sorry for speaking my truth it will happen again. i think my main issue with valax’s redemption arc is literally just that there’s never a moment where the mc gets to actually talk to her about what she did—there’s not really a cathartic conversation, so valax and mc moving past what she did to them feels less like forgiveness and redemption and more like an agreement to ignore the elephant in the room
like sure we got to talk about our trauma (in chapter 17 of 20. lol. lmao, even) to the party, but valax wasn’t present for that?? and like, sure, she says once that she is sorry “for the pain she caused [them]”, but there’s a difference Tew Me between “sorry for hurting you ig ✌️😗” and actually being like “yeah, i abducted you and forced you into a magically induced coma and stole your blood and robbed you of a full year of your life and repeatedly tried to murder you, to say nothing of the grief i caused your loved ones. i did all that shit and i’m sorry for it and deeply regret it, and i acknowledge that you don’t owe me forgiveness, but i will spend the rest of my life working to build a better world for my people instead of being my mother’s pawn”, and a difference between “my mother is unhappy with me for saving you :(” and actually like, giving the mc space to talk about the impact of her actions towards them. like girl you are not getting out of this shit with one sentence’s worth of apology and a sex scene lmfao!!!
during the first half or so of the book the focus for mc is not falling the fuck apart bc they have a friend group to tentatively piece together and they’re averse to showing fear in front of valax, so they’re repressing all their trauma—and by the time valax joins the party, the narrative has gone full Valax Cool And Good mode, and fully allows you to flirt with her and tease her and generally stops taking her seriously as an antagonist. which would be all fine and good if we had actually at any point gotten to be like, “hey, you abducting me and keeping me in a magically induced coma and stealing my blood and trying to kill me has actually caused me a lot of lasting fear and pain,” followed by some set of choices wrt forgiving or not forgiving her for all that in light of the revelation that she did all that shit bc her mom tortured and brainwashed her
like why are my friends more pissed off about the time this bitch abducted me and did evil little experiments on me than i am. free valax she did all that shit bc of her mommy issues but i should’ve gotten to call her a cunt just once. pb stop making all your mcs generals in the idgaf war challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)
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This is your reminder that ambiguity in a (competently written) story functions to force the reader or viewer to engage on a thematic level, rather than a literal plot level. In other words, you don't "answer" ambiguity with conspiracy-grade theories born and "proven" through easter egg hunts and counting breadcrumbs. The thematic answer, the message of the ambiguous part of the story, should fit regardless of whichever of the likely possible "answers" is the "true answer." Because in cases of ambiguity, the thematic answer is the "true answer."
Do with that what you will.
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I'm sorting vaccinations out for going to the US and I think Americans would genuinely have heart attacks if they found out British people (Idk if any other Europeans do this or anyone in general) have 'Chicken Pox Parties'.
Basically, if someone's child has Chicken Pox, they'll encourage their other kids (If they have others) to spend more time with their ill sibling. The 'Party' bit is more for the actual gatherings just for Chicken Pox. The parents will invite any of their friends who also have kids, or other parents they get along with from their kid's school, with the intention to make all of them end up with Chicken Pox. We have a massive 'herd immunity' mindset for Chicken Pox.
My sister had it the full three times. I used to sleep in my sister's bed as a kid because I didn't like sleeping in my own room, and I still did this when she had Chicken Pox. I had it once (Maybe twice but I can't remember), I have a scar on my arm from one of the spots. It was gross but we were never scared of it, it was just normal for us, it was like any other cold.
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mb i meamt that ask to be a fun surprise for after you were back from vacation
no worries anon! like i said i meant that as gently as possible!~
AND IF YOU THINK IM NOT DRAWING A WHOLE MESS OF MAXIM WHEN I GET BACK. OHHH IVE GOT THINGS. I WANNA DRAW.
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im considering moving out of the dorms next yr... and i just saw that my friend put a thing up on her ig story looking for flatnates next yr.... idk if i should ruin my friendship w her just to move out of the dorma... :/
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so felix and i broke up, and it was me who initiated it, and not that anyone needs an explanation into everything but we’re actually super chill and super cool about it. i mean yes, it hurts, but i’ll be okay and felix knows we both still love each other but i had to make a decision that honored who we both are and realize that there was something pretty fundamental that wasn’t compatible between us and he understands and agrees and basically: im single again but just had a wonderfully mature and honest breakup, and i’ll always love and be felix’s best friend and one of his biggest supporters.
kinda weird to be single but not really since i did spend all the rest of my life being single before this lol
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well. sebastian does say "precious anders" line anyway. happy uhm. happy divorce i guess!
that being said, as somebody with numerous sebastian-centered playthroughs, i still think he is experienced best unromanced (partly because flirting options exclude some of his lines about elthina and. well. isnt his obsession with her part of the appeal)-- but hes character of the century in any case.
HE DOES??? 🥳🥳🥳 happy divorce omg. genuinely thrilled. thank you brave soldier
i am excited to see more of what he has to say this playthrough. his rivalry is actually pretty important to how i see keir so i’m really invested in seeing how that plays out fully, because i have elaborate hcs abt them trying to kill each other post-game which mean the world to me. if there’s no supervillain era sebastian with andraste-style crown and a white cloak streaked with blood from my reaver hawke attempting to tear his throat out with his teeth then what’s even the point of it all. i need them both to be insane abt it. its my vision
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It is so weird to see art made by my best friend when I was in middle/high school go viral!! Particularly when that artwork is about long distance friendship!!!!
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