#im aro i would now

[shittywriterbrain]

sorry for the absolute dogshit editing but i'm going FUCKING INSANE over bertie's expression here like TELL me that's not love. look me in the eyes and TELL ME THAT'S NOT LOVE

#im aro i would now #jeeves and wooster #jooster #bertie wooster #*sitting down folding my hands together* mutuals i have once again posted a shitty j&w gif u didnt ask for. it will happen again #no i will not make a sideblog. read my posts boy

[jorrated]

I'm so tired of sonamy being ship teased in stuff

#for a while i had hope that since sonic boom was doing the whole sonamy thing #we wouldnt see anywhere else #and i was like great the fans of the ship can get their cake and i wont have to look at it awesome #but i was WRONG. #they still do shipbait in the twitter takeover and shit #besides the weird age gaps #since now people wanna pretend these characters are ageless #and besides how much i think sonic is aroace #they just dont fit together as a couple dear hod #even in shows like sonic x in which i guess sonic says he loves her THEY FONT HAVE ROMANTIC CHEMESTRY #like sonic boom had to completely change the chracters personatilies so tht would work (? questionable. its still bland) #at this point id even take sonadow being more shipbaited even if im not a big fan #aro sonic forever and above everything else <33

[caruliaa]

just bc im a lesbian doesnt mean tht i wont at times become deeply entranced with the beauty of male actor or character. it just means i wld rather be locked in a room with a man with a knife than do anything romantic or sexual with one

#NO OFFENCE TO MEN AS PEOPLE THAT EXIST. but also i shldnt have to say tht after saying this yk #also b4 u say ooh ur aro tho why do u need to specifcy u wldnt do anything romantic w a man when i wldnt with a woman either #i am actually pretty romance favorable. like i would be in a romantic relationship with a woman if it wldnt ruin my life #with how it is rn . i think i like and want all the parts tht make up a romantic relationship i just dont experince romantic attraction #but anyway i was here to talk abt my sexuality not my romantic orientation #this post was originally like 'im remembering why there was such a huge overlap with my og major starkid hyperfixation #and me identifing as bisexual' but the thing is is the main main guy from starkid i remember being attracted too #was infact . rob. and thats aged badly bc of it being revealed that hes a fucking creep since then #but also just now not that we should ignore tht but regardless of that i just. dont see it at all #maybe it is that news subconsiously turning me off him but i really dont see that much what i liked abt his appearance #but who rly inspired this post to me is infact . jeff blim ? which is suprising just from the fact tht i dont ever remember #having tht big of a crush on him with that og starkid hyperfixation. but well he is a very beautiful man . giggling a little bit. sorry . #also becoming a bit obsessed with joey richter but thts just standard lesbian obssesion with a weird little man #not attractive to me im just obssesed with him. hi #also posting this now so when i finally watch the fnaf movie i can rb it abt josh hutcherson #anyway. does anyone read these tags do these long rants i go on like. turn ppl off of my posts. sometimes i wonder #flappy rambles

[vivitalks]

“Parker,” Eliot hisses at the ceiling vent, “what the fuck?" Aw, shit. “Aw, shit.” Hardison grimaces, rubbing his head. In the…excitement of the night, he completely forgot about Parker. “Parker, why are you in the ceiling?” There's a long pause. “I don't understand the question,” Parker says.

eliot/hardison/parker rights

#eliot spencer #alec hardison #parker leverage #do they have a ship name #leverage #leverage fic #leverage ot3 #fic #my fic #stuff #quick lil thing bc im obsessed with the dynamics here #i will have to do a more in depth study one day hopefully #picture the marquee: aro eliot x ace parker x pan hardison ot3 qpr and they're all holding hands and it's great #eliot and parker boost cars and do yoga and fuckin rescue orphans together #they WOULD do that shit #okay im done back to actually WATCHING leverage now xoxo #this version of events is so delightful to me that i don't want to return to actual canon #i just want to live in this fantasy world ive created where this ot3 is extremely canon and real

[the-meme-monarch]

swomp and jackie are aro. to me

#partially bc I don’t care for shipping jackie and swomp I Would Just Like For Them To Be Friends and partially bc #swomp says he’s not interested in dating #and jackie seems pretty put off by swomp at first thinking he’s flirting calling her beb and seemed to like the prospect of being friends w #with lilli #I mean it seems to be played as a Clueless Lesbian joke since jackie goes ‘wait was she flirting w me’ after leaving but #i think she thinks Girl Pretty though. being aro is a spectrum etc etc #perhaps she is an ​aro lesbian idk #ALSO her being Big No at the idea of putting her hair down bc ray or marv might find it attractive #i don’t like being found attractive ! aro ! #but again it could be Not Wanting To Be Attractive To Men Specifically ! aro lesbian ! #im not done w the game again yet so there may be dialogue im missing that would better inform my headcanons here. so As Of Now #going under #going under game #words from the monarch

[arowolfwalker]

like i know hunter having a crush is meant to be perceived as him finally getting to experience regular teen things, but as someone who never had a crush when they started to experience regular teen things, it just makes me want, even more for him to realize he never felt romantic attraction in the first place and misunderstood his feelings

#aro hunter stuff #like idk idk im completely neutral to lowhunt now but i just #aro hunter and aro willow would be sm more interesting ok #they could be in a qpr too even #toh #min screams #anti huntlow #the owl house #hunter toh #hunter noceda

[aroacettorney]

dont mind me. im simply just putting together a ludgercasey angst collection.

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#aro ludgercasey propaganda #''why cant u be normal abt them'' how can i be normal abt them when solid 80% of their interactions is either angst or stemmed from angst. #even their ''fluff'' moments were also angst. #literally no one does angst like they do. #ludger prefers to keep most of his connections extremely impersonal/professional. #but whether or not he wants to admit it theirs on the other hand simply does not... fit in that category. #he'd even tried to convert it that way but it just didnt stick bc neither of them could help but be themselves around each other lmfao. #ludger is seemly still oblivious to caseys attempt to mend their personal relationship. #which is not too surprising considering he was also oblivious to the existence of their past relationship. #after all there was no reason for him to believe that casey would want to have anything to do with him. except maybe putting him in jail. #so pushing her away seems to be the most logical decision right? personal relationship is a luxury to him anyway. #alas casey who wanted to believe in their past friendship takes it as a sign that ludger has no interest in maintaining it. #she now has to take a step back because ''if you force a relationship it may become more estranged.'' #so unless he takes the initiative they are likely stuck in this limbo. #(casey might use impersonal excuses to stay around but rn its all up to ludger to change the nature of their relationship) #casey girlie forget him i would have treated you so much better... is what i would have loved to say. #i wouldnt be suffering this much if ludger wasnt clearly holding himself back most of the time / if it was completely one-sided from casey. #i dont know if this is a slow burn or hurt no comfort but if casey gets no closure im gonna commit arson 😔

[jorvikzelda]

today i had this Vivid memory flash through my mind of kissing my ex boyfriend (this was like 2018) and i felt so viscerally fucking revolted and I gotta say. it is truly impressive that I didn’t realise I’m a lesbian sooner than fucking half a year ago

#z talks #like the misidentifying as ace was Inevitable i think. that was due to repression that realising i didnt like men would not have fixed #(context: id’d as bi ace like. i wanna say 2016/17-2021/22 sometime and then went into ace and Questioning) #remember the time i really solidly settled on being aro because ‘romance has never not felt like a chore and putting on a facade’ #babe no thats because your most recent and also singular long term relationship was with a Man #and thats the only one youre looking back on #its so funny how i dated a guy and it was so thoroughly Meh that i just didnt feel like pursuing anything romantic for a very long time #(A REACTION I HAD NOT HAD AFTER MY PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS WITH GIRLS) #And DIDN’T somehow consider that maybe I just Didn’t Like Guys #its nothing i grieve or feel sad about dw its honestly mostly funny to look back on #no wrongs were committed and i dont hold a grudge against the guy it was just me being confused and compheted #(…which is also a weird word to apply because at the time i identified and was out to my friends as a trans guy Binary. #This Was Also Wrong.) #was a weird time man. a truly weird time #anyway. all is well i have now been on 2 dates with a really cute girl and she gave me tulips <3 #as part of a Care Delivery bc i had a Migraine and No Painkillers Or Snacks #get well flowers <333333 #and now i dream of kissing her under the moonlight #With the uh. Hornetposting lately it May seem unlikely but yes I DO interact with real women! Romantically! #They coexist Wonderfully <3 #Anyway. I’m gonna go to bed #Realising that im a lesbian solved all my identity problems including my fucking gender which is just fantastic #I am very happy and whenever I think of being a lesbian it grounds me to reality a little bit stronger and i go yeah. Yeah.

[jamiethebeeart]

(Ref/insp: 8eyestheband on youtube/tiktok - the conversation mashups and the song association game) supplemental info/explanation in the tags

#spinnerdabi #mha spinner #dabi #dabi todoroki #shuichi iguchi #bnha spinner #bnha #mha #people in the comments of their videos keep talking about how they look at each other/ship them and I of course went “how can make this lov #which spiraled to “who do i think would/could sing with spinner on camera” and went not shigaraki (rip) and landed on dabi #i cannot defend this because its purely based on gut feelings #(im not a spinnerdabi shipper but this just fits for me... i may or may not draw more for this au) #so! conversation mashups: take two songs and “what if they were a conversation” so its a back and forth mashup #im obsessed with the i will wait/dial drunk and this town/stick season ones. #the song association game: person gives a one word prompt and they have to think of a song with that in the title and sing it #first to think/sing a song with that word gets the point #anyways i feel bad for them :/ so many ppl in the comments are talking about them romantically and im like Stop It!!!! those r real ppl!!!! #but the premise of band members falling in love with one another and balancing that with their public image? obviously v v v good au fuel #i even made band au stuff back when it was popular on mha cosplay tiktok (with aizawa) and now im revisiting it :))) #in this au im imagining shigaraki as aro/ace (just because) and handling the behind the scenes stuff. lighting. camera. social media. ect. #these tags are a mess lmao #do you guys see my vision? do you get it? #im planning on a toga duet one rn #(now i hear ya: why not compress? well :) i feel like he'd be a prev boy band member turned solo artist. v flashy v performative) #toga would def be an online singer (lots of covers. lot of gay/bi covers of straight songs. some original stuff. maybe some makeup videos?) #oh! she'd pull uraraka and deku in for a make over. thatd be v cute. she'd have 2 persuade both of them and uraraka would be quicker to agre #idk where twice would fit in. magne would be a makeup artist (for her? or other ppl? idk but she'd rock a social media platform) #mustard? i feel like he'd be a minecraft streamer or smth #kurogiri would somehow be teamed up with compress from time to time. #not to get too korean drama-y but afo feels like a management company person? he's got a spotty track record w recruits tho so hes a lil sus

[weaverofink]

Here's a question. What do u do when u have the sneaking suspicion u just accidentally agreed to a date w someone

#like. it was not clear (to me!!) in the initial invitation #but now hes called me pretty and im thinking i fucked up #why does this happen to me. he prefaced this whole convo by asking if i wanted to be friends!!!! #how was i supposed to know??? #and what do i do now??? im legitimately asking #do i straight up ask him??? that feels really awkward #and what if he just thinks im stupid. for not getting it in the first place #or worse!!!! what if thats not the situation at all and im just overthinking it????? #im really at a loss here #oh also for context. i think im aro so im just not interested in dating at all #youd think. having a giant aroace pin on ur bag would prevent these kinds of situations #aromantic #please. i require advice

[djs-sideblog-for-pog-trains]

i know like in the grand scene of shipping this is not gonna be a very good option /popular opinion or hwatever but recently i just Cannot stop thinking about how james percy and thomas would be the worst polycule you've ever seen

like just the three of them having this weird Thing going on and no one Talks about it but everyone's just like O_o ..... okay then. as long as they keep getting work done ig

#dj rambles #i think edwardxhenry and then edwardxgordon would be a good example of a healthy-ish polycule. they can be mature about it #these three idiots r not #like i usually see thomas as aro #but i think he can make exceptions. and it'd be funny if one of those exceptions was james. that's my only motivation #and like i dont even know if i see percy being w/ the others romantically but it'd be one hell of a qpr #actually now ive said the phrase percy/james qpr im rotating. anyway. #ive mostly said this so it'll stop rattling in my brain maybe #and. i say 'worst' FULLY affectionately #no one is doing it like they are

[bitchfitch]

I am a homebody. I don't like leaving my place if I don't Have to. I can go on vacation for a single day and Still be immediately glad to go home and not want to leave it again for any reason at all whatsoever for At Least a few weeks.

That's the context for this. Nothing has ever made me want to get on a return trip to a locale faster than leaving NYC (70~°f) and then hearing the pilot announce it was 106° (even though the sun had already been down for a Bit) as we were landing in Dallas

#like ok. Zach time #This is my diary. I went half to say i went on a vacation without my parents bc im a grown ass man who's just never done that #and half to meet The guy friend irl for the first time. Like. I have the guy friends who i see irl all the time. But this is The Guy Friend #and anyways i have one fewer guy friends now. #+1 boyfriend tho. #(this is the dnd one not shitty one) #(i say that with affection) #anyways as an aro its a big deal to me. #Two most important people in the world to me are This guy and my BFF/little sister from a different mister. #and im so glad to have finally met one of them irl. and hope to meet the other one irl soon. #We would have already met irl if i hadn't still been forbidden from driving #anyways point is. I never thought id have a bf. He knows im acearo and idk. i appreciate him a lot. #Hes a good egg. Im real lucky

[nemossis]

i love being transgender and a fag and having weird undefined relationships with my friends. i love my friends who are also transgender and have weird undefined relationships with me

#this is a very genuine post #yes im on the aro/ace spectrum yes i would make out with my friends and have undefined non-platonic feelings towards them. what of it #realizing things abt myself lately now that i feel safe enough to do so and its nice #🦷

[devotedlystrangewizard]

anyway if, by the time i have figured out how to code a game, we still dont have it (and i expect we wont) i WILL make an rpg with aro "love" interests. ur protagonist can be an aroallo whore now. whats love if not the thing that some people feel sometimes. some of your allies are only down to have sex with you and will reject you outright if you try to romance them. no monogamy limits outside of maybe specific actual romances. these aros would be absolutely destroyed by the potential fandom but its ok i didnt make them for you <2

#ramblings #it wont be a big rpg i mean. solo dev moment #unless i magically get some decent classmates in school willing to back me up #OR i dare to put myself out there. on the internet. and ask for help. #but for now it is a solo thing #i like games with love interests weve all seen how i talk about my 3 da boyfriends. and gale #but man i wish we had something where sex didnt eventually lead to a romantic confession #like as an aroallo person i just think maybe it would be nice. #& like. specifically aro. you can be specifically aro. some companions would be specifically aroallo #not 'im in it for the sex but you can romance me if you do your best' no i want SEX. and SEX ALONE! #as i was writing this post i remembered how aro characters are treated (will never forget 'but shes still ace in my fic') #and yes. these characters despite being explicitly aromantic. would still get romantic fics #and yes. i would hate that happening. #but also as i said. i didnt make them for you. your toys are right there. look. fwb to lovers is overdone. go play baldur #this post WAS triggered by me thinking about baldursg despite me really liking that game #i love that game but it sucks i cant just. idk. experience my specific brand of homosexuality #listen marrying el to gale was delightful but my actual self insert character was so SO alone #and withers going 'thou hast no bosom companion why' actually made me a little mad. sorry #like no ones gonna cater to aroallos except for aroallos. i know this. but it still kinda sucked

[kethabali]

i dont really feel romance but i like the process of a relationship its nice to be cared for and uplifted on a daily basis.. i guess i just want people that love me and are verbal about it and are physically affectionate

#i want someone i feel safe and trust and we can hug and hold hands and maybe kiss.. #kind of like best friend but a little special #distinctive from my other friends #idk i just feel more lonely these days #and the weird thing is i have a friend now #jsut one that i trust but #before it was 0 #so progress 👍🏽 #i hope to make another one soon #🧃 #maybe once i understand how to foster healthy relationships i can find someone like this #but its not romance #feeling like someone expects romantic feelings from me makes me stressed #i have only been in 2 ~romantic~ relationships and both times after im like was that even real and i think its bc im aro #bc i did care and love for them both intensely but once the brain fog and grief passes i always am like i dont think that was romance #whether that could bc bc im just gay but i think its that and im aro #i would like men more but i still dont think i can develop romantic feelings for anyone #especially long term ones

[dolokhoded]

i need to go to sleep right now but i've got zimon in the brain and i know i won't be able to sleep until i do something to get him out of the brain but i can't get up to draw right now and i sure as hell can't get up to write that would take me around 11 years so i'll just sit here and rotate him in my mind like a burnt chicken

#🧅 #im remaking the apostle designs too. just. a lot of disciple disease lately. #if there was more aro representation in media i wouldn't cling to the two characters i hc as aro so i can actually do it in a non shitty wa #and I wouldn't be up thinking about them right now and i wouldn't go to sleep late and i'd be abke to study tomorrow and actually get into #uni and get a degree and find a job a d have a life. so if i get nowhere in life it's actually because society hates aromantic people. #man why did i give up on writing. if i could write right now i could just. write all thr concepts out of my head instead of keeping them #up there. #pfft. ''the two characters i hc as aro'' as if i don't cast aro spells on Everyone Ever. #whatever you get james and simon are my blorbos of choice atm #if i could at least get over my current wave if Aromantic Rage so i could actually make ship content and post some jesus/judas along with #all the aro people so people would care about them more :/ #queerbaiting you guys so you consume content about Other type of queers #man. i hate when this happens it alienates me from fandom So much . cause like the second people start talking about ships im like 'cool' #*fades out like that giy doing the peace sign* #and i know its not my actual Opinion either i like these ships it's just. auugghfhfh. #not to mention everyone making amazing ship content and not even being able to check it out because i get irrationally pissed #sometimes i wish i weren't aro so bad #sometimes. then i remember it's awesome and aromanticism is god's masterpiece and i love it. but man.