#mutuals can reblog etc etc

[velcryons]

affiliated muses and characters with @imaginarianisms;

laena iii velaryon. daughter of shaera velaryon, supposed bastard of rhaegar targaryen. twin sister to corlys iii

naelessa celtigar. niece of ardrian celtigar and wife of monford velaryon. mother of monterys and his siblings.

catelyn stark-velaryon. oldest daughter of aurane velaryon (ne waters,) and sansa stark, named for her maternal grandmother.

mariyam stark-velaryon. younger daugher of aurane velaryon (ne waters ) and sansa stark, named for her paternal grandmother

#ooc ; #my edits #mutuals can reblog etc etc #also angel i figured that they'd probably name one daughter after cat if they didn't name her after lyanna #also if anyone ever wants to make a velaryon oc pspspspsps

[kideternity]

Hi, I know this isn’t what I usually tend to post, but I thought this was important to share. Long time comic book writer Len Kaminski, most notably the author behind venom: the hunger, is currently without stable housing or income and is looking for a new place to live. The gofundme attached goes into more detail about his situation. I wanted to help spread the word since he’s one of my favourite comic book writers and it’s really fucked up to see that this has happened to him, so if you’re able to, please donate or at least spread the word

#gofundme #donations #venom #marvel #marvel comics #donations post #donation post #donation #mutual aid #obligatory disclaimer im sharing this also bc its like. the basic good thing to do not just bc i like len as a writer #i have no idea how to format this post i just want to help spread the word abt his situation ): #fyi if there are any other comic authors who have gofundmes or patreons etc #feel free to lmk and ill add them to this post or make new posts for them too #or you can add them in a reblog and ill rb it

[liquidstar]

This is such a tangent btw but on the topic of guilt tripping and reblogs... I remember a few years back there were some terrible fires in Greece (and again this year, entire island villages are gone now) and at that time I had family who were caught in them. I can't describe the desperation I felt with these horrible things happening to my family and loved ones in my country. And I remember being frustrated and desperate with how no one around me in America really seemed to give a shit. I remember blogging asking people to PLEASE care please share something please reblog this link for mutual aid please think about the stories and fires etc etc etc. And the thing is I was very much in a state of grief myself, maybe not every word or action was perfectly reasonable, because I don't realistically expect everyone everywhere to care about every tragedy in the world. You can't. Emotionally it's just not possible, especially with all the stuff going on in the states rn too. Yeah it's a lot. It's not like I blog about every tragedy that ever happens either. I understand.

HOWEVER what I also remember was at this time there were a couple mutuals very clearly making vagueposts along the lines of "remember not everyone has the energy to care about everything in the world uwu" while I was posting about family who died and family who were drifting in the ocean for hours as their homes and loved ones burned. Listen. You have to understand sometimes that when a person in grief and frustration with things going on in their countries and communities impacts them very personally beg you to care... It's coming from a place of needing to see that care in the world in general. They're not holding a gun to your head Specifically saying you have to reblog the posts, if you don't have the energy just ignore it.

You don't have to go out of your way saying "um actually I can't care about the horrible stuff you and your family and your country are experiencing rn. I'm too busy focusing on my own stuff so can you be quiet or more reasonable with your grief thanks." Like. Just keep it to yourself then??? Have some fucking sympathy for other people and understand that maybe it's not always logical. The same way you don't have the emotional energy to think about every tragedy in the world, people who've been impacted by them often don't have the emotional energy to handle that alone and may seek somekinda community or solidarity. Idk. It's not about forcing shit on you sometimes it's not about you

#part of me thinks the 'we don't have time to care about everything all the time' has set us back a bit because it gets used as an excuse #bc most of the time no one is like asking you to become a hardcore advocate for every cause ever they're just saying like #hey reblog this donation post. and like I'm going to be real how much possible emotional energy is that really taking from you #compared to the actual activism the statement was meant for and such. like come on #surely less than complaining about people having the gull to ask you to give a shit right? #you can still have sympathy for multiple things without necessarily devoting a lot of your energy to said things you know? #doesn't mean you have to surround yourself with them to become the perfect most progressive activist or whatever #but you can like. idk. express sympathy or condolences in passing every now and then. like people normally do. idk #instead of being like 'how dare you ask me to care! there's issues in my own country i have to blog about!' are you for fucking real #but yeah enough time has passed that i can think more rationally about this and now know that that was a careless response #exactly the type of people you were afraid of being the representatives of the worlds apathy in your greif etc #but there are also people who do care is the thing #and obviously for the record I'm not mutuals w the former anymore bc like Christ

[bright-and-burning]

scrolling through the last 22hrs of posts in one sitting and damn if this christian horner situation continues to evolve as i presume it will can we please tag it. please

#not to sound flippant . #but there are posts i saw reblogged like literally fifteen times and not a single one got tagged w something blacklistable #and quite frankly i would like the ability to opt out of things that are *shocker* reminiscent of my own traumatic experiences #in male dominated fields. thank u <3 #not a specific call out and mutuals w very measured and intelligent responses u have my love #and ur thoughts have made me feel better/less alone/etc #but damn the posts w like 200 notes that are just screenshots of shitty tweets… can we please tag . please #christian horner //

[dykeredhood]

It’s my birthday today!!! I am the birthday bitch!

#tbh the best way y’all can celebrate is to hand over some $$$ to someone asking for mutual aid/assistance with bills etc. #selfie #dyke #personal #me #my face #I’m finally 21!!!!!!!!! jk I’ve been using that gag every year since I turned 25 #ok to reblog

[brightokyolights]

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#i am only typing this because im tired and feeling more loosey goosey than i usually would i guess #but ive just been debating something for a while now #so basically i used to just openly talk about like. everything on this blog but then due to a multitude of reasons #i stopped posting about certain things 1. because irl people found my blog and probably still could if they Really tried #2. because i didnt want to post about certain things and have absolutely anyone know shit about me #like as much as it can feel like a cosy wee community. just me and my mutuals <3 etc. its like. actually the fucking internet djdbdjdhdhjdh #anyways whats prompting me to type all this is that i used to post kinda negative stuff on here i guess you could say. like just my feelings #and shit. but i stopped because i want this to be a positive blog and i do feel like you can manifest shit you know? if i constantly reblog #posts where im like “i feel worthless and i am a piece of shit” that isnt helping anything you know? i think what really hammered it home #for me is when i saw a mutual rb something from me like that and it made me so sad tbh. because like. no youre not. youre amazing and ily #you know? anyways. overall i think it has been a decision for the best and i enjoy that my blog has become a more positive space. but i #do sometimes just feel like im kind of going the opposite direction where i act a certain way when im really just. feeling crap. #like all the time. idk maybe tumblr isnt the place for it but it used to be my outlet you know? and i have other things like my diary and #art and even a sideblog lmao. but i guess i do just mourn my whole self not being on this blog. idk what im trying to say by all this #is it this deep? am i thinking about this way too much lmao. idk. idk. #le text post

[dawntheduckrb]

I'll stop posting wips eventually but it's been five days since I've said anything and I don't want anyone to think I'm dead/dying/stuck in a ditch and withering away, so here's 10% of the reason I disappeared (the duck is stuck in rendering hell) (and my little baby laptop is screaming at me every time I open up this file)

I might still be mostly lurking for a little bit so please be patient with me in the meantime 🙏🙏

#seriously though I'm sorry for just up and disappearing like that #wanna talk to people and interact with them so bad lately but I just can't bring myself to do it #so the best i can manage is blabbing in the tags like always #i don't know wtf is going on but over the past few days I've just felt like i don't deserve to talk to anyone #tried to reblog posts from mutuals several times but something in my head keeps saying; #'yeah they don't actually care for your input at all and you're being a bother for even trying etc etc' #and i know deep down that's probably not true (i hope) but i can't reason it away you know #and i know the best solution to this is to just talk to someone #let it be known that i *did* make an attempt to #i tried texting someone (and succeeded) but i couldn't keep doing it and I'm back at square one (and now feel worse lmao) #i'm not really putting this here for anybody to see it as much as i am for myself #but i know that (hypothetically) this could be seen by a real human so it still kinda feels like I'm reaching out in a way which feels nice #makes me feel less like I'm shriveling up in my own self imposed solitude #so uh hello person who might be reading the tags (there's six of you guys here now which is crazy cause i post nothing but junk here lol) #((but thanks anyway for following and even more thanks for reading this if you did)) #i'll make my way around all the posts i missed soon enough don't worry #i'm sorry i'm really not meaning to ignore anybody #i have drafted quite a few posts from moots that i couldn't finish leaving comments on but i have seen them #everyone here is super cool and talented as always <3 whether that be through art or writing or just finding neat posts to share #this wall of text is long enough and i'm very eeby so thank you again for reading this #tldr; not dead and i'll be okay eventually :) #not rb #hey look i didn't post a picture of my dog this time (a crime) #i'll make sure to share one the next time i get a good one

[spring-lxcked]

btw movie!will is definitely not my william but to be clear on where i stand on movie!william:

#—— ✧ ooc » #—— ✧ ⸢ 𝒽𝓊𝓂𝑜𝓇 / mutuals can reblog. ⸥ #sorry i saw that bottom tag and nothing could stop me from making this #i'm queer which means i'm attracted to every woman on earth & william af.ton but exclusively when he's scary #me day 1 of this blog worried abt my edits/FC choice/etc because 'this isn't a thirst blog' VS me now #this IS a thirst blog sorry #fnafspoilers / #movie spoilers / #i think the context of what post these tags are from is 100000x funnier but that's a secret. unless you know. in which case. shh.

[ayakashibackstreet]

So, the eShop is no longer available on 3DS and Wii U, therefore, there is no longer a legitimate way of buying games for these systems. What a bummer!

Anyways, here's guides on installing custom firmware on both of those consoles (even on the newest firmware versions):

3DS: https://3ds.hacks.guide/

Wii U: https://wiiu.hacks.guide/

Not only will that allow you to use awesome homebrew applications, it will also allow you to install game backups.

Happy gaming <3

#I don't have a Wii U but the guide looks pretty simple #Meanwhile I modded my 3DS a few years back I think? It was really easy and now I get to play whatever from whatever region I want etc. #+ the custom themes??? I love custom themes aaaa #Anyways I don't wanna link the 3DS archive that I use to get games #just in case Ninty gets particularly C&D happy #but if you have any questions about 3DS hacking/where to get games my inbox is open <3 #I don't know nearly as much about the Wii U scene since again I don't have a Wii U #but if anything I'll try to help with that too #anyways this is mainly for my mutuals if any of them have a 3DS/Wii U they'd like to mod #but if you want to you can reblog I don't particularly mind

[geminisee]

#my poll #you can define check however you like #i think of it as scrolling through notifs and looking at tags added #seeing what mutuals liked and reblogged #etc #please reblog for a bigger sample size

[velcryons]

Ladies in Waiting to Queen Alyssa Velaryon

Larissa Velaryon A distant relative of Alyssa and close companion to her eldest daughter, Rhaena. Recalled to Driftmark to marry the second son of Tarth and replaced with Eraena Velaryon.

Eraena Velaryon Daughter of the Queen's brother, Daemon Velaryon. Stayed with Alyssa even after her marriage to the son of Lord Bar Emmon, and only left court after the Queen's death.

Nesaena Celtigar Sister of Edwell Celtigar. The most steadfast and loyal of Alyssa's ladies, she was described as the queen's closest confidante. Never married, and stayed with Alyssa until her death. Later died of the Shivers in 59 AC.

Alys Tyrell Sister of Lord Theo Tyrell. Initially so close to the Queen as to be part of the name sake for her daughter, Alysanne, something changed a few years into her stay at King's Landing. Alys became despondent and eventually returned home to Highgarden, where she married Lord Caster Vyrwel.

Cerenna Baratheon The sister of Rogar Barethon and future sister in law of the Queen. Perhaps the most aloof of all her ladies, Cerenna kept mostly to herself and little is known about her besides the fact that she married a son of House Corbray after the death of her goodsister.

Anora Tarbeck Sister of Alyn Tarbeck. The sunniest of the Queen's ladies, Anora had many hobbies and twice as many suitors. She wasn't long in the Queen's service before a son of House Reyne caught her attention, and she soon left to marry him.

#ooc ; #my edits ; #c; alyssa #mutuals can reblog and interact etc etc #i hate how long this took me. hate it

[bluebellhairpin]

I've kinda sat on this for a bit and I haven't wanted to put my two-cents in bc it's emotionally a bother to have to wrap my head around it. But like. Some things aren't sitting right with me about it from both sides :/

#like ive seen the reblogs. i know the character of the person and some of it doesnt come as suprising that much in hindsight #but also i dont know op. as much as it looks legit i cant completely trust it. i dont even know you or how you got all the information #how can u see someone elses mutuals or followers if that isnt public info? #idk. im not on a side here but. there is sus all round imo. #and if youre gonna hate me for ASKING QUESTIONS about a subject as weighty as this then u need to step back #ask yourself why ur so happy to join a witch hunt and take everything u hear as gospel without looking as deep as you can from every angle #bc i dont get into reposting shit like that if i dont look into it myself #especially if its from someone i dont know about someone i do know #but shit is awful. all around. and im not gonna put more energy into than i need to #so dont come at me. bc im not gonna talk about it more. peace and love etc #nemos thoughts #cw discourse

[stag-bi]

i dont have an issue tagging goncharov posts w unreality if someone asks, but telling ppl to do so bc it could be triggering for some theoretical psychotic person out there kinda reminds me of that period of time when everyone on tumblr arbitrarily decided that words like ”stupid” and ”insane” are ableist slurs and ppl were genuinely calling each other out for ”using the s-slur” etc

#ppl who are super sensitive to unreality themed memes etc probably are cultivating their own dashboard accordingly #and unpopular onion: i dont think Accommodating Everyone who looks at ur blog is a necessary mindset #some ppl never tag stuff and they never want to even if u ask and thats not problematic even if its annoying to u #all u can do is unfollow if ur unsatisfied and thats ur responsibility #in the context of tumblr specifically it shouldnt be everyone elses responsibility to make their blog accessible to u if they dont want to #its just part of coexisting w all varieties of ppl. not everyone is willing to make space for everyone at any moment #sometimes the only thing u can do is walk away #these tags arent rly related to the goncharov thing And im absolutely not addressing disability friendly infastructure #or anything outside of tumblr #im just voicing some thots i guess 🤷 #personally im fine w tagging common triggers and such #but i wouldnt want to tag everything i reblog. some ppl do and those who need that sort of thing can follow them instead #i would def tag goncharov is a mutuals asked but if someone legit couldnt handle seeing those posts #id feel uncomfortable being responsible for their mental health to that extent and would prefer to just be unfollowed instead

[tarantula-hawk-wasp]

Gained a lot of followers lately without a clear path of discovery.. am I like… showing up as recommended or something….

#not mad just NOSY #like usually you can see someone likes and/or reblogs a post and then follows you OR you look at their blog and see you share mutuals etc

[thirt13n]

i don't have a ton of non - rp / personal blog followers on here since the move but just a head's up if you sit on my blog and just like every photo post in a tag i'm going to have to block b/c it's just too much.

#i get it there aren't a ton of pro share blogs #or active fan blogs for belle but i'm not a resource for either sorry 🤷‍♀️ #mutuals can always reblog edits etc from me thats a given #but i can't have stuff go over to the fandom side my notifications cant deal

[la-cocotte-de-paris]

I just saw the worst take ever that complained about some blogs' requests for "men dni" and I'm like...have you seen some of the cishet men that harass blogs in the kink community on tumblr? THAT'S why so many users have "men dni" in their bios/pinned posts. You fucking fool.

#i am lucky that most of my interactions have been positive #but I've definitely had cishet men try slide into my DMs and it's not fun for anyone #also if that person complaining knew fucking anything they'd know that #MOST blogs that reuqest 'men dni' really mean cishet men and are okay with queer male interaction so long as nobody is harassed #and nonbinary and genderqueer users are usually able to interact #it's just the cringe cishet men who think they're doms that give everyone on tumblr secondhand embarrassment #when they try to interact with blogs in the most tactless way possible #sorry that post just pissed me off so much like how fucking dumb can you be #ok to reblog #the siren speaks #THIS ISN'T EVEN DISCUSSING GROOMING WHICH CAN ALSO HAPPEN #and with that comes the stereotype of men who prey on the vulnerable victim etc etc #so how about you just fucking accept people's request for men dni AND MIND YOUR DAMN BUSINESS #just bc others ask for it doesn't mean you have to add that request to your blog so. shut up. #also I'm talking about the annoying men who are cishet i do not mean ALL cishet men #bc most other men and genderqueer people do not harass other blogs so frequently #and my male mutuals (and my other non male moots) know i love them bc they're genuinely nice people because they don't harass people!!!!!