#harm to children mention

[tj-crochets]

Hey y'all! Weird question time again So I have kind of a lot of emergency/as needed medications that I have to have with me in my purse whenever I leave the house, and a few more that I have to take with meals, so if I'm going to leave the house for longer than a quick errand I need those too. The problem: I have two nieces that live nearby-ish, one of which is an absolute bundle of chaos of a toddler*, and the kidlet I babysat is going to visit next year. He's nine. If I spend time with any of those kids, how do I childproof my purse full of medications without making it difficult to access emergency medications I could need at very short notice while potentially pretty significantly impaired, like my rescue inhaler? *her parents babyproofed some doors with those latches high up on the door and she figured out how to take a broom and unlatch them

#the person behind the yarn #medical mention #medication mention #harm to children mention #not like specific actual harm it's hypothetical harm I am trying to stop from being an issue #but I know that can be a big issue for people so I tried to tag for it #but like some of the meds I am on can be REALLY BAD if overdosed even a little #one of my meds was used as the murder weapon on a tv show! #and that's the one I (a fully grown not-that-small adult) take 0.05 mg of daily #my nieces are not fully grown and even 0.05mg is probably a dangerous amount for them #but I have to have that pill with me when I leave the house because sometimes I need an extra dose #and if I need an extra dose and don't take it I can get very sick very fast #the benadryl I am less concerned about because A. it's a children's dose and B. it tastes terrible #but I reaaaaally don't want to risk making them sick but also. I HAVE to have those medications with me when I leave the house #and I HAVE to have most of them very easily accessible #because it is difficult to think or do some fine motor skills (like undoing child locks) when wheezing really badly

[exigencelost]

I always wanted to know what happened to Hildy and his two kids. My HCis that Eva found them and got them together

My toxic trait is that I simply don't believe that Eva lifted a finger to help Edriss's family. I think the world where she would do a thing like that died when she saw the replay of the death of Allison Kim and screamed ''I should never have helped you, kill her, you have to kill her'' on the yeerk equivalent of the senate floor. I also think that Darwin had a 60/40 shot of dying in the final stages of the war. Hildy was very likely killed immediately after the trial. I do wonder what happened to Madra. Sorry if you were aiming for fun lighthearted after-canon theories. That is simply not my MO.

#the delicious tragedy of edriss as a character is that the only relationship she ever cultivated that allowed someone to understand her #well enough to know both that edriss had children who needed protection and what it means to desperately hunger to protect your children #was the woman she chewed up and spat out. she built herself the perfect enemy. showed her underbelly in all the wrong ways. #i do not believe that after the trial eva ever helped edriss again. #animorphs #visser #harm to children mention #if you screenshot my tags transcribe them so help me god

[uncanny-tranny]

If there's anything I wish I could do, I wish I could clue in every parent who says or thinks, "my child is my property, not your property!" into what their future will look like

I've gone no-contact with my abusive family - I haven't seen, spoken to, or acknowledged them. This has been for twenty and ten years, respectively, to the parental figures who abused me. I blocked one of their numbers. I call them by their first names when talking about them. I am happy for once, I am free! I haven't harmed myself nearly as often or as horribly.

This is the future you're potentially setting yourself up for. I know this because I was always seen as property first and never as a child. I was never allowed the grace that the adults in my life expected. Is this what you want? If you want property, then do children a favour and just buy a car.

#parenting #abuse #abuse tw #self harm tw #self harm mention tw #sh tw #if you see children as property first and not as human beings first you are setting your child up for terrible treatment i think #inspired after seeing a parent literally *say* their child was **property** #like holy fuck that shit terrifies me to no end #to any child who is being treated like this: it's not right. i am so sorry and i hope something changes. #you are a human being first and foremost and deserve to be treated like such #the knowledge that my 'parental' figure treated their CAR better than me was harrowing (esp. because they treated their car horribly) #like just knowing you're worth less than a fucking car is permanently altering honestly. especially when it's from somebody like that #sorry for the tumultuous posting i've just been so infuriated by this attitude amongst 'parents'

[bluebeetle]

revealing that the nashville shooter is supposedly transgender, without revealing what gender they id as or any other information other than that, being a former student, and a name... absolutely evil, because it allows people to construct their own narratives and this is going to mean so many awful people blaming the entire trans community (and assuming the shooter is a trans woman bc transmisogyny)

(edit: i wrote this rly early in the morning when reading the news, see tags and notes for more thoughts ig cuz im making this unrebloggable bc transphobes r annoying)

#txt #like the fact that every article is raving to mention that theyre trans.... #this is definitely going to be used to fuel anti-trans hate at a time where its already rampant #shooting tw #ive seen claims the shooter is a trans man but i still feel like transmisogyny will lead to most people assuming trans woman. i see that a #ot where thats the assumption #its fucking disgusting. and ive already seen people trying to say not to misgender the shooter being told theyre terrrible people #and that clearly they care more about pronouns than children dying and its like no. #the shooters dead misgendering them does nothing but harm other trans people #it shows that their rights and respect for them is conditional. step out of line #and suddenly its ok to be misgendered. ugh. #its frustrating bc what this person did (im refusing to use their dead name or the one they went by) #is abosulutely awful. no one is actually defending him #but that doesnt excuse transphobia. and yet if you try to point out someone is being transphobic suddenly your defending a mass murderer #transphobia effects all trans people. not just the ones youre aiming it at

[djsherriff-responses]

I think I got a rough timeline for Dolph’s pregnancy stages in the Laserhen au, may come back to it later but I’d appreciate thoughts

massive trigger warnings for Mpreg, forced pregnancy, dubious consent, suicide attempt mention , abuse, pregnancy horror and implied harm of children

#captain laserhawk #dolph laserhawk #Captain Laserhen #Alex Taylor #Tw Mpreg #Tw forced pregnancy #Tw dubious consent #Tw suicide attempt mention #Tw abuse #Tw pregnancy horror #Tw implied harm of children

[void-proxima]

One of the more heartbreaking episodes of this show was released on April 28, 2019: "This is Not A Drill", featuring Drill Man (...and his absolutely abysmal excuse for a father). To commemorate it, I drew him over the weekend (and touched up the shading today). As always, the poor guy is not having a good time.

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#mmfc #Mega Man Fully Charged #Drill Man #Drillman #this episode is an interesting one #because it was definitely framed to be more lighthearted than how it ended up #and the ending corroborates that #but even from what is explicitly stated it ended up really frickin dark #Before i actually watched this episode when I got into the show in 2022 #I assumed most of their dynamic was extrapolated or leaned into for interpretations #but nope his father is just straight up abusive onscreen #not to mention all the subtle details that cause me emotional harm #aside from the dissonance and the fact that once again Drill Man has gotten screwed over by opening up to people #one of the worst parts is that it could have been a REALLY GOOD way to connect with kids who don't have such a great home life #and subtly introduce that idea to kids who do so they have a better understanding when they brush up against that irl #Like at the end when Dr. Light goes into that monologue about how parents ALWAYS love their children and he's SURE Drill sr secretly cares #what if instead they had acknowledged that his dad did not really care about Drill Man's feelings and hurt him for his own personal gain #and that treating your kids like that isn't right and isn't loving #IMAGINE IT #we were kind of robbed tbh that could have been groundbreaking #no pun intended

[kailali]

With your Forget Fic just imagine darling feeling ill a few weeks later. And Toge is the second to last one to connect the dots. Like it takes Maki or Panda asking if it is possible for her to be pregnant for him to go Oh! Shit! It is Possibly. And shes like no not possible. And he's just metaphorically chewing on his nails trying to figure out his next move.

Content & Trigger Warnings: noncon, pregnancy, mentions of harming a person/their pregnancy, allusion to abortion, allusion to miscarriage.

Oh. My. GOSH!

I love this!!! Everybody suspects - literally everybody, and imagine Maki and Nobara talking her into taking a test with them there for support - "just in case" - so there's no way for Toge to interfere before they all know she really is pregnant, even though she swears it's not possible.

Sure, he could try to interfere after, to make it all go away and seem like an accident, or something just naturally went wrong, but...

He can't help but love her even more, the way she's leaning on him more for support, the way she immediately changes all her habits, because, sure, she didn't ask for this, but until she decides how she's going to handle it, she's going to take extra good care of herself and the tiny life blossoming inside of her.

Toge knows that if she gives birth to the baby, there will be no way for him to hide what he's done - but could he really ever do anything to sabotage something that is half him, half her?

Nonny, you're seriously a genius! (I've been having the worst day but this made it so much brighter!)

Would you mind if I used your idea to possibly continue Forget?

#asks.anon #inumaki toge #yandere!inumaki #yandere!toge #noncon tw #abortion tw #miscarriage tw #kids cw #children cw #babies cw #baby cw #pregnancy cw #mention of potential harm ? #I've been wanting to add to Forget... #and this is giving me so many good ideas! #yan!Toge my beloved #jjk

[dubiousdisco]

incredible how fernanda bbb24 gathered so much support after saying she sometimes wants to murder her autistic children. i want her in jail.

#child harm mention // #ableism // #bbbblogging #why did she have scenarios already shut the fuck up imagine how the children feel

[isnt-it-pretty]

As I find myself writing Cyrus & Cyno fics set when Cyno is a child or teenager, I sometimes worry people will think it's weird that I write a lot of physical affection between them.

At that age, Cyno is a traumatized kid. He would be both too mature and very immature at the some time, because trauma fucks with normal development to an astonishing degree. There's a reason trauma in children is an entire field of study.

I'm a nanny. I've been doing childcare since I was 13. That's eleven years. It's normal for kids to seek physical reassurance from their caregivers, but for some reason, teenagers on the internet are so weird about it. They act like a child giving a hug or cuddling on the couch is grooming, and god fucking forbid an eleven-year-old sleeps in their parents' bed after a nightmare.

#cyno & cyrus #cyrus posting #genshin #antis have done irreputable harm to normal child-caregiver relationships in fiction by being weirded out over normal childhood behaviours #seriously some of these people have never spent time around children and it fucking shows #grooming mention

[exigencelost]

Saw a post saying the Animorphs would have had to either kill or nothlit David eventually even if they had thought to house him with the Chee. I think the failure to bring up the Chee and the free Hork Bajir in book 20 is mostly just a plothole but it is fun to imagine there being actual reasons for it, and I’ve always gone with “from the start they didn’t trust him,” but also worth note is that I don’t know if the Chee would have let them kill David. If they put David in the Chee basement they’re bringing another jurisdiction into play that they can’t necessarily afford to contend with.

#animorphs #animorphs 20 #harm to children mention

[cachantun]

today's brainrot situation: redditors fighting and allegedly telling each other kys about an april's fools suicide related joke on neopets about a little puppy throwing himself from a tree branch originally meant to be commentary on toxic positivity hosted by a furry tumblr sexyman

#tw suicide mention #cw suicide mention #suicide mention #tw self harm #cw self harm #im not on anyones side i just think everyone went too far JSJSKDKDKDKSKSL #MY SIBLINGS IN CHRIST WHY ARE WE ARGUING ABOUT A CHILDREN GAME ONLY 20+ YEAR OLD LOSERS PLAY #man i love neopets

[schnuffel-danny]

there were instances when tumblr could've genuinely competed with sites like k*w*farms when it came to doxxing and abusing primarily queer children with undiagnosed psychotic disorders, and to this day people live convinced that pushing kids that have barely started puberty into attempting to take their own life was genuine peak activism

#child abuse cw #suicide cw #not to mention the other communities that have built up on here over the years #solely dedicated to making children addicted to like 500 different forms of self harm

[sunflowerbloomss]

i think if you genuinely hate seeing children in public spaces and you get so painfully irritated by their existence that you advocate to eradicate their presence in the world beyond their homes you are a deeply troubled individual and you need to work through a lot of shit

#no one cares eli #children are people like. what is wrong with you #not even to mention how harmful it is for mothers seeing as they're usually the main caregivers #but like. ideology aside. hating the presence of children in public so passionately is not a flex. you need to work this out #a crying baby on the bus has done nothing to you. kids running around the airport are simply having fun. loud teenagers in the mall are just #hanging out with their friends. it's okay to be irritated by some behaviors but hating kids is not a cool underground hot take #you just need therapy

[eshithepetty]

To start off this post I just wanna say, I hold mp100 dear to my heart and I say this with love, but.. I feel off put whenever people talk about the bad shit that anime usually has, and then say that. Mp100 has none of it. Because, like... sure, it has less of it than the usual, and I appreciate it for that, but that doesn't mean that it, doesn't have it at all? I mean. The transmisogynistic joke in episode 2. The fatphobia in season 2's episode 2. The lack of female main characters, Takeuchi's racist design.... don't get me wrong, the show is still great and I love it very much as I said, but you can love a show and appreciate all the things that it got right while not disregarding the things that it got wrong. You don't have to hate it for those things, you don't even have to necessarily talk about them if you don't want to. You just shouldn't deny that they exist in that media in the first place. That feels really disingenuous to me.

#mob psycho 100 #mp100 #mp100 critical #just tagging in case. i get not wanting to hear this stuff even mentioned when you're just trying to have fun with a thing you love #fandom critical #my own post #i also think a lot about the aspect of mp100 where.. it falls into the tired trope of villains being the only ones trying to chance society #and are obviously being very bad and harmful about it. while the heroes are the ones trying to maintain the status quo #it's interesting because. like theres more to it than just that in mp100's case?? #like. for one a big theme of mp100 is children not having to deal with the worlds pressures and having to be the ones to save it #and nearly all the protagonists are children #so if they suddenly went on some arc trying to get involved in changing society in more drastic ways that could contradict that message #and it isnt like mp100 denies the fact that those societal issues exist? thats what mogami arc was in part about after all #so idk #at the same time i feel like including those elements could be really interesting #especially with mob; considering who he is as a character #someone whos main purpose through the story is changing others and thus making the world a better place #whos very compassionate and always eager to expand his way of thinking and better himself #hes already got some of that thinking in him - like how he got so mad on behalf of the workers world domination arc #so i just find it interesting to think about. maybe as he grows older he gets more concerned about that stuff. #its a hard balance tho with how he at his core wants to remain humble and ordinary. so some ordinary job; like a cleaner or a firefighter #like ive seen him be portrayed as still seems the most right #idk!! just find it interesting to think about so im rambling at this point hfgh #in the end; as the show says the most important thing is being kind. and just through being that you make the world a better place #even if its just through interacting with the closest individuals around you #thats enough in an of itself :) #so yeah #the tags got away from me ill stop now jdhdjd

[ithring]

Murtagh has no tolerance for any type of child abuse or hurting children in any nature. He will put a stop to it if he sees it, and make sure the child or kid is safe and okay. You just don't hit kids period, at all or neglect or hurt them. If you can't give your children the best life don't have them. He wants kids to grow up happy and have good lives. No one needs to suffer like he did during childhood.

#( headcanons. ) #tw child abuse mention #tw child abuse #had to be sad #he will help a kid over seeing them hurt #he doesnt care if it puts him in harm children deserve good parents #anyway thanks for coming to my ted talk

[magnusmodig]

rough childhood headcanon qs / anonymous / accepting !

╰┈➤ 1 . does your muse blame themselves for their trauma?

||. As is ever the case with Thor Odinson, the short answer is still, in itself, complicated. Ultimately the answer is, in my personal opinion, yes , though Thor is an incredibly introspective person, and so he can be self-aware enough of himself and his family situation to see it plainly for what it was. Thor is not a doormat. But whether or not he fully commits to acting on what he's feeling, and thinking based that awareness is its own issue. One mostly steeped in how Thor views himself and partly how he views his own family (specifically: he views them all with blinding rose-colored glasses ESPECIALLY once they've died, regardless of the damage they've caused him).

For some context on what I mean, by "how Thor views himself", I mean that he is shown to have something of an atlas complex (also known as: superman complex, savior/hero syndrome, codependency). Everything comes down to him. He's the strongest, so he'll do it. He can outlive and outlast, so he'll endure. He's the eldest, so it's his responsibility. So on and so forth very often times coming out as "I will solve this problem for you" statements most notably with Jane Foster. He takes failure personally, especially when other people are at stake, or the collateral. And he will hold himself accountable for tragedies beyond his control at length. In "The Avengers" and a deleted scene in "Thor: Ragnarok" he actively and repeatedly lumps himself in with his family (aka his father and siblings, mostly), and their catastrophic, destructive actions and pasts — both of which are things that thor himself actually hasn't partaken to any large degree (unless we count the failed Jotunheim heist and even that he WAS going to bail on before his temper got the best of his judgement.) He proceeds to call them (his family) "bilge snipe", while using the terms "we" (denotating himself as part of the issue) and proceeds to call the metaphorical bilge snipe "repulsive". He does this again in Ragnarok while telling Banner that "we're cursed to fight amongst ourselves while everyone else suffers for it"), meaning his opinions on the matter have not changed since 2012.

And by "blinding rose colored glasses" I mean that Thor has another tendency to see the good in people, partly in nature and partly deliberately, especially when seeking it out. And he does this especially when it comes to his family, and he will justify their actions by trying to step into their shoes even when it may not always be appropriate. (//gestures at literally all of thor: ragnarok and how he still idolizes his father to an obscene degree thankstaika re: "i'm not as strong as you", and even further back to the way thor speaks to odin in thor 2011 at the end of his banishment re: "there will never be a wiser king than you or a better father". He also idolizes Loki in "The Dark World" with the line "loki, for all of his grave imbalance, understood rule as i know i never will" and to a lesser degree does this with Frigga in the same film "she saved us all, a thousand times.")

From a slightly more psychological perspective:

The long and short of it is that it is much easier to blame yourself for things that hurt you that were beyond yourself. Especially when you can't understand it, or didn't deserve it. Especially when they come from someone you hold in high esteem, and hold a lot of love for. Like caregivers and family. In a twisted way, it grants the guilt-bearer some level of CONTROL over their emotions and their situation that they did not have in the moment the hurt occurred. If you're can blame yourself, then you're at fault. If you're at fault, then you can feel guilty, and if you're guilty, then you can atone. You can actively work to make up for it. ( "By blaming ourselves, we maintain the perception that we’re still in control of the situation and ultimately safe -even when we’re not." - rosscenter.com) This is especially critical in children who go through this sort of parental dysfunction and neglect. And the reason why I think this is not a development saved for his young adult -> adult years is because of exactly what we see on screen.

Thor comes from a family that is just as loving as it is toxic. His father was so good at being a wise king that he completely failed at being a good father. It's something Thor even calls out in "The Dark World" ("I'd rather be a good man than a great king") after speaking on how being king is losing who you are to politics and mind games and war. Odin as a parent, and Odin's overbearing, all-encompassing shadow of a legacy is what Thor's entire character arc was always about overcoming. His mother, Frigga, is by far the most decent of the bunch, but she is far from perfect. To pull from a previous meta on the subject, my opinion on frigga/thor is as follows: " [...] an unfortunate cycle in which [Frigga] spent SO MUCH ENERGY [...] making sure [Loki] felt seen/heard and had “some sun for himself” that she COMPLETELY neglected to see that her other son was in just as much pain as the youngest was [...] And only realized how estranged they had become when it was too late, and she couldn’t reach Thor anymore. (She also died before she could make it right.)"

His brother is arguably the person he was ever closest to (even among his friend group), up until his brother manipulated and betrayed his trust, killed him, attempted suicide in front of him, tried to take over earth as payback, tried to kill him again, rejected him outright, and then got put into jail.

Suffice it to say that while I think that Thor's issues stem from deep childhood trauma (and only ever further reenforced by the fact he ages so slowly), my dude's got some issues, and blaming himself for past trauma is definitely one of them. (When he can't get away with internalizing it and avoiding it any longer, anyways.) I do also think to a lesser degree this behavior does also count towards friends, just to a less extreme degree. With the main difference being: Thor adores his family. He wants to keep them close to him. He's incredibly protective of all of them. Which isn't to say he doesn't love his friends, because that would be the biggest lie. But friends come and go. Thor will always want to be a good friend, but he wants to be a good son even more than that. And so in cases of conflict with a friend and a peer, Thor will gladly and readily call out his friends for their bad behavior just as readily as he would also dismiss and justify their bad behavior towards himself. (you know like not checking in on him for five years in "endgame", apparently...)

#(i was going to go into a whole thing about children and their emotional/mental development cycles) #(critical stages in a child's life to teach emotional regulation and where anger issues stem from) #(both of which thor has TERRIBLE times with throughout his appearances) #(but i might just leave that for a different post that goes further into my thoughts on his childhood in particular...) #(someone else asked this question too (i think 2 others maybe) so maybe i'll make a prt 2) #( ooc . ) — stories that leap from the page . #( meta . ) — son of cosmos . lightning flows through thy veins . #( headcanon . ) — glory to the man who toils for his land . may it ever prosper . #( answered . ) — black feathers fall to a raven's call . #nonny asks #(one thing i think i should also mention is that thor is very much someone who seems to crave control) #(which makes sense given his upbringing) #(and so his craving for control comes out in various fashions) #(and this includes his self-destructive / self-sabatoging / self-harming tendencies and behavior) #(it all comes back to wanting control and wanting security because various needs /were not met/ in those developmental stages) #(which is all just to say: parental bonds are important and thor had virtually neither figure to count on consistently) #(...and oh boy does it show.)