice supercorp etc fics that are like #THIS CHARACTER IS SUCH A MORON THEY CAN’T EVEN BREATHE WITHOUT THEIR RICH SMART S/O TO HELP THEM #BECAUSE THAT’S HOW MUCH OF A MORON THEY ARE #remy’s rambling #also how often the rich s/os will know basic life skills like cooking cleaning etc #while the not rich s/o will be sitting around like hurr de hurr what’s a laundry washing machine #like idk how to tell you this but of the two the rich s/o is often not the one more likely to know how to do laundry

[simplyghosting]

Okay, not exactly a recipe, but great flavor combo I just managed (thank you mother for stocked spices). Note that I never measure, so approximations may not be accurate):

Previously cooked potatoes (small cubes)

Bella mushrooms (sliced)

Fresh ginger (~2-3tsp. minced, then ground)

Sesame oil (~2tbsp)

Tamari sauce (~1tbsp. basically better soy sauce.)

Light brown sugar (~1-2tbsp. More = sweeter dish)

Dried onions (couple of dashes. optional)

Salt and pepper (to taste)

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Heat pan at medium, adding sesame oil.

Add ginger, stirring constantly. Cook for about 1 minute.

Add mushrooms (arrange spaced, not overlapping).

Add in tamari sauce, light brown sugar, salt/pepper, and dried onions.

Cook for about 2-4 min, flipping over mushrooms as they start to golden on one side.

Add in potatoes to heat. Stir ingredients until potatoes are reheated (maybe 2 minutes)

-Done!-

These are my taste preferences (and approximations) which is pretty salty/sweet/seasoned, so you’ll probably need to experiment (I make it very gingery), but it was fun and tasty for me. I had the ginger and potatoes prepared in the fridge as leftovers, so the worst of the prep is easy to make and store some days in advance or use for other dishes, too.

#ghost posts #recipes #kind of #I paired it with basic scrambled eggs/cooked spinach #if you clean up while you go it’s not too bad #the ginger I had previously used for a curry dish from last week #just had it in a little condiment container in the fridge in the meantime #edit: spelled tamari wrong 😫

[sleep-nurse]

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Honestly this is a bit tricky (if you mean himawari) because her mother died when hima was only like 2 years old and her dad. Well. He's very busy and he was basically the reason himawari died (lack of care and stuff) so I DON'T KNOW

#asks #tbh hima tries to keep a good relationship with her dad still but its tough #especially because she's basically a maid for him #as in she has to clean the house and cook food for him because he works so many hours a day #and comes home really late sometimes #ANYWAYS!!!

[pepprs]

what is my family going to do about the dishes when i move out. like this is insane.

#purrs #i understand that because im not contributing as much financially to the house + am not home most of the day doing dishes every night is a #fair reasonable way to expect me to contribute. but also i come home every day fucking exhausted and basically have to clean an entire day’s #worth of dishes (not allowed to leave them out to dry either i have to both wash and dry) for 5 people + put away all the food and #appliances + wipe down all the counters. like i clean up 5 peoples mess completely by myself. and it’s a lot and i constantly go to bed at #lkke 1:30-2am or later because im stuck doing dishes. my mom and siblings cook but they almost always do it together so it’s 3 ppl and then #i do this by myself and sometimes my dad helps me but he’s working all the time and all of his money is going to all of us so it’s fair that #he doesn’t have to help but. god. i have to be at work at 9 every day it’s not enough sleep and i am constantly late and so so so tired. #its 1:19am and i still have 2 sink fuls of dishes to do at least + have to put away all the food etc and it’s 1:19am. my body is screaming #at me to sleep but i am not allowed to leave it less than spotless. awesome #delete later #anyways yeah what i was saying initially is like.. what are they going to do when i move out and they can’t just leave the mess to me at the #end of the night. someone’s gonna have to stay up just as late to clean it all. lol #it takes me at least an hour every night to do all of this

[nostalgia-tblr]

i don't dislike the idea that either or both of loki and sylvie can cook, i just think it's a very optimistic take

#both their lives can be split in two: part 1 they have servants (and she's wee) and part 2 they're mostly scavenging #i just don't think they've had reliable access to both ingredients and kitchen facilities to actually learn anything #so i think they announce “i've made you a lovely home-cooked meal darling” and it's that they've microwaved a lasagne #luckily the other one is indeed charmed and touched by this as it's the upper limit of their combined cooking skills + shows effort was mad #and otherwise it's their drawer full of takeaway menus isn't it? #the food arguments in that household are about whether or not to use plates + cutlery (because they also can't do basic cleaning tasks) #“oh they can just magic stuff” ok but you're overlooking the potential for angsting about losing fancy table manners to survive #and who doesn't love angst???

[pumpking64]

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#Jesus fucking Christ #why do some people just. not see the mess they’re making and acknowledge that it’s their responsibility to clean up after themselves?? #like. you throw your shoes in the entrance exactly where people walk. you let shared loafers stand outside for several hours #you cook the most simple dinner that one time you cook (mind you the other people have equal shares of making food) #and yet you don’t even manage to clean up after neither the cooking NOR taking the food off the table into the fridge so it doesn’t turn bad #you keep on taking the most easy solution that fits you the best without thinking about others. in a space where we all are exhausted #and I’m so done with it for now tbh. how lazy to not care about the bare necessities for others. how rude to admit to it #AND on top of this. you’ll tell stuff about your country that’s *objectively horrifying* and then add on to that that you love your country #it’s just. so many things. are so so so much of what I’d avoid in a person. a few things is fine. no one’s perfect. but damn there’s a limit #SORRY to anyone who’s read this far but I just. had to get it out #this guy is the one I’m working the closest with these two and a half weeks. hes still a kid kind of. I’m not gonna be mean to him #but damn. my patience. is being tested #AHHH I might delete this tbh. I don’t like showing this side of myself. I don’t want to spread this kind of negativity #I’m just so very frustrated. how a human person can come to this place and be here for SO LONG already #and still not have learnt the basics of living and working together #own post #oh. and all the triggering of intrusive thoughts is not helping your case buddy #(which you can’t really know about so it’s kinda fair but also it’s for bad hygiene stuff mostly and that’s. I mean…..)