#lots of toxic comments there

[savagegood]

#oh KING!!!! an icon #the Instagram post his video is from is linked in the source but be careful #lots of toxic comments there #mark canha #new york mets #baseball #mlb #pride #lgbt #lgbtq

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

I'm a doctor, not a miracle worker.

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#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #wen ning #wei wuxian #wen qing #jiang cheng #Truly Massive disclaimer here: I am a Jiang Cheng enjoyer. I like his character. I enjoy that he is very flawed and volatile. #This episode of the audio drama has a lot of great breakdown scenes featuring JC - and they all deserve a feature. #But underlying this comic is a small meta comment of 'ah man I have too many comics of JC just wailing sadly' #My goal is to draw 6-8 comics per episode - I sometimes have to truncate and cut good scenes out. #Especially when a large majority is just different flavours of trauma and toxic relationships to your self-worth. #I would also like to make a note here that just because you lose the ability to do something that is very tied to your core identity- #-does not mean your life is over. It will feel like the end of the world. It will send you into a spiral of grief. It will hurt so badly. #Sometimes we do not realize how tied up our identities can be in certain things until we are cut loose. #You don't lose yourself. I promise the pain will fade in time. I promise you will find other things to tether you. I promise you will be ok #Life moves forwards. Time moves forwards. You move forwards. #Ego death just means an opportunity for ego rebirth. You are never committed to being the same person forever. #To wrap this around to JC: Yeah I love the twist with the core transfer but man I would have loved to see JC accept the loss. #Obviously it happens for a reason (story) but I can have my AUs. I can have these 'what-ifs'. #described in alt text #I'm trying it out! *please* give me feedback - I want to eventually Add image ID to all of these comics one day

[spywhitney]

How I sleep knowing I'll never trust anyone that hates Sydney but worships Richie:

#the bear #the bear fx #sydney adamu #carmen berzatto #richie jerimovich #jk kind of #well on days I don't see or think about Sydney haters #under every damn comment section in this fandom is someone saying Sydney didn't take accountability #like I know we all have our biases but yall are really shameless about it #Sydney scored A LOT of Ws for The Beef AND The Bear #but one time she makes a mistake and justifiably walks away from a toxic work environment she's the devil #Richie worked at The Beef for years and Sydney did more for it in what less than four months than he did #on top of being a prick to Sydney in particular because she was changing things he wanted to keep the same #to the detriment of the restaurant but also everyone #and overall being unpleasant to Carmy #Nat and anyone that didn't find him funny or interesting or like his bs #pre-Forks Richie reminds me of those types of people that only listen to people that like them #and I love that because it's realistic to some ppl #I do like Richie #it just leaves a bitter taste in my mouth knowing there are people that hate Sydney #ignore her accomplishments only to raise up Richie #in the same breath when the actual show is showing you what's up #like you'd think there were different versions of the show with how these two are perceived #I get this weird need to defend Sydney when people shit on her because I wonder how often said people treat the Sydneys of the world #but that aside #In Fishes Richie mentions something about wasting potential at the beef #In Ceres it's implied he called the popo on the dealers after Sydney deescalated a situation Richie previously dealt with #in an unorthodox manner #he recognised he needed to change but still was an arsehole to the one person who was facilitating that change effectively Sydney #this show is great but people denying what they're seeing on their own screens is crazy

[depecherose]

People on Instagram complaining about Dave (and Martin too) wearing makeup (especially too much mascara) is the same vibe as a toxic boyfriend criticizing you for wearing too much makeup or dressing a certain way...

#roze text #depeche mode #dave gahan #martin gore #instagram people only know how to talk bad about others in the comments #one more reason why tumblr is better #toxic people #I say this because I also love to wear a lot of makeup and I hate people criticizing #come on! let people wear what they want!

[mcybree]

I am the most annoying motherfucker in the flower husbands maintag

#I occupy a weird role in the ecosystem where I am a toxic fh truther who is also obsessed with them and checks the tag daily despite #literally 0 of those posts being for me #bree barks so fucking loud #the result is that I leave annoying comments sometimes when people mention toxic fh interpretations in that tag. Sorry everyone #Benefits are that i have lots of timestamps on hand if anyone there needs any

[redwayfarers]

nika & romance

thinking abt that alia + romance thing @lavampira did and as it would seem that today is nika romance day (since it's all i can think about) so i'm taking inspo, i hope you don't mind <3

silvairre

minor crush back when he was in gridania. nothing truly exceptional. they're not really in contact anymore, although they bump shoulders sometimes.

minfilia

first love. when nika first joined the scions, he was largely aimless, aside from wanting new materials for his songs; minfilia gave him a sense of purpose, even if the key part - part where he too deeply cares for eorzea and does this out of selflessness - didn't really show up. they became friends, and eventually nika fell in love, though minfilia never really returned his feelings. instead, he was glad to simply serve wherever she sent him, and that was enough. her happiness was enough. unfortunately, by the end, nika started feeling used, yet nurtured his love for her for long enough to swallow his feelings on the matter.

his feelings may have even become more intense simply because he knew, deep down, that he had no chances with her. he never tried anything, never bothered her about it, it just floated unresolved for years before her death. she's still a sore spot, and he isn't really sure whether he will ever entirely finish grieving for her, even if he allows himself some measure of anger she left behind. but hey, what is grief if not love persevering? there is no world in which nika does not love minfilia, in whatever capacity.

lyse

a small crush that would have been if there wasn't artoirel. a love that would've gone very sour, very quickly. best left at a single hookup.

artoirel

another case of nika catching feelings for someone he can't, initially, have. nika's equal in a lot of respects; honest to a fault, not very nice, competent yet reserved. nika doesn't begrudge artoirel for trying to get him killed at first. there's a lot of ease in accepting each other, faults and good qualities, between them. artoirel, thus, began to feel like a certain safety. they bonded greatly over their shared love of music and their shared grief for haurchefant. artoirel doesn't ask anything of nika the same way minfilia did, nor does nika himself look for a superior, even though artoirel outranks him by far. to him, artoirel's rank isn't something that matters all that much, just as nika's status as the warrior of light doesn't matter to artoirel after a while.

instead, what they end up being for each other is a partner and an equal, because brothers doesn't quite cut it. it's the one place in this star where nika doesn't have to be the warrior of light, where he can simply be himself, and vice versa, where artoirel isn't the count de fortemps. they're just two guys of equal yet opposite vibes, and at some point, they allied to try and make sense of their respective lots in life. sense is nowhere in sight, but they're too bound together to undo that alliance now. at least they have each other's company on the road.

#nero plays ffxiv #nika perseis #nika x minfilia #nika x artoirel #wolship #wol x minfilia #wol x artoirel #minfilia warde #artoirel de fortemps #not commenting on lyse and silvairre bc they're simply in passing. reverie. envy. 'do i wanna be him or fuck him.' #but they should be mentioned #would've mentioned estinien but that's for a nika & friendship post #there are no romantic feelings between nika and estinien #and a lot of interesting contrasts between his relationships with thancred and estinien respectively #how he idolizes thancred in his youth and then accepts estinien as he is when he's a little older #and how all three of them are angry jaded and bitter #gahhh i love nika's relationships with people. esp other men. they're fun to write about #bc he gets along with women just fine as a general statement. if said woman is one of the rare few PEOPLE he likes #but men are a whole other ballgame bc well nika does have a lot of toxic masculinity and one of his major themes is masculinity so

[chirpsythismorning]

These Milkvans are hardcore Millie stans on twitter who hate Noah They are the ones who call him ugly, jobless, stupid, homophobic etc. and try to say that Nillie are not besties.

There is something so concerning about them being convinced Millie hates Noah… like just imagine, he’ll very likely be in her wedding (something she herself has talked about him being a part of, less than a year ago and before she even got engaged) and watch them try to gaslight themselves into thinking he forced her to do it or something 😭

Millie and Noah are probably the closest cast-members coming out of ST (besides maybe like Charlie and Natalia).

Tbh I don’t even care about fictional ships when it comes to this level of delusion. Like just seeing them be so completely outside of reality, that they are so threatened over a fictional ship they have to make up their own version of reality where Millie hates Noah in order to subscribe to all the stuff they want to believe?

Anyways when s5 promo rolls out and then drops and Millie and Noah are having the time of their lives in interviews and bts being their usual bff selves, milkvans will be spiraling enough as it is, only for byler endgame to come in and really fuck it all up 😭

#byler #I love Millie so much #I hate that a lot of her hardcore fans are so toxic tho #to be fair #stan twitter is so toxic #everything is a competition there even when it’s not? #they’re always creating drama and taking it too far #like the fact that ship wars go so far that they have to say shitty stuff about the actors #even bylers in Twitter say heinous shit about el #for that reason I just can’t fuck with Twitter #there are plenty of great ppl on there #it’s just twitter in general as a platform is ass #you go in the comments and thousands of ppl have an equal moment to give their two cents #most of the time they should have just kept it to themselves 🙄🙏

[nateriverswife]

I have never seen any author complain about this but i would totally understand if someone would be annoyed that their readers are seeing romance when they intentionally didn't include that.

#i was thinking back to a comment i received and they wrote ''L/Ethe'' which made me realise that some people will inevitably #interpret the story as romantic at some point or with a romantic resolution which spoiler alert (not really) i'm not going to write #that fic is not about romantic love. and after all Ethe will do to L - he would rather be burned alive than being near her #cuz that would be less painful. it's not even going to be ''oh wow yes toxic ship!!'' cuz i am trying to write a realistic story here #and people irl don't want to stay together with someone who treated them like shit for years and ruined their trust in people yk #so yeah. i'm not personally annoyed but if you read it like that. i think you'll miss a lot of the themes i am discussing #i even made Ethe say that L thinks it's just a childish rivalry but it's much more than that so yeah... lmao #in general though. while shipping is totally fine. i think people that look at any story that doesn't have romance as the main focus #like that are not going to get all aspects #this is me being annoying but i think this heavily applies to death note as well cuz you are going to interpret any action as #obsessive toxic love & that takes a lot from the story itself #that's why i also tend to talk more about ''dynamics'' than ''ships'' even when the romantic love is there. #d.exe

[btsbs]

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#that army fan club questionnaire floating around today #not going to reblog it because #i’m kind of over getting blocked for having spicy tags #but #man it blows my mind the toxic shit that makes it into official content sometimes #it’s one thing to leave in some of their off hand comments #from behind the scene footage but #literally the FIRST question #‘your pants don’t fit but you’re hungry- just drink water instead right?’ #like who is that for #who is feeling better about anything reading that #do you ever think about all the things they’ve been told by their teams over the years #if this is what is being put out on public display #i know i know Korea is different idols have different standards whatever #eat a fucking banana then a glass of water is not a meal #you can look hot and be fit and still consume food #hybe is well aware the fandom is made up of people #who hang on their every word #a lot of whom at least FIND bts whilst Going Through A Thing #do better man #shout out to jin for being the only one who chose food #he never gives into the not eating bullshit and I love that about him #anyway that’s my two cents #just a girl having thoughts #here on my own blog in my own lane

[witch-of-bears]

The lack of self awareness of Grizznom shippers has always baffled me. Shippers that romanticize abuse and toxicity by denying it and sweeping it under the rug can already be unnerving enough but they go even beyond that. Like, they obviously don't care about Grizz at all. They just see him a tool to make Nom Nom happy because "he's sooo sad and lonely, he deserves it:(((". They don't care, otherwise it doesn't make sense to look at a guy that struggles with insecurity, bottles up negativity because he must be "the supportive one" and is still kind to jerks despite being uncomfortable and go "ah yes, I will ship him with the dude that constantly tries to use, belittle, humiliate him and was more than ok with getting him killed for a video, made the police hunt him down for a crab, and never tried to apologize to him and his family he also hurted, this ship is soooo healthy and wholesome💕💕💕"

[edit: read my self-reblog for follow up]

#and they have the audacity to act superior because they think they're so wholesome wtf #some grizznom shippers started to insult panlie shippers calling it toxic #like??? panlie is flawed but it's nowhere as bad as grizznom #anti grizznom #anti nom nom #we bare bears #yeah sure i believe in freedom and all doesn't mean i can't criticize a bad fanon ship #it's the lack of self awareness and the audacity that bother me like if you ship a toxic ship at least be aware of it #and don't attack others because you think you're better lol #maybe i'll delete this but i had to get it out of my system pff #it sucks enough when your favorite character is everyone least favorite and see lot of people hating on him for being dumb #and then most people ship him in an abusive ship but act like it's wholesome and think they can attack others because superior complex #give me a break for having a notp #grizz wbb #wbb grizz #edit: read the comments and addendum before you get mad

[the-sage-libriomancer]

it can be annoying when a creator successfully writes complex, emotionally realistic characters in mediums or genres that don't traditionally have complex, emotionally realistic characters, because the fandom is frequently very black-and-white about their views on a character - not even necessarily because the fans are malicious or thinking uncritically, but just because they're not expecting the medium/genre to have such emotionally complex writing and are unused to approaching it in a critical manner. which is how you get webtoons comment sections insisting that a character who's in the middle of a messy character arc needs to be dumped/jailed/publicly humiliated or youtubers complaining about intentionally flawed characters like they need to be completely rewritten to be a "good character" instead of *gasp* flawed

#i've been reading a lot of romance/drama webtoons lately and the comments sections always grate my gears #there's always ppl who are like “i understand why he's like this but that's no excuse!! the mc needs to dump him toot sweet!” #or “the mc's friend was a little harsh after getting her buttons pushed. she's a bad friend and the mc should cut her loose immediately” #like. i get that the romance genre is notorious for romanticizing red flags and glorifying toxic behavior #and i'm glad less people are inclined to put up with a character's shitty actions #but y'all really need to stop thinking in terms of punishment and comeuppance #“i can't wait for them to get their due” “the mc needs to ditch their ungrateful ass” they're 16 calm the fuck down #sage speaketh #analysis #gripes and grumbles

[babygirlgiles]

I love how season 3 of Buffy was like oh Xander is gay btw. But only for the bit.

#xander Harris #btvs #buffy The vampire Slayer #I’m joking btw this is a joke #the writers really were like what if we made a character that made a lot of sexist comments similar to xander #what if we showed that xander-like character was only making those sorts of comments because he was actually just overcompensating for #being gay by over performing masculinity to the point of toxicity? that this xander-like character was actually just insecure? #what if we showed this xander-like character becoming much more mellow and confident once he‘a accepted by his peers for being gay? #what if he has a tender heart to heart with xander assuming xander is also gay and xander makes no move to correct him #what if xander doesn’t correct him for the rest of the season huh? #what if guys? what then?

[nazumichi]

*gently places hand onto “comments are turned off for this Pin”* something bad happened here

#raii talks a lot #shaking…… can only imagine the kind of discourse under this pin my GOD #this place is so chill i am yet to receive a stream of “NO” for my taste in characters #pinterest is not a place of honor….. it’s like a vat of toxic and dangerous corrosive chemicals that also hate fun #you don’t like my blorbos?? my little beloveds of all time?? SAD why’s there 17 comments haha what

[infizero]

why is everyone so negative and mean all the time. what happened to the love in your hearts

#idk. its just frustrating to me how i feel like i constantly see people shitting on stuff #rather than talking about stuff they actually like. like thats just not how i function #if i watch something thats like kinda mid i'll almost always focus on the things i liked #like its not a toxic posivity thing i think people should be allowed to talk about things they dont like #but idk. i just dont think like that #like for example sonic prime. did i think it was good? no lol #but i dont waste my time trashing on it?? i commented on what i liked as i watched it #and then i just kind of ignore it now lol. thats how i tend to work lol #and im def not gonna shit on someone ELSE for. liking something??? #like unless its super problematic or something and even then i probably wont rlly care #ill just ignore or block those ppl. idk it just seems. needlessly mean #like what is the point of me going lol that thing some ppl like is stupid and bad #thats like just being an asshole for no reason 😭😭 idk idk its just something i see a lot #serena.txt #this isnt targeted to anyone btw just something ive been thinking about recently

[homiro]

Hello, just dropped by to say I loved Use Your Words and Everything Will be Alright...!👍👍👏Hope this is not too weird/out of the blue

It's not weird at all, don't worry! That's why I left that option open despite all the negativity and insults I got hurled at because my tags were messy and wrong (according to their definition of wrong). So it really means a lot to get some positivity. Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to come over here to say something kind. I didn't think anyone would bother, but here you are and I'm glad to stand here corrected :') All the best x

#homiro said some shit #homiro replies #about my fanfic #hangster #decadentworld #thanks again truly #these words feel sort of empty of meaning because they're said so often but it really does mean a lot #because before I opted to just lock the comments I wanted to delete the entire thing but decided against it #guess i'm kind of stubborn #as much as i'm angry immature and bad ND rep (because apparently existing as an ND person means you have to represent something lol) #and im stopping here because well fandoms all the same #this one was just the most toxic and bizarre i've ever encountered maybe that's why i whimsically decided to host an event #see what happens lmao #i'm a bit of maverick myself #ANYWAY sorry about the rambly tags im always like this when im not just vibing and reblogging and shit

[soupyumsoupyumsoupsoup]

Dear figure skating community: please stop.

I was scrolling through instagram, and i found a video of Ilia’s quad axel. The people who had posted the video titled it something similar to “Ilia Malinin lands first ever quad axel in competition.”

I checked the comments of this video. Everyone, we don’t need to bring another skater down to recognize someone’s ability. Please don’t leave comments on Ilia’s video about Yuzu being the first to land it, and about how Ilia shouldn’t be given credit.

In the other direction, fans of Ilia, please don’t say that Yuzu’s attempt at Beijing shouldn’t have been counted.

Yes, Yuzu was the first to have it certified, however his olympic attempt was under-rotated and fell over. Ilia is the first to land it on his feet, fully rotated in comp with a +GOE.

So let’s get two things straight. Ilia = ratified/landed. Yuzu = certified.

Thank you for listing to my rant, and one last thing. I think that both Yuzu and Ilia are amazing skaters, and I love them both. Neither of them have done anything wrong in this situation, I would just like those toxic fans to stop. This post is not intended to criticize the skaters.

#i’m probably going to get a lot of hate for this #but these are just my thoughts #Figure skating #yuzuru hanyu #ilia malinin #yes this wasn’t the only video of Ilia/yuzu quad axel with toxic comments