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mrsalenko · 4 months

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i rspv-ed to a wedding today and instantly dreaded it. i loathe weddings because it makes me feel not normal lol. so i mostly just go find the free drinks to get through. i will be doing it for this wedding that’s for sure.

#i am surprised how much i hate them lol #please please have a drinks bar #doesn’t really help my case of not being normal when i dread weddings so much #it’s 4 months away so all i need to do by then is get thin produce a husband and show up rich #not too hard right #i can’t remember how to spell properly rspv right now #you know what i mean

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frownyalfred · 2 years

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Alcohol tips for newbie writers (or non drinkers!):

At bars, people who order “chasers” after their shots are ordering something to wash down the taste of their shot with. This can be juice, soda, more alcohol, or even pickle juice

Hard liquor is generally sold in stores as shots (tiny bottles), fifths, liters, and handles or in ml (50, 100, 200 etc)

Most people can’t finish an entire fifth of hard liquor (vodka, etc) on their own without being very ill

Conversely, many people can finish an entire bottle of wine on their own without being ill

Liquor can be “bottom shelf” or “rail” or “well” -- all synonyms for the cheapest version of alcohol a bartender has. Bars generally keep several “levels” of alcohol stocked

You order a drink with the alcohol first, then the mix -- e.g., a “vodka soda” or a “Tito’s and tonic”

When you “close out a tab”, you pay for all of the drinks you’ve had that night. Either the bartender already has your card (you “opened a tab” earlier) or it was quiet enough that they just kept an eye on you and tallied your bill up at the end

“Doubles” are drinks or shots with double the standard pour of alcohol

In the US, most shots (pours) are 1.5 oz by default.

Mixed drinks (gin and tonic, vodka lemonade, cosmos, etc) are generally made up of 1-2 shots and a mixer

If you don’t specify which type of alcohol you’d like in a mixed drink (vodka cranberry, for example) the bartender will put whatever the “house” liquor is -- and this depends entirely on the establishment. A dive bar will pour rail by default, whereas a nicer tavern might make all vodka cranberries with Tito’s

PLEASE TIP YOUR BARTENDERS THEY WILL REMEMBER YOU I PROMISE

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jakeperalta · 5 months

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thinking about how men only have to do the barest of minimums to get soo much credit for respecting women. literally a man can be like "I think sometimes women can be smart" and he'll get a hundred women being like wow feminist king 😍😩🙌

#the bar is on the FLOOR these days #like i really have no feelings about travis kelce but he referred to women as breeders THIS YEAR which is surely the biggest ick #and yet now there's a million swifties praising him for 'drinking his respecting women juice 😌'#all men have to do is not actively hate women and they get praised can we please have some STANDARDS #talking

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hella1975 · 4 months

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just think this time tomorrow ill be publicly indecent in a spoons somewhere. i am so strong

#ONE MORE EXAM. WE CAN DO THIS. I WILL BE DONE IN LITERALLY LESS THAN 24 HOURS NOW #AND THEN THE NEXT EXAM SEASON ISNT UNTIL MAY. COME ON GIRL #we have such a fun plan for tomorrow though bc the consensus has just been 'we need to get fucking mangled after this exam'#like i havent been out-out in WEEKS the closest i came was the end of december for a hometown house party of all things #i didnt even go out for nye. let's all take a moment and consider the implications for someone like me NOT GOING OUT ON NYE #so i am OVERDUE a good night out and then on top of that ive had exams be SO fr #and also this is the first year where my main friendship group (i.e not my housemates but my actual social circle)#are ALL econ students like there's about five of us and we all do econ and yeah two of them ive been mates with since first year #(the girl is my best mate at uni and is always who im on about if i talk about a 'girl on my course' and the lad is the one i lived with #in first year and have kind of got a thing with now?) BUT THE OTHERS ARE NEW ADDITIONS AND THAT'S SO FUN #so we're ALL gonna tip out of that exam and then me and her are gonna go back to mine to get ready bc am i fuck doing make-up #before that exam. the STATES i have shown up in these past few days i think the invigilators are worried about me #and then we're meeting the lads at the pub and starting there and THEN going spoons bc it's me and the girl's tradition #(calling her just 'the girl' is so funny. woman 🫵) after exams to buy each other mystery shots at spoons and we HAVE to drink them #and then one of the lads really wants to go to a karaoke bar for some reason?? so that might be in my future #AND THEN we're going clubbing. im so ready. take me home vodka shots. the end is near please please please #hella goes to uni

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moonchild-in-blue · 17 days

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hello i miss you

sky. also am very hungry. no one has fed the buggy yet.

Hello stjärna I miss you too 💙💚

Sky right now!!

NO ONE FED THE BUGGY?? I'M ABOUT TO THROW HANDS, I hope your band mates can fight 😤

🍍🥪🧃🌯🍎🥚🍪🍭🥤🥗🍜🧋

^ have some food!!!! Love you bebe 🦋🪲

#Please eat something asap!!! And make sure you stock on some cereal bars / fruit / whatever snacks for long rides #DRINK WATER DRINK SO MUCH WATER WATER IS GOOD AND FUNDAMENTAL #i hope you're having fun! use your braces!! moisturise!! get enough sleep!! take care of your voice!! be safe!!#muwah muwah muwah sending many smoochies your way 😚😚😚😚😚😚😚😚#darya answers #soft with halo

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bylertruther · 1 year

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random, but ive been trying to read the ballad of songbirds and snakes and.......... does anyone feel like the first trilogy was more.... idk. written better than this... or is it jus me 👁

#i like the premise. i enjoy the characters. but it reads very..... mechanical to me thus far #like.... i went to the bar. i took a seat at the bar. it was loud in here. i should order a drink–maybe a margarita. ''bartender; can i #please get a drink?'' etc etc like..... idkkkkkkkkk #im not seeing any of the imagery or metaphors and flow that her other books had :/#im pushing through bc i like the premise but i keep feeling like im having to fill in the blanks to feel anything for it #which is a shame!

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takami-takami · 10 months

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Tomorrow I am going to possibly see one of my favorite bands of all time.

Possibly. You need an ID to get in. I do not have have mine. I am literally so fucking desperate to go I'm bringing my birth certificate. You don't understand.

My people, please put in a good thought for me 🙏 pleasepleaseplease let me in

#its a 21+ event IM 25 AND CANT EVEN DRINK I HAVE A MEDICAL CONDITION. PLEASE LET ME IN IM CRYINGGG #banging on the doors shaking the bars #please yall put in good thoughts for me

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curiouschaosstarlight · 21 hours

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Bounced back and forth, think I'll just make this post-

(Warning: Under the read more, if tumblr keeps the read more intact, is me, an aromantic/aegofictosexual person ramble-ranting about aroaceness in fandom. You're free to scroll past if you wish, or to disagree with me on whatever takes for whatever reason, this is just my one opinion on something I consider to be a big pet peeve of mine.)

(If you read this and go "but I don't do that!", then I trust you, and you're not the kind of person I'm talking about. I'm moreso referring to some things I've personally either witnessed or experienced in previous fandoms, and nobody this applies to will actually see this post unless it, like, gets a bajillion notes...um, hopefully.)

It is so. fricking. frustrating. having my only possible representation in media be like...[that one character] from DR. You know. the otaku or "geek" that's portrayed to be unattractive, "gross", and "weird", and will eventually express sexual attraction to "3D" people, because their attraction to and obsession with 2D was never a sexuality, but intended to be some creepy, incomprehensible thing, and a way to demonstrate their shortcomings and inability to actually court someone.

Characters who actually match my sexuality and experience will never exist unless I make them with my own hands, because both allos and other aces consider me "not ace enough".

This honestly plays a big part in why I'm really touchy about aroace headcanons; because often times they're blatantly used to say people aren't allowed to ship [character a] with [character b] -- and the person making the headcanon is usually 100000% fine with [character a] being put in a gay ship, but will loudly complain if they see them featured in the (usually het, usually canonically teased) first ship. Because it was never about actually writing an aroace character, it was about reframing "ewwww you like THAT ship?? gross uxu what's wrong with you??" into "uhhhmmmm but that character's aroace-coded" "sorry, I can't see them as anything other than aroace" (yeah, I didn't ask? Everyone else gets to talk about THEIR ships with that character and you enthusiastically support them...) And it's like... I feel like these types of headcanons specifically are always presented like, inherently, I'm totally, obviously going to agree with them, and if I don't, then clearly I'm just not aroace. (I wish that was more of a dramatization, but I had someone who I previously told my seuxality to go "oh. well. I'm asexual, so I see this character as aroace-coded, (and I'm right)" <- not outright said but very, very heavily implied, especially because they continuously insisted the character was "canonically aroace-coded", and I just had to sit there like... "...okay, but I'm aroace. (and I think saying that about a clearly het-intended character that's constantly being flirted and canonically shipped in extra side materials with is kinda hurtful)" <- I didn't say that part)

And the fact that no one respects if a character is canonically het or bi kind of plays into why I don't care when a character is canonically gay or ace. If everyone's sexuality is just "gay (MAYBE ace!!!)" or "okay but have you CONSIDERED they might be bi??? (stop putting them in het ships >:((( )" only when it's convenient, then why should I care for my downtime? It doesn't change canon. And I don't feel represented by people's on-the-whim, flimsy-as-fuck headcanons.

But it does still piss me off when people take a reboot or remake or continuation and flagrantly disregard a character's canon sexuality.

And it's upsetting that aroace characters 1. aren't really a thing for the most part, and 2. get written over when they are a thing.

I imagine that when I finally manage to finish one of my stories or games and, y'know, all of my characters are bi/pan/demi because that's what I tend to write...that's probably just gonna get changed to be "whoops everyone's gay lol" by the fandom, and I've already come to terms with that. (Well, by the part of the fandom that isn't populated by "ugh, everything is so WOKE now!" assholes, I'm just gonna pretend they won't even show up because they aren't worth it.) But then, it's also like...if someone officially continued or adapted my properties, and they changed my characters to be all straight or maybe one character gets to be kinda-sorta gay or something, I. I would definitely lose my shit.

-vague gestures-

I don't really know where I'm going with this, I just wanted to say my whole piece without having to worry about being accused of derailing/not listening to a post-

But basically if you're outraged whenever a gay character's sexuality is changed for any reason in any context, I better hear you be that upset about the rest of the possible orientations, and not pulling that shit yourself. I swear to god.

#not important #chaotic rambles #discourse #sorry for the vagueness about characters n stuff i just dont wanna wind up in any fandom searches #how to bridge the fact that im only attracted to fictional characters #with the fact that i have to be repeatedly made to realize i've never seen any character like me in fiction at all ever #only characters that are kinda sorta like me and also the unattractive loser butt of every single joke #also character sexuality is so...weird and not-solid to my brain y'all #i only have like...two or three characters that are full-on gay? out of the hundreds i've written?#about the same for het or ace or...you know any other combinations/other sexualities #it's usually more natural to my brain to have my characters shipped with basically anyone and everyone #and only a few times has a character effectively grabbed me by the horns and went “no. im not into that. and you cannot make me be.”#which creates a funny tidbit where two of my gay characters have radically different tastes in the same gender #so they both think the other one is “weird" and it's just really amusing to me #they also arent attracted to each other due not fitting into each other's tastes #it's just like...the only two men in a gay bar and they hiss at each other like cats #why did it turn out this way? genuinely no clue #i have a third gay man but he's got a third completely unique to him taste and he's just standing there #awkwardly sipping his drink like “oh god neither of these two ask me to agree with them please”

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roaringheat · 6 months

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During my shift today, I had a customer refuse to let me remake her drink cause she "didn't want a drink from someone who didn't know how to do their job" AND had a customer tell me that I make the best lattes and that she was lucky I was there today. I'm a barista of variety

#vark posts #i literally just be minding my damn business how are these ppl forming opinions abt me #good to know i can still piss off stuck up assholes tho thats always fun #like lady i wanna see u try and make ur dogshit no foam no whip hot white chocolate urself #do u know how hard it is to aerate milk and make the drink have absolutely no foam???? i got it as close as ive seen anyone do it #craziest thing is she claimed i put whip on it when she asked for none #I FUCKIN DIDNT !!#GIRL IS DELUSIONAL...#u really cant please ppl like that lmao #ive had way more compliments than insults so im confident enough in my work to not really take anything an asshole says to heart #anyways the customer that said shes always lucky when im on bar is a regular so shes all that matters <3 #ily Aysim ill make u all the lattes u want girl

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jinhyun · 1 month

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the way i don't realise local artists frequent the bar i work at until someone else recognizes them

#please we have local bands playing here every other week why can't i tell kdñaks #this regular was talking to me and my coworkers by the bar today and some other people came in #and one of the guys was like wow dude i'm your fan and i was like 🧍🏻‍♀️#he even calls me by my name and offered to buy me a drink like an hour ago am i living the y/n life for someone rn #another (regular) local artist came here yesterday too but he's a total diva we don't like him #anyway yeah it was funny to me how it really never hit me that these regulars i always talk to actually have fans out there 💀

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cyancherub · 1 year

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why do i feel like you’re gonna get dick from this man one day 😩😩😩 please it’s all lining up for you

PLEASEESLFDLKLK i WANT him KJSDFKL but i really cannot fuck this man!!!!!!!!!!!!! there are boundaries in place plus IT WOULD PUT MY JOB AND HIS AT RISK

#thotbox #thotmail #PLEASE because im going out for drinsk w them next week bc we have a big thing for work happening so we all have to be there at 3am #and he and my other manager were like. ok lets go to the bar again after the shift is done #I WENT TO THE BAR W THEM A COUPLE WEEKS AGO BC THEY INVITED ME #please i am feeling insane #talky cherub #chewing through the glass while i drink beer with them

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kalpasio · 1 year

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HI MAFIA ANON HERE

hope you’re not too stressed out, we will always be here waiting for you and your amazing stories!! take care of yourself! 🧡

im- 🥺😭😭 thank you!!! I'm taking care of myself, just getting behind on some things because I keep going "I only need 5 minutes" and then I need like 20 lol

also mafia Kalpas has just been running around in my head and it's killing me that I just have little silly thoughts about him being stupid (affectionate) and I can't write them and then I forget 😭😭

#kalpas but he's trying to break into the bar because you locked up before he got his drink #hi mafia anon!! 🧡🧡#thank you so much you don't know how much this means to me 😭#i complain a lot about school because i complain about everything lol #I'm just horrible at managing my time and my schedule this semester isn't helping lmao #i have like 5 post its scattered around that just say like #please send help

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todayisafridaynight · 10 months

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LISTEN I KNOW HOW IT SOUNDS BUT I SWEAR HE WAS DISTINCT FROM RGGJO STILL 😭😭😭 HIS DESIGN WAS LOUD IN A DIFFERENT WAY 😭😭😭😭😭 though As A Whole it was probably the result of someone saying he should go full RGGJo in 8 several months prior to when I had the dream, so not wrong. But it would be fun to see a shift from "Nothing in life matters...😞" to "Nothing in life matters! 😎" would it not...

I've always thought Drink Link was meant to evoke Social Link? Because in Japan it was called #DRAMA. I was never the biggest fan because it's one of many "translations" in Y7 that are just changing something that was already in English and doesn't require cultural context to understand. Like IMO whether it's seen as an improvement or not, it's just not the localizers' job to "improve on" the original; let them be cringe and let them be free...

And also it gave ammunition to Persona fans who refuse to experience anything but P5 and decided to go "wow! it's just like P5!" at every little thing Y7 did from the VERY FIRST trailers onward (including BE AN RPG) And That Shit Got Old Fast </3 Sorry </3 But I do think this one's very much on purpose, localization-wise. So I forgive you :)

RANTING ASIDE. OR. SEGUEING INTO MORE RANTING. Literally like I don't even care if it's as part of the Kasugang or Kiryu's Geezer Squad... Give Jo five minutes with Tendo or hand him over to me so I can make sure he's enriched and well-nourished... these are my demands... that man is my everything......

Because it would be SO funny both ways. We don't know who all will be in each party, so either he's stuck with Adachi (Definitely A Character) (Affectionate) (Also Has Already Told Him He'd Rather Kill Him Than Send Him To Jail So. Awkward) or maybe with Kiryu's he'd have more people around his agw, But if not, The Inherent Comedy of two bitches called Jo and Joryu who have almost the same haircut 💀💀

Exactly though, nobody in the Arakawa Family is neurotypical and I FULLY believe Jo would be at his best when put into Situations, like Mine is. It's something I reeeally miss from RGGO because of the pre-finale scene with RGGJo and Mitsu having a drink at their favorite bar... they haven't been there in a while, and RGGJo doesn't wanna spoil the mood, so he's not hostile in the slightest... and when he gets up to leave he says he "forgot his wallet" and makes Mitsu foot the bill (ICONIC for completely different reasons depending on whether he's telling the truth or not)... whereas in Y7 I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF THE ARAKAWAS HAVE A FAVORITE BAR

it could be funny- whiplash inducing, but that'd undoubtedly be why it'd be funny wouldn't it ♪(´▽｀) he could've been some sacred third thing- just more RGGJo influence injected in Y7Jo mayhaps..

anyhow it dont sound like you forgive me when you just got mad at persona players for makin comparisons and here ive gone and done such a thing LMAO（；´д｀）（；´д｀）in any case, i know how you feel about translations so i wont press the topic: if it aint broke etc etc, i understand how you feel so it's ok (❁´◡`❁;;)

double 'jo' def woulda been funny, if not has always been a small thing worth jokin bout that ive had in the back of my mind (though ive already said that: i have a broken record of a brain at this point, if not that it just points out how silly i find the idea) LMAO. i've always enjoyed antag-turned-party member anyhow, so it wouldve been fun to me regardless of what it brought ♪(´▽｀)