#of any gender obvs

[abalidoth]

to me "girl" feels like a lego brick (not a lot on its own, but a fun component to make something cool) but "woman" feels like a funko pop (just like. an immutable premade object that you can't do anything with other than put it on a shelf)

does that make sense

#tesserants #this is just me btw. yall can have your own interpretation obv #not trying to say anything about womanhood in general #just how it doesn't fit into my gender in any way

[boybecoming]

cut me open, find the real me inside

#an ode to gender affirming surgery #obvs surgery is not a requirement to be any gender fully #i simply adore using st. thomas and the side wound as a trans allegory thx <3 #forcemasc #force masc #forced masculinization

[alex-the-bringer-of-chaos]

Cottagecore is so relatable, except I'm not a lesbian and would definitely end up killing the plants. However, maybe it would be cool with a qpr, even better if it's a poly qpr. Very interesting version.

#obv any is cool but this would work for both me and the plants #though i'm not sure i would work in a qpr #never been in one #cottagecore #qpr #aroace #aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #lgbtqia+ #queer #i just wanna live with people that are my friends and open minded #very uncomfortable living with parents who are in denial of your gender and sexuality

[cosmics-beings]

geee i wonder who her sire is idk

#obvs this is a megastar child #they are scheming to do evil things #actually she just wants animal crackers and is wondering where megatron is #she doesn't actually know who any of her creators are she's only a sparkling #anyway this is nebula #nebula was actually genderless when she emerged #she picked her gender like three months afterwards #she is happy with starscream rn trust #she's just a baby so will cry if the wind blows the wrong direction #and again she can't find where megatron went

[9hikers]

star beast was fun but i do wish the jokes abt the doctor previously being a woman were less like... "oh stupid male-presenting timelord" and more "the doctor's gender is Alien and their pronouns are fucking/guess"

#9 speaks #i know people are praising it for being very transfemme friendly and i'm so glad rose is just chill like that #but i do wish they would like. Talk To A Nonbinary Person before making any of these jokes #i've been spoiled by fan content where the doctor has a more genuinely nonbinary/fluid perception of gender #dunno. you could say it's focusing less on the fluidity and more on 'each regeneration is its own person' #obv there's nothing wrong with that perception of timelord lives but i've always been of the opinion that timelords #would have a very fluid perception of self #hence why 12 and missy constantly flirt about their past selves. 'she was my man-crush' 'back when he was a little girl' #<- that perception shows timelords talking about each other as if the self was one continuous being going through cycles #but the way donna and rose talk to the doctor is as if the minute he regenerated he lost all perception of womanhood #is a bit odd #could be chalked up to a difference in half-human perception of timelord selves vs. full timelord + the cultural upbringing of gallifrey #(he is desperately trying to come up with an excuse for what is blatantly just 'a cis man wrote this without much input from trans people') #(he's also just pissed off that they could've made a bunch of transmasc jokes abt the doctor TO PARALLEL ROSE and DIDN'T) #the lost comedy potential is more offensive than anything...

[criticalrolo]

i think it’s interesting how it’s possible to feel like an Outsider to Every Community even though like. I must be SOMETHING

#me watching people exist from a mile away through binoculars: #wow look at that there sure are people existing over there! wish I could get over there but I don’t know how #anyway this is mostly about gender obv and not really feeling like I’m a part of. any of the community if that makes sense #like the community sure does exist and I wish I knew how to join in but I can’t 😞 #like. nonbinary doesn’t feel. right exactly #or at least not. the nonbinary that I. see around?? idk if that makes sense #but neither does woman or man. or girl or boy #I wanna be a part of a group but a bitch feels rejected by all of them u know?? #by Men and Women as Concepts not by actual like. individuals I should say LOL

[heyitsphoenixx]

yes i often wear beautiful dresses without a binder with heels and makeup and jewelry w long hair and i love being called pretty but my pronouns are they/he (and a fun secret she is reserved only for those closest to me)

somehow no i am not a woman

#i feel like before t i was like #idk the brain and body was craving it obv and so i leaned harder towards being mostly a man #but now that we're up on five months of t and my hormones are balancing for the first time in my life #im like #oh whats the one thing i've striven for all my life? freedom #so the freedom to be fluid in any direction i gravitate toward in the moment is all ive searched for #so. nonbinary. genderfluid. to my mother and employers transmasc if pressed #but really im just. everything #can change moment to moment and its so nice and cathartic and beautiful #anyway #gender

[thetwelfthcrow]

Are you nonbinary?

nope! i don't really care for gender labels. i wear what i wear and i act how i act and i'm just me :)

#zhalia's lil' answer chat #Anonymous #when i say i don't care for labels it's for me obv and not for other people #but i don't use any gender labels #i barely use bisexual as a sexuality label. queer's enough

[hyenaswine]

the idea of making an additional art piece to give away was not fun, but the idea of picking out something kinky i'd never have a reason to buy myself to donate, or even better, of buying art or gear from one of the cool creators i follow & want to support, is in fact extremely fun

#i'm putting myself in the mindset of a hot gay leatherman & ofc i'm being so normal about it & not feeling ANY gender feelings at all obvs

[redrockbutch]

The "we can always tell because humans evolved over the course of thousands of years to be able to detect potential mates via the Chromosome Identigraph Gland™" is funny for many reasons, but not the least of which because all I have to do to get my parents' cishet conservative Christian boomer neighbors to start treating me like A Fine Young Man even though I'm a dyke with a nose ring is to throw on a button down and a sweater and then it's all firm handshakes and bro-y back slaps

#they sure have sensed the gender alright! #obvs not universal by any means but it's been a pleasant surprise when interacting w people who watched me grow up #and in a way that is clearly natural like this is not Allies Trying Too Hard #theyre just picking up what I'm putting down #Cassidy.txt #transphobia #the local youth pastor equivalent has done drive by backslaps on me and I can assure you he does Not do that to cishet women

[mrburnsnuclearpussy]

IM LITERALLY SHITTING AND DYING TO DEATH AND SCREAMING AND FUCKING AND EXPLODIKG LIKE THE FUCKIJG HORRIBLE COWOEKR FROM HELL WHO WAS MAKIJGBIUR LIVES MISERY AND WAS LITERALLY AFFECTING OUR MENTAL HELATH COZ SHE WAS SO AWFUL (and has recently finally been fired)………just fucking showed up at the psych ward today and now I have to live with HER I WANT TO KILL THIS IS ALMOST FUNNY BUT I swear to god I near had an anxiety attack when I saw her come in but anywayyy….

#obviously can’t say who where or any details out of privacy but this is anon so who cares #but I went to my first group #got a plan for tomorrow #got a fidget toy they gave to me lol which is cool coz it’s kind of like a ring as well #getting to know the blokes here and most are lovely chaps and one of the nurses even put an extra chair for me in the mens room because #i told her all about why I can’t be around her obvs #so that was like 🥺 and they’re all super respectful and supportive of my gender indenity and even offered if I wanted to change to the gende #gender neutral ward rather than the female #but I find this one is less busy and I’m a bit used to it now so I’m only going to request it if the anxiety of the coworker messes w my sle #sleep* #but god this is sooooo ducking uncomfortable #and the other two girls aren’t staying ik tonight so it’s just me and her on this corridor #either way I get extra phone time today because some of the staff are super lenient and teehee>:3 but I can’t tell anyone lol

[breadclubrising]

(via)

#bianca belair #please don't reblog tags #other than 'bianca belair' obvs #i was going to qrt this on twitter but the feelings i had were simply too gay for twitter #SHE #and were most appropriately expressed in tumblr tags #just like ibushi she is BOTH 'monster jacked brawler' AND 'beautiful princess with effortlessly graceful flips' #and i can only cry #when it rockets past thirst into the zone where you just need to lay down. i have learned that for me #that is gender #and i think it's very powerful of me to get that feeling about people of all genders 😭 #anyway happy pride i'm nonbinary #kids it is never too late ok #like it's also never too late to work out your gay feelings in tumblr tags #u can b gay and dramatic at any age and you should be #it is your right your duty your privilege and your heritage

[4lph4kidz]

just remembered the intersex (and possibly trans?) protagonist of middlesex is called cal, originally callie/calliope bc he was assigned female at birth, and also he's the product of generations of incest... so you know. that. reminded me of the cherubs...

#incest mention #like it seems like it might be a reference or they're referring to the same source #or a coincidence hussie hit upon a lot of those apparently #disclaimer its probably not good intersex rep by any means obvs #just that it might tie in with the cherub's gender thing #considering. uranian being an old gender category and suchlike #also the usual disclaimer that in a fandom this old and expansive someone has probably pointed this out before me #you know what i'm saying here #and of course calmasis is derived from salmacis #who is tied to the hermaphroditus myth

[girlscarpia]

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#I'm too repressed and I hate my body and my whole self too much to have a sexuality #I literally have no idea about the gender(s) I'm attracted to or if I even feel any attraction at all #it's not very important to me rn because I have zero social life after all lol so obv I'm not looking for a date etc #but I think about it from time to time

[phoenixiancrystallist]

Days 341 and 342, because I hit post limit last night and didn't feel like scheduling on account of cramps and migraine. Anyway, Triumph is done! Yesterday was the lining and base color, today is the final touches via shading and some minor tweaks.

#the great artscapade of 2022 #bobbi's being weird again #art #my art #untitled gunpla comic #it's raining :3 #and I'm listening to Red and Indigo of OSP fame doing a two-woman rendition of A Midsummer Night's Dream #they decided that Oberon should sound like Maximillian Pegasus and it's gone downhill from there :D #let me tell you Robin Goodfellow as voiced by gender bent Joey Wheeler is HILARIOUS #this is my first Midsummer Night's Dream experience and I wouldn't have it any other way #also if anyone's curious and/or keeping up on my Work Bullshit Shenanigans I stayed home today on account of those cramps and migraine #so obvs I didn't go to the elementary school and supervise a bunch of children eating lunch #I'm gonna have to next week and I'm still Big Mad™ about it #it doesn't sound that bad when I phrase it that way tbh #the PROBLEM is a) the lack of respect for our jobs and treating us as disposable #b) the lack of respect for childcare positions by acting like just anyone can do it without any training #c) pretending ''well of the 500 ppl who applied we only interviewed 200 and hired 20 and 5 of them showed up'' justifies the disrespect #and d) the double standard of ''well 180 ppl failed their interviews'' but not actually interviewing the ppl they're throwing at the problem #specifically not interviewing us for the position they're making us fill #obvs we were interviewed before being hired for our actual jobs #but we were interviewed FOR THOSE JOBS not interviewed for childcare positions #I am an accountant! I was hired to do accounting! THIS IS NOT ACCOUNTING

[verzaenian]

every term that people use for you should be customizable . like actually u can use he/him and be a man and still want ppl to call you a woman . u can use they/them and be agender and still want ppl to call you a man . u can be a cis woman and use she/her and want people to call you some random word u made up . this should just be normal

#talked w a new fictive and they explained this to vm and like . this is correct this should b normal ?? #''ur misgendering urself'' dont gender ANY word actually . a man can be a woman if he wants to be ! #obv . dont call ppl a term they dont wanna be called . but if someone uses he/him and says hes a man but wants u to call him a woman ? #hes a woman ! its rlly not that hard #also just fucking make up words if u want ! we should destroy the english language until its basically a conlang / pos #posted by ; korin