#one has family generational trauma

[mineonmain]

5 Parallels in Unintentional Love Story and Bad Buddy

So I was stalking @respectthepetty, as one does, and I came across this post about Hotae and Donghee's relationship in Unintentional Love Story. [Disclaimer, I've only seen the first ep, and I'm not currently watching this show, so this is purely based off of posts i've seen in the tag or made by my mutuals.]

If any of my mutuals know anything about me at all, it's that I'm a Bad Buddy girly. It was my first BL ever, it was the best of times (encouraged me to get into the genre more) and it was also the worst of times (P'Aof made my standards astronomical and it's hard for a lot of other works to compare). I regularly talk about how Ep 5 4/4 lives in my brain rent free, and I never need an excuse to find a way to connect other shows to BBS. But this time, it's a bit much.

So, getting into Hotae and Donghee. Here's 5 things I've understood so far:

Hotae is a bit of a womanizer, who's only flirted with/dated girls from high school days.

2. Hotae and Donghee have known each other/been friends since school days, and know each other well.

3. Donghee knows he likes Hotae, but he also knows that he and Hotae as a couple are doomed, so he does everything in his power to discourage it.

4. Hotae and Donghee are both incredibly and equally stubborn, and give as much as they get. They're not afraid to get physical with each other.

5. Hotae realises that he likes Donghee, that Donghee's the first and only guy that he's liked, but he's liked him for as long as he's known what it means to like someone romantically, and he's decided that he's never going to give up pursuing him.

Sound familiar to anyone?

In conclusion:

(listen. i didn't make the rules. i can't not meme, it's physically impossible for me)

#that's it that's the post #unintentional love story #bad buddy #bad buddy series #gongchan #ohmnanon #pranpat #patpran #thai bl #korean bl #k bl #i spent a ridiculous amount of time getting the screenshots for this baby *slaps the top of this post* #but i couldn't not see the comparison #it's sending me #obviously it's not the same bc the reasons of it ending badly are different #one has family generational trauma #the other has the fear that he'll just be another name in a long list of ex-lovers #yes i thought of blank space too ladies and germs #donghee refuses to be something casual for hotae #and he has reason to believe hotae's lack of commitment. there is historical precedents #but he has no idea how serious hotae is about him huh #incredible #mutuals who are watching unintentional love story tell me if i'm right or left #bl drama #bl series #pls excuse some of the shittier screenshots i don't know how to gif and i'm doing the best i can okay

[doodle-empress66]

The sheer contrast between these two pictures

#Stolas is breaking generational trauma by actually being there and not in a mirror #I knew it was a bad family situation but damn I didn't realize it was going to be THIS bad! #Is it just me or does his eyes glow a little like Vias whenever he’s around her??? #But when he’s with his wife it’s quite the opposite? #The left one has hate #the right one has love. #Oh how UNsurprised I am~ #We always know the marriage was an arraigned one. He always tried to be a better father to Octavia then his father was to him. #vivziepop #helluva boss #helluva boss season 2 #stolas goetia #octavia goetia #stella goetia #helluva boss stolas

[hi-im-just-a-fan-here]

Fucking finally I made another one of the art Nouveau inspired pieces. It's not the best as I had a long break but I tried.

#my uni started and i had to move and then get used to living in one room with a stranger #and also just in general get used to uni #but i have now awesome friends #and we spend a lot of time together #and i love all of them so much #also ive been trying once again flower meanings! there are (very long) daisies that symbolise innocence #and they turn into carnation that symbolise heartache (there at the bottom) #and that turns into wormwood that symbolises bitterness i wanted that to kind of portrey agotts trauma with her family #but also the daisies are in her hair that sort of means she still has some of that innocence left #as well as heather near the birds-these ones mean protection and i wanted that to be connected to qifrey #thats why the birds are there cause of that one chaoter where she summoned her professor with light bird #but yes i ramble serious tag time #agott arkrome #agott fanart #a.mucha inspired #witch hat atelier #wha fanart

[gelloonnery]

Jesus i am so invested in this family

#charlie slimecicle and his egg that he's roleplaying generational trauma with and his wife who has been gone for a week and murders his #daughter frame one of logging into the server #they may not be the best family but they sure are the most entertaining #slimecicle #qsmp #el mariana

[malewifehenrycooldown]

yeah yeah i got recommended that Henry Cooldown analysis video whatever. i am still not over people comparing Henry to a medieval knight, NOT even taking the time to unpack that said mental image of a knight is 'mostly' associated with the British Monarchy*, an extension of its Empire that *checks notes* did a long list of atrocities like imperialism and colonialism, and also (multiple) genocides.

Henry is NOT British, he is Irish. Although considering the history of Ireland and how poorly the British Empire has treated them (amongst SO MANY OTHER COUNTRIES AND DIASPORAS), yeah it's NOT surprising that an Irish man like Henry is essentially forced to adopt quote on quote 'British sensibilities' to 'survive'. <- intentional imagery or not, the implications are not lost on me.

Like okay, calling out the comparison is cool but it sure would be nice if people went further to unpack what that means and implies in the long term. you know, like ACTUAL CRITICAL ANALYSIS?!

#I COULD do a whole essay about this. but i don't have the spoons to do so. #this is were i drop the big ball of information about me because fun fact! I am IRISH AND SCOTTISH. AND GREEK. so like. #so yeah i REALLY don't like the british #i hope in alternate universe i make youtube video essays about no more heroes and successfully argue how its about inter-generational traum #shallow rambles #nomoreposting #technically I was quite surprised by being recommended it. but looking at the comments i realised that their interpretation #is like the buy the books obvious surface level analysis of henry's character. not actually. thinking about the deeper things #behind his character. like. are we really going to ignore how his memories were wiped when he was adopted? okay. #to me henry is an example of someone finally confronting their trauma. how they cope is a whole other thing but henry is second #to jeane (the sister) that actually takes the time to confront the trauma although unfortunately this is mostly implied off-screen #travis BARELY acknowledges how fucked up it was for him and his siblings to be split apart and raised by different families #this got really fucking personal and i don't think anyone has actually cared enough to even consider the historical subtext #of these characters but that's just my take. #also i'm not fucking listening to a man explain to me what henry is. you know in a filmbro way. i have my own brain and interpretation and #that is all that matters to me. if you liked the guys video that's fine but honestly i am just not that interested in the essay. #you like henry for the rivalry trope. I like henry for other reasons that are open ended. we are NOT the same. #btw not EVERYTHING is about kill the past. it feels so reductive to ONLY analyse suda's work as a connected series #because it implies each one can't stand on their own merits!! that's NOT good analysis!! his work can stand on their own individually! #*about the whole knight and british monarchy thing there are other knights in other countries but unfortunately we only #think about knights in a VERY british-centric way. just thought to bring that up. #no i wont make a video essay about any of this i value my anonymity. #no i won't apologise for waking up and choosing violence today

[melonthesprigatito]

Decided to binge watch the entirety of Pokémon Generations again because it's been a few years since I last saw it and uh

Is it just me or is it a lot more fucked up than I remember

#Pokémon #Pokémon Generations #I GENUINELY CAN'T FUCKING BELIEVE THAT SOME OF THESE ARE ACTUAL HONEST TO GOD SCREENSHOTS FROM OFFICIAL POKÉMON CONTENT #Featuring fun family friendly scenes of cute doggies burning to death! #A nuked ancient civilization! #A scene of frozen corpses right out of The Day After Tomorrow and Geostorm but drawn in Pokémon art style! #Team Aqua getting felled by hubris and devoured by Primal Kyogre! #Whatever the fuck Courtney has got going on! #I would have included Groudon blowing up Hoenn and incinerating Team Magma but I wanted to include only one screenshot from that episode #For variety #Also that scene of Mimi the Espurr getting punted like a football. :( #It's like the animators thought Hey This Is Only For YouTube and Only Older Kids are On YouTube Anyway So We Can Be Edgy :) #I saw Pokémon The Power Of Us in cinemas and they showed the Legendary Beasts backstory episode as a short before the movie #Only problem the audience was filled with the elderly and parents taking their kids to see Funny Cute Pokémon Movie #So I was pretty much the only one who had context for WTF we just witnessed #Actually that short caused one family to get up and leave :) #Imagine not knowing anything about Pokémon and taking your four year old to see Funny Cute Pokémon Movie #Only to have to take your crying kids out of the theatre cause they got traumatised by watching animated dogs burn alive #All before the movie even started #Core childhood trauma memory formed right there #Actually now that I remembered the old lady in The Power of Us had a traumatic backstory of witnessing her Snubbull burn to death in a fire #Number of animated dogs dying in a fire in this one cinema trip: 4 #Like what the actual fuck

[spicyicymeloncat]

The “this character annoys me because they are undeveloped and their actions in the story are unreasonable” to “wait I actually love this character when I realise how much potential they had and how there is groundwork’s for explaining why they do many controversial decisions and as the story goes on they actually develop and grow like people which is admirable” and “I no longer know how much of the things that make me obsessed with this character is canon or manifested by my desire to rewrite the subject material I don’t like” pipeline is so strong

#tried to make readable #in other words I am now a Ninjago wu apologist lol #i don’t like Kai - Harumi - wu - Misako’s writing but I love the groundwork and potential they can live up too and #i spend more time thinking about them than I do about my favourite characters #lol #hot take: Rät by Penelope Scott but it’s not sung to wu it’s sung by Wu about his dad #Ik it looks like I’m favouriting him but think about it for a second #his dad started training him and garms when they were really young #Wu has had the pressure of feeling responsible over Garmadon in every aspect: he’s supposed to be the good one #he’s in control of his actions #it’s his fault Garmadon is like this #the fsm is dead so wu is the only childhood family men ever Garmadon has #and what’s more is that the fsm seemed to make everything about the constant battle between the balance #i mean the fsm didn’t even tell wu where his fucking grave was #he made it a test! #Wu was taught that parenting is the same thing as being a teacher and trainer of combat #and when we see him ultimately take a fatherly role he continues this generational trauma #he treats Morro and the ninja like his children but unfortunately he’s been told that the way you treat children is prepare them for battle #and obviously he becomes aware that’s not entirely useful bc times change and whilst Ninjago is still frequently attacked #they aren’t in full blown wars anymore #but breaking out of toxic cycles is a process #and Wu frequently goes through arcs of feeling useless and going off on his own #which is major parallels with Lloyd Morro Kai #and also like everyone else #every ninja has daddy issues even the ninja’s dads have daddy issues #ninjago #ahahah

[charliethemanticore]

Hi btw being trans does not automatically grant you supernatural understanding of all esoteric trans knowledge. You actually need to put effort into learning or put effort into keeping quiet about things that don't pertain to your specific experience

#my cishet brother has a better grasp of transgender theory than my transgender bisexual sister because he like... did some basic research #meanwhile my sister confidently told me 'oh youre nit trans youre neutral' the ither week and i almost slapped her #miss maam i am nonbinary and i have been out as some kind of trans for ten years i will politely ask you to shut up ONCE #also in no universe am i 'neutral' but even if i WAS by definition i would not be identifying wholly with my assigned sex #WHICH WOULD MAKE ME TRANSGENDER ANYWAY #apparently shes been portraying herself as the only trans in the family despite the fact that ive BEEN OUT FOR A DECADE #like ms maam when i came out you were TEN YEARS OLD. i taught you what transgender meant! i know for certain i taught you better #i DEFINITELY taught you better than to TELL PEOPLE WHAT THEY ARE #like okay i guess if youre not into research and history and you just wanna exist without having yo be an expert that is fine #but DO NOT present yourself as an expert. you are an expert in YOUR BODY and YOUR EXPERIENCES #like. shes got severe 'no one has ever done it like me. i am the weirdest girl at the party' syndrome #while also having the personality of an edgy piece of toast #i love her but i have. been very angry at her and i cant even say anything about it #like. baby girl you are a very generic case of autism and transgender and bisexuality. youre not the most random unique case #'how could you understand?!' meanwhile im sitting there wildly neuridivergent and transgender and i got eldest daughter/third parent trauma #like hmm yeah i wonder what id know about it. i wonder how i could possibly understand. i wonder how i could possibly offer relevant advice #i give up #shes a fucking edge lord and our mum feeds into it rather than being like 'some of your experiences are actually universal' #anyway rant over #my brother is an angel and i eould die for him. worlds best ally #he has never once misgendered me or made me feel weird about it. unlike some other siblings who demands i punch her if she gets it wrong #like... no? stop being weird about it youre making me more uncomfortable than using the wrong pronoun did #mums like that too 'oh i messed up hit me!' like no #how old are you? #grow up im not gonna hit you back why would hurting you make me feel better? does hurting people make you feel better? #cause that sounds like something you should see a licensed professional about. i dont care if its a therapist or a bartender #just do it away from me #rant #personal #delete later

[topgunreacts]

In the story for the Werewolf Ice, you said that each of Val Kilmer's characters should turn into werewolves. We couldn't agree more on that! But could you please tell us what breed and color of wolf you have in mind for Val’s characters?

I am extremely headcanon-promiscuous, so each iteration would definitely come with its own distinct type of wolf. Overlaps, if they happen, would be circumstantial. When I write Iceman, he has a completely different family in each story, for example. I like the diversity, and enjoy being forced to come up with a different background that makes me consider what it was about THAT background that made Ice himself.

It doesn’t always need to be deep, either. Werewolf Iceman is an Iberian wolf, a subspecies of gray wolf that lives in Greenland. Just kidding. It’s the Iberian peninsula. I picked that wolf for Top Gun Iceman because they are trim, tightly muscled, and golden in color, just like Iceman’s tits in the volleyball scene. Also, Iberian wolves are cool.

Time for a

~Thunderheart Intermission~

Werewolf Ray Levoi is a Eurasian wolf, also a subspecies of gray wolf. Because Thunderheart takes place on an Indian Reservation and features a character of mixed indigenous/western European descent, I incorporated that into the lore of the story. The ancestral werewolf who gives Ray his power lives in modern day France, where she is worshiped, respected, and mostly feared. Ray’s mother is from a line of females (my werewolves pas down their power matrilineally) who immigrated from Europe to America. They are out of place in the US. Lost and isolated from their arcane culture. Ray specifically struggles with that on both fronts. His mother the European werewolf was too afraid to pass most things down to her son, and white settlers initiated multiple genocides to wipe out local werewolf populations, even seeking to kill the local ancestors to hobble them. This is because werewolf magic works to prevent things like consolidation of magical power. They’re like the water cycle but for magic. That makes hoarding magic very difficult! So Ray has almost NO connection to his werewolf side. He can’t even get in with the local werewolves because there aren’t any left (that he knows of…).

Similarly, he feels disconnected from his father’s people, the Oglala. His dad died when he was young, so he had very little exposure to Oglala culture. He’s white passing, and only goes back because his bosses at the FBI want him to root out activists, which he will do suuuuuper successfully by ingratiating himself with the locals. This will happen because he [checks smudged writing on partially censored document] shares an ancestry with the people his bosses are trying to put in the ground. For obvious reasons, this does not make him popular there because everyone with a brain cell knows what the fuck is up.

This is Walter and Ray doing their First Look on their wedding day. :) The sexual tension here is palpable.

But wait there’s more!!! In this AU, Ray is a black Eurasian wolf. Why? Because all black wolves have a little domesticated dog in them. That’s where they get that color. I didn’t pick a representative identity for the wolf and dog parts, since that’s not what I’m going for, especially given the fact that this AU is working with indigenous Americans: marginalized groups of people frequently compared to animals by virulent racists. Instead, the color is meant to symbolize Ray being torn between the magical and mundane worlds, being unable to find complete belonging in either place.

~the intermission has ended~

And now what you probably came here for: a small, unofficial official list of potential Val Kilmer Werewolves.

Tombstone Kilmer: red wolf that is always a lil dusty

Batman Kilmer: a timber wolf that was born in a zoo next to the bat enclosure

Real Genius Kilmer: a coyote pretending to be a wolf

Willow Kilmer: a tundra wolf wearing a wizard hat

Prince of Egypt Kilmer: Wepwawet's cousin

10th & Wolf Kilmer: human. too human.

Kiss Kiss Bang Bang Kilmer: extremely smart great plains wolf that willingly does enrichment puzzles with human field researchers for fun

#ask #Thunderheart #walter crow horse #ray levoi #werewolf lore #werewolf au #I really regret the shame in my dads side of the family that took away the opportunity to experience my Cherokee ancestry #I was so close! my great grandfather spoke the language and went to a boarding school #but the trauma of existing while native in the us led many people to throw away that history because it was so painful #I’ve got some physical traits and that’s it #my grandma also has Cherokee ancestry and was super passionate about researching that side of her family #her dads dad was the last to be born on a reservation proper; she was born in a sharecropper cabin in Oklahoma near but not within the rez #but she was so proud of that; the hours she put into honoring that painful past are humbling to me as a research professional #she had an 8th grade education #but because of her I know multiple generations of names and my clan heritage #she even found scans of enlistment papers showing one particular ancestor's participation in the war of 1812

[prismportrait]

the Unova games are the best games to ever come out with the subject around the United States of America, and no one will ever change my mind on that

#the game has cults and terrorist attacks #it has mass brainwashing #it has ideological struggles that result in people clashing #it has girls who are told they can't become anything and controlled by their father #it has an evil ring of relatively few bastards who virtue signal and using that to start gang warfare #those few bastards who's only goal is the acquisition of power meanwhile their peons are the ones on the front lines #and those peons being the only ones having serious debate on what kind of civilization they want to have #we have robbing families of connections (Purrloin B2W2) and inflicting generational trauma from these thefts #I think the only base it fails to touch on is real poverty but honestly if the bad guys were successful like in America then it'd come #it's literally named black and white and the entire message is about coming together with our opposition #to see the evil that is using our conflicts against us #it also has basketball football hollywood and surf bros so yanno lmao #unova #pokemon black and white #pokemon black 2 and white 2 #us politics

[mariemariemaria]

Does anybody else feel the waves of history crashing over them constantly and like they can't escape the generational trauma that permeates and poisons every interaction they have or do I just need to chill and have a drink lol

#'our day has come and we are here. we are alive here. we've built this place. we suffered and starved here. #we own not an acre of land we belong to it. the land of cú chullain and macha. ní muid 'hungry crocodiles'. we are full. #full of knowledge. and talent. and success. #full of drink. and drugs. and stories. #agus beautiful ceol. that spills on sundays. from the windows of ancient pubs like smoke #tá vóta agam. tá acht Gaeilge agam. agus táimid sa rialtas. #we are the landscape. we are the trees and the rivers and the mountains. an integral piece of someone else's infrastructure. #growing strong between cracks in the concrete.' #and whatever else seán an seanchaí said..... #would recommend his instagram. his posts always hit #ngl tho when men post stuff like this about ireland i always think...do you see the similarities between this and patriarchy tho? #but maybe im better off not knowing the answer #whatever!!! we will persevere!!! we will help one another and build trust and relations and improve no matter what governments say or do!!! #just like generations have been doing before us!!! and we who have benefited from our parents making this place better will work to make it #better for our children. who will make it better for theirs. #and maybe i need to stop shying away from difficult conversations. maybe we all do. and maybe then we'll be okay. #my thoughts on mental health + the north + my own personal experience is such a mish mash of several different things #im only truly starting to realise that it's all connected. yes i got depression because i was lonely and vulnerable. but also because of th #trauma my family's been through. and sometimes i feel so angry thinking about what certain family members have been through #and there has been too much silence surrounding it. but maybe i just have to feel the anger and sadness and allow myself to feel it #but continue reaching out and trying to talk and having cups of tea and walking my dog and making memories. #memories that aren't political or based on trauma. to get out of my head and realise that yes this was a terrible thing #but there's so many good things too. and the best thing i can do is to try to make life better for those who lived through the worst of it #and make society better for those who are too young to know any of it yet. #instagram is actually a tonic for me sometimes. would never get such taig specific posts on here like the one from seán #which is probably a good thing lol

[elytrafemme]

so me and my parents are out looking for houses in the area, right, that are reasonably priced. because obviously i did not specify where i was to you all because internet security but we might end up centralized here as a family right. so we were looking and this area is... generally a pretty expensive place with an expensive real estate industry. and there’s a lot of privilege in the fact that my family is financially stable and well off enough to be looking here and i do realize that but i mean obviously we are not made of fucking money and we’re working on a budget for one house right.

anyway one of the agents casually dropped in the middle of the conversation that she owns five houses and. i cannot describe it to you the psychological response i had to that

#nightmare.personal #dont rb #FIVE FUCKING HOUSES? #FIVE HOUSES. FIVE GODDAMN HOUSES AND YOU HAVE LIKE. TWO KIDS? #i mean i don't live under a rock i KNOW that real estate is like. an expensive industry okay im aware but #i was not expecting this to be. like. i just. #i cannot wrap my brain around how a person could have that much money and also decide to spend it all on fucking Houses #LIKE SURELY THERE ARE FAR BETTER THINGS YOU COULD DO? #i don't know my family's whole. i mean i'm not gonna talk about it on the internet LOL #but my family's financial situation has been all over the map over the course of my parents lives so like #i grew up with certain mentalities as kinda like a plus one deal to the generational trauma right #but then again i am able to like. get access to things that i Need to obviously this is different and that's a very privileged positoon #but what im getting at is i cannot fucking fathom how people have that much money #and are also STILL MAKING MONEY #LIKE LEAVE THE FUCKING INDUSTRY. YOU'RE DONE. YOU DON'T NEED TO DO THIS #YOU ALREADY HAVE SEVERAL MILLION DOLLARS. MILLION? BILLION? NOT BILLION. PROBABLY MILLION DOLLARS. #am i insane is this not. is. ohhhmy God

[toastsnaffler]

its actually nuts how missing a single vaccination has shaped my entire fucking life. like not only would I not be deaf if I had gotten it on time but I probs wouldn't have adhd either 🫣

#like yeah I have a family history of adhd but im pretty sure the current model suggests u can be genetically *predisposed* but the actual- #development of adhd is thought to be closely linked to environmental 'triggers' like childhood stress or head injuries lol #or in my case brain trauma. fun fact: a suspected 62% of kids who survive hib meningitis later develop adhd symptoms #vs. 5% incidence in the general population..... #when I first heard that I was still in denial bc i thought of adhd as a 'natural' condition like ur just born that way #so if meningitis survivors displayed symptoms that didnt mean they were ACTUALLY adhd. except literally all adhd is- #is a collection of symptoms its not some tangible 'switch' thats flipped in some ppl and not others. maybe thats a rly obvious statement- #but I found it kinda hard to get my head around. i guess just bc of how a lot of psychology is viewed by the public innit #anyway being deaf + nd kinda fucking sucks yall better be jabbing ur babies with every vaccination possible or im coming for ur knees #its funny bc it sounds like im saying watch out !! vaccination may PREVENT neurodivergence NOT cause it !! #*andrew wakefield voice* u wouldnt want a child with autism #but thats not what i meaaaannn obvs ur kid not getting xyz disease that could kill them is the number 1 most important thing #its so cringe actually bc hib b incidence has been down to abt 2 in every 100 000 babies since the vax was introduced in 1985 #so I was one of like. probably less than 10 babies to get it in the fucking country and they misdiagnosed me a bunch of times #bc it was so uncommon + I had some rarer symptoms plus the only way to actually CHECK is to test spinal fluid which is a faff #if theyd realised earlier then i also wouldnt be deaf bc it wouldnt have been as severe. just a series of unfortunate events i guess #anyway. immunology is so fascinating i wish id focused on it more in my degree tbh #over and OUT #.diaries

[lupismaris]

curse breaking

First step of anything that feels like a severing/curse breaking/end of a chapter, for me at least, is to set something on fire to signifying the end. Maybe it's a cord cutting spell, maybe it's a bonfire, maybe it's a piece of paper set alight with mugwort, mullein, rose, lavender, basil, and Florida water. Either way the gloves are off and the work begins. Square up.

#jamie's photos #witchcraft #sea witch #hedgewitch #fire// #feeling a bit better tbh wrote out a short prose about my father's family and the trauma that has carried on through #each generation down to me and the shame we've all carried and the suffering we all carry because we can't let it go #and stated plain that this is my farewell to that if i am to be his son it will not be through blood and shame #it will be through effort and love and showing up for one another but i disown this curse of ours i exorcise it #and then set it on fire with a bunch of protection and ancestral herbs #so we're feeling better #now to pack and shower and sleep a bit or try to i doubt i will

[daylightaftertherain]

there's a shitshow of family drama that thankfully does not include me happening rn and I'm ignoring all of it in favor of watching more gay little shows truly living my best life rip

#everyone else is my house is going through it but I am not mentally stable enough to deal with it #my grandfather is making the entirety of my mom's side of the family miserable #specifically my grandmother who still has to live with him and my mother who's had to bear the brunt of it #like I can see the generational trauma playing out in real time but like #my mom's treated me the same way without realizing it so like what the fuck am I supposed to do????? #I know she's tried to not be like my grandfather but they are SO fucking similar and I'm the one who has to deal with it #she just said she's not like him but yknow. you are. the cycle continued congratulations #I don't have it in me to feel bad anymore I am so fucking tired of being this entire house's therapist man #this is why I'm never fucking talking to them again the moment I can move out jfc