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ahti-the-janitor · 3 months

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#been a while since i did one of these #again no one asked #but you're welcome #back to my shitposting #tom zane #ilmo koskela #jaakko koskela #rose marigold #alan wake #alan wake 2

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yfantis · 3 months

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I'm not sure what that means. Is a 'mamma mia' appropriate?

#super mario bros #mario #luigi #comic #rtvs #i don't know what compelled me to make this #but you're welcome #should maybe put a uhhhhh #volume warning #on this one boys sdklflksd

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hufflepuffhabs · 1 year

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I'm back from the dead (for these)! 🫶

Do I even have to explain this further?

-we have the smart nice people (Eric, Robert, Pedri)

-and the dumb nice people (Frenkie, Ferran, Sergi, Iñaki)

-the mean ones (Balde, Ousmane, Jordi, Arnau)

-the just like gavi ones (Ansu, Marcos)

-the normal ones (Ronald, Jules, Raphinha)

-and the idc ones (the rest)

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sapphire-weapon · 9 months

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Realized that, if Ashley had been pulled completely out of herself and fallen limp, she would've either slid out of Leon's grip, or he'd have had to hold her more around her waist where her center of gravity is. With what little bit of her own strength/awareness she has, she clings to him before Saddler fully takes control of her.

I wonder if, when Leon saw Ashley hold the knife to her own throat, he saw a mirrorlike reflection of his own thoughts of self-harm staring back.

#resident evil 4 #leon kennedy #ashley graham #eagleone #no i didn't have to put that last part in the post #but you're welcome

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noeavoiding · 4 months

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Still thinking about this photo of John Lynch I found while looking around The Head HBO tag on instagram

#this was on moe dunfords ig btw #and I don't know who the other guy is #but you're welcome #john lynch

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mendfri · 1 year

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that one bowtie animation from over a year ago buti put it in a gif format

#nobody asked for this #but you're welcome #spamton neo #sneo #spamton #i frequently study the mouth shapes from this btw #i made this anim in a cold sweat and forgot how I did most of the things #teehee

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gayfreeloder · 2 years

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THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT SYSTEMS BEFORE FAKECLAIMING THEM

-Longpost From a Singlet

SYSTEMS FORM FROM TRAUMA. Don't go harassing abuse survivors because you have nothing better to do. You wouldn't do that to someone with PTSD.

SYSTEMS DONT HAVE AN AGE LIMIT. While dissociative barriers must form in early childhood, a host can know about other alters no matter how old they are. It's more common for systems to figure their shit out when they're adults because they often are able to distance themselves from abusers.

ALTERS ARE DIFFERENT PEOPLE. A basic one, but important. Alters can have very different memories, ages, genders, religions, etc etc. They aren't fugue states. They are different consciousness sharing the same brain.

YOU DONT NEED A DIAGNOSIS TO BE A SYSTEM. A depressed person doesn't start being depressed when they've been diagnosed. An ADHD person still struggled with symptoms before they were diagnosed. Many systems find out they're plural because other alters decide they want to work together.

"YOU WOULDNT KNOW IF YOU HAD THAT." The classic! While it is true that some systems keep their hosts or specific alters out of the loop, alters are people just as much as the host is. Alters may want to live a way that clashes with the host's life. Imagine you have a partner that has a very specific idea of how they want to live and that limits what you're able to do. Maybe they want to move to the countryside, but you love the big city. The problem is that alters share one body and big life decisions made by one alter effect the whole system. To achieve the things they want to do, alters may show themselves to the host so they are able to voice their opinions. It's their life, too.

ALTERS CAN COMMUNICATE. Communication is the first step toward healing. They literally live in the same brain. Dissociative amnesia is a very complicated subject, and it can be difficult for some people to understand. For some systems, barriers can keep some alters from speaking to one another. But in some communication is very good and alters can share memories, emotions, dreams, etc.

INTROJECTS ARE VALID. People can't choose what alters form (usually), and if it happens to be an introjection of a person or character, it just is. Introjects know they aren't literally the person they are sourced from. It can be difficult to reconcile this, however, because some feel as if they were plucked directly out of their source and shoved into somewhere they don't belong. They can have pseudomemories, which are a phenomenon observed in singlets, as well. Trauma from pseudomemories is a real thing and should be treated as such. Trauma from being away from their source is also valid. Unfortunately many systems also form alters of abusers because of trauma bonding or several other reasons.

ANIMAL ALTERS ARE VALID. Jesus Christ I hate this one. Animal alters or nonhuman alters often come from traumatic events that made the system feel less than human. Please do not ask stupid questions about their gender or sexuality. I will fight a bitch in defense of all the dog alters out there, goes for object alters too

LITTLES ARE CHILDREN. Literally have the processing power and function of a child. Do not sexualize them, do not interact with them if you don't know how to act around them.

INNERWORLDS ARE REAL. Dissociation is a mechanism of retreating into oneself. A child may make themself a place that is better than where they are now and go there when they are unable to process the world around them. Systems can form innerworlds later in life if the need arises. Many innerworlds are very basic; just a front room or a black void. Many are more complex; islands, towns, cities, planets, even galaxies. The size and complexity all depends on what the system needs.

SYSTEMS DO NOT HAVE AN UPPER LIMIT. Once splitting alters becomes a mechanism for resolving and dealing with stress, the number of alters can rise exponentially. Polyfragmented systems have over 100 alters. Some systems have hundreds to even thousands of alters. Systems split at different rates and have different thresholds for stress before they split. It's all dependant on the individual system.

SYSTEMS DO NOT STOP SPITTING. If there's stress enough to get a particular system to form a new alter, they'll form no matter how old the system's body is. Splitting is a coping mechanism. New alters may become infrequent as the body ages, but that's mostly because of the system's ability to stay out of traumatic situations.

Some more things to add:

Please leave endos alone. If you don't believe in endos, blindness to trauma is common in dissociative disorders, they likely just don't have access to the memories of why they formed. Personally I'm open to the idea of endogenesis, and unfortunately this is a criminally under researched area.

Every system is different. Don't compare systems. Initial trauma and comorbidities make them vastly different from each other. An RA system will be much different than a system formed from SA or neglect.

Singlet isn't a slur. Please never talk to me if you think it is

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gin-juice-tonic · 2 years

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I really love your handwriting it's very pretty (And also thank you for the tag IDs my wifi's slow so i'll usually pause when I see those so I can see the comic)

Genuinely. Nobody has ever even been lukewarm toward my handwriting before lmao.

[Stan: you are the only person with that opinion ever. I can't even read what this says

*Note: Thank you, anon]

#Also Im not sure what an id tag is #But you're welcome #Ask stuff

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stanleyparableaudio · 2 years

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just wanted to say thanks for running your blog! love tsp, and it's always a delight seeing an audio file on my dash. not to mention your blog really helped me on a coding project. anyways, hope you have a nice day/night!

a coding project?

#curious #but you're welcome

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demiromantic-daily · 2 years

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movies are all “the minute you come out to anyone that information will get out to the world” but in my experience people never talk to others about a third person being queer maybe unless they are certain the person is out and everyone already knows. I think we’ve gotten to a point where outing is well-known to be not cool and homophobia isn’t cool either (where I live anyway) but basically you’re most likely safe coming out to trusted people or people who are sensible enough to understand how outing can be bad and a violation of trust. Queer people are sort of the best to come out to since they understand the drive for community but also the need for protection and to do things in your own terms. It’s also perfectly fine to ask someone to not pass on what you told them and they should respect that wish. The older a person is too, the less likely they will be to understand something other than a very explicit statement like “I’m/other person is gay.” Something more like “I’m not interested in dating” is gonna fly over their heads a lot of the time as an adolescent phase. That certainly makes things easier if you or someone else slip up.

#i guess i probably have a decent number of followers who aren't early 20s or younger #i think you're the minority on this site #but you're welcome #and i only have insight on milennial/gen z generations so feel free to comment also!#also non-western people feel free to comment!#mine

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sirsheoth · 6 months

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I kiss you with tongue and as that happens I slide an ibuprofen in your mouth since you have a headache

#this is almost verbatim something I told my partner #she suggested it'd be a good tumblr post so I'm putting it out in the wild #you're welcome #words of sheoth

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catmask · 2 months

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actually, i did want to ask you all - a commonly shared sentiment about character creators in games or dressup games online is there's very frequently a lack of black hairstyles.

so it made me curious - what are some black hairstyles you wish would be included more in character creators/dressup games? or ones you get really happy to see are included?

#you're welcome to just comment the name or rb with pictures!#scratchpost #both out of curiosity because i would like to make a picrew at some point #and also because i like hearing about what kind of hairstyles people like :D #txt

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sergle · 10 months

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i don’t make the rules AT ALL, but if you mostly spend time in Gay People Spaces then you know about 28 ppl who look like this

#the pronouns and everything vary but THE LOOK? it's CONSISTENT #this is not a roast. you're welcome for the free commission if you look like this #sergle.txt

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mysticalxmagical · 1 month

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Thanks.

...if this is who I think it is, please don't send me any asks-

#but you're welcome #i guess-

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koshercosplay · 5 months

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it's time for my yearly chanukah merchandise ratings! how are there always so many to choose from. as always, this year is a doozy and I am as bitter as ever lmao

this was quite literally labeled "hanukkah cone tree." gee I wonder which winter holiday is The One With The Trees. surely it's the jewish one with all the fire. let's make it blue and white just in case. 4/10 there is no excuse for this

why are the chairs so far apart. why is there nobody there. why are there so many grapes. what even are those green things. why is there soup. will the mysteries never cease. 7/10 purely because it's pretty

I for one welcome our jewish alien cousins. not sure what this has to do with chanukah but I want to hear about jewish life on mars so 8/10 friends come in out of the cold and have a latke with me

the more I looked at this, the worse it got. there's a literal christmas tree and tinsel but oh it's got blue lights so it's fine. and as we all know, children regularly hold fully lit candle menorahs with mittens while going door to door during a snowstorm. I guess who are we to stifle a child's latent desire for arson. 5/10 somebody save that poor dying kitten

this poor magen dovid is being forcefully converted to christianity and we need to help it. quick somebody put this on a sufganiyot stack. 4/10 we all know the intended target audience isn't interfaith families okay

do I even have to say it. please just. just stop. get One (1) Jew to weigh on your hanukkah products, I beg you. -392928373/10 walmart owes me a personal apology for making me see this with my own two eyeballs

I spent a full five minutes staring at this shirt desperately trying to make it make sense. I shouldn't have bothered. it's worse than the hebrew could ever be. 2/10 amposzu zusach mezchamal to you too

congratulations, once again you wrote gibberish. this says nothing. it's not chanukah, it's not happy holidays, it's nothing. the letters on the dreidel are an ACRONYM people! there's an order! 3/10 it's antisemitic that this has over 4,000 sales (thank you @quartzfox for sending this to me. now you all have to see it too.)

now these are CUTE. and the dreidel letters are in the correct order too, which is unfortunately impressive. 10/10 no notes, it has cats, would wear

(previous years 1, 2, 3)

#you know the downside of making this post every year is that.#i then have to crawl through the worst of Holiday Internet #to bring you all the Prime Selection #so you're welcome lmao #i do it so you don't have to 🫡#enjoy this year's ratings!#chanukah #hanukkah #ratings

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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 2 months

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i watched My Neighbor Totoro for the first time, here's my chronological viewing experience:

woo-hoo! dusty old japanese house with japanese architectural details aplenty

these kids got some ENERGY my goodness

family dynamic's adorable. peak quality dad humor

kids: our house is haunted. parents: that's so cool!

hell yeah, wrinkled old lady rep. we need more friendly old women with potato faces and warts like storybook witches. the backbone of society, these ladies

Plot Summary: Small Child Bothers Local Wildlife

sacred tree sacred tree sacred tree

Introducing Totoro! nobody said this fucker's got TEETH???

Uh-Oh! Inadequate Parental Supervision Detected

(you misplaced your four year old! you're not supposed to do that)

4-year-old: i met a magic forest spirit. dad: oh shit fr?

4-year-old: *angrily hugs sister* missed u bitch

this small child has a smile like a toad. like a really really cute toad. like the cutest toad in all existence. i love her she's perfection please just let this child be happy

rice paddies are so pretty....so back breaking....rice is such a prissy crop

*my crush is stranded in a rainstorm* takethisumbrellait'syoursnowBYE *runs away in panic im so good at flirting*

Giant Chinchilla Learns To Hold Umbrella, Is Fucking Delighted By Experience

take this, it will help you on your quest! *hands u trail mix wrapped in a leaf*

LO-FI HIP HOP STUDY LIST!

crouching down to peer at dirt--A++ top notch foundational childhood experience

mom has a big ass forehead

honey! the chinchillas are performing Rituals in the backyard again

help yeah let's jack and the bean stalk this shit

huh so we're all just climbing aboard the giant chinchilla's tiddies now ok

class trip!

the pure adrenaline of Vegetable Gardening

no! the small child is crying! she is bawling her eyes out. no no no. i can't cope with this. emotionally i cannot cope 🥺🥺🥺

i've only had Mei one hour but if anything happens to her i will raze this earth and everyone on it

please someone make this small child smile again

oh no the tall child is crying too

i can't take this. my heart can't take this.

i need a drink

small child running determined to deliver magic veggies to the hospital. this kid is my hero

she is also unsupervised. so, so unsupervised

babe you are FOUR

godDAMMIT ghibli, you cannot give me watercolor sunsets while a small child is missing. u are killing me. my heart is giving out. this is me, experiencing heart failure.

Totoro to the rescue!

no wait CATBUS to the rescue!

i admit i initially thought the cat was a creep. alice in wonderland prejudiced me. i have revised my notions of smiling cats

i've decided the cat is a metaphor for the magic of a robust public transport system

MEI'S OKAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and so is mom. she's a lovely lady im sorry for what i said about her forehead. it's a noble forehead.

happy ending YES bitch!!!!!!

ok. ok ok ok. that was magical.

(as a first-time adult viewer i was worried i wouldn't be able to Access the Magic. but i could and i did and it was incredible. that was culture. that was ART. joy distilled into animated form. holy rites of childhood. i understand now. how glorious, this world we grow out of. how full of marvels. i'm going outside to smell grass and sun and get dirt under my fingernails. miraculous.)

#mr ghibli please you cannot do this to my heart #totoro #my neighbor totoro #spoilers #?#initially i misspelled Totoro as Tortoro throughout the entire post #i fixed it but dear heavens i was tempted to leave it in. you're WELCOME

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