#i dont even like cottagecore

[puppyeared]

i feel like. theres designing a character with certain themes and motifs in mind, and then theres making a gijinka for the water bottle on my nightstand

#me when im the only person on the bus wearing a mask: i should make a furry plaguesona #its hard to explain bc. most of the time i try NOT to give my characters a 'strong' theme like making their whole design around #one thing like apples or even broad stuff like baking or cottagecore.. idk if its partly for flexibility or because i cant imagine them #making it their whole personality. not bc i find it cringe or overblown but more like ive learned to associate design with character depth #i had a cutesy uwu persona for most of highschool because i thought it would make me more. likeable? easy to remember? since #memorable character designs are easy to recognize. and one way of doing that is simplifying it with a theme or symbol so you form an #association. but since im a real person its exhausting keeping up that appearance all the time and denying myself things when they dont #fit my 'aesthetic' or 'theme.' i think ive grown past that bc i just collect stuff because i think it looks cool and dont let myself dwell #on how it might 'fit' with my image. but i cant help feeling bad doing it to my own characters bc it feels like im making them too one #dimensional. despite knowing that theyre not real and design alone doesnt reflect depth i cant help feeling like its wrong #despite that i love seeing motifs because it feels like it reflects the characters soul and paradoxically gives them depth. it makes them #interesting to look at too and honestly its pretty fun combining things that fall under a similar category when designing #i struggle find a balance between those two things #actually this reminds me of noelles christmas theme.. i dont remember her saying anything abt liking christmas despite a lot of #her design and character tying back to it. it makes me wonder if she would have feelings about that or doesnt think abt it too hard #or if its like a matching family shirts situation and shes just going along with it?? #maybe i should just do whatever i want with my character designs since theyre not real and im thinking abt it too hard #although. this probably has something to do with deep seated identity issues huh #yapping #oc talk #oc

[stinkrascal]

everyone needs to understand that you dont really need to justify why you like a thing, sometimes you just like it cuz it fucks and thats totally cool. i saw someone on tiktok who calls themselves goth n they were having an identity crisis bc they like harry styles music and its like, i just wanna hold their hand and be like Nobody cares like at all. you dont have to change your wardrobe and makeup style just cuz you like basic music its fine. nobodys gonna take your goth card away or whatever

#'im goth' 'im cottagecore' 'im y2k' i dont care #u can enjoy those styles thats fine but just cuz u like it doesnt mean you have to fit that aesthetic always no matter what #you dont even have to call yourself goth or cottagecore or y2k u can just dress however you want #do you know what i mean. does that make sense #it just makes me sad when someones like I wanna be goth but i really love taylor swift :\ #girl you can still dress in all black its fine nobody is stopping u just cuz u like taylor swift #IDK i just think its weird to let an aesthetic hold u back from doing stuff you like just cuz you dont 100% fit the aesthetic WHO CARES!!

[c-kiddo]

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#(the original post is saying it could btw. bc its about nature) #kiddo say #isnt cottagecore music like. c*vetown #i dont even care phil elverums music is not even slightly cottagecore #not the microphones or mount eerie. at all. even a teeny bit #what part of it evokes like. bunnies or gingham? like . 🤨 #i showed my friends this before but i just remembered it again lol #post that had me going Why i oughta . #just. still such a bad take. #(im aware i am not the cottagecore community but im answering anyway. because it needs to be done)

[cozyjuniperbreeze]

Tumblr will be like "follow these tags!" "you may like this post" etc. And then show you the worst posts you've ever seen

#literally keep getting weed related posts recommended to me #also other stuff that is either gross or some kind of random fanfic #i dont even know #im just here for cool posts i like #cute stuff cottagecore nature flowers etc

[bugflies00]

just got hit with the urge to draw cbenchtrio in 2022

#crimeboys have always been dear to my heart but 2021 was All About benchtrio for me #and then that whole disaster of a plot point with cranboo dying out of nowhere & being stuck in limbo for longer than even cwilbur did #with no apparent end in sight and no reasoning no nothing #i havent moved on from 2021 i still want cbeeduo & michael to live happily in snowchester & hang out with ctommy every day #cbeeduo arguing and fixing their communication issues. cclingy finally talking abt shit. ctommy being the uncle he deserved to be to michael #im aware so much of their dynamic was created by the fandom and built off scraps from canon but i dont care they had so much potential #i want cranboo resurrection like the most cliché sickly sweet thing ever where he shows up like ‘Hi :D’ and ctubbo or ctommy hug tackles him #i want cranboo & cwilbur to have a follow up talk to the one they had in the burger van ab wil not being a bad person #i want cranboo & ctechno to have tea parties. i want cranboo to bake with cniki. i want crainduo to have a Real talk. #i want ctubbo to get better closure from ctechno. i want the syndicate to own up to what they did & start fixing things from there. #i want ctommy to set up a tailor shop. i want cpuffy expanding her office and adding flowers cniki brought her. #i want cbeeduo to cook in the mornings together. i want ctommy to sew a new coat for cwil and add little embroidery details to it. #maybe i just want them all to be happy. #maybe its less about cbenchtrio specifically and more about the slowly growing loneliness & hollowness of the server #fuck man i miss them all. i envy ctommy/ccrime solos bc while theyre my favourites forever and ever i still care abt the others #ccrime running away for a simple cottagecore life after all this would mean everythingto me- #—but if these other characters dont also get some kind of happy ending ill forever besad about it #alex.rambles.txt #c!benchtrio #mcyt

[debbiedownersyndrome]

question to tradwives who think jobs are worse than staying at home (and this is no offense but an honest question bc i also stay at home with my child and it is so much more rewarding (imo) for me than any crappy job i have worked in the past (though for ppl that have other passions/experiences this can be different being a housespouse is not for everyone by any means)

but also in my experience it is extremely tiring and so i wonder what do you expect your working spouses to do when they get home bc you dont get to clock out working from home and housework and child rearing are honestly harder than any job ive had (my spouse will admit this but also still doesnt do housework.)

like working from home is literally 24/7 no breaks no end so what do you expect from your spouse when they get home or on their days off? do you get a break from cooking? do they bathe the kids? do they scrub the Toliet for the third time that week bc they sure use it! or do they get time to relax? do you? genuine question

#tradwoman #tradwife #cottagecore #traditional femininity #housewife #traditional gender roles #homemaker #question #also this has nothing to do with my question so you can ignore but in case anyone wonders i might get a job in the future #rlly dont want to but in this economy you have to be prepared for anything (even if our relationship lasts forever something could else #could happen godforbid like injury or worse and i have to support myself and the kids and we aint rich #and you have to have work experiece not large gaps or you wont get hired #i also need to work on my social support system out of the home bc that can be important if you come on hard times #but it will be tough bc i will have to work and still do the housework lmao

[morgana-pendragon]

can i verbalise a selfish thought for a moment. dont read the tags if thatll bother you or anything

#what with all this talk of colonisation and whose land what is it does make me wonder about what the bigger voices in these convos would #have to say about my country. like im genuinely curious bc idk how to categorise us at all. context bc i dont expect anyone to know: #the indigenous people of the land i live on were the arawaks & lucayans. however when this land was first colonised they were all genocided #and who are now known as 'bahamians' were brought over on ships. and then somehow we went from the spanish to the english who colonised us #as well. now my worry is purely hypothetical bc we are an independent and sovereign state right so there's no 'threat' #but would we be considered 'indigenous' ? i can't think we would?? #but maybe my issue is that i'm looking at this philosophically rather than politically. cause politically we probably would #but while the us-israel-colonisation convo is a political one the stances are philosophical so ?? #like (again. hypothetically) if the same thing were to happen here ig i just wonder how we would be dealt with #and then the land ownership convo as well baffles me & it has for a while. since at least 2020 when the whole 'cottagecore is bad' convo #took place with the arguments that the aesthetic romanticised stolen land and i wondered even then like ? are we in the same position?? #is the land still considered stolen if the people inhabiting it were displaced themselves?? and didn't steal it?? #and moreover if the people it was stolen from no longer exist to take it back?? man idk #im stunningly bad at articulating my own thoughts so if this was a mess im sorry and thanks for making it this far #and also pls tell me if this comes off in the same light as americans making this about their election. i really dont want it to. im just #thinking. i guess idk #stop talking abbie

[levbolton]

Well it’s a bit embarassing to post abt ocs, but i’ll swallow it and try to enjoy it

-> all my ocs originate from the bnha universe (except for a few that are from naruto) so that’s why their names are japanese. I thought abt changing their origin after i pulled them away from their respective animanga but i thought it would change their character too much so yeah… they stay japanese (pls dont judge me too much for it)

I’ll try to draw more ocs from this universe, who knows (for the sake of simplicity i kept everything flat colours bcs it would take me forever to render and i’ll undoubtedly lose my motivation to finish)

#aaaaa this IS embarassing look at me im 23 and think about fictional girls kissing #and i dont even know how to draw kissing like it’s so hard swtf #oc art #original character #character art #transfem #trans character #lgbt #pansexual #lesbian #my wlw s :’) #fujishima senko #i guess they’re so cottagecore thing #musician oc

[fridayiminlcve]

seeing u slowly become a taylor swift hater is the biggest character development in the history of this planet not going to lie to you fam

😭😭😭😭 thank you ig

#asks #anon #not gonna lie to you fam i appreciate you sending this ask but also please do not describe me as a tswift hater #i used to love her at some point. as you probably know but i have deeply moved on from her i feel #like her songs are nice but they are just. not something i would typically enjoy anymore #and also despite having swiftie mutuals even if i enjoyed her music i would strongly detach myself from the fanbase #not on tumblr not really just in general. fans theyre so invasive and give me the ick especially thr hardcore ones #and her music is deep if u read into the lyrics and she does know how to write a song but also. this online thing where people worship her #is um. in bad taste like a while back on pinterest i saw a meme which went “listening to these artists is indie cottagecore lesbian culture #and instead of like clairo who you would expect somehwere in that list. she was there #bitch you mesn the world no.2 singer after the weeknd??? swifties online are insane #i do disagree with her on quite some points also like her political silence and environment and i can admire her as a singer songwriter #but its like how far can you go. you have the influence. she did that equality act petition in 2019 so we can see that #i would not call her overrated as i believe her music is generally fine but its not revolutionary by any means #she didnt bring anything new and unheard of to the pop genre except like wiping your insta page before a release #this was completely unneccesary sorry. but yeah i wouldnt call myself a hater but i dont like her much either #this was completely unwarranted you dont need to read this

[guideaus]

I was about to go to bed but I peeked at twitter and was met w someone bringing up that Miyazaki meeting abt that anime that used ai or whatever...

#personal #i swear to god i dont even like ai but i am sick of seeing ghe most reactionary takes #90% of his response is calling out that its ableist and bad to demonize disabled people #if you play outlast u wouldnt say video games are bad. south park doesnt make all animation bad. harry Potter doesn't make books bad #yes they used ai to do it but thats not the only thing it can do lol? make offensive depictions of people. its not sentient #miyazaki did end it w a 'i fear for humanity' but thats funny tbh. thats half of what he says. that miyazaki vs junji ito meme is so true #also the irony of it being attached to a post abt lay offs or smth. yeah we all know he pays his animators fairly huh #or is he just The guy behind ALL the cottagecore uwu ghibli movies... just him. #its just so stupid. i get its the scary word atm buf god #i unfollowed who liked it and blocked the op. idc abt it being impossible to cultivate your space on twitter. doing it anyway

[micharemade]

my aesthetic looks a little bit tradwifey nowadays but i can promise you that i will literally never be a conservative in my life. you can hold me to this

#like i dont even call myself cottagecore im just a femme who likes the grandma look

[maddestmewmew]

happy hispanic heritage month one time a no longer friend of mine drew his oc in a dress with flowers embroidered into it and asked if it was accurate to mexican culture

#it wasnt . i dont think he did any reaserch past googling mexican dress bc it was literally just a white dress w embroidered flowers #he didnt even tell me what part of mexico he was refrencing #ALSO I DUNNO ITS JUST SO FUNNY LIKE. HE WAS WHITE WHITE FROM LIKE. FLORIDA #AND HE DM'D ME BC I WAS HIS ONE MEXICAN FRIEND. #same dude dmd me drawing another past friends character in a diffrent dress and asked if jt looked cottagecore enough and when i asked why #he was asking me specifically he said 'i dunno youre a lesbian you should know'.

[lexa-griffins]

something i found out about having a spotify playlist with a bunch of followers is that people will reach out to me on facebook and instagram seemingly trying to get me to add artists they represent on it

#the playlist has been losing followers idk why they wanna be in it #it used to be at almost 10k but someone kept report it for 'innapropriate cover' and it lost like 1k followers #go away i dont wanna add any one to it im sorry #its a fucking cottagecore tik tok playlist #and i dont even have tik tok anymore so ill probably not add much more to it

[mapledyke]

Shitty 5 minute transparents but I think I might sell this Jessica Mcclintock and I'm mourning it so this is my shrine

#🍁 #feat my very long scary looking hand #ive never even worn it outttt i think its beautiful but its not rly my go-to style :( and its getting too snug on the bust for me #anyway. if any prairie goth or kinderwhore babes want to buy a girls size 12 vintage mcclintock lmk 😔 #jessica mcclintock #kinderwhore #cottagecore #sorry i dont usually tag much but i do want to get this out in case anyone would be interested in buying. having a mild housing crisis atm #dollette #? what even is dollette exactly i feel like i see so much stuff tagged with it

[sunshine-in-a-bottle]

How its going

#congrats besties and gamers your clown is a fucking dumbass who decided she could do many things #tbf I fucking. Got farther with the WC au tonight with Ban #but that is a Monster Fic. its going to be like 40 chapters long #I mean Im super fucking excited about it but goddamn #debating breaking into blanks inbox for help writing its thing because I am a Fool who bit off way more than he could chew #Ill probably wake up in a fervor and write staggedduo in the middle of the night for Aspens thats just how it goes with those two #I WANT. TO TALK ABOUT. RIVALSDUO MASS EFFECT SO BAD. SOMEONE PLAY MASS EFFECT SO I CAN TALK #MY OPINIONS ABOUT THEM ARE VERY CORRECT AND YOU SHOULD ALL LISTEN TO ME #.... dont ask about what the concubine fic is about #Philza and Dream being friends??? In this economy??? fuck you they need interactions and Im giving them interactions #SV Dream is just him living cottagecore like with a lot of hurt/comfort and some StagedTrio because I miss them #I had a vaguely smutty idea with Wilbur and MerDream and its not my fault and also Blame Tired. Tired Should Always Be Blamed #but its me so it was intended to be mostly silly and wholesome #the Sap and Dream thing would technically be considered almost done/already done Im just. Terrified to look at it. Its so ugly #It was born out of anger and vague fairy tale related bullshit #We're not gonna talk about that last one. I just do not have the energy to write that anymore #It was fun while it lasted though #yes this post is an excuse for me to yell about my writing that I havent posted yet YES you have seen through my elaborate disguise #now that I rambled bit Im actually excited about working on this stuff again #even if I dont have a lot of people to talk about my writing with its nice just typing in the tags. very lovely very freeing #you should all try this. why doesnt everyone try this #wait someone is still reading this??? What the hell. Send me a chicken emoji in my askbox or something idk

[vzajemnik]

new jschlatt merch drop.................

#🗞️ #my fucking god.........................fisherman & cottagecore rammies................................... #& the way he called the other one in the vid handsome but its listed as yassified on the site. head in hands #sorry needed to share. i wouldnt even think about buying these in any lifetime but his merch is always soooooooo #but afaik ppl still havent gotten their schlankets and its been. a year? over a year? at this point #so. its mostly that. and the fact that i dont have money but if i did itd feel like a scam but my god fisherman & cottagecore rammies im #gonna kms