#but this is an insanely unhealthy way to do it

[o-o-lover-o-o]

WHY PEOPLE LIKES YANDERE

What's a yandere? a yandere are people seemingly nice and kind at first, but then turning violent, possessive, and obsessed toward their love connection.

There is something really alluring about someone who is so consumed by you that they would kill everybody who came near you in order to have you all to themselves. Although the majority of married people will never know such intense devotion in their lives, many of them may be able to relate to others in some small way. Because they have an unfathomable love for you. And to such an extent that it actually makes people nuts.

Yandere characters' love is almost usually misplaced and depressing. They are sometimes oddly sympathetic, especially if you've ever experienced lovesickness, because they are so broken that no one could ever love them. Up until they become completely insane, they are easy to sympathize with.

What drew me into these kinds of characters is because of their unique way of showing love that can make someone feel secure and loved. Many people want to be loved. That's why people prefer yandere to be their lover. Because yandere are overly obsessed and probably won't dump the person they were interested in. So you can be chill and be yourself without worrying of being abandoned but you need to be faithful to not trigger this character (yandere) to kill you or isolate you.

Usually their yandere tendencies peak when they are pushed to the edge to the point that they snap and become unhealthy. This type of people (yandere) are who stick to traditional views in marriage like, ‘till death do us apart’ thingy.

The downside of having a yandere darling is them, constantly being overprotective and insecure that whoever you talk with, they would get jealous and thinking you will leave them (poor yandere 😔). That's why most of the yandere, isolate, chain or kidnap the person they are interested in. It's a literal red flag yet we crave someone that would tie us up so they can have us am i going crazy or nah. Also red means i love u, its heart ❤️….i think that's a good reason enough to make the red flag a yes, right?.

Its nice to have someone who loves you and so devoted and passionate about being in a relationship with you. Someone that will value you. Maybe people just want to be loved or maybe people secretly want to get stab and die

#yandere #yandere thoughts #yandere x reader #yandere core #yancore #yandere obsession #yandere promps #o-o-lover-o-o #yandere analysis #yandere moments #yandere vents #yandere image

[ev1lmorty]

the multiple episodes where rick explicitly is disgusted by child predators to the point someone trying to sexually assault morty immediately makes him actually comfort morty n also crazy murder the assaulter

#this is abt two things which are a) something something extreme reactions to childhood trauma on ricks end #n b) further proof shippers are fucking insane #av.txt #csa mention tw #i think its also like. the way unhealthy ppl like rick can turn their brains off or not care abt abusive behavior #from themselves bc its different for themselves but can explicitly see n be disgusted by it from others #n sliding scale of abuse #i think it was ooc as fuck for rick to punch morty in the snake episode n ignore it like i ignore the dragon thing bc its cheap punchlines #but i do think rick can tell himself emotional abuse n dragging morty around isnt what it is vs physical action is n #why ppl like evil rick push mortys too far #also further the difference between literally dragging morty around n deliberately physically assaulting him in his mind #sorry for this post lol

[ta-bajna-cerna-okybaca]

Now that I finally got to play TWST diasomnia chapter 1 myself, I'm gonna need everyone who said Malleus was a baby throwing a tantrum for no reason to pay me 2000 dollars each

#twst #twisted wonderland #yes it did take me until the second to last day of the new chapter event to finish book 6 what of it #in my defense i had no good leona&jamil cards for chapters 66 and 67‚ i'm glad i managed to do it at all. robe malleus carried the team <3 #anyways! i haven't seen this take in a while but i remember it popping up a lot earlier this year when we got diasomnia on the jp server #as a member of the malleus defense squad i can't bear all this slander and now i have proof it's baseless #his overblot is one of the most justified ones??? what do you mean no reason #He's already established to be constantly left out and lonely because of it #And now he gets hit with the triple whammy of 1) realizing his fellow students' mortality after book 6 #2) learning that his father figure is dying and in one week fucking off to fantasy china to live out his retirement without him #3) his best friend the MC telling him they found a way to un-isekai themself #Maybe he could have weathered one of those‚ but all three at the same time? #Poor guy stood no chance‚ those are hits straight into the trauma #Of course he's gonna have a breakdown! It's not his fault breakdowns in twisted wonderland come with a side of destructive berserking #And to be fair from what i've heard in spoilers all he did was put the whole school to sleep he didn't even destroy all that much #like yes putting everyone to sleep so they can live forever and never leave him is not a healthy reaction #but this is Unhealthy Reactions The School it's not like he's such an outlier in that #leave my boy alone 😭 #excuse my ranting i'm just insane about twisted wonderland and malleus specifically

[darlingdekarios]

can you please. stop talking.

#*taps mic* #is anyone listening #do you hear me going insane #I mean this in an unhealthy way btw #in a toxic I love him so much kinda way #but I NEED him to shut up #raphael bg3 #raphael #bg3 #baldur's gate 3

[always-a-joyful-note]

Enstars is like being impaled with a spear with the words "you can and will love these characters and hate yourself for it" while Idolish7 is like hanahaki in the way that you gladly let these comforting weirdos into your heart and suddenly found flowers choking you to death

#fandom spamdom #note's notes #idolish7 #enstars #ensemble stars #i know hanahaki is a lung thing but the vibes are the same #still rotating the i7 cast in my head btw #why do music related media - whether its anime or musicals or stage plays - hurt me so much? #also i7 is so different from the likes of bsd and enstars in the way that theyre actually all more or less relationship goals??? #i mean yes theres a bit of mutual obsession link click style but it really is overall wholesome #thinking about mezzo and their development as family to each other when their own family abandoned or dropped them #thinking about momo and yuki saying the most insane things to each other and yelling that what the other is saying is unhealthy #thinking about iori being lowkey obsessed with riku and riku finding unwavering support from iori #thinking about yamata and nagi and mitsuki fighting as they try to be adults and work through their traumas #thinking about trigger and their reluctant friendship confessions #thinking about tenn and riku's severely complex relationship #and aya loving her brother but falling under kujos manipulations and tenn being overly self sacrificial and and and #it lured me by being so slice of life and threw me in a world of pain

[8rujaa]

to anyone dealing with ptsd, has there been anything that has helped relieve some of the symptoms?

#im emotionally stuck due to the constant reliving of what happened #i get these weirdly intense flashbacks where i can remember the how the fabric of the couch looked like up close #and how they felt. and how everything looked. the way the colored lights hit the room a certain way #i think i did myself a disservice by thinking i was soooo in love that i didn’t want to forget any details lmao #now i can remember everything like a photograph and sometimes i find myself back in my old apartment and the fear floods my chest #and i can’t breathe and my stomach starts turning it’s terrible. i really felt like i was in hell #i stopped smoking ouid 3 weeks ago bc whenever these flashbacks would happen the high would make them HD and it would send me into a loop #but now i think weed was the thing keeping me above water… it’s been a rough 3 weeks. but before i start smoking again #i wanted to ask if anyone found something else that made it a little easier #it’s been months since our break up and i really want to move on. i’ve tried to meet other people but i’m terrified of men #and i find myself unable to connect with anyone… #i’ve been physically better which i am so grateful for because being unhealthy was my biggest reason i was so depressed #i’ve been doing therapy but i talk about the same thing with her every week. i’m tired of it #i think i’m still in disbelief that they did that to me. i never thought they’d be capable of hurting someone so badly. #i can’t get over the fact that he r***** me for months while i was disabled and pretended not to know what he was doing was bad #i realized he knew when he tried to make it look like i was crazy. that made me really sad. i think i was hoping he was clueless so #i could still believe he was a good person… or at least the man i fell in love with. i was willing to forgive him once he apologized… #when he tried to make it seem like i was going insane the blindfold came off and i saw him for who he really was #like no wonder i was so scared of u dude… no wonder i kept having panic attacks anytime we were together and i couldn’t sleep next to u #i’ve been afraid to admit that shit broke me as a person. i don’t think i’ll ever be the same. i can’t function. #plus knowing i stayed for her bc i was worried for her and didn’t want her to experience the same thing without someone there bc i realized #how good he was at gaslighting and lying. only to find out she was waiting for an excuse to get rid of me… she wanted me gone… #i went thru all that for nothing… #and i still don’t understand why each time i tried to leave for my own good- to get medical help and support they begged me to stay!!! why #brain vomit

[kil9]

I wish when ppl talked about eating healthy they actually meant eating healthy, and not a roundabout way of saying "being skinny". what's considered "health food" is food that doesn't make you fat, no matter how harmful it actually is for human consumption. and what's considered "unhealthy" is what makes you fat, no matter how nourishing it is.

like. to eat healthy you have to eat.. enough. and this means also eating carbs and fats and sugars, sorry !!! this also means sometimes you will become fatter because this is what your body wants to do to store nutrients

like if a skinny person is eating handfuls of flax seeds (very toxic to humans and potentially lethal. ie not healthy) ppl will go yaay health food<3 skinny legend !!! but if I (fat) am eating a burger with cheese and tomato and lettuce and onion (has basically every food group inside, and protein, iron, calcium, vitamin c, etc. and will give me energy for a good portion of the day) ppl get disgusted because this is socially designated Fat Food :'(

like. get over it. in your perfect ideal future where everyone eats healthy, ppl will still be fat !!! get over it ! and people will also eat things that straight up ARE unhealthy because they want to ! and you still have to get over it :(

#99.txt #last time i tried to make this point i got hated on :p #this shit is so imgraned in our society its UN. REAL. #ppl piss me off when they talk about america specifically. and how bad it is #these ppl will unironically be talking about all the problems with america (which there are so many) #and be like ''yeah its so bad over there 🥺 the racism. the lack of healthcare. homelessness. and also people are fat !! 😰'' #LIKE. DO U THINK MAYBE ONE OF THOSE THINGS IS NOT AT ALL COMPARABLE TO THE OTHERS. HUHHHH #its so insane to me #im just so annoyed aaaaaaaaaghaggsh shut up shut up !!!! skinny ppl shut up for EVER #its like the older i get and the more confident i get in the way i look the more i realise what BULLSHIT it is #that ive been made to feel awful and ashemed of myself for so many years..... for WHAT ???? im literally hot ???!??!?!? #your stupid skinny society was keeping me from the truth for so long 😭😭😭 the truth that i am a fine piece of ass #and its also insane that half of these skinny instagram influencers are like. malnourishing and poisoning themselves to stay skinny #BUT THIS IS CONSIDERED HEALTHY ????? #if anyone needs to be saved from unhealthy eating its them 🤨🤨🤨

[aria0fgold]

Okay like, I think it'd be too long to put in the tags of the last post so I'm making my own post but ngl that method helped me A LOT. It helped me unlearn So Much stuff by having that first thought, interrogating it, and replacing it. Cuz way back, the thing I'd do is have the first thought, hate myself for it, never try to have it again which isn't helpful At All. And then I reached a point in my life where it was like, have the first thought, avoid it, which is just as worse.

And then last year, when I realized A Lot of stuff bout me, I had to work on unlearning so much during then and like okay, this is like treading the territory of "you gotta be unwell a lil bit to heal" typa thing, like imagining your favourite characters Right There. But mine is like, a lil to the left. Cuz when I realized all the stuff I gotta unlearn, there wasn't any character from a media that can count for that just yet (I got hyperfixated on Cain months after the realization but if I've known him earlier he would've ngl took on the patron saint role in my life of unlearning unhealthy stuff)

So what I did was... used an OC. It wasn't Alec and Ray surprisingly enough cuz in my head they have their own lives and it was a lil harder for me to put them in that role. And it just so happens I have One OC that is specifically made with an awareness that makes it seem like he's a self-insert but not really. It's Alerik. The designated creator of the universe that is practically aware of the truth behind that universe and his own existence so it was easier to pull him. And it worked.

Cuz whenever I do the have first thought, interrogate it, replace it thing, I can't get it right in a way that when I think of interrogating Myself, my brain's immediate reaction is always "hatred" so then when I got Alerik to do the interrogation, my brain couldn't react immediately cuz it isn't just Me, there's Alerik now and he's both me and not at the same time, he's a piece of me. That I love. So my brain couldn't react with "hatred" towards a character I made with love, it worked. I could interrogate myself, figure out "why" I reacted the way I did, "why" I had that first thought, and what I could do moving forward without hating myself or avoiding anything. And I love it. Cuz after a year of just that, slow and steady, I managed to unlearn most of the bad habits and get rid of the self-hate. I love myself now! And the world! And everything just seems so much beautiful this way.

#aria rants #yall rlly just be insane in a way that you gotta pull a character to help with your healing and unlearning of unhealthy stuff #it just so happens that i did it a lil to the left but it still worked! it ngl only works on alerik cuz it comes easy for him somehow #like i dont have to concentrate or focus or anything. if i had smth i need help with in regards to myself he'd just pop up #i still do it from time to time cuz improvement doesnt just happen once! but i dont do it as frequently which is a good thing i think #like whenever i catch myself thinking really negatively im like: whoa there. alerik cmere cmere #and i just give myself a few minutes of silence of figure stuff out. also kinda funny how in order for me to silence my brain's #habit of self-hate. i had to trick it by pulling a character i love in front like a shield just to stop that one habit #like as much as i hated myself back then. all the ocs i made are made out of love. it was where i redirected my love to #so the thought of hating my own characters never rlly crossed my mind at all. even the ''villain'' ones. so my brain couldnt #redirect the hatred meant for Me towards a character i made with a love that i specifically directed to when i couldnt direct it to myself #ya need a lil bit of trickery to get by the habits that your brain has been trained by. continuously. and then someday. #all those bad habits will slowly go away. may not even be permanently but itll be okay! itll come back and leave but it wont stay

[khlur]

wtaf is liz seiberts on

#she went frm doing content abt her experiences in the modelling industry #to going batshit fucking insane with food in a super unhealthy way #not even unhealthy in the ways that ppl in an industrialized society generally conceive of #off the rails truly #unpasteurized milk?????? ok go off ig

[succubi-tch]

I like how people in the comments of that "tag your traumatizing incest media" post are trying to one-up pr*shippers by going "we're all just saying to tag your works, idk why you're getting so mad" while I'm in the bg having said something like You people talk about coping mechanisms like there are no others.

#someone with the url proshippers-against-censorship went on a frenzy and got combative w a lot of people me included #except what they said was really dumb like ''ficto #''fiction is the TOP way for people to cope'' or something #like wow yeah i had no idea! I've literally never been traumatized myself. difference is i dont go around reading and writing about the #abuse i endured. why? cause it's unhealthy and i deserve better. and you people do too!!! so idk why they want to cling to the whole #''its my maladaptive coping mechanism and you can't say shit to me!'' like you don't deserve to cope in a HEALTHIER way?? in a better way #that actually relieves your pain instead of romanticizes it??? #fucking insane the shit theyll get mad at you for man. #I'll rb the post in a moment so you know which one im talking about

[classical-vanity]

How does one even get over existential dread

#I’ve had it all week and it’s giving me anxiety <3 #i feel like spring is always the worst for my anxiety #and idk it feels like I’m trying but it’s never good enough #(my unhealthy perfectionism yes) #and then I’m also like what even is the point to anything #and then it’s like thinking of all the people in the world and how many we are and how it’s hard for everyone #and we’re all with our own lifestyles and traditions and whatnot #that’s always overwhelming #my brain zooms out too much as my bestie put it #and I also feel like I’m failing at life #even tho that’s not really a thing ???? #25 isn’t old but it feels like I fucked up my life already which is so dumb #I know rationally a lot of things are fucked up the way my anxiety puts it #but i am still not like over it #and this isn’t like new stuff #I’ve had this sort of thought process for years and I can’t seem to get out still #do I just need to go back to obsessively reading romance again #so I’m no thoughts head empty just unrealistic scenarios #do I just gotta ride it out until I’m 30 and I’ll magically get less insane #do I just start looking for a rich husband #okay rant over #feel free to ignore me #this week’s been rough #I’ll hopefully get over this soon #tbd later

[dumbasswhatever]

kpop fandom is incredibly strange bc it views "stanning" a group as being more about the people in the group and not the music. which leads to an environment where it's totally normal to see people proclaiming themselves to be fans of a group that hasn't actually released music yet, and on the flip side of things, people in youtube comments of more established groups will regularly say that they aren't a fan of this group but they have listened to and loved literally every song by that group so they're thinking about "getting into them"

#sorry i know it's bad for me but i've been watching videos about kpop #kpop fandom is way separated from just like. any other fandom. bc it views being a fan as an active identity #you can't just listen to this groups music nono you have to stream it and vote for them and buy their albums! think of the idols!!! #which definitely ties into the way kpop fandoms are the only fandoms nowadays with actual names. remember whovians and shit? they're still #doing this in kpop. moreover. the companies themselves are releasing the fandom names. bc this unhealthy fan behavior is how they get money #they need people to treat stanning a group like a job bc that's how their groups win awards and get recognition and fame #add to that the fact that the market is incredibly oversaturated right now and. well. it's bad #stayc was the next big thing then aespa then billie then ive then le sserafim now newjeans. litrally insane how short the shelf life is

[munamania]

something that makes me feel guilty is the fact that seeing that persons face rn literally makes me angry. they walked into class and i nearly winced. and in all fairness they were quite kind to me. outside of the several kind of odd red flags. girl whatever. to be quite frank i am a horny bastard and vocal proud etc but few people interest me enough to actually want to hang out with and get to know And i have deep seated intimacy issues so it's like. we really dont have a shot unless the circumstances r exactly right on a full moon perfect thursday of a month etc like. well and tbh i probably would have fucked around with this person but i dont... care... about some big relationship w them.. and i know i could be a relationship girl like eventually i have it in me to have a muse that's what im built for i think idc but not rn... rn i need to hang out with my friends and do my film stuff and have people that maybe wanna make out sometimes is that so much to ask for. for a lesbian at a bar to want to make out perhaps. ** for there to be lesbians at the bars to potentially make out with.

#and i am quite lonely yes thank u for asking. yeah someday id love to get to know someone again in the context of falling in love #what about it. so what now. i dont think im meant for our understanding of romantic love but boy do i crave it #why am i having this moment rn. well ok consider im on my period all i could think about this morning was [redacted] and both parties #of my dyke drama were back in class today. and the one gay person that i think has a crush on me but we dont see each other super often #so im just. guessing based on the way awkward lesbians communicate. idk #and i feel really just mean but i quite literally dont have it in me to pretend to be nice to this person anymore #i wasnt like. some villain for realizing we were acting really coupley and being like oh shit because i didnt want to hurt them #. and trying to communicate and put some distance between us when i thought they were probably in too deep. it's unfortch it took me a sec #but jesus christ yk i cant walk around and feel awkward about it forever. and im frustrated by the fact that we're just acting so odd #but again frankly i think it's largely bc they have an unhealthy relationship with dating. THROWING HORIZONTAL PUNCHES HERE. #OK. STONES FROM A GLASS HOUSE. IM AWARE. REAL RECOGNIZES REAL. #and YET. despite my past insanity. ive been kind. i can understand disappointment and a little awkwardness #but jesus would you rather i pretend to be in love with you for months and then really break your heart. #this is where i get mean and make a joke like well hey if we couldve had weird really mediocre sad angry dyke sex abt it #that would have been cool with me. but alas. we're here instead and it's fucking with my friendships too #and like we were kind of ok friends too. what now. its just u me and this brick wall u built between us bitch #now was EYE not answering texts for a minute. we dont need to get into it. #because the thing IS if i dont play things exactly right. and im not good at that without prior planning. i will accidentally say or do #something that i know. again. from being insane myself. would be just enough for them to hold onto hope #and im not trying to do that to them you know. i was trying to help with the detachment. shitty as it may be. i dont fucking know dude #this post is going to make me look kind of. well. whatever u guys have seen me at my worst. mostly. and post #ok one last thing sorry if this makes me sound like i have a giant ego. like wow heres this person who really liked me and im just shitting #all over them. not what im meaning to do but whatever

[la-cocotte-de-paris]

okay but one thing I'd LOVE to know is whether Edwige really wasn't a jealous person

#she said in her memoir i think that she was never a particularly jealous woman in relationships and i'm like...how... #even with womanisers she claimed she was chill (unless she was doing the same thing all along lol but she always claimed to be loyal) #so as a jealous gal myself (tryna work on it myself) i'm just like HOW COULD YOU FUNCTION like wow the health i'm so envious lol #i need me someone a little obsessed and possessive to match my jealous nature lmao #so we can be obsessed (in a nice way not unhealthy way ofc) with each other instead #like how can someone be in a monogamous relationship w a womaniser/wanderer AND BE OKAY WITH IT #the self confidence that must require plsss #i admire non-jealous people so much like show me your ways #like...am i just insane or does anyone else get what i mean? #roacc #lmk your own thoughts!! i am so fascinated and curious by these things

[risingsunresistance]

#aaaaaaugh dude I MISS HIM i dont know what to say that hasnt already been said #but posting is so hard talking about him is so hard #every day i wait for his youtube to post a new video or for the technodad account to be like 'LOL YOU NERDS ACTUALLY FELL FOR IT' #he was just playing a long-con prank and It'll Be Fine and he just wanted to distract us while he worked on some new insane project #how am i still fully in denial 5 months later. it's almost been half a year #i cant watch his videos anymore. it was easy the 1st week and then it was impossible then it was easy again now it's impossible again #drawing in general is hard bc he was all i was drawing. he still is but im drawing WAY less and with pretty much no passion behind it #cant draw stuff for myself i just wanna draw him. partly bc of him but also bc that's where i made all my friends with you guys :( #i dont wanna go back to what i used to do. i wanna stay here. but it's really hard #i know i dont *have* to make my own posts and i can just reblog and ramble n stuff but. it feels weird not to #i save all my favorite things here. there's still clips i havent taken. art i havent made. fics i've never wrote (and never will lol) #i dont WANT to stop. it's hard to force myself to get back into it tho. there's no easy way to talk about him #it feels borderline unhealthy trying to keep it up #but i keep going into swings of ''i love it here so much i love you guys'' and ''i cant keep going im not strong enough'' #so like. which is it. what's REALLY wrong??? i wish i could just go back to how things were aaaaa #idk what i mean by that really. just wish i could find some normalcy in it all whatever that would mean for me #idk if my issue is Him Being Dead or trying to run a blog for a guy who died. some combination. some secret third thing. augh #chat #tw death

[ishouldbedoingalright]

i would type a big ol' paragraph about jane and beard's relationship but I also can't be bothered so tis staying in the ol' noggin

edit: did it anyway lols

#let's just say it's not as crazy as everyone is making it out to be #yes jane is insane #but so is beard #dont get me started on the word toxic #basically yes their relationship is all sorts of unhealthy #but like just cos its on a tv show doesnt mean everything needs to be fine and dandy #yeah they got married #yeah they stayed together #objectively we know that probably isnt healthy #but beard is in love with the woman #he didnt sleep for 3 days #we know that and that's his decision #she loves him in her own weird way too #i understand how relationships can be toxic as much as the next person and sure this is an example #but what you gonna do? #sometimes that happens #sometimes that's just how it goes #my main point is. just cos it's a fictional tv show doesnt mean everything needs to be fine and dandy #beard's happy so ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ #and ted not going to the wedding. #Brendan's answer is spot on #you dont have to go to someone's wedding to be their best friend #some people don't see weddings as the huge things that they are #and that's fine #Brendan's answer was a perfect summary of friendships and more specifically ted and beard's friendship #also while im at it #ted going to kansas is also fine #doesn't erase his progress #if you ask me hes made a fuck ton of progress #oh look im out of tags. guess thats all ill be saying on the matter. peace