#fluttergirl

[bpd-vampesse]

🕸 ～ FLUTTERGIRL

FLUTTERGIRL — a gender connecting to fluttershy being a girl, being a girl and being fluttershy, fluttershy and girls

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🕸 ～ COINED BY THE VAMPESSE

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#fluttergirl #fluttershy #coining #coining post #gender coining #liom #liom coining #liom gender #liom safe #liom term #mogai coining #mogai gender #mogai flag #mogai #mogai safe #mogai term #flag coining #xeno coining #mogai friendly #xenogender #gender #mlp #mlp fim #mlp g4 #my little pony #mlp friendship is magic #mlp fluttershy #my litte pony friendship is magic #girl

[magpiewithacamera]

We found the spot where Andy took this picture. Beautiful place full of trees very calm.

#andy wood #seattle #mother love bone #fluttergirl

[jpegfluttergirl]

November 9th: the "theying" of trans woman

I've noticed this issue for years but i was reminded about it when I was on tiktok and this huge argument started in the comments, and what started this argument was someone misgendering Hunter Shafer by saying "they" the whole video.

It was this long thread of comments, I think like 120 or so comments going back and forth from several people arguing from either side. So many people use the excuse of “oh but you can say they to anyone! It's gender neutral” and others telling the commenters, “no, she’s a she, and she doesn’t want to be called they”. 

If you don't know what pronouns someone uses, that's when you say “they”. When someone clearly says their pronouns are she or he or something else, and they don't wanna be called they, then don't call them they. In the case of hunter schaffer, she’s a she, so why wouldn’t you call her she?

The reason why I called the title “the theying of transwoman” is because this is from my experience of being a transwoman and I've experienced and seen this a lot, not only online, but in my own life too. It is really telling to me when someone calls me "they," they dont actually see me as a woman. when it is said to me it's very often used as a deceptive way of misgendering me, because they don't want to call me he cuz that would be blatant and they don't want to say she because they don’t actually consider me a women, but if they say “they” then its a way for them to misgender me “without” misgendering me. And if I correct them, there is always the excuse of “oh it's gender neutral! I can say it to anyone”. It's underhanded, deceptive, and snake-like.

The moral of this: I wish people would just respect people. I'm not asking for much.

Fluttergirl

#transgirl #mtf trans #trans blog #trans woman #mtf #transgender #transsexual #transfem #lgbtq #trans

[jame7t]

new marvel heroes Hoverboy and Fluttergirl are here to stop all aerial misdemeanors except ones that are too high up

[foolstemper]

🎶✨️when u get this u have to put 5 songs u actually listen to, publish. then, send this ask to 10 of your favourite followers (non-negotiable, positivity is cool)🎶

thank you @reignoerme and @mikemccreadyscutelittleass

i tag @magpiewithacamera @starchild0985 @fluttergirl - and anyone else who wants’ta!

#YOU MAY THINK IM JOKING #but there have been months of my life where i have #in fact #almost obsessively listened to these #don’t judge me or ELSE #personal

[josiebelladonna]

the amount of people in the grunge fandom who are like “i want to move to seattle because i’m a grunge fan” is honestly hilarious because i have been to seattle a couple of times, and i also have friends up there, and i can easily tell you that it is nothing like that anymore.

what you want to see up there is very minuscule and it’s one of those things where it’s like… you really, REALLY have to know where to look, like social media being a double edged sword really comes out in this way. you see like—i’m just going to use an old example but—jeff ament repainting the mother love bone wall during quarantine and you might think “oh, it’s coming back”, but see, offhand, i couldn’t tell you where it is. i have to look it up or ask one of my friends up there where it is and even then, they would probably have to look for it. west seattle is nothing like it is in singles: it’s actually kind of upscale now.

i see people on here like magpiewithacamera or fluttergirl (who blocked me for some reason, one of the first to have blocked me without a good or even legitimate reason because it’s not like i said anything bad about her before—i just said something she disagreed with and reacted in childish fashion before it was in vogue to do such a thing—y’all really need to stop doing this, not just to me but in general. you can’t be so butthurt by someone else’s opinion that you feel compelled to block them out of your life. i get it with myself because i’m just a naturally born devil’s advocate but it’s not like i bully people, though). anyway, i see the two of them going to see jerry cantrell and calling themselves “grunge tourists” and i… have to laugh. the whole “20 years behind” trope was going to hit gen x at some point but i didn’t think it was going to be so depressing, though. like… you guys are nostalgic for a time when it was considered cool to do nothing all day and heroin was commonplace.

i understand the nostalgia completely: this scene is precious to me. i discovered it when i was a kid growing up during a time of economic hardship and with alcoholic parents and so it resonated with me. but when applied to reality, it gets rather ridiculous and not to mention, depressing, real quick.

i have a friend who moved to the northwest from pittsburgh back in 2015. in the seven years she has lived in seattle, she was homeless for months, in not one but two abusive relationships, got hooked on heroin, and almost overdosed and died on the street. she’s clean and in portland right now but i can tell just looking at her she isn’t happy.

i have another friend who moved to seattle in 2016 from moreno valley, out in the desert. she wanted the full gen x/grunger experience, complete with her being a musician. i could probably count on one hand how many times i’ve seen her play guitar and sing (singing voice is okay but it’s nothing to write home about. she sounds like every other female singer right now.) every time i see her, she’s on a tiresome feminist rant—and i mean, tiresome. just to give you an idea, she’s one of those pro-life feminists and there is literally no convincing her of a second opinion, like maybe she’s wrong or her beliefs are actually very destructive and lined up with extreme prejudice.

take this from me: when you make any sort of art, promote the shit out of it. your rants and thoughts can be there (and fuck anyone who says otherwise because it’s not their account or career), but your creation should be the rule, not the exception. i have no clue what she wants, whether she wants to be in a band or go solo. i have never seen her record anything—when he worked as a seafood chef, chris always found a way to record himself.

the one place i would say is genuinely close to the whole dream of the 90s spiel is georgetown in the southern part of town, right outside of sea-tac, and… i’m not a liar, i won’t lie to you guys—i wouldn’t recommend going there alone. just trust me on this. don’t go to georgetown by yourself.

it’s also crazy expensive. i’m seeing accounts like wizwoe trying to save up money from their art to move up there and god bless them for it but every time i see their art or a promo from them, i just think “dude, you’re going to be 50 by the time you get settled in up there” (and a lot can change in a year, too, who knows what seattle will be like 20 years from now or next year, or, hell, even six months from now). i’m a little biased here because every time i see wizwoe’s art, it’s like “god, this is so close to being good in my eyes but it’s just a bit off, though”. i want to like it but it does very little for me, like i don’t get the appeal.

speaking of art, i have another friend up there who recently started making art of her own and she actually had her own display at a street fair back on sunday and she walked away with bupkiss. really, she made no money at all from it. xana la fuente (andy wood’s fiancée, also a very good friend of mine) is actually trying to leave seattle: really, she’s been selling off things so she can be self-sustaining and has been less than successful with it. so, i wish wizwoe good luck—i always wish artists good luck because we all could use it, especially now.

and i can’t believe how fucking territorial this fandom is now. the whole bullshit with me is tip of the iceberg, like you better agree with us otherwise you’re scum, you’re disgusting, get out of here freak. i came to the grunge fandom because i wanted to be a part of it, i wanted to be with people who loved that scene as much as me, and i really felt like i could be myself in it, raging warts and all. but no: i was problematic. i said something that fluttergirl took too seriously and had to be catty, and it was beginning of the end there. trevor noah says it’s easier to be poor when you know that it’s commonplace around you, you know that your friends and your neighbors are struggling, too, rather than being poor amongst affluence and seeing what you know what you’re missing out on. granted, he was talking about growing up in apartheid south africa, but it struck a chord with me. when you’re someone who has moved around from social group to social group for most of your life, and you finally find a place that you think is home, but then… you do something stupid, or something controversial and you find out no one really likes you, it hurts like hell. you see everyone else having fun with each other and you just can’t help but withdraw, like the poor kid you are. 

but at the same time, you can’t help but laugh. these people are out of their minds, chasing quicksand and a pipe dream. you say “they’ll learn”, because you know they will. it’s a question of when.

#knowing you’re right will help you sleep at night #text #grunge

[fluttergirl]

1996 - Me, wearing the ‘90s grunge girl uniform. Flower print babydoll dress, thigh high stockings, Docs, a flannel, and a leather jacket. Topped with a black velvet beret cap. And a choker, of course. On the ferry to Bainbridge to find Andy’s old stomping grounds.

#walk walk fashion baby #my teen thinks this outfit is rad #they’re not wrong #Seattle #seattle grunge #grunge #grunge fashion #90s fashion #soundgarden #chris cornell #fluttergirl #seattle #viva la grunge

[aiiaiiiyo]

1999. Engagement photos. We’ve been married for 20 years, with two kiddos and a chonk of a dog. I’m still not sure I deserve this kind of love and devotion, but I will embrace it forever. I married my best friend. His dad jokes are legendary. Check this blog!

#Fluttergirl #oldschool

[riffrelevant]

#Soundgarden #ChrisCornell Some of my 7” singles & picture discs from over the years. His existence brought much beauty to this world. @soundgarden @chriscornellofficial 🖤 #riffrelevant #recordcollection #vinylsingles #hunteddown #outshined #jesuschristpose #rustycage #telephantasm #prettynoose #spoonman #blowuptheoutsideworld #thedayitriedtolive #fluttergirl #fellonblackdays #shesapolitician #cantchangeme https://www.instagram.com/p/CAVWeH1pLv1/?igshid=1233jj030f4yo

#soundgarden #chriscornell #riffrelevant #recordcollection #vinylsingles #hunteddown #outshined #jesuschristpose #rustycage #telephantasm #prettynoose #spoonman #blowuptheoutsideworld #thedayitriedtolive #fluttergirl #fellonblackdays #shesapolitician #cantchangeme

[eversall]

fluttergirl replied to your post “table jace AU yes or yes?”

This is officially the crackiest thing I have ever read. Also, I love you?

this is not even the worst idea i’ve come up with, welcome to my hell. awwww i love you toooooo

#fluttergirl

[flutterboutique-blog1]

Perfect summer dress!!

#fashion #styleblogger #summervibes #boutiqueshopping #fluttergirl

[magpiewithacamera]

Waiting for the show. amazing seats. amazing company, this is going to be a great night!

#seattle #jerry cantrell #moore theater #fluttergirl

[jpegfluttergirl]

Oct. 29th: 3 years on E

It's super late at night right now. I haven't blogged in a few days so I wanted to update. Two days ago was 3 years on estrogen for me on the 27th, I didn't really plan anything special for the occasion just spent time at home other than having a drink with a friend that night, it was nice to have someone there and talk with her. I always thought that I would get to this point in being on E this long I'd be so excited for this but it really didn't feel like a big day to me. Well it was a big day, but i just dont think my enthusiasm was really there. It's probably because of how I've been feeling lately with my life, I really don't know where it's heading and planning things is fucking hard. I am really glad I've made it this far though, I just wish I was more excited about it. Im sure ill be more excited next year when its my 4 year, looking forward to that :]. Being on E has saved me and part of the reason I'm still here, I am truly happy for it.

I got this really nice candle the day of while out shopping, making my room smell really nice :)

Fluttergirl

#mtf trans #trans woman #trans blog #transgirl #mtf #trans #transfemme

[savagenico]

Something tells me that I'm left without a chance In my suspicious attempts To get her close, Enough to close my lips Around her smile, Now I can't close my eyes When she's around And she's around, Passing like the wind That shapes the clouds She is around, she is around... ... Flutter girl Killing me with her sunshine, Sunshine, She's so unaware That she's my Melpomene...

#Melpomene #Kashmir #KillingMeWithHerSunshine #FlutterGirl #GetHerClose #HerSmile #Melpómene

[ketzwrites]

fluttergirl respondeu a sua postagem “@ raphael kill alec" twitter people wanting a gay man dead because he...”

I thought it was going to be a pissed off brother hitting someone he believed to be hurting, or taking advantage of, his little sister.

That is pretty much how I’m assuming the scene is too. I’m waiting for more info, so tomorrow morning when I wake up much earlier than strictly necessary just to watch an episode that is available on netflix whenever I want, I’ll be able to actually form an opinion about it <3

#fluttergirl

[sick-sad-little-world]

(Original via @fluttergirl.  I wanted to clean them up a little and add color.)

#soundgarden #chris cornell #down on the upside era #total cutie pie #popped collars are hot #❤️❤️❤️ #short-haired chris was beautiful