#but stay in your fucking lane

[lagosbratzdoll]

Many of you in this fandom overstep boundaries. When I talk about anti-blackness and misogynoir in the fandom in general and HoTD specifically, it is not your place as a white/non-Black person to tell me that “akshually, I don’t think it was anti-blackness. I think the writers were just lazy.” 

That is an egregious overstep, and it annoys me very much. Black people in fandom can have conversations about the misogynoir and we can even disagree, but where the fuck do you, as a white/non-Black person, get off? You not only insert yourselves, but you question the experiences of Black people in fandom as if you have any authority or personal understanding. 

I cannot give credence to the opinions of individuals who cannot even recognise the presence of anti-blackness in their shipping communities. There is nothing you can say that I am interested in hearing. Our conversations are not for you to intrude on, they are intra-communal and I am getting sick and tired of you lot inserting yourselves where you don’t belong.

#you guys are irritating me icl #doing my best to refrain from calling you everything but a child of god #but you guys make it so goddamned hard #it's that same spirit of oversabi that leads you idiots to calling black fans of this stupid family nazis #just stay in your lanes #it cannot be that hard to stop talking about shit you have absolutely no idea about #I've seen idiots on here debating people's lived experiences #“well I haven't seen anyone call you slurs so how can I be sure that you've actually been called slurs” #first of all #who are you? and where the fuck of you get off? #who died and made you arbiter of fandom racism? #you are white!!!!! #like dpmo #hate you all very much btw 🫶🏾 #hotd #house of the dragon #asoiaf

[fiona-fififi]

God, the behavior when there's new Taylor Swift content is so fucking exhausting. Like, first of all, lyrics without context do not mean much. I maintain that for any artist. But also not every song has to be brilliant poetry and sometimes it's okay for lyrics to be a little silly or clunky. But regardless, I will never understand the desire of so many people who don't enjoy her work to try to bring down people who love it.

Because yes, sometimes songs don't hit the mark for everyone. And yes, not everything has to be perfect art.

But also, art is subjective and someone who finds meaning in lyrics that are not perfect poetry to you does not mean they should be made to feel lesser for finding poetry where you feel there is none.

#just let people enjoy things jesus christ #i don't care if you don't like it fine #but trying to bring down anyone who enjoys something you've decided isn't art enough for you #is really fucking shitty #especially when that thing is something that a lot of young women enjoy and relate to #just stay in your lane people goddamn #taylor swift #i'm so exhausted #like i wouldn't even call myself a swiftie #but it is so terrible to watch people try to destroy the things other people love for them

[ruthlesslistener]

can people maybe fucking not compare people being sexually aroused by an unconventionally attractive male character and making art of him to water torture please and thank you

#like sorry that queer people (and straights with good taste) like an older monster man :/ #stay in your fucking lane

[crazycatsiren]

"It's none of your fucking business" plays a lot into my advocacies, actually.

#mother witch ramblings #pro choice #bodily autonomy #intersectional feminism #witchblr #pride month #queerness #live and let live #stay in your own fucking lane #mind your own fucking business

[dreamofstarlight]

Can br*ins fans gtfo of the lb

#leafs lb #stay in your lane bb #sending leafs blogs the same fucking anon

[supercantaloupe]

truly detest how pcos tags/forums/etc are absolutely crawling with terfs

#(okay to rb but stay in your lane) #maybe i just want to look and see if anyone else has experienced what i went through today without seeing someone going like #'you'll never be a REAL woman because you DON'T HAVE OVARIES #and will NEVER understand the TRUE WOMANLY EXPERIENCE of having A VERY DISRUPTIVE AND COMPLEX ENDOCRINE AND METABOLIC DISORDER' #like i think there are more important (read: actual) targets to direct our frustration at here than #[checks notes] getting mad at a trans woman for saying she relates to some of the problems caused/faced by having pcos #like. idk. the fucking medical system and lack of research/treatment options #(also. christ. reducing every person w pcos into the 'woman' category automatically bc 'ovary'. #even though it's literally an intersex condition. yikes.) #also i don't know about y'all but i don't wish this on anyone? regardless of gender?? #i actually don't want trans women to have to experience this in order to be considered a True Woman #because i don't want ANYBODY to have to experience this. it sucks! it's not fucking fun! #i just wanted to try and see if other people have gone through the same thing i have. not expand my blocklist by half a mile tonight. #i wanna talk about me #even though i didn't exactly find what i was looking for (😔) and i had to play fucking whack-a-terf while searching #if there's any bright side to be found it's the number of posts/people affirming pcos as an intersex condition/identity #i saw someone say 'if you don't want the [intersex] umbrella for yourself you don't have to take it #but it's nice to have in the closet for a rainy day' #and. man. yeah.

[alchemyofmaya]

I declare myself free from any fantasy worlds other’s may have created with me in other timelines without my consent knowing and unknowingly. I call all of my power and energy back from every being, entity, and every realm of existence, past present and future, across time and space. I pull all of me back from every illusion. I declare myself sovereign and free.

(Please remove me from others delusional realities)

So let it be written, so let it be done.

#I am not your fantasy. #leave me the fuck alone and go back to your mediocre reality.  #I choose to not allow you into my existence and my energy. #I am not anyones anything unless I want to be #protected by golden light of the great central sun #I am so out of your league it’s not even funny. #stay in your lane

[0wllight]

I'm gonna go insane if one more white person leaves some insanely irrelevant comment on my post about poc shippers, is there a way to like delete an old post or smth? LOL i don't think there is bc it's been circulating around like crazy

#tumblr is rigged. LET ME DELETE IT #literally yt people stay in your lane challenge #ive had sooo many weird comments on it from white people #im losing my mind!!!! #i might make a post abt this later lol but i swear to fucking god #ky shut up #my post

[feretra]

since apparently it’s a crime to be jewish on my tumblr, i am… going to be offensively jewish on main again.

one thing that makes me sad? how boring the infernal contracts actually look.

jewish people hang our marriage contracts in our house (and in very religious folks’ homes, it may sincerely be the only thing hanging on the walls) and there are millennias old traditions in how they are done up. specific wordings, schools of style (paper cutting is very in style as we speak, but watercolors and tempera also saw their popularity rise and wane at different times in history and depending on location.)

look at how crazy ornate they are, both now and historically:

they are called ketubah. these are generally gifted by the husband to their wife on the wedding day and outline all the commitments he is required to perform for her both ritually and physically (yes, that) or she is allowed to petition for a get, or a divorce contract from her rabbi and the local beit din (that’s a jewish court, in the most basic senses.)

there was such a fun opportunity there and they fucking missed it.

#ooc #[ muslims have some pretty dazzling marriage contracts as well but im jewish and staying in my lane ] #[ i don’t know the traditions behind those like i know these ] #[ Salome’s grandfather she was very close to was a sofer actually ] #[ they’re the scribes who draw up these contracts and others ] #[ make torah scrolls and mezuzah parchments for your doorways ] #[ this is also why she has fucking beautiful handwriting tbqh ] #[ she would sit and watch him scribe for hours as a child ]

[controlaltdelete-my-existence]

sometimes you think tumblr fandom is bad and then you open twitter

#tumblr #Twitter #astronomically stupid takes skyrocket a surprise amount #sometimes I’m desperate for new stuff (even while working on my own fan projects) and then I open twitter and immediately wished I hadn’t #then I see something moderately funny and stay on a little longer before being struck over the head by opinions so bad I genuinely wish #I hadn’t read them #anyone who ever bravely said 90% of modern fandom is stupid as fuck you are so right keep preaching #‘being in fandom’ can genuinely be such a better experience when you stay in your lane and just ignore the stupid shit online #^tags I need to remember #unrelated

[daydreamerwonderkid]

Not to single out any fandom in particular. But it'd be very, very nice if some of y'all would actually learn how to properly tag your crossover posts.

I'm nearly at the end of my rope here, man.

#dreamer talks #personal #batman #batman fandom #i am so fucking tired #i do everything i can #to filter shit out #and stay in my own fucking lane #but some of y'all just seem determined #not to learn #pls pls pls tag your shit

[crazycatsiren]

Also, don't like the fact that I'm Catholic? Then block me. You don't want religions pushed onto you? You don't get to take religions away from people either. It goes both ways.

#antitheism bullshit #antitheists dni #religious ramblings #religions #religious blogs #religious bloggers #stay in your own fucking lane #white people on social media

[woobie-wan]

Listening to Lord of the Lost and Black Veil Brides. Because I'm a metal cinnamon roll.

*Taylor Swift busting in telling me to listen to her music*

#stay in your fucking lane #anti taylor swift