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bass-alien · 1 month

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Because sometimes a song is so 🔥🔥🔥 you gotta stop during the flow sesh and dance a little 🖤

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tiredyke · 1 year

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every time queer discourse surges on this site everyone is so quick to jump to “it was actually the evil lesbians who divided us” because y’all heard the term “political lesbian” and never bothered to figure out what that meant

#‘political lesbians’ were and are predominantly STRAIGHT WOMEN #and a good chunk are bi #what don’t you understand about these women thinking lesbianism is a CHOICE? that it’s only used by women as a reaction to the patriarchy?#like lesbians can’t possibly like women and not men for any reason that isn’t some deep-seated hatred for men?#they all think lesbianism is dirty and impure and here you people are saying that this is PROGRESSIVE #and that they actually think that lesbianism is some golden standard for its purity???? you guys are so fucking stupid oh my god #you go on and on about learning your queer history until it comes to lesbians and then you’re perfectly happy rewriting our culture #and narrative #wtf is wrong with you people #and y’all braindead mfs use this to act like men are actually oppressed by the meanie dykes #i hate y’all #but none of y’all actually give a shit about lesbians so i guess im yelling into a void #lesbophobia #top posts #neon talks #LOL at the fucking idiot who reblogged this and tagged it ‘misandry’ not sure how you got that from my post but i hope your day sucks <3

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coquelicoq · 3 months

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love kim dokja's non sequitur answer to people thinking he's into yoo joonghyuk: "i like women." okay? good for you?? quick question totally unrelated but have you heard of bisexuality.

#'do you like this man?' 'i like women.' okay. totally irrelevant bestie <3 #also the amount of genderfluidity in this series is like. way above my expectations #i just got to the breaking the sky sword saint arc and i'm pretty sure yjh has to turn into a lady whenever he uses that technique??#AND i think he asked biyoo to cut kdj's screen in part so that kdj wouldn't see him turn into a lady???#rotating him. centrifugally.#and that's just one guy. han sooyoung and jang hayoung and nirvana just off the top of my head also have Gender Stuff #plus kim dokja's orv stage 3 where he just inserts his consciousness into the bodies of his buddies of any gender <3 #orv #omniscient reader's viewpoint #bi #kdj #my posts #f #kim dokja is literally one of the most bisexual characters to ever and he appears to have zero awareness of this fact #which is great bi rep at least for me lol. some of us are stupid!

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talesfromthecrypts · 5 months

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Doing “all bi women are straight, all bi men are gay” but wording it so it sounds progressive is still bad actually

#why do I go on Twitter what things do I think I’ll get out of it #like starting to think some people just don’t want women involved in anything on top of it #why I’m mad about things: two bi umbrella people presenting as a woman and a man isn’t a ‘straight relationship’#those are two queer people!

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catboyfurina · 6 months

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Idk what precisely to call it since honorifics aren't Pronouns but vertin using she/her while routinely being addressed as Lord, sir, etc is soooooooo 🥰 it's like mixed pronouns but not.

#beeep #i love reverse 1999 #like shes not a he him lesbian but like yknow !!!#theres not a quick and easy shortcut for it but shes definitely sapphic and im leaning more lesbian hc than bi tbh !!!!#(which btw bi women can also be gnc and use he him in a wlw way)#(i just think vertin lesbian)#(but i KNOW shes sapphic)#AND HOW SHES USUALLY a my lord SPECIFICALLY when addressed by the girl so down bad for her???? gay as fuck #<- this isnt spoilers bc all the women wont her #well okay thats not precisely true. but a great deal of them do #anyway. i just hope that it isnt a translation error bc goes crazy ahhhh #shes a gentleman.....#and also i think vertin needs to meet a guy who isnt evil bc (possibly nb) lesbian and trans guy bestie duo is one of my favorite tropes #but so far she only interacts with evil people and or girls that wont her 😔😔😔#which is so valid but also 😔😔😔 vertin u need platonic friends too. friends that arent desperately hoping you will push them out of danger #and land on top of them and gaze into their eyes #(or just hoping to make out)#(there are both types of wonts her in this game)#(along with a secret third kind)#anyway #rhvjvdjgdjvbjdbkrbkdjb vertin #i have to. be a person. i have to be a person but instead my brain is just full of WOW GAME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#anyway vertin has like. fancy oldtimey gentleman gnc going on #not so gnc by modern standards that it would make Certain People mad but enough that it is making Me very happy #and i just !!!!! cannot get over how genius it is to combine sheher pronouns with traditionally masculine terms of address!!!!!!!#shes so gender. not my gender but she has so much gender #i love vertin and i love regulus and i love druvis and i love the fool and i love tooth fairy who isnt out yet but i saw her in that one vid #eo #i was expecting to play this so casually like stick it on my phone and then i can do it while waiting for class when im there a few minutes #early but i do Not feel casual about this at all!!!!!!!!!!!! <- i think i got hyperfixated lads

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corfisers · 11 days

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can't write trans yashiro meta without writing down the bisexuality meta first, can't write the bisexuality meta without bringing up transgender reading. oh the misery

#future me problem im not writing anything rn #the bi stuff would be much shorter and ill start with that either way #but the two topics are inseparable to me #even though one i consider canon and the other is just subtext that's there For Some Reason #i guess it's just like. gender take makes it make more sense #add a few more layers as to why it doesn't quite work out with women #on top of existing canon ones that revolve around trauma and coping mechanisms #tldr yashiro should hook up with a dom lady i think it would clear things up a bit #alas we're neck deep in traditional gender roles and shit #the only somewhat gnc woman is aoi and she's outside of the system #also like. considering all the parallels between her and yashiro #the fact that she gets to have more comfortable gender expression #while yashiro is stuck with the dress code and all the other bullshit #the fact that he grew out his hair a tiny bit and then the moment he goes out with his hair down #it's like. “you don't look like a yakuza. you shouldn't show up with your hair like that in front of others”#doumeki im going to bite your dick off #where was i? right thr subtext. that's just there. in abundance

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bitchesgate3 · 16 days

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I will always be in favor of playersexuality. Until the day game designers have more nuanced understandings of sexuality.

Game designers still only understand flamboyant gay, mean lesbian, slutty bisexual, and quirky queer. Any identities not those are not even recognized. And any complex characterizations are only afforded to "normal" straight characters.

While Larian gave us a step in the right direction, they are still coming from the above framework and trying to reiterate upon that. And you have to understand that framework in order to recognize why their implementation is still somewhat shallow while still being the best offered compared to other games in the genre.

In the past, every time I encountered a woman in a romanceable video game who correctly represents my own experience of bisexual/pansexual identity, she was only romanceable by male characters.

These are women who have tough exteriors on a spectrum of "bitchy femme", a midpoint of "aloof androgynous", to "tough masc". All points that are gnc in some way, but all are women who also have a soft interior that is interpreted as conventionally feminine.

Game designers interpret these two traits (outward gnc and inner softness) as a nullification to heterosexual woman. Time and time again. Falling into the stereotype of being a woman for a man to tame.

Will they ever understand? Or do people as a whole just don't understand the many ways bisexuality can take shape?

#back in EA people were wanting exclusive sexualities for the characters #and while Lae in particular is perfect as a pan character #i think if larian made exclusive sexualities for the companions #they would have made her straight despite gith pansexuality #there is so much in her writing that skews into a heterosexual framework #where dominating her is a viable path in her romance #a less het framework can still play with the need for protection and the arousal of anothers strength #as providing her a space for feeling strong and supported while feeling “weak”#while still getting off and feeling safe not always “being on top” in w/e manner that entails #but in game its still laced with a power dynamic/conquering/taming framework rather than emotional safety in vulnerability #playersexuality #video games #i will never forgive bioware for this phenomenon #over and over #every one of their games has this character #i will always download mods making these women bi #kotor bastilla #kotor atris #kotor handmaiden #mass effect cora #dragon age aveline #dragon age cassandra #mixing fandoms #forever mad about cassandra pentaghast

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villalunae · 4 months

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stop 👏 telling 👏 lesbians 👏 to be 👏 attracted 👏 to 👏 MEN

#personal #SAW A POST. LOST MY MIND #''nothing changed u mistook a man for a butch and were attracted to them so really youre just small minded and should be okay with that #attraction bc clearly you hate yourself <3''#This Is The Lesbophobia We Are Talking About When You Guys Pretend We Cant Have Boundaries #like ohhh ishould just love a man instead <3 i should change my sexuality for you <3 i should just fuck guys huh <3 #how fucking dismissive of our experiences. how deeply sick and disgusting of you. i hope ur an adult so i wont feel bad ripping ur hair out #like how dare you! how dare you tell me NOTHING changed. how dare you look me in the eye and tell me that its the same #its not! its not. sorry some people are comfortable with labels that assert boundaries xoxo to you but im a lesbian bc i like women. not bc #i have an aesthetic attraction to a person. if i see a butch i think oh! a butch! a fellow lesbian! and am attracted #turns out to be a guy? oh! not a butch! not a fellow lesbian! nevermind :) and omg i am so normal for that <333 #like god. GOD. what a fucking piece of shit to tell lesbians we should just Let ourselves be attracted to men bc we secretly do anyway #top ten reasons i hate associating with ppl who flout no labels like it works for you im glad but you keep shoving that down my throat #and im going to commit vehicular manslaughter #i have boundaries for a reason! i am attracted to women! i dont like men! WHAT IS SO HARD TO GET THROUGH YOUR HEAD #stop TELLING every lesbian theyre secretly bi but theyre repressing and too attached to the label i will FUCKING kill you #ANYWAY. IGNORE ME LMFAO

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bass-alien · 1 year

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🖤🖤🖤

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enrapture · 1 year

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When no one wants to get to know you, date you or treat you how you deserve ☹️

#men don’t like bi women #:(#on top of everything else no one likes me for me #people only like me for what I can do for them #it’s a shame #personal

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lexa-griffins · 18 days

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Hey ! Two questions :

Will you/Did you ever post the fic in which Clarke is a boxer and Lexa her superior on ao3 ?

Also, kinda weird but, will you ever consider writing a gip Lexa and actress Clarke, both porn stars ?

Thanks a lot 😁

Hey!

So, with my masters and being at the lab and nigjt classes, I have had pretty much no time to write. I manage to give a longer answer to asks here and there but unfortunately I have not been writing anything, neither for my existing fics nor new fics :/ either way my ao3 name is Lexa_Griffins if you want to make sure you don't miss it when i do post it! :) I do plan on sitting down and writing it at least as a two shot at some point ☺️

As for the prompt, I think that would be fun! While I am alright writing g!p Lexa, I do not write her as a top - ever. But im thinking for these two up and coming porn actresses to come together (no pun intended) as a duo when a queer production studio calls them both in. Lexa has been dipping her toe into more partenered movies, where before she used to do mostly solo stuff, just her, a dildo that always looks too big to fit her ass and a bullet on her dick. Clarke on the other hand has been dubbed the bi strap queen, making movies with ghe damn thing always on her hips, fucking both men and women alike.

Clarke is one of Lexa's first on screen partners, filled with confidence while Lexa is filled with excitement, having hear nothing but great things about Clarke has an actress and as a scene partner. And I mean from the get go, not only is it obvious the chemistry they have, fucking like the camera isn't even there but also the way they /love/ to fuck each other. Not fully submissive, Lexa adds a teasing element to the role that Clarke responds to naturally, the script nothibg more than a suggestion for these two and the director lets them do their thing. Soon enough, they have movie after movie together, a fan favorite on all sides. And while Clarke continues with her other movies, Lexa seems happy to have found her little niche in the queer production company, between movies with Clarke and solo ones, even if Clarke will sometimes show up to the shoot of those, sometimes behind the scenes, other times participating as she urges Lexa on to fuck herself for her 🤭

I'm not sure if it would be exactly what you want, but I do think it would be a fun idea to write! 🥰

#letter opened #the-colorblind-loser #i think clarke being known as that one chick thats really good with a strap on really funny 😌#her movies definitely fall on the queer side of things with many of the men she fucks also being bi or trans #that dont mean she wont peg a straight men tho! 😂#all the while Lexa prefers to do her own thing #she has some movies with other trans women - i can see clarke being the firdt cis women Lexa says yes to #because she doesnt like the /expectations/ being with a cis woman in the industry puts on her to be the top #and with Clarke's reputation she knows damn well that wont happen

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grissdarling · 1 year

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my mutuals are yaoi & yuri rights activists and im proud :)

#m/f only valid if the woman CLEARLY tops the man and the man drinks Respect Women Juice daily #i dont want to see heterosexuality otherwise. if theyre bi its fine but they need to have the Bisexy Dynamic

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mushroom-punk · 4 months

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once again feeling insane about the way wizards of the coast (ed greenwood and r.a. salvatore) handles gay people

#greenwood and salvatore will be like "yeah this dude has been traveling with one guy who he's obsessed with for years. who also wears #crop tops and earrings and heels canonically #and forms a gang of (mostly) male outcasts. one of whom is canonically queer #but he can't be gay or bi. in fact. lets have him sleep with SOOOO many women so the audience really gets that.#but you know who can be gay? this other dude's abusive and predatory uncle. this guy who is dead. yeah. yeah #dnd campaigns #dnd #this post is about jarlaxle baenre and artemis enteri

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